>get fit
>every girl but my gf wants to fuck
My self confidence is deteriorating because the one girl I actually want to fuck like an animal is disinterested in sex thanks to her righteous upbringing. She's totally focused on other shit, which is awesome, but damn. What can I do to turn my pure gf into a cock hungry slut like the girls who actually want my body are? I'm not into cheating and we've been together for a long, long time.
make sure she KNOWS that you have the option of fucking other girls (without actually saying it to her)
she doesn't have low libido.
she's just not attracted to you.
it's always like that.
Yeah OP sounds like his dutifulness comes off as desperation. He already made tons of excuses for her behavior.
This.
and she's probably fucking someone else if not him. low libido is more of an excuse than anything.
She knows. She's extremely possessive and sensitive about it. I feel like a trophy.And yeah, I'm desperate.
Desperate to bone the everloving fuck out of the woman I want to marry one day without running the risk of cheating and ruining an otherwise beautiful, healthy relationship.
You probably don't fuck her good and she's busy thinking about the way Chad used to fuck her.
Also you likely don't look as good as you think and there's not as many grills looking at you as you think.
Also the chad that used to fuck her had and has a better body and face
>Person you enjoy spending time with platonically
That's a friend not a gf
1/10 please try again
I got two numbers last week, and a third one without asking. My phone is full of potential flings I've turned away from and nobody on her list of ex's come anywhere close to me. It's also a very short list.
>healthy relationship
>no sex
???
Listen to me. This will not work out.
You're probably better off as friends.
Op here.
You just fucking devastated my feels. I had been thinking your exact post for weeks but never wanted to say it.
I'm leaving now. Veeky Forums wins.
Good on you for trying man. Could try to get her worked up with massages I suppose, it may condition her to get aroused when you touch her.
She's not telling you about Chad though :^)
Whoops sorry just telling it like it is.
Why don't you communicate your needs to your gf like an adult and see if she is willing to meet them or compromise in the middle?
Or you can keep frog posting
How to increase libido as a guy? My gf wants to fuck every time, but I just feel horny maybe once a week. I also cum really fast, so when we actually do have sex I feel only worse afterward.
TEST/TREN
>the one girl I actually want to fuck like an animal
You gay?
She's fucking other guys.
Something else instead of injecting hormones?
Fucking this. Be forthright, tell her exactly what your needs are and how you feel. If you can't even let her know how you feel then you're not in a relationship that should even be worth a shit to you. Don't settle with what doesn't satisfy you or you won't be happy.
Just make her want it.
Find out what turns her on and abuse that.
Hop on the juice brah
A gallon or 2
>Just make her want it
t. muhammad
You mean milk right?
Inject some dick then. What kind of faggot doesn't want to lay pipe?
I was in your shoes for 4 years. Dumped her. She was so passionate about everything except our relationship.
She was there for me, sort of, but she never really satisfied me on that part.
Talk to her. I tried for several times but nothing came of it. If the same comes to you, just cut your losses. There are more loving people in the world.
also
>pic related
This faggot
Don't listen to other posts holy shit. Veeky Forums is the worst plague on internet you get advices from
Your relationship is so valuable now. Don't fuck up just because these autists who can't get laid told you so.
Similar situation, my gf did semi frequently (like twice a week) want sex but she was so bad at it and always only wanted to do missionary cause everything else was painful. That and some other stuff led to me eventually breaking up with her. Feel so much better now, I Should've realised sooner rather than waste 4 years on that relationship.
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I eat my girlfriend out or fuck her every night.
She doesn't have the energy to fuck other guys.
If she isn't fucking you, she is fucking something.
Smell your dogs dick OP.
I'm in the same boat. I just fuck boatloads of other girls.
He who ignores the baser facts of life, in favour of higher principles tends to have a rude awakening further down the line, when they realise their high minded ideals have little to do with reality.
TL;DR HAVING COMPATIBILITY IN BED IS VERY IMPORTANT.
