I've been a severe dumb ass and will continue to be in the future. If a woman is acting awkward she wants to fuck you. Plain and simple.
I used to wonder why women: dodged eye contact with me, let me get extremely close, smiled a lot when I approached, got upset when I walked away, always called me a flirt, laughed at my corny jokes... They wanted me in one way or another. I used to wonder why men did dumb shit like: saying I'm a "well put together man", avoid eye contact with me when talking, talk about how I made their girlfriends "uncomfortable", try to compete with me covertly and overtly in public... They knew their girl wanted to fuck me.
Chances are all of you have at least one or two women in your life that want to fuck you and you are just too fucking dumb to realize it, or you don't want to fuck her back. If you're anything like me, your brain is your own worst enemy. You've made dumb assumptions about life as a kid and are currently building the red pill on top of them. Find those dumb assumptions and replace them.
In sum: assume attraction always, if she's even remotely nice to you she either wants the dick or wants something from you, either way the right move is to try to fuck her or put her in the friend zone, but always do what you want the moment you realize what you want. No exceptions.
And yes, this is related to mental and sexual fitness.
Alexander Garcia
self taught lessons are always learnt the hard way.
Aiden Cook
i can't hold eye contact with people i don't talk to very often should i try to to appear more confident
Colton Phillips
Or you can build platonic relationships because you don't have to try to fuck every woman who smiles at you.
Mason Williams
"or put her in the friend zone"
Joseph Martin
Or you can just read the whole post.
Matthew Lee
BRRRRRRRRRRRRRMMMMMMMMMMPPPPPPP
Bentley Clark
Is this a x-post things from the front page of r/theredpill thread?
Dylan Williams
No. Go to bed.
Joseph Murphy
There's a girl at the gym who maybe likes me; she always looks at me for extended periods of time. I think she's cute but it's less stressful to not approach her.
dont think of it like that. just check what eye colour they have
Kayden Rivera
underrated post
Bentley Wood
It's a mirror, you fucking dummy.
Isaac Butler
>not enjoying the smell of a qts fart
You will never have a relationship
Logan Anderson
>just fuck girls dude sex lmao! fuck fuck fuck I fucking hate 'casual sex'. I'm against it. Thanks to men like you women are disgusting living cumdumpters.
Gavin Garcia
Said the alter boy.
Andrew Wright
*tips ear*
Christian Jones
>Idiots >reading anything
Nicholas Long
Oh look, its another roastie training legs
John Green
you wanna see roasties training legs, go to lolcow
Adrian Sanders
It seems like every girl on the interwebs is always training legs. Is that all they do? >yup
Eli Taylor
>It's men's fault that women are sperm receptacles No one held a gun up to these women heads
Nolan Bell
I want to fuck you, the inbred who is so autistic, that you can't count past zero
Jose Morgan
It's actually women's fault, they created the modern dating scene, or sexual marketplace.
It is the result of feminist "sexual liberation", we have returned to a more natural state of sexuality where only the top alpha males get to have sex, and all the women just share their turns with them. Gorillas have something very similar.
It is only men's fault in the sense that we allowed feminism.
Charles Price
>No one held a gun up to these women heads Women are ridiculously easily influential. They're constantly pushed into being whores, less and less men there to tell them having sex with just anyone is not okay because it's degenerate. I don't know it's just my opinion though.
Nathan Cox
last panel is wrong, women now just fuck anyone, that's exactly the problem. Maybe american women are more picky but still
Hunter Hughes
>all three betas frustrated that women won't give them a glance because now they're free to pursue real men, which are rare kek, this is how nature is designed you cucks. If you don't like it, Better yourself.
Dylan Sanders
> boo hoo women don't have to settle for inferior men like me anymore
Hunter James
>"i don't want to get too bulky, i just want a nice butt user 3x"
Daniel Cook
Kek'd
Cooper Hall
Im not sure if one of the personal trainers at my gym likes me or wants to train me.
She always comes up and has a chat to me but doesnt talk to many others in the gym. Sits down with me after im finished and putting my towel in my bag and shit. I think shes really keen but Im scared of shitting the bed here. I really like this gym and its like 5 minutes walk from my house.
Gavin Morris
yes she does flirt with her
William Morales
It depends on how you hold yourself. If you have low self confidence they'll pick up on it and why you're avodiing eye contact if you feel good in your body they'll think you're aloof.
