Coping Thread

WebTool
WebTool

ITT: We accept things we can't change about ourselves

being ex fatty
had two surgeries for excess skin
no operation is perfect and some skin is still wobbly
will have to live the rest of my life with this and the fact that I am covered in scars
will never be able to have any relationship with a girl without having to explain the scars

w8t4u
w8t4u

high functioning sperg
can’t stop flinching my eyes from loud noises like weights banging even though they don’t scare me at all

Flameblow
Flameblow

@WebTool
very hotheaded
anger issues
will eventually end up in jail because some retard with push his luck and say something he shouldn't and I'll respond in a very bad way
I try to manage it and calm down, rationalizing that it isn't worth it the hassle of law problems, but I fear I won't control myself some day. The worst thing is that it's not about getting mad and throwing a few punches or getting myself punched into calmness. This is that I get so angry I "shoot to kill" even if I get killed in the process. Seriously considering eating soy and shit since it might lower my aggresive tendencies.

Supergrass
Supergrass

@w8t4u
It helps if you become more aware of everything around you. Try to be more "in the moment", as in don't let your senses focus on yourself and your thoughts, allow them to register everything.

Evil_kitten
Evil_kitten

@Flameblow
pic related it's you

StonedTime
StonedTime

@Evil_kitten
I expect the tip fedora responses, but this is a serious issue, I think I just can't handle emotions, sometimes I get so passionate about simple stuff, I once got fascinated by screws, how useful they are and how they hold things together is pretty awesome to me, I felt literal euphoria. I also hate and get angry with a passion so it goes both ways.
inb4 get help

GoogleCat
GoogleCat

@Flameblow
@StonedTime
Meditation my nibba
It'll help you, I'm certain

Fuzzy_Logic
Fuzzy_Logic

@StonedTime
you have autism like the rest of us, that's why you're here

farquit
farquit

@WebTool
Ex fatty
Have loose skin
Literal orphan so living on my own since 18 and can't cough up the dough because I'm not priviliged like OP and have better priorities
Was a virgin till 22
Beat myself up bad about the loose skin "Waaa no girl wpuld want me, waaa this skin is horrendous"
Get drunk and finally muster up the courage to just fuck a random
She doesn't mind
Get drunk again and muster up the courage again with a qt
She doesn't mind and we even date for a year
After that I just always tell girls I used to be fat etc
No fucking girl minds
Slept with almost 20 women now
Hate the fact I beat myself up over the loose skin and stretch marks while literally NOBODY cares

Laugh at people on this forum that look good but are insecure about their traps, their definition or puffy nipples or some shit. Nobody cares but you. If I can slay with a belly flap that pounds on their stomach when I do missionary everyone can. I do have a 9/10 face thou.

haveahappyday
haveahappyday

@w8t4u
yeah, serious meditators will tell you that flinching is a great sign that you are not properly in the moment.

People who flinch are not prepared to abandon the current model of the world that their mind is running. Being able to let go is critical for overall mental health and it can start with something as small as flinching.

Inmate
Inmate

she left you for someone "better" because you didnt make her a priority in your life
we can never go back to what we had
shit it hurts bros

Methnerd
Methnerd

@WebTool
I can't save my mom from cancer. She was diagnosed stage 4 and given two months to live, two years ago. She's got a couple day's at most left, spent sleeping. It's been really hard accepting mortality and my utter powerlessness toward people I love leaving this world. I'm 20 so there's been a lot of cursing the world for taking her so early. Sorry for the blog post.

Skullbone
Skullbone

@Inmate
You sound like my gf's ex. Is your name Alex by any chance?

Burnblaze
Burnblaze

@WebTool
coping

I fucking hate this bullshit go back to r9k you incel faggots.

BlogWobbles
BlogWobbles

@Skullbone
no

RumChicken
RumChicken

@WebTool
borderline manlet
purple acne scars
hotheaded

GoogleCat
GoogleCat

@WebTool
Go back to beddit boogie

Need_TLC
Need_TLC

@BlogWobbles
Did she tell you those things or are you assuming? How long were you together?

Harmless_Venom
Harmless_Venom

full blown ginger with freckles'n shiiet
only average height

Sir_Gallonhead
Sir_Gallonhead

@w8t4u
...Autistic people....flinch at loud things?

