Bars open fellas
What you having? How was your week?
Bars open fellas
What you having? How was your week?
Broke my 94 days of nofap dont know how to feel desu
You should feel a wave of non-retardation washing over you. The real question is did you fap to porn or not?
Alright, got back to uni and cleaned out my room. Also accepted a job offer to start working on a mine site this summer.
Bad news, my groin and thigh pain is coming back. I don't want to rest and just stop doing squats and mma for a month, but I also don't want to make the injury worse. I've no clue what I should do.
Gf of 5 years left me. We agreed on a break to work on ourselves but its hard folks. Gonna gym extra hard to wash the pain away
Work was slow as shit all week, new position has me dealing with this really headstrong guy it's kinda a pain
Women wise I'm doing alright only got two possibilities kinda hoping my FWB comes back around dinner time but it's been weeks and it's degenerate anyway
Lost my 2 lbs for the week, keto is going well next to zero desire to pick up anything not on the diet
Picked up two bad habits this week though I'm back to vaping and the free diet Coke at work has become a once a day thing I think it's bad for keto but it's really nice to have so lunch.
Been talking with this girl for a while, expressed that I’m not looking for anything serious. She’s patient, and we always vent to one another. I recently banged this girl i met online, and now the first girl is super upset and feels disgust. Like I get she’s been possessive but I can’t help but feel guilty for some reason.
not looking for anything serious
I've never understood this
got a 24 of beer going out to party tonight might fuck a sloot, im still fat so feels bad but gotta let loose sometime
i swear its mainly muscle.
if you told her nothing was serious about it then not much you can do about it, maybe try reevaluate your opinion of her
chatting with girl as the big group walks around campus
groups break up and as we walk away we turn back to each other and ask for names at the same time
I gotta find her tmmrw and get her number before the hoard of people flood campus next week
Very good idea strike while the iron is hot
Good luck bud
I keep slipping on my self improvement stuff. Meditation and the wim hof breathing were completely forgotten, I'm not excited to study the stuff I need to.
I'm too used to have a girl lifting me up during those hard times, but ever since I became single, things started to derail and I can't seem to find myself.
Now I met a qt who's into me, but we live really far away from each other. She's cool and actually interesting.
Life is getting hard, fellas. It feels bad and I'm not enjoying as much as I used to.
@Garbage Can Lid
I just want to do my own thing, not be held back by relationships or anything. I don’t trust myself to maintain any kind of romantic relationship.
I know man, but I’ve known her for >5 years, it just feels gut wrenching almost.
kinda shit, shoulder/forearm pain has been slowing me down a lot the past few weeks. I haven't been to the gym at all in like 4 or 5 days because finals have been due this past week and I think I might be getting sick.
I've also jerked off multiple times almost every day this week which makes me feel sluggish.
On the upside, this semester is finally over and I'm gonna head to the gym in like 15 minutes, hoping my shoulders had enough time to recover, but I'm doing back/biceps today so it shouldn't be that huge of an issue regardless. I'm hoping the gym makes me feel better.
Got a job interview in a different part of the country Monday. The company is paying for everything. I need the job and know I can do the job. I'm happy to relocate. But I've failed five job interviews in the last two months, and my lack of confidence shows in my face these days.
Tips on how to become /hired/?
At my new uni, classes going great so far. The girl that broke my heart a few years ago goes to the same campus I do, but I haven't seen her around, which is good. Still lifting those feels away, tho
Feeling lonely as usual,don't know how to fix it.
171 at 5'8
wanna get down to 160/165 before gaining muscle
mfw my car breaking down allowed my weak will to up my calories with snacking
mfw basically gonna take these few days as a mulligan
I'm seriously contemplating just saying fuck it and going full lift mode and going for muscle. having low calories and running off of caffeine is god awful.
Way she goes, pal. Life gets really unexciting pretty often, I think the trick is staying disciplined enough to keep stuff up even when we are demoralized. Doesn't have to be an all or nothing thing either.
Well maybe you should check your feelings and apologize but still be assertive that perhaps you arent interested in her sexually or if you are tell her that what you have now before you requires a moment of courage you either mend or further break what you have
What do your car have to do with calories? Just being bummed about it you mean?