Literally had 2 girls have completely different reactions but the same exact outcome.
One girl that I was talking to got outright mad that I'd never look at her.
>You never look at me when you talk to me! I'm not going to look at you anymore when I talk to you >that night we bang and she apologizes lol
>2nd girl >already got her in bed >"You know you never look at me when you talk. You're very mysterious, are you embarrassed being with me?
Women are fucking retarded but it just boils down to >does she like you, whatever you do will work >if she doesn't like you, whatever you do won't work
Nathaniel Allen
This picture is flawed because like 95% of the people are a 4-6 and generally match up with each other
Mason Hill
Ok then answer this, I was getting a massage and whenever the Asian massage girl and I met eyes she would laugh/giggle. Then she asked how old I was. Then more eye contact laughing. What did it mean?
Anthony Miller
this is a TRP post with a Veeky Forums boilerplate at the bottom. Not sure which came first but either way you have to go back
Ethan Wilson
>trying to scheme with this cute but super awkward girl >literal ASD levels of refusing to make eye contact or holding it uncomfortably long or going off on incoherent tangents >can't tell if she's nervous because she likes me or if she's actually an aspie and would freak out if I made a move
Andrew Collins
i did
Jackson Murphy
Femanon here. I need help. I don't talk to anyone at the gym (except when I go with friends), but there's a guy I usually meet there that I find kinda cute. How do I approach him? I'm shy af and don't want to spill the spaghetti ;-;
Brayden Brooks
interest in you
Aaron Kelly
Follow him into the locker room and offer to suck his dick
Tyler Morgan
That's bullshit. I only have dated beta guys so far. I also consider myself beta, for the record. Not all women are out there chasing alpha males to fuck.
Hunter Long
Ask him if his feeling fit yet, buddy
Chase Thomas
Just say hello. The mere fact that a girl spoke first to a guy in the gym will have him doing all the work from there
Jason Kelly
>Femanon
Ryder Robinson
I can't even talk to him, dude. And I'd never offer a bj like this.
Cooper Baker
make eye contact and if he isn't man enough to aproach you don't want him anyways
desu
Julian Barnes
I can offer some insight on this The picture is pretty accurate, if you look at the SINGLES market. If you take into account all the girls who are off the market and in relationships, it becomes inaccurate
Guys chase girls and if a girl wants a relationship she can have one because she has many options for it so girls who want relations spend most of their time away from the market. The girls that ARE left are the ones who arent satisfied with the guys who approach, this is why they are single
If you look to the single market many of the girls will be going for the top 5% of guys and ignore the rest and since they have no real "need" for dick they are happy being single and being sought after
This is why we have so many unhappy single guys, the girls who are single are single by choice and thats what these guys are left with.
consequently when a girl who wants a relationship rejoins the single market she is usually off it again very quickly because she faces little to no competition. The other girls arent participating so a friendly girl who wants a relation gets tons of attention because this is where you can actually get a gf
William Cox
Well it's one way to break the ice, and it's not like you'd have to keep up an extended conversation if you follow my suggestion. Really it's a win win you get to avoid your social anxiety and get closer to him, he gets his dick sucked. I'm struggling to see the problem here desu,
Liam Diaz
I usually play off of whatever vibe I'm getting from a person, but that being said, girls being awkward and spilling spaghetti makes me nervous and spill spaghetti, even if I don't want to fuck them.
Thomas Hernandez
Just go up and say hi You are a girl, you cant fail even if you spill all the spaghetti
Ethan Hughes
Femanon, girl, woman, whatever. Here, take your (You) now kill yourself.
I'm afraid of being awkward. I'm the kind of girl that get all sweaty just after getting inside the gym.
Imagine yourself getting approached by a mini sweaty autistic girl saying "hi" out of the fucking blue. He would laugh at me and leave, tho
Justin Green
>He would laugh at me and leave, tho Fun fact, guys arent like girls We like girls so if one approaches we are usually friendly and talkative
Here is a fun tip that made me talk to some girls in the gym, load up a bar heavy and ask him for help to lift it up/down or whereever Make shit up and then you get to talking
Isaac Lee
I've been trying but as soon as I realise he's staring me back, I think he may find me a creepy stalker or whatever and then look at the ground until I calm down. That sucks. Luckily I've just been seeing him there like twice a week.
Brandon Sullivan
You must be kiddin me
Charles Rodriguez
This is, in my experience, accurate.