This...might explain somethings.

farquit
farquit

will always be 5'8

atleast I've got my shoe in-soles

haveahappyday
haveahappyday

@Flameblow

mindfulness my dude

Bidwell
Bidwell

@Inmate
you sound like a bitch
eat this and grow a pair

Playboyize
Playboyize

@Need_TLC
she told me those things
we were togthere 4 years

PurpleCharger
PurpleCharger

@Bidwell
i know, i wish i could just move the fuck on, but i feel so hollow

Harmless_Venom
Harmless_Venom

@farquit
OP here, I know I am a privileged piece of shit. I am still insecure about the scars, guess I'll have to get drunk and not give a fuck don't I. Thanks for sharing!

@Methnerd
all those feels, sorry for your man

@Burnblaze
this thread is about realizing the shit you can't change, accept it and move on improving yourself in ways that are within your control. r9k would just spiral into blaming society and self pitty

King_Martha
King_Martha

@Playboyize
Holy shit this is exactly the same thing that happened with my gf, 4 years together znd used the same words to break up.

Dont beat yourself up over it user, I presume you are still pretty young and alot of relationships will end after a few years especially nowadays when you are young. I went through the same thing 2 times. And it's NOT your fault, girls dont have any sense of agency so she put the blame on you by saying those things. The truth is the magic just extinguished and some playin motherfucker came along and made her feel special. She might think he's better but the grass is always greener on the other side. Not to mention it's still puppy love and she's getting blasted with hormones. Consider it her loss and not yours and move on. You deserve better than some girl who just leaves you like that and then even tries to shove the blame onto you.

lostmypassword
lostmypassword

@Harmless_Venom
well if you are the girl in that picture that might not be a bad thing

Sharpcharm
Sharpcharm

@King_Martha
thanks for the kind words user, sadly im not so young 34, and we have a daughter. sadly she is the true victim here

BlogWobbles
BlogWobbles

@Harmless_Venom
Yeah I really feel you bro. I literally beat myself up daily about the skin and stretch marks and kept every girl at bay because I was ashamed as fuck about it. Like in my story, after a few girls and years you'll dont give a shit.
Just look at it like this, if a good looking fun qt wants you but has a scar on her liver and a shittattoo would you not fuck her because of it? No nobody is perfect.
If you go to the pool and you see the overweight people do you think bad of them or do you glance and then move on with your day never thinking about them ever again?
Really nobody fucking cares.

LuckyDusty
LuckyDusty

@farquit
I do have a 9/10 face thou.
Just as I was about to feel encouraged by your post you go and fuck it right up.

AwesomeTucker
AwesomeTucker

@lostmypassword
I can wish at least

Need_TLC
Need_TLC

@Sharpcharm
That's still young if you took care of your body. Sorry about your daughter. But that even further proves my point that you're not the one to blame, she even didn't consider her daughters feelings.
Did she talk about the issues before just leaving?

Garbage Can Lid
Garbage Can Lid

CAN'T STOP BEING 5'4

Gigastrength
Gigastrength

@Need_TLC
yeah i guess, never really directly. she just isolated and i just reciprocated what she was giving me, after a week of that she told me she was looking for a new apartment

Skullbone
Skullbone

@LuckyDusty
Mewing with tongue posture really helped define my jaw. Not to mention I also had a very unsymmetric smile so I started smiling more with my right cheek to even it out. After half a year even my smile straightened out. Also I'm really lean which is good for facial aesthetics.

And every fucking time I talk to a girl they try to feel my abs and feel the belly flop so it's not like they dont know how bad it is. It's not like I take them home, take of my shirt and go "Suprise, I got a predator mouth where my belly button should be!". I also go for 7+ 's so even with an average face you should be able to score 5's and 6's consistantly.

