Off-topic but how do I tell if a girl is checking me out/hitting on me?

Garbage Can Lid
Garbage Can Lid

Off-topic but how do I tell if a girl is checking me out/hitting on me?

I've just started dressing effay and I know for a fact I look ten times better, some would even say attractive but I have no idea about girls.

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Evil_kitten
Evil_kitten

tell her that she needs a shot of b12.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yYtMYspzKBg

viagrandad
viagrandad

@Garbage Can Lid
The same way you did in middle school just more subtle, a certain look they have when you catch their eyes from across the hall.

5mileys
5mileys

@Garbage Can Lid
I know for a fact I look ten times better, some would even say attractive

askme
askme

@Garbage Can Lid
from experience, if you glance at a girl and they look back then you in. go get em tiger

SniperGod
SniperGod

@viagrandad
@askme
Quick question, how do you tell if the store clerk is into you? Sorry guys I'm pretty sure I'm retarded

LuckyDusty
LuckyDusty

@SniperGod
if the store clerk is into you
They probably aren't. Female store clerks are very friendly with me in a way that with other people I'd perceive as flirting, but their job is literally to be friendly and approachable and give good impressions that you then also associate to the brand even when you've left the store. I'd act the same as they do if it was my job, because that's how you're good at that kind of job

eGremlin
eGremlin

@SniperGod
Ahh man this is cute, Just ask her out dude. I would be careful looking for 'signals' from people in positions where they are being paid to be nice to you. But that doesn't mean that they're not actually into you, go for it

BinaryMan
BinaryMan

@5mileys
Thanks for the smug pic user will steal

Need_TLC
Need_TLC

@LuckyDusty
@eGremlin
Thanks for the advice guys, getting out and going to the mall by myself was enough of a step for me today. I don't think I'll ever get to a point where im comfortable asking people out tho

Crazy_Nice
Crazy_Nice

@Need_TLC
that's a photograph of you?

MPmaster
MPmaster

@SniperGod
you don't

theirs a girl at my college whos a store clerk and shit literally shits on all the guys who ask her out on twitter

Spamalot
Spamalot

any of us that actually dress "fashionably" by FA standards have no fucking clue about girls or social interaction

girlDog
girlDog

@Spamalot
yup. as god meant it to be.

girls are for normies

likme
likme

@SniperGod
asking out a store employee is a horrible idea 99.9% of the time. just forget it.

kizzmybutt
kizzmybutt

@Crazy_Nice
Naw of a girl I talked to on okc and actually got her number but I'm pretty bad at socializing so she stopped talking to me

Firespawn
Firespawn

@kizzmybutt
holy shit. get back in there big guy. Just stop thinking b4 u text, works for me :^). Even if you haven't spoken to her in a while, just text her

RavySnake
RavySnake

@kizzmybutt
link? let me have a shot at it!?

AwesomeTucker
AwesomeTucker

@RavySnake
HEY BACK OFF. THIS IS THE MANS ONLY CHANCE AT A PERFECT QT

FastChef
FastChef

@Firespawn
Wouldn't that be weird? I mean what do I even say after like months?

@RavySnake
Her okc link? She hasn't logged in since like dec 19.

CodeBuns
CodeBuns

@kizzmybutt
i know this feel much too well

New_Cliche
New_Cliche

@Garbage Can Lid
Body language and facial expressions can help but there's really no definitive answer. Although we're all wired to function the same on paper everyone has their set of quirks, interests, etc. that help form their personality. Ultimately you just have to put yourself out there and take risks. Don't be afraid or ashamed of rejection.

Nojokur
Nojokur

@FastChef
if she hasn't been on okc in a while thats a good thing. she might be an introvert and then you guys have something in common. just say hey. I mean like you don't know this girl that well so you can't really go wrong.

Spazyfool
Spazyfool

@FastChef
dec19? i guess the site either worked for her or she gave up.

good time to try user

Garbage Can Lid
Garbage Can Lid

@Spazyfool
@FastChef
exactly. GO FOR ITT

cum2soon
cum2soon

@Nojokur
@Spazyfool
She has severe depression and anxiety and when I was texting her she was like having a panic attack or something? Anyway I think I might've came off too caring? Or too invested? It sounded serious but if I looked at the texts I sent I probably just sperged too quickly

askme
askme

@cum2soon
lol she sounds gay

kizzmybutt
kizzmybutt

@cum2soon
i'm starting to feel more and more like this thread is all a lie. I want to see the texts

Deadlyinx
Deadlyinx

@LuckyDusty
I mean on paper it seemed like a simple interaction.

Be in van store checking out shoes
Grill comes up to says "need any help looking for something specific?"
I get nervous so I instinctly "just browsing, thank you."
Then she goes "I'm Meagan" and walks away

Am I reading too much into that? It seems to weird to just say your name like that right?

Sharpcharm
Sharpcharm

@kizzmybutt
I deleted the texts on my phone and okc (didn't want a constant reminder of how much of a loser I am) but I can link her profile if u guys want? She probably won't be logging back on okc anyway

Skullbone
Skullbone

@Deadlyinx
AAAAAH SHE LOOKS LIKE SHE WOULD LIKE ANN D OR RICK OR SOMETHING QT/10

Emberburn
Emberburn

@Deadlyinx
You had a chance. Coulda just said like
could you help me find ..... then you ask for #

SniperGod
SniperGod

@Need_TLC
Step by step you will get there bud as long as you keep moving

SniperWish
SniperWish

@Deadlyinx
You are. That's how employees talk, and they say their name so that when you ask for more help you won't just call her "ma'am" or something

CouchChiller
CouchChiller

@cum2soon
tell her to chill out

Firespawn
Firespawn

@cum2soon
Fuck that. No amount of qt is worth all of that baggage. Don't try to 'save her'.

VisualMaster
VisualMaster

@Firespawn
I'm pretty sure I'm ten times worse desu, I'm like r9k tier. I mean I wasn't trying to save her really, she just seemed like my type I guess

PurpleCharger
PurpleCharger

@VisualMaster
Did not mean to say desu

Inmate
Inmate

@VisualMaster
If that's the case you should want someone who'll uplift you from your funk, not keep you there. Plus, depressed anxious types don't take tons of pouty-faced selfies. There's a good chance she is full of shit and is just attention starved.

TurtleCat
TurtleCat

@Inmate
Why would anyone want to lift me up from funk? Idk if just felt like we were on the same level

likme
likme

@Deadlyinx
yes, you're reading too much into it
that's how female clerks interact with customers
they have to be really obvious, like twirling hair, to be flirtatious

kizzmybutt
kizzmybutt

@PurpleCharger
baka newfag
& i meant to say baka

Gigastrength
Gigastrength

@Deadlyinx
She likes you bro, get in there

Clap them cheeks

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