I apologized to her, but it’s so tough to figure out the outlook. People wish they’d have women attracted to them, but it’s a curse in disguise if you have a heart.
Life is good, I don't know what to do anymore but I think the things that I have been going through are beginning to change me.
Anyway, I wasn't always this way and something happened to make me like this. Also, I wont mention my job on here again but I was told this week to fly to another state for business in the upcoming weeks, I don't really want to but its a fucking awesome place in the US and I get to see it for the first time, I may stay an extra day and go sight seeing again and actually grab some local lunch.
I work a lot sometimes and fly around the country. Hoping things will go well, I kind of hate what my life is becoming right now
oh yeah i know how it feels to be torn up took me about a year after i swore off of relationships and such now im just looking around to see if im even interested in a relationship or just want to continue being a gym rat and going to college
Starting up work again is helping me get out of my depressive rut. Slept with two new women this week, I want to keep it going with both and wrangle some more. Birthday coming up next week and I've got zero plans. Life goes on.
Down 10 pounds
I'm happy. Just 10 pounds more, and if I don't lose much lean mass I should be like 10-12% bodyfat. If I keep this up, hopefully I'll be able to see my abs for the first time by next month. Feels GREAT
My Polish waifu is coming to visit me for 3 weeks. I'm going to take her to a hotel in Manhattan overlooking midtown and fuck her thicc Slavess ass
I was gonna go grocery shopping the day my car shit itself. it's been out of action for 2-3 days. I don't want to spend money on a taxi or uber just to get food so I ordered jimmy johns for delivery.
not the worst thing but it isn't as healthy as my standard of chicken + rice.
Yeah feels bad man. I feel like I’m leading her on but it’s not intentional.
It's been a hard week. I was depressed as hell in my college years and fucked it all up. Always incredibly disorganized and lazy. Started hanging out with losers with no aspiration.
Started watching Jordan Peterson in December. I was already getting myself down from drinking every other day to once every week. Decide I had enough of this shit and started saving my money and signed up for community college. This is the first time I've had a calendar and schedule in my life.
I had my first class today in a long time. Went straight to my shitty job afterwards. I've been awake since 6AM and just got home at 9PM. Life is harder because of the choices I've made but that doesn't mean I can't turn it around. The pain is just a reminder to stay vigilant. Wish me luck boys.
Good job man, half the battle is realizing your rut and starting new habits. Keep it up
I asked this girl what’s new after not talking for a bit and she straight up ignored me. It hurts that some women are so far up their own ass to ignore people. I know she liked me too and we got along great. She just had to play her little game with me and apparently I didn’t play it back with her.
Whatever I’m over talking to her. I’m not gonna acknowledge her anymore she honestly doesn’t deserve my sincerity if she’s gonna treat me like shit.
I’m just dissapointed I found someone I liked and they had to be a thot. She showed a lot of initiation and interest but once I started being forward she pulled away.
this is going to be so much more fulfilling in a couple of weeks
keep on it breh
working on ourselves
Sounds like she's working hard to Tyrone's BBC
shit happens user
it's not gonna get better by feeling resentment over it
not worth the hassle
Feeling like missing out on life, on youth. As if there was something wrong with me that prevents me from being human enough to get things that most people have like friends, gf, sex, hanging out...
Im just on autopilot doing /sig/, without a single goal in life
Yea true. I’m pretty much over it now. Just dissapointed over the situation that’s all.. I really think we could have had something great but her insecurity got the best of her and she had to be manipulative with her attention.
Girl I've been dating for 3 months called me while drunk and proclaimed her love for me, but feel too jaded to tell some chick i love them back maybe ever again. Completely realise I'm being a faggot but can't shake the feeling
oh shit, how old are you?
Feeling conflicted on where or not to break up with gf of 2.5 months. When I'm with her, I love her and she's crazy about me and I feel like I could spend the rest of my life with her, but when I'm not with her in person, I feel like it's just not gonna work out and I can't imagine a future together
G&T, my good man.