SniperGod
SniperGod

@GoogleCat
@Fuzzy_Logic
@haveahappyday
I don't know how effective those things are, I didn't want to say this because of fedora replies but this is how bad it is:
23
don't go out much, only gym, mostly hikkish isolation
some old friends try to get me to go out more
they convince me to go to an anime con
they bring up cosplaying so I break out of my shell
nope.jpg
think of it and think it might help me be less anxious around women, social gains
fucking go as Nero from DMC series because I nail it (pale skin, blue eyes, dyed hair white for the cosplay, natty muscular)
autistically detailed costume and hairstyle
go to con
friends also cosplaying
having a good time so far
people asking pics of me
feelsgoodman.gif
we go eating
fucking ramen tastes like cardboard
some girl keeps eyeing me
finish the meal and go back to the con
later we see the girl again
she comes and asks if I'd pose for a pic with her
the guy apparently is her bf
girl groping the fuck out of me for the pose
I stand there awkward as fuck and friends are holding their laughter back
bf has a somewhat angry face and it's pretty obvious at this point he's not ok with this
try to ghost them both to avoid drama
she actually wants to walk with us for a bit at the con, with his bf of course
we start chit chatting and getting somewhat borderline personal
boyfriend won't stop making passive aggresive smug comments directed at me
I'm somewhat angered at this point but trying to keep it cool
friends have a worried face, they know what's going on and we agreed to make no scenes there, apparently those places are very strict about such things and will ban you every year from then on
this goes on
we both start getting madder and madder, he gets mad and makes more abrasive comments because his gf is talking the shit out of me, and I get mad because of his comments
it is going to happen, my friends' faces are priceless, they know my problem
cont.

RavySnake
RavySnake

@BlogWobbles
thank you for this

Spazyfool
Spazyfool

@Inmate
@Inmate
listen bro it's gonna hurt, it's gonna feel like shit for weeks
but the hard part's over and you'll find better
she didn't deserve you if she can't realize you're your own person with your own goals and motivations, fuck her
you got this bro, we're all gonna make it

w8t4u
w8t4u

@Spazyfool
thanks bro, i know your right

iluvmen
iluvmen

@WebTool

tell them you got knifed by a Puerto Rican when he demanded your wallet and you told him to fuck himself. Girls will think you're alpha.

likme
likme

@WebTool
idk man I heard that dat autophagy can do wonders. try doing some 2-3 day water fasts and then work your way into a hard dry fast. your body will literally start eating excess skin and scars and shit

LuckyDusty
LuckyDusty

@iluvmen
good idea but I don't think that the guy guy both insides of my thighs then perfectly around my entire waist and from one armpit to the other over my chest... I could try pulling it off with a smirk making it obvious I am talking shit

likme
likme

@SniperGod
forgot to mention, bf is no soyboy, a bit shorter than me but as bulky as me overall
he says some nasty stuff I don't even want to post here
I go silent and give him the stare of literal death involuntarily
my friends inmediately interrupt and say we have to go now because his mom was in trouble or whatever excuse
nobody will ever comprehend how the fuck I did hold back
we turn and start to leave
we lose them but don't actually leave
I get a bit relaxed and my bros help
about 2 hours pass
somewhat happy again and having fun
found someone cosplaying Dante and we talk for a bit
some guys start taking pics of us
having fun and feels
now we go and leave for real
girl taps me on the back
it's her again, she apologizes and says her bf is in the bathroom right now
says it's ok, no problem, no hard feelings towards her
like in about 2 fucking minutes, her bf comes
he starts raging and saying something along the lines of "what the fuck are you doing? we talked about this and you are here with this fucking retard again"
he fucking slips and falls onto the floor
my brightest idea ever is to make the taunt my character makes in DMC4 while saying "dissapointing"
rip.mp4
he starts saying the most nasty shit ever and manages to light me up
we start fighting and got beaten up pretty badly on both sides, the staff is shouting for us to stop I can't remember much but from what I recall and my friends told me he ended up in the floor and I was screaming like a crazy barbarian while stomping my foot in his head with all of my might and eventually two security guards stopped me
he went unconscious
could have probably killed him if no one stopped me
lifetime banned on that place, friends played dumb so they didn't get banned too

Also I noticed I fucked up on the first post, I was cosplaying as Virgil, not Nero.

Supergrass
Supergrass

@likme
Alpah af

King_Martha
King_Martha

I have pectus excavatum.
The last few years my parents have helped me take a myriad of tests to see if i qualify for surgery. I don't, despite the fact that it's visually severe. They now want to switch over to a different type of insurance so that we can find a different doctor who might have a different opinion. It'll cost my parents more money per month to see someone that will probably tell me the same thing. I feel like I should just tell them to stop, to not waste any more money on me trying to fix this. I worry that my dad especially (since the condition came from his side of the family) is trying to get this done because he feels guilty about it in a way. At this point, my chest is just a part of me, and something I've pretty much accepted. But that idea of having a normal chest and not having to worry about taking my shirt off in public is still really attractive to me, despite the long recovery time after a supposed surgery. So I'm in this weird limbo where I both want to accept my body for what it is, but also change it to what I want.