Nolan Flores
Why?
As a girl you cant fail, guys like girls so just by popping up on his radar means he will do most of the work
I get why approaching girls is scary, they are rarely receptive and generally very hostile towards guys but guys are the opposite
Kayden Clark
I know they aren't the same, but I've been bullied and rejected by guys throughout my teen years so that's why I fear rejection this much. And getting into a situation like this at a place I go every single day would kill me inside.
Anthony Cooper
>Imagine yourself getting approached by a mini sweaty autistic girl saying "hi" out of the fucking blue
MUH DIK
Adrian Lee
nice dude when can we expect tomorrow's blog post?
Kayden Lee
Ask if he's almost done with the equipment he's on, or if you can work in.
Make some small talk. "I love doing ____! Great for my glutes!"
Slowly increase the frequency of it. Slide on his dick.
Jacob Wright
>I've been bullied and rejected by guys throughout my teen years Why?
you know what, it doesnt matter Youre gonna have to deal with the same shit 99% of guys deal with, you either go up and talk to the person and possibly deal with rejection or you dont You have an edge because its alot more likely for you to succeed than it is for guys so you should be fine but the options are the same so you get the same advice guys get
"Just do it, faggot"
Ryder King
>Imagine yourself getting approached by a mini sweaty autistic girl saying "hi" out of the fucking blue. He would laugh at me and leave, tho I got hard just from reading this.
>MUH DIK Exactly.
Just walk by him, smile and say hi. That's literally it. If he's not a sperg he'll make a move. If he is a sperg, he won't do anything except maybe spill sketti. In that case just walk away or offer to suck his cock.
Cameron Collins
Well, I must agree in parts. But only because I have a personal issue with this whole current relationship model. I know that there are couples that don't share anything in common, but I don't think it's reasonable. Many people think like me tho. And it doesn't have anything with appearance. So, independent on looks, if a guy approach a girl only because it's a girl, it has 50% of chance to work out. Both parties think of several variables before choosing someone, not only girls do it. So it would be both parties "fault", both "decide" when and why to be single.
Carson Brooks
No You should try to be more confident
Josiah Turner
W-well, thank you, guys. I'm gonna try to ignore my fear and say "hi" the next time I see him. If it doesn't work, I'll come here to share the link of my suicide stream.
Thomas Jenkins
>if a guy approach a girl only because it's a girl, it has 50% of chance to work out I would love to see some stats on that because from what ive read (based on data from online dating sites and tinder etc) guys have about a 3-5% chance for success when asking girls out
Girls are picky by nature, thank biology for this mechanic and guys are not and this gives us the current position Sure there are girls who arent as picky and just want a compatible guy but like i said, these are off the market already because when she becomes single there is extreme demand for a girl of her type
Ive met several girls who said they wanted to remain single after a breakup and what ended up happening is that they got a new guy after about 2-3 weeks simply because they get approached like crazy. Meanwhile most guys find out that after a breakup there are no girls to approach because the girls who are single dont want a guy
Dominic Sanders
I am still trying to figure out how to become happy alone. Going trough this breakup makes me think about how I could get to known a new partner almost all day. My mood and happyness is dependant on how high I see the chances of finding someone that fits me better then my last partner in a rather short time.
Needles to say my mood isn't good.
Cooper Morgan
>I'll come here to share the link of my suicide stream. Pro tip: stop being a fucking drama queen It doesnt help your mentality leading up to the approach at all If it doesnt work out there are billions of other guys out there who want a grill, git gud
Camden Jones
Not saying you're totally right but it's almost 7a.m. here and I'm quite tired of thinking in other language to explain my point of view. To sum up, some women are bitches yet some man are douchebags, what makes (good) relationships hard to occur. Btw nevermind these bitches cause they tend to get so picky that one day no one will want they, so they'll die alone with their vanity. Focus on who you think is worthy and be happy. :~
Julian Sullivan
>I am still trying to figure out how to become happy alone. Dont worry dude, it will come in time I get it, you want a new relationship because you feel comfortable in one. Its how things have been and its where you feel safe Being alone is scary but trust me my man, you will learn in time to get over it
For now focus on your lifts, hang out with friends and put the work in at school/work Your education and career are important, in 10 years time this is what will serve you best
Oliver Jackson
You cannot be happy with someone else if you cannot be happy by yourself. Take your time to grow, try new hobbies, travel, learn new things and mostly, learn more about yourself. Then you'll be able to find love again.