Last month, after a year and a half of a non-relationship, I finally figured out that my (ex)oneitis has Narcissistic Personality Disorder. She never would let me get too close but would make damn sure I never left either, all while "Idolise, Devalue, Discard"-ing me again and again. Complete lack of empathy and a showiness about her that doesn't match up with reality.
Long story short, I accidentally called her out on it and since she has completely lost her shit. I completely cut her out a couple weeks ago but curiosity got the best of me and I checked out her social media yesterday. She's so damn crazy. Crazy and really, really mean. I'm happy I figured it out before it turned into anything real but shit still hurts. I wasted so much effort on this one.
Things go well
"Looking good bro, gym paying off, oh shit that cutie actually talked to you, damn uni isn't so bad, maybe we'll all make it"
Minor inconvenience happens in life
At this point I know it's me catastrophizing, but perspective completely changes the way I view myself - for better or for worse.
Eye contact and a firm handshake isn't just a meme
nigga im 25
you're doing fine
work in the country, work pressure is enormous
family, old friends and gf are all back home only see them on weekends after a 4 hr drive
weekends are no longer refreshing, it's a juggling act of seeing everybody in 2 days and being switched on, happy and sociable the entire time
every weekend cop shit from family or friends that I'm 'Never there' or from GF if i spend too much time with the former, if i get mad at gf she cuts me deep with 'I just don't get to see you long and i miss you'
fade away like a depressed cunt the whole 4 hours back every sunday
I never vent but i feel pretty trapped bros, dunno if ill make it.
im pretty disillusioned with life
im 24 and still live at home with mommy and i never had a job
i don't see myself having a career or anything
i have no real skills outside of shitposting and i find myself snapping at people and losing my cool extremely quick in public
i got put on academic probation for not showing up for class
which is fucking retarded all my teachers told me to go to lynda.com
if i need help with anything what's the point of class?
my rooms clean and sorted but everything else is fucked up the wazoo
What you having?
PEAR CELERY SMOOTHIE
How was your week?
I have built my life on all lies, all lies
Having Leadslingers rye whiskey. Bit expensive but delicious.
Week is good, just got under 36in on the waist so I can enlist. Taken me six months and 60 lbs to get there so it's good to finally be at my goal.
Only thing that could be better is if I didn't get crippling anxiety every time I talk to a woman.
How's life treating you, friend?
Any good ones?
Yea, but I'm afraid to be honest because I think people in my life already know i'm a liar
I have a question for Veeky Forums
Lets say you have a great job and a good company. Do you feel like you need to quit just because you are too comfortable and not interested in staying in this company for some reason? Like you're always job hopping and getting skills from multiple areas in your field
@Garbage Can Lid
What's the worst thing that could happen to you if you started being honest?
@Garbage Can Lid
Bump. This is exactly how I feel. Going on 20 and I just feel empty all the time. I'm unable to form any meaningful connections with other people. I can laugh, smile, and play the part but it's all just bullshit. I just want to enjoy a normal life with actual friends and a gf but whenever I look at other people I either feel contempt or nothing at all. What's the point bros? It's like I'm just not meant to have a happy life. Despite all the improvement I feel like I've become less of a person. I'm emotionally fucking dead. The only thing I'm even really capable of feeling anymore is anger and even that is fleeting. It's just the fucking apathy all the time. I lost my grandfather a while back and I was barely able to force myself to feel sad. I fucking loved the guy and I could hardly even feel sad when he was gone. I work 12 hours a day and devote the rest of my time to lifting and self improvement. At first I thought it would fix me but now it's just empty habit and knowing it's the logical thing to do. Maybe I still have some naive hope buried somewhere who knows. Anyway sorry for ranting on a Vietnamese Basket Weaving forum.
I've been interviewing for med schools the past few months and got rejected from one school yesterday, put on hold from another today and missed an interview wednesday because i legitimately thought it was on friday. probably not as upset as i should be because i kept expectations low but fuck if im not pretty bummed at the moment
Thing is, I don't see the point of anything. I will finish my studies in a year and after that I will simply become another pawn more of the workforce.
Is this all that life has to offer? Growing old as another one of the majority of miserable losers in the world?