VisualMaster
VisualMaster

I'm emotionally damaged with extreme hate for women and murderous hate for people who cheat. I'm also extremely possessive which is why I don't talk to women because the moment I see her talking to another guy or even thinking about it makes me shake with anger. I just have a naive worldview that everyone should love someone and stay loyal and happy for the rest of their lives and not fucking cheat. I broke up with ex because of this and now am insecure and pathetic and have turned down sex offers from drunk rave thots multiple times because I believe I'm gonna lose my virginity to someone who I'll love and marry and spend my life with.

Burnblaze
Burnblaze

@King_Martha
I'd love to hug you.

I hope things get better for you. You're in my prayers.

Firespawn
Firespawn

@w8t4u
can’t stop flinching my eyes from loud noises like weights banging even though they don’t scare me at all

search acoustic shock syndrome.

I worked in callcentres when I was 21-22. I swear poor headsets and callcentre confines were the cause of this. Particularly the last callcentre that gave you a headset with only one fucking earpiece and crammed 6 peoples where there should have been 4.

All of a sudden someone speaking behind me would give me a shock and when the headset wasn't on I'd be unable to pay attention to anything specifically unless it was driven straight into my ear.

Took me about 2 years to get over it. Doesn't even seem like a problem now, but at the time it really was.

JunkTop
JunkTop

@WebTool
layer of fat covering lower abs due to constant insulin injection
depressed sternum
strech marks all over ass
gyno

BunnyJinx
BunnyJinx

Extremely inelastic skin.
If I ever gain significant amounts of fat or muscle I break out in horrible purple stretch marks.
I can strive for either eternal ottermode or jacked but never able to take my shirt off

DeathDog
DeathDog

Everyone thinks I am heterosexual irl, while im 100% homosexual. Question: Why are women so pushy, I mean they keep testing me but they don't get that I am not interested... The fuck is wrong with them?

JunkTop
JunkTop

@DeathDog
Women, especially 7+, expect every guy with a dick wants to fuck them. I've seen girls throw actual tantrums when they don't get the guy they want, since usually they rarely get a no. They somehow expect their tits to make you straight lmao

Sir_Gallonhead
Sir_Gallonhead

@King_Martha
wtf dude are you me
i am in the same situation as you are right now, the only difference is that my case isnt "life threateningly severe" so i won't get surgery unless i go to a private surgeon, it's pretty bad

VisualMaster
VisualMaster

@WebTool
manlet
might be prediabetic
shit tolerance for struggle and difficulty

Carnalpleasure
Carnalpleasure

@likme
As bad as the fight was, you've definitely got potential to solve your anger issues. Especially since you understand you have them and how far they can go.
There's something to be said about tact. It's the lubrication that social interaction needs, and without it, you're throwing sand in a machine that doesn't work too well at best. But I'm not telling you to get tact because
try to ghost them both to avoid drama
means that you already know that. But sometimes, when a situation is escalating or about to become an unavoidable mess, tossing tactfulness aside and laying things out in the open can put a quick stop to bullshit. In that case, instead of trying to politely ignore them, just tell them that you don't want to hang out with them or whatever.

However, I'll stop lecturing you about that because you've probably already ran the event in your head a hundred times over and found a hundred solutions to that specific problem and I'm just whistling in the wind. I will say for certain that meditation can help you. You might have to tailor it a bit to focus on your anger, but give it a shot. It's helped my friends. It's helped me. Try the basics in that picture, then move on to something else. The great thing about meditation is that there's no wrong answers, just preferences.

Skullbone
Skullbone

@DeathDog
noone thinks that,

one of my friends always thought that we think he is straight, but everyone knew he was not, and everyone tried to make him feel that people think he is straight

cum2soon
cum2soon

@WebTool
Having insane amounts of pimples as a kid
Will always have the scars they left behind on my chest, back, shoulder
People will always assume I roid because I have those scars

It kinda sucks, been lifting for 4 years and I'm kinda big, but not in a way that it would seem like I roid.. Yet I often hear comments behind my back about roiding when I'm at the beach. Shit sucks.

likme
likme

I think I like my work colleague who I know for certain liked me and tried to make me jealous with another guy, but now he's asked her out and I'm here on the sidelines putting a face on like I'm cheering for her saying yes qt, thank fuck he finally did because fuck her jealousy games.