Hunter Murphy
Well I guess the biggest problem is also that I don't really have many friends, if any at all.
I just don't enjoy the main stream hobbies that people have - such as watching soccer or superball or whatever. It doesn't interest me one bit and thus I don't enjoy joining conversations about it or watching games together.
I knew one guy I genuinely connected with - same interests, was my lifting buddy etc. But he completely vanished when he met his girlfriend.
My only plan for now is signing up for some weekend badminton courses. I loved playing that but don't know anyone that does and it would help me maintain a better cardio level and maybe also meet some people.
Anthony Lewis
It was a joke any one of you autists would have made
>mfw thinking of her hurting
Jaxon Peterson
I wish i could help you dude but i cant, only you can I was in the same spot, being completly uninterested in soccer, drugs and clubbing made me an outcast more or but its better now
I pray that you find your way son, i really do and i think you will. There are many like you who want to fit in and belong somewhere, you just need to find em
Chase Wright
If you are cute i would probably pass out of embarassment
Then i would probably realize what happened few weeks later and fall in platonic love and be depressed.
>Tfw this happened many times already
Camden Adams
As he responded: But yea, there are plenty of fish in the sea blablabla Just gonna try and swallow the disgrace in case it does not work out
Ayden Garcia
what disgrace? that you found him attractive?
women are so damn insecure
Noah Morales
I see you are proficient at memes Pls be in V E G H E L
Caleb Evans
why are you embarrassed that you find him attractive? this isn't primary school.
i did the exact same shit with girls then realised how repressive and retarded it is. if i find a girl attractive, i'll make it known or know that she will find out. who gives a fuck, it's not an admission of love.
Chase Reyes
>As he responded: Im not fucking retarded, i know it was a joke but its hurtful If i was to approach a girl and i play it up like its the biggest deal EVER and jokingly say im gonna kill myself if i fail i make a big deal out of it I dont do myself no favors by becoming nervous and playing it up, i was trying to be helpful
We are all autistic here though so its par for the course i guess
Hunter Garcia
I don't wanna seem like an attwhore (hurr but you're a girl, automatically you're an attwhore durr jesus christ I can't even handle "normal" attention towards me, that's not the case) but I have self-image issues and I'm insecure as fuck. I don't know if I would fit your concept of cuteness.
Saying "hi" to a stranger, being ignored, not being able to go to the gym for years to avoid meeting him there, etc. I know how childish it sounds but can't help feeling this way.
Fella, you really need to chill out
Gavin Martinez
>Fella, you really need to chill out You really misjudge my mood, friend Im chill af, watching a movie and eating while shitposting on Veeky Forums
Robert Harris
Well thanks a lot user. I'll put the work in and see what happens.
The sad part is that people like me (and maybe you) also need kind of specific partners. I don't like being with a partner that texts with guys all day, wants to meet them regularly and shit like that. I don't like the process of a typical relationship, where you get to see each other less and less because the other person wants to spend time with others more and more.
I absolutely don't mind my partner going out with friends every now and then, maybe even ever weekend if the relationship is stable, but it always has to have some kind of limit.
So what did you do with your life?
Justin Young
>I have self-image issues and I'm insecure as fuck
where do you think we are? that's like every person on Veeky Forums. i'm not downplaying it, just allowing you to realise how common it is amongst dudebro guys. if you like him and find him attractive, just say hello and ask for some help with something or rather, exactly like she does in mean girls in math class.
then go from there, ask to buy him a coffee or something for sparing time helping you or dont and play it patiently by saying hey and chatting everytime you see him in there.
Leo Jones
Yea the own mind thing is the worst enemy, especially because girls tend to rely on your feeling most. The biggest problem that I have encountered is subconscious disapproval. Not even subconscious but rather just related to the fact that one person can only have so many conscious thoughts, but I am aware them...
and the problem with subconscious disapproval is that it can be very legitimate. Extremely so. Especially when you dont do degenerate things yourself and you even exibit feelings of disgust when you see someone else do it, even if they are not a female. Like smoking, or sipping soda.
These two things alone probably disqualify about 99% of all females out there. And its a hard value, that of sipping soda, its a value that I have a lot of conscious evidence and reason attributed to, as many of us here on the chans made our arguments on the backs of this constant truth warfare.