If she's on the pill you could try really low daily doses of anavar to see if that helps
Like 5-10 mg a day
During her formative dating years she conditioned herself to a certain set of circumstances that led to sex. Reproduce those and come back when they dont work.
Get her off birth control, plant the idea of becoming a baby factory in her head, marry the bitch and knock her up repeatedly. Get her sexually aroused at even the thought of bearing your seed. Clearly, she needs more than just sex for the sake of hedonism.
Tobacco, friend. Gets me all sorts of horny
>we've been together for a long, long time.
???
So you're just friends? Humans are biologically programmed to desire sex, unless its a rare genetic disorder or something of that nature, she is getting fucked somewhere else, or she should see a therapist. None of this adds up, and I have a sneaking suspicion that Chad is involved
Listen here, OP, you need to sit that bitch right down and tell her whats what. lay down the fucking law ffs. straight up ask her if shes cheating and tell her you're a fucking man who needs a sexual relationship, and if she won't have a sexual relationship with you, leave her
Either break up with her, stay sexually frustrated, or cheat. Those are your three real options here.
Gotta weigh the pros and cons of each, and remember to put your needs first. If she doesn't wanna fuck you now, just imagine how little action you're gonna get down the road -- especially if you get married.
I'm in a similar situation, but we're married. She's not a prude, but her libido died after our daughter was born two years ago. Breastfeeding can cause a drop in libido because of the associated shift in hormones. She used to love her nipples being played with, but now when we do have sex (about monthly), she hates when I touch her breasts. I'm hoping she'll go back to enjoying sex more frequently after breastfeeding ends.
Don't know what to tell you. If I knew how to increase somebody else's libido, I'd have done it by now. Masturbation helps kill the urge to cheat.
>otherwise beautiful, healthy relationship.
I don't know why I have to make this clear to so many cucks. A romantic relationship between two adults is not healthy if it has the absence of sex. One or both partners will eventually drift into cheating, and it causes disinterest and stress. There are only a few, and I mean a SMALL FEW instances where a romantic relationship can survive without sex long-term, and that's involving medical conditions, injuries, etc. where sex just isn't an option until everyone is healthy enough for it.
Otherwise, you might think it's a healthy relationship without sex, but it isn't.
this.
People are telling you this because we have been down the same road OP. Take it from a guy with experience, a romantic relationship between two adults that is void of sex for more than a month without some serious medical conditions involved is not a healthy relationship.
this nigga dont know how birth control works
>decide to get married
>now a person gets incentivized to leave you with half your shit and half of every cent you earn for the rest of your life...
>on top of that you've decided to only have one sexual partner for the rest of your life.
>shes only interested in it once a month
pretty strong argument against it bro.
As much as I hate to admit it, this.
I was fucking my girl (and she was begging for sex in the beginning of our relationship) on a daily/every other day basis for the first six or so months. As soon as she stopped being interested, stopped being responsive, stopping putting out basically, I found out she had been cheating on me.
It happens bro, if a girl wants to go more than a week without sex with her boyfriend/husband, it's because she's found someone else.
i don't really get why a person would cheat and they stay with their original bf.
Why not just break up?
I've never called someone a cuck before, but for you, I'll make an exception.
Better job/career path, treats them better, more stable environment, opportunity, etc. If you're feeding/clothing/housing/supporting a girl and she knows you will continue to do so, then she isn't going to risk getting with a new guy who might pump and dump her on the streets after a couple months.
That is, she won't risk getting in a relationship with him, but she won't mind cheating.
My ex used to get off on cheating. She cheated on her ex with me and then did the same to me. But hey, red flags just look like flags through rose colored glasses. That's why love is really blind.