I've also to get her stuff for workplace secret santa

What have I done Veeky Forums... I'm lifting then eating some chicken and bacon w/pepper sauce and getting drunk. This hurts more than finding out my ex cheated on me multiple times...?

Encouraging words please anons

Lunatick
Lunatick

@likme
Find your soulmate instead of worrying about some girl playing jealousy games with you.

takes2long
takes2long

@King_Martha
had to look up what that actually is. sucks but seems to be a quite affordable operation in europe. I also read that there is some kind of "suction cup therapy" but I guess that you looked into all of this. best of luck.

I am sure your father isn't feeling guilty, he just wants to help you. Just imagine yourself in his position.

likme
likme

don't feel any positive emotions, even if things are going well
went to several psychologists
got put on pills
only made things worse
mfw I have to live my entire life feeling like everything is suffering

TurtleCat
TurtleCat

@WebTool
Post your belly. I've been thinking about getting that surgery

StonedTime
StonedTime

@likme
Godspeed.

girlDog
girlDog

@King_Martha
hey dude are you in the states? why don't you come over to europe for a month and get that surgery much cheaper?

Emberfire
Emberfire

@Carnalpleasure
To be honest I'm very introspective, if that counts as meditation (loneliness helps for this), I do go through things over and over again in my head, I'm not even an angry person per se, I'm somewhat happy and optimistic, the issue is that it takes very little (compared to other persons) to get me very angry, and I don't like being angry, so thinking that this random retard made me mad and because of him I stopped being happy, gets me even more angry, if that makes any sense. There are certain themes, certain things that if someone says them to me, I'll turn into a dangerous person in an instant. I was bullied when I was young so maybe something got fucked up as a result. It's like I went through so much shit for so many years that even the tiniest bit of that will turn me into a berserker.

StrangeWizard
StrangeWizard

@King_Martha
My brother has this and it's honestly not a huge deal to most people. If you're in good shape and have a solid personality nobody worth your time is gonna turn you down over it

TalkBomber
TalkBomber

@WebTool
gay
not hookup oriented or a yasskween

Time to die alone

farquit
farquit

@WebTool
turbomanlet at 5'6
celiac disease

Emberfire
Emberfire

framelet
lowbar squats don't benefit you because there isn't enough room on your back
5'9
getting that vegeta hairline

it's fine

Deadlyinx
Deadlyinx

@Flameblow
Why don't you just end it and shoot yourself you edgy fucking faggot?

StonedTime
StonedTime

@Emberfire
Same.
Same.

Dreamworx
Dreamworx

How do I accept being ugly and having a weak chin/jaw?
I can't grow facial hair whatsoever even though I'm 26.

takes2long
takes2long

5'5
dumb as fuck
ugly in the face....like 3/10
can't seem to connect with adults

MPmaster
MPmaster

I'm anxious about my future, I'm jobless, still living with parents, and would hate to depend on someone else so I can live elsewhere.

I have money saved for a trip but the anxiety is too much, don't know where to start.

I'm very self destructive and will start fights with my family and then regret them, fuck

Poker_Star
Poker_Star

narrow shoulders
gyno -> gyno surgery -> still some gyno left and ugly scar on nip now

a lot of other shit but accepting this has felt good

anybody else suspect they are /klines/

Methshot
Methshot

Dick is 5.2 inches long
Most women will never be completely overcome with emotion with you in a relationship, even if you satisfy her in other ways
I will always let other people get me down.
My voice will never be deeply masculine.

Firespawn
Firespawn

@WebTool
Seeing a counselor on Tuesday. Hoping he tells me I was right dumping my girlfriend. Feel more productive without her. When none of my friends are free I'm pretty alone though. I just hated fucking giving up my time to do anything for her.

Stark_Naked
Stark_Naked

anybody have advice how to cope with shitty ankle flexibility, i would really love to do SS or a standard program but I can't really squat or DL.

i have a bone spur in my left ankle so stretching hasn't done shit

Boy_vs_Girl
Boy_vs_Girl

Holy shit my name is Alex and in this situation, what's her name start with?