I don't even know what to say. I'm a liar? Yea I tell people in my company I'm busy working on XY or Z and truth is sometimes I have downtime, and now I know for a fact that they are actually probably aware I'm not working on shit
I usually spend 4hrs of my day during my working hours on Veeky Forums going between Veeky Forums /r9k/ /biz/ /x/ etc...
I think the people at my company know now, I don't know how to feel about it anymore. I also get no respect anymore but truth is they can work for the rest of their life in some cushy job making more money than anyone in the US can even dream of meanwhile I'm making good money but for some reason I'm still not happy
Well, I'm lying again to myself, I know why I'm unhappy. I'm single, and have no friends in this state. I moved out here for business and things took off and I've done well
Fuck, not sure why I'm posting this tonight but i guess a lot has been on my mind
It's over, fuck new pussy and you'll feel better.
She's already getting new dick, likely was getting it before the breakup
The money stops being worth it at some point. Find your point
Just graduated uni
Moved back home
Bored as shit
Coming off my meds
Eating one or two meals a day tops
Get pissdrunk every night to cope
My only activities at this point is either playing viyda, going to the gym for 3-4 hours, and shitposting, I feel fucking empty on the inside.
What field you in?
Is this all that life has to offer? Growing old as another one of the majority of miserable losers in the world?
you can be a member of the workforce and be happy. I mean fuck son hobbies exist for a fucking reason.
Get a hobby, brother. Join a sports team or something
Studying might make you want to kill yourself, but Tranquility will actually kill you in the inside
Have absolutly no clue if the protein I will buy is fake.
The price is really good,but not "too" good.
Welcome to the club. Been feeling this way since my late teens. Only 22 now but man have things gone downhill fast. Once you have no friends you’re absolutely fucked for anything in life. Maslow’s hierarchy of needs is too true when you realize how shit and pointless life is without camaraderie from others.
The post-highschool crisis. I feel you, brother
Go watch some greatbigstories, really show you how the most mineal things can lead to satisfaction and contentment
completely agree. when shit hits the fan in other aspects of my life, i know all always have the discipline/motivation to keep up with my training. its a good feel desu
Undergrad finished almost a year ago, still no fulltime work, trying to get a job at a college so I can do my masters for free. Mostly over my shitty breakup from around the same time thanks to my ex getting her just deserts, swore off tinder though because it leaves me feeling pretty empty. Going to wait until I have more of the body I want, kinda skelly mode still, and also wait until I have a more solid income, but I'll probably try stuff like Catholicmatch. Good lucks bros, you're gonna make it.
Doing ok I guess? Got many job interviews today, but the psychologist really wanted to touch a nerve, I like to think I did ok.
I have been feling fine, I just want a well paying job, the last one is offering 1700 dollars monthly but I have to travel 1 hour (2 hour roundtrip) and no gym nearby, so I don't know how to feel about it.
I turn 21 at midnight, can I buy my beer now or do I have to wait?
I'm a Political Science major, gearing up to take the LSAT soon, but its mainly just being back home that sucks, I'd make the effort to move out, but I'm only going to be sticking around a year and a half tops so I'd rather just save on rent, utilities, etc. while I can. I used to play rugby back in school, but I got banged up pretty bad as much as I'd like to get back out there. I've been thinking about getting back into Jiu Jistu or something similar because the gym alone is rather boring now.
Things are actually going great. lifting is going pretty well, hips are becoming more mobile too, which is nice because it was a huge problem area for me. a friend told me that my ex-gf of like 8 months is dating someone else and i can't stop thinking about it. i know we weren't good together, and ive objectively become a better person since the breakup, but its still making me feel weird. wish i didn't feel this way
friend told me that my ex-gf of like 8 months is dating someone else and i can't stop thinking about it. i know we weren't good together, and ive objectively become a better person since the breakup, but its still making me feel weird. wish i didn't feel this way
It'll be OK man, I got cheated on and left for that guy. It's weird - disgusting, repulsive, and wrong but it happens and it will subside.
drinking and lifting
No bully but you should write a book
I've actually thought about doing some form of writing, I can feel my mind getting less sharp since school finished.
good luck man. im rooting for ya
I lifted for the first time in 2 years, thanks to being caught up with Uni studies. I used to be a fat fuck, but I lost 25 pounds when I worked out. Now, I saw that I regained 15 pounds
I forgot all my form, I couldnt even perform a 1 plate deadlift without feeling like my back snapping. Probably horrible form and weakened muscles.