>Breastfeeding for two years
Did I fucking read that right?
ehh dont listen to the negative cunts here that have never had a gf, but yer i was in the same situation with my ex...stareted off everyday then went to every week then at the end it was like once a month if not even longer and for me it never changed. i spoke many times about it to her and she even told me once that if i ever did sleep with someone else that i would tell her but i didnt want to sleep with anyone but her, but yer dude never changed. She had no troubles cumming and she really enjoyed it its just she could get herself going because her libido was shit. My opinion is if its that big a deal to you tell her exactly how you feel or tell her you will have to get it elsewhere
Fuck you.
> can i get a better answer to match my vagina pls?
Age(s)?
I'm 23 same sortof situation
Libido is kind of there, sex 3 or 4 times a week.
I know on my resume im good, I've sewn the seed far and wide and burned lady forests to bare ashes but I can't get her to every time cum buckets like the others . which sucks, because she's my wife and I want to be that for her
>CTRL + F
>talk to her
>1 result
This is literally your only correct answer.
Don't play games or try to make her jealous. Tell her you aren't satisfied and have a discussion about why you aren't having sex. If you feel like you have to have sex with your girlfriend (understandable) but she doesn't want to have sex or doesn't feel ready or something, then you go from there.
To add, there was a time where I was involuntarily gone and came back and it was fire because my dick literally got bugger, and most times it is fire, I just don't understand why it isn't every time for her
Bigger *
I feel you bro. Been dating my gf for about a year now and her libido suddenly died half a year into our relationship. She's only into sex if it's her fertile days (no, she doesn't want children, we use contraceptives) which is once a month. Everytime I make any sort of advance she just turns me down and that's that.
Which pretty much leaves me to myself in terms of sexual fulfillmen. I'd love to do no fap and no porn and especially get off porn, but fuck... might as well kill myself because my sex life would be dead at this point.
Dump that bitch. Fuck her man why waste time when there is plenty of pussy out there waiting to be fucked? Fuck her and her libido, which probably is just straight up bullshit anyway.
>libido suddenly died half a year into our relationship
Even if you live with her, I really hate to say it, but she could be cheating. I heard every excuse possible to get out of sex when my ex was cheating...
Kill yourself and hope for better genetics in your next life
>make sure she KNOWS that you have the option of fucking other girls (without actually saying it to her)
>implying OP can learn passive dread
lel
>jus talk to her
bawhahahahahahahahahahahahaha
Women talk, men do. Your actions are your words.
Women are very mental. She is probably very self conscious about her body compared to yours now.
Men don't think much during sex, whereas women constantly think about how they look or if they're in a good state of mind, how much they love you. Sluts don't give a shit but when they're in a relationship the thought process with sex completely changes.
Try giving her compliments or really making the next session about her. Or if she's open to stuff make it all about her worshipping you. Who knows. Women are crazy
I read that like gender confused Yoda
>women talk, men do
The first and last sentence world have sufficed.
Give her test.
Prepare for sides.
And this is a prime example of a simple man trying to fuck vs someone who has actually talked to their gf about sex.
To obtain something, you should really try to understand it first
It's not her that's the problem, it's you.
This sorta, one time I let myself get chubby I refused to have sex or get naked around my bf for nearly 2 months, got skinnier and no more self consciousness or self dissapointment (it's hard to get in the mood when I'm too busy hating myself)
Still have him handies cause I knew it wasn't fair to him though
Post of the year
>focused on other shit
how much time and effort is needed for a twice a week fuck session? nah, something else is up.
OP Ive been in that situation and all I gotta say is ditch her, if theres no sexual attraction its just going to bring problems in the future, she just likes hanging out with you and messing around. Yeah, youll feel like shit for a few days, but its going to get better.
I can second this from experience, I was with a girl for a year an a month when I should have ended it two months in.
Nothing worse than a relationship there is no sexuality, and it still has to be treated as a relationship and you can't go after girls who'd fill that urge.
>women talk, men do
playing games is for children
talking is for adults
>trying to obtain women
Oh hell yeah
I was speaking more of sex, but yes to obtain a woman you should understand her
Are you autistic?
Most people both talk and do in the real world.