Bidwell
Bidwell

I want to try and leave my shit restaurant job and go into something better. The problem is that since I've only worked in shit jobs, I feel like I will never be able to get into a nice, more professional job. My grades were shit in college and I'm still pretty lost in wanting to know what I want to do with my life so, that makes it even worse.

Even if I somehow got an office job, I just feel like I won't even be able to connect with the people there.

TalkBomber
TalkBomber

@King_Martha
I've got it too, my ex-gf was short as fuck and her head would fit in it when we hugged. She said it was made for her to nuzzle into
Damn I miss her

BunnyJinx
BunnyJinx

@Flameblow
iktf

I almost landed in jail last year. One of my fears is that one day I will kill a man in another wave of impulsiveness and agression

Heck, I jerk off twice a day and even that doesn't help me

Stupidasole
Stupidasole

@Inmate
me too but now i have a cool gf and she's married to a soyboy beta so it all ended pretty well

Methnerd
Methnerd

@Boy_vs_Girl
With an E.

AwesomeTucker
AwesomeTucker

@Methnerd
I'm really sorry to hear this user. She's lucky to have a son like you to continue her memory.

Evil_kitten
Evil_kitten

i had a slipped disc when i was 21, after progressive worsening i had a discectomy.

i'm 28 now. no matter how well i strengthen and stay flexible etc. i will always have a constant background level of pain / discomfort.

Deadlyinx
Deadlyinx

@w8t4u

get your thyroid checked

my ex did this and it turned out to be anxiety from the graves disease that nearly killed her

CouchChiller
CouchChiller

@BunnyJinx

I hate that we live in such a feminised society that you can go to jail for solving your problems in the way men are supposed to

you don't get the dramatic differences in upper body strength and bone density between men and women for calling the cops

farquit
farquit

5.0" erect
1.5" flaccid
And if I'm not being generous I could probably round down to 4.75".
girth matters most
I don't have that either. It's hard to find the motivation to lift when you know more muscles will just make your tiny dick even more disappointing.

w8t4u
w8t4u

I don’t think I’ll ever be able to grow a full beard. 24 and grow maybe 40 hairs on my face

WebTool
WebTool

@farquit
iktf

Burnblaze
Burnblaze

@CouchChiller
Exactly. They wanted to lock me up for a simple fist fight - no weapons used and no one that got severly hurt (well, some black eyes, some broken teeth and a light concussion obviously but nothing really serious).

Luckily they send me to jail but this case just shows how fucked the government acts. I think they should give some legal space for minor fist fights between men. That way we keep things uptight and don't get a pussified society where men get to call the cops for every single thing

Firespawn
Firespawn

@likme
Bro you seem fun to hang around but with your issue of euphoric feelings and anger I think you may have bipolar disorder. Im not saying to see a shrink but like the anons said try mediation. Im also another person who gets angry pretty quickly but not as bad. You should really think about the consequences in the moment. Just remember bro, anyone can die in a fight all it takes is one good punch or you go crippled

whereismyname
whereismyname

@Garbage Can Lid
Same. Feels Bad.

likme
likme

@Flameblow
getting myself punched into calmness
Cool story bro were her tits like a bag of sand?

Carnalpleasure
Carnalpleasure

@WebTool
these cringy pictures

STOP

StonedTime
StonedTime

@Methnerd
Sorry you gotta lose her so early bro. Take care and keep her memory alive.

MPmaster
MPmaster

Take the easy road often, do impulsive shit when I know I shouldn't
Say I'll do something, end up not through either forgetfulness or lack of trying, which is really a lack of commitment
Indecisive as fuck and seemingly always picking the wrong choice no matter the situation
Want to do great things and make a tangible, long lasting difference

I know deep down I'll never be able to do that.

Techpill
Techpill

@VisualMaster
Keto actually helps with insulin sensitivity

TreeEater
TreeEater

I have no game. No matter how good looking or fit I get, the only way I ever have or ever will be with a woman is if I am set up. How the hell am I supposed to just start talking to someone I don't even know?

CouchChiller
CouchChiller

Sitting on a meeting
Explain to boss and other people what they are telling me to do may not work
Explain to them this will not work
They tell me to try anyway, I tried their "way" and it did not work
Sitting here after telling them today that it did not work that way and we are at square one again
Thinking to myself tonight, was this a test all along if I was going to do what they did tell me to do or was it just a mistake and I did not correct them early enough?