Beyond that...well...not being zealotlike enough is also a somewhat boner killer.
I will probably die alone lol.
Angel Clark
>I don't know it's just my opinion though that's the first time I've read or heard that sentence from someone who unironically uses the word 'degenerate'.
Blake Nguyen
I get what youre saying and i think its quite common Alot of guys want to spend time with their gf while the gf wants to remain in her single lifestyle (doing what she wants, when she wants and with whoever she wants) and this does suck for the guy Maybe date younger chicks with less of a social circle? they shouldnt be as uninterested as older girls are and if you are the majority of her social circle she will want to hang out with you
Im not an example to follow, i was on the verge of killing myself because id had it with life being shit (had a bad childhood, bad relationships and now a bad dating life) so i withdrew completly and im now cold as fuck and uncaring
Stay positive friend, it can work out if you put the work in and keep your hopes up
Brayden Robinson
That's why I prefer asking for advice at chan rather than my female friends. They're all like "nah girl just go and get it". Life doesn't work like that. I'll take your advice in consideration, thank you, user :3
Gavin Wright
to add to that: A relationship is basically a woman weaseling in, into these values that you exhibit. If they dont align with her being, even if she does think that you are hot, it wont work. The natural way of being with women is if your own computational script for survival, which is basically just math. Numbers stored in flesh. If they dont align with the women, and especially in the last phase of civilization decline as we are in today, where the percentage of bad women is simply just too extremely high, well then you are not really attracted to them.
The only person who can be proud-full of being good with women, is a person whois mental script is underdeveloped. Because threats, ways of life, habits, and good things are supposed to be displays of yourself to the outside world.
If you dont have these things you are most likely just a degenerate manwhore.
Dominic Walker
>Here is a fun tip that made me talk to some girls in the gym, load up a bar heavy and ask him for help to lift it up/down or whereever >made me talk to some girls in the gym, load up a bar heavy and ask him for help to lift it >talk to some girls in the gym, load up a bar heavy and ask him >Some girls >ask him
No homo bro you refer to guys aa girls and then ask guys to lift heavy weights on your behalf?
Austin Gonzalez
This is nonsense.
Ayden Kelly
manwhore detected
Owen Ramirez
Yeah, you are right. Most women see a relationship as comfort, as something that can have as an addition on the side.
But it really takes some more work than that. One has to be willing to put time and effort and also some change into a relationship and consider what their partner needs and wants from it.
What you said about yourself sounds quite sad user. I hope you cheer up one day, meet the right woman and live a happy life.
Owen White
Jesus christ people fuck. Deal with it.
Henry Lopez
>see really cute girl, blonde hair, blue eyes >she pulls out a soda bottle >instantly recoiled, not even joking >opinion of that person goes down extremely
Eating habits, soda consumption is also a testament of a certain IQ range.
>see a person smoking >eating junk food >drinking booze
all bad habits that are directly related to the quality of any human being.
>learn of the r/K selection theory >learn of all the hallmarks of the r selected >start to categorize females according to that
You know how dog breeds were created for their best qualities? With this "cherry picking" or rather "very refined pattern recognition".
And living in this civilization allows us to see a lot of the end outcomes of certain people, with certain traits.
So yea, its a hard value.
Manwhores wont like it, and women will scold me for not accepting their lazy and dumb asses.
Jayden Lee
Make a trip and update us in either case. Gambarre, faggot
Hunter Sanchez
Not him but there is some truth in it Think about this, lets say half of the females are the relatinoship and sexual type. They like guys and are friendly towards approaches The other half are the attention slut, she doesnt like guys, relationships or wants sex. She just wants attention from as many guys as humanly possible because it makes her feel good about herself for awhile. All guys are fighting for the good half of women, the one who wants relationships
IRL though this ratio is probably closer to 35-40% girls who want relations/sex/guys and the majority who just want attention so the numbers are off
Girls showing signs of just wanting attention and being generally obnoxious and having an unapprovable lifestyle is a turnoff and why waste your time chasing girls who wont pay off? She wont up front tell you she doesnt want sex, a relationship, kids or such things but she will tell you what you want to hear to keep your attention
This might seem hateful towards women but its not, there are good women and there are bad women and the bad ones by far outnumber the good ones in the single market (makes you more likely to interact with them) and they are louder and more in your face since they want attention so youre more likely to see them