Ignoramus
Ignoramus

@Methnerd
Sorry for your mother bro

SniperGod
SniperGod

@SniperGod
man I don't get it.
If something likes this happens, why do people not call out their partner instead of a stranger.
Get your partner in check for fucks sake.
Or meet an at least decent person who won't make you feel fucking mad.
Shit tier peasants.

askme
askme

@CouchChiller
SILVIA

Illusionz
Illusionz

@Inmate

I try to accept I'm 5'7, just kinda sucks, I feel like girls won't date me because of it.

Also
@Inmate

I made my gf a priority and she treated me like crap. So I broke up with her, but I'm still down because she's the only person I have been with. And she isn't trying to get me back so I assume she never cared or is with someone

Spazyfool
Spazyfool

@Flameblow
Someone get this hothead outta here!

AwesomeTucker
AwesomeTucker

@Illusionz
I'm 5'4". Girl left me for a taller guy. Legitimately the only reason. Two months later asking to come back to me because he beats her. Laughed and sent her on the way.

iluvmen
iluvmen

Live alone
Moved half way across the country
Barely talk to family
Try to talk to my brothers on the phone
Not much to talk about, my brother will sit there and be quiet and expect me to ask questions and talk to him
Can never talk to him on the fucking phone at all
Face to face, we're good
When I visit we;re good
But on the fucking phone, we cant even talk as brothers!!!!

ZeroReborn
ZeroReborn

@WebTool
my brother has schizophrenia

whatever I may do or try, there is no changing or fixing it

what I can do is be there for him, for my parents. be there in there in their life, for a meal, a drink,a hug. a cry on the shoulder.

what I can do is work my guts out in every area of my life.

what I can do is become the best and most complete man I am capable of being, so they can lean on me, re-assured that there is this safe harbor in their life, when it becomes to though to bear for them.

what I can to do is learn to be vulnerable and accept that I can be that harbour if I let someone else "in" to be that harbour for me.

We're the only one in charge of our choices, doesn't mean we're alone, anon-bros.

Harmless_Venom
Harmless_Venom

@Methnerd
I'm glad she's gonna die, you self-important piece of shit.

RavySnake
RavySnake

@Harmless_Venom
Thats edgy even for 4chinz

CodeBuns
CodeBuns

I'm a shitskin and the chances of me finding a qt white wife are slim because I'm autistic and not white or black

Fuzzy_Logic
Fuzzy_Logic

@Flameblow
My ex was just like that. An extreme hothead who just could not be fucked with. Which is why I fucked with him all the time and he hate fucked me to orgasm heaven every damn time. Wish I could meet someone like that

Nude_Bikergirl
Nude_Bikergirl

@CodeBuns
If this pajeet can do it, you can too.
She might not be a 10/10 but shes still white.

Lord_Tryzalot
Lord_Tryzalot

@RavySnake
It's true though.

WAAAAAAAAH MY MOMMY DYING OF CANCER
PLEASE RANDOM Veeky Forums POSTERS GIVE ME PATHETIC SYMPATHY POINTS! WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!

I hope her death is so painful and early that it makes her sob.

likme
likme

@WebTool
I'm 25 & I've been a Type 1 diabetic for 13 years.

In my teen years I was super depressed, constant suicide ideation, had a plan and everything for a bit. Thinking back I'm pretty sure I used my diabetes as a way to self harm, i didn't take care of myself for many years, drank, did a shitload of drugs.

Now in my mid 20s this has come back to bite me in the ass. Hard (no pun intended).
erectile dysfunction for ~3 years
finally man up and go see doc
he says everything sounds fine with heart, refers me to somewhere to get blood work done
blood work done, test and everything is fine
endo says he thinks its anxiety
don't even get real hard when fapping
continue to go to doctor until he finally refers me to a cardiologist
do some tests
cardiologist says it's "microvascular disease" caused by diabetes (obviously from my teen years of not giving a shit)
past ~5 or so years i've been really diligent about taking care of myself
it probably won't make a difference due to the damage i've already done
ED thing really gets to me
girl that i've been dating for 5 years breaks up with me last year
can't change the fact that i'm going to die before most if not all of my friends
can't change the fact that i've basically lost any hope for a proper relationship
can't ever please a woman again
should be in the social prime of my life, getting pussy and partying
have a tinder account, get tons of matches, able to talk to bars, etc.
never have the balls to bring any of them home or go home with them because it'd be too emberassing

I feel like my male card has been revoked. I can get like ~85-90% boner rigidity on a good day with pills. I wanna kill myself. If I wasn't such a shithead when I was younger I could be having a good time and trying to find a qtgf to spend the rest of my life with.

VisualMaster
VisualMaster

@Nude_Bikergirl
show vagne

CodeBuns
CodeBuns

@Nude_Bikergirl
I did it once, I'm just not sure if I can again. But you've sort of made me more optimistic. Maybe when I start to enroll in the Police Academy next month things will change. I'll at least have a source of income to fix what lifting can't

happy_sad
happy_sad

Therapist says he thinks i have depression. This was after considering symptoms i have had since my teenage years. I’m 21 now, will probably have to deal with symptoms for the rest of my life. Would explain the periodic motivation issues

w8t4u
w8t4u

Somehow fight genetics and lose my love handles

I'd love to figure out what causes my acne. I've tried everything. All I know is it's something at home (Australia) as when I was just in France for a month I had perfect skin after 2 weeks (I was eating cakes and croissants every day and wasn't as strict with washing my face all the time)

Emberfire
Emberfire

@RumChicken
borderline manlet
This means manlet

LuckyDusty
LuckyDusty

5'6"

Lunatick
Lunatick

@Inmate
You lucked out dude. Women are not supposed to be a priority. Your life's mission is.

A good woman will understand that and will help you along with your mission. That's what women are: helpers. Some bear the task more honorably than others.

Firespawn
Firespawn

@Playboyize
@King_Martha

Holy shit, you retards. They were testing you.

you don't make me a priority, we're done
no, we're not, we got something good here

Spamalot
Spamalot

@WebTool
recovering heroin addict
been sober for the majority of this year brahs.
one day i'll be free

SniperWish
SniperWish

I just posted this same thing in the FPH thread but whatever.

I am happy with everything in my life except the fact that I am gay and into fatties.

It's not something I get depressed about it's just more like, the perfect traditional life is always gonna be out of bounds for me. I can be as perfect as possible in all other regards but I'll never reach normality.

Illusionz
Illusionz

@Flameblow

You need some halotestin to mellow you out before you get yourself into serious trouble my dude, just do a beginner cycle and go from there.

Nojokur
Nojokur

@Firespawn
I didn't explain that clearly. That happened to my gf as in this is how my gf dumped her ex.

Stark_Naked
Stark_Naked

@Spamalot
stay strong user. we will all make it one day

Soft_member
Soft_member

@SniperWish
Fucking idiot. Your sexual fetishes are not graven in stone, stop being so weak. Your problems are nothing.

viagrandad
viagrandad

@ZeroReborn
One of my best friends became shizo. It isn't as bad after a while with the right meds, could be my friend got lucky thou. I see him almost everyday. After awhile you get used to his incoherent thinking and they're still the same. Just lazy af so you just need to get on his ass to do shit.

5mileys
5mileys

@Soft_member
yeah right I jsut gotta nofap and I'll like women right?

lol

PackManBrainlure
PackManBrainlure

balding
gyno

actually an FUE hair transplant and gyno surgery could fix both of these... I just can' t be bothered. However, if I do I will have made it, I'm already
6'2
fit as fuck
IQ 140+
PhD in physics
Founder/Owner/CEO of my own very successful software company

feels guud

I can never fix being a huge fucking cunt tho so I guess that's something

BlogWobbles
BlogWobbles

@Methnerd
Sorry about that bro

New_Cliche
New_Cliche

@Lord_Tryzalot

faggot. nothing more, nothing less i'll say. just faggot.

MPmaster
MPmaster

@Inmate
Fucking hell man, did your balls drop yet?

iluvmen
iluvmen

@TurtleCat
late reply, not sure if you are still reading this

Stark_Naked
Stark_Naked

5'7 - My time growing is over
from experience:
tall/handsome people respected unless they act in a way thats makes them lose respect of others.
Short/ugly dont get respect but can earn it.
Basically living life on hard difficulty.

Flameblow
Flameblow

@MPmaster
i guess not

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