I cant believe I let this happen to myself. I failed you, Veeky Forums
i was with a girl who did this and in retrospect it was a huge red flag. stoicism is important, and if she's willing to blurt out some huge emotion while drunk, she either doesn't mean it, or doesn't understand what love is. be wary user
A month into lifting
Started only being able to bench 25s and couldn't squat at all because my form was trash
Can now bench 1pl8 and squat 2pl8
Feels good because I can see my progress, obviously not aesthetic progress yet but am definitely moving on up in weights
Girl that has blown me off for weeks is still watching my social media posts despite me telling her I wasn't interested anymore and I was gonna delete her
Still not sure what to do about her
Only girls I can get on tinder are chubby chicks
Still a kissless virgin so part of me wants to hit some of them up just to get over the hump
Overall I'm doing good. I love it man, newbie gains fire me up.
Jiu jutsu sounds pretty rad, man
Are you in the country side? I cant really think why you would be bored if you are in the city, as there are ton of stuff/hobbies to do there.
If you are in the country side, try to pick up wood working or if you are dedicated, smithing.
Nothing makes my time go better than hanging out in the garage, trying to craft some stupid contraption all the time.
Obviously this is your decision to make but I felt exactly like you did at your age (currently 23). I joined the military and it solved basically all my problems. Still a kissless virgin but I have more friends than I know what to do with and the only reason I'm not out partying tonight is because I turned down 3 or 4 offers from friends because I'm feeling a little lazy.
Research it obviously, just giving you my experience.
I'm down 30 pounds dude. It gets easier. I went from 260-230 over the fucking holidays.
You just gotta think in time frames. What that is going to take you like two months to cut down?
Try a year.
Glad to hear. On a similar road as you. Only 19 but seems like I will be able to make a lot of money this year and finally lose the weight I've been trying to for about 3 years.
Probably the most serious I've ever been about weight loss and making money. I have cute thots come by me in the gym I could easily chat up, but fuck that other things are more important. I will try to get waifu over the summer when I'm around 190.
Nothing makes my time go better than hanging out in the garage, trying to craft some stupid contraption all the time.
I know this sounds rather weebish, but I've been trying to get back into building Gunpla, also I've been trying to do some odds and ends around the house more often, working with your hands is rather satisfying I'll admit.
Whenever a girl says vague/new age shit like this (i.e. "finding herself"), it means she's actively looking for new dick. Do yourself a favor and move on now; cut all contact. You'll be happier sooner.
t. that guy a few years ago
recovering from concussion
may be able to lift tomorrow, Sunday or Monday at the latest, finally
How many gains did I lose? Haven't lifted since NYE.
no youre wrong THIS TIME ITS DIFFERENT
what the fuck did you do new years eve?
Been having knee pains for the past couple of months during which I stopped lifting due to busier schedule. These past 2 weeks my schedule changed and I have been able to get back to lifting. Squats cured my knee pain surprisingly and now have a deeper love for squats.
Fuck I used to love Gunpla as a kid. Building a humanoid robot by hand was got me pumped up like anything.
Really wanted to get a full painting set and all.
Too bad my parents stopped me from doing all that since I left a pile of mess everywhere.
Still wish I could get back into it, if I wasnt so fucking caught up in my studies
Being concerned over thots at all and not goals
Goals are how you get "goals(heartface emoji)" my dude.
What you having?
How was your week?
It was okay. Tried to be productive around the house. Went to bed early a few times to develop a good sleeping habit even though I don't have obligations to wake up early for at the moment. Job prospects next week, will be nice to get back in the work force and stay busy.
Started a kettlebell routine yesterday, trying to capitalize on noob gains with it as much as I can. Gym here is too expensive with no job (rural area so they can charge an absurd amount). Just working with what I have. Thigh doms felt good this morning and it was nice knowing I beat myself up a bit.
It's been hard getting out of this rut I'm in ever since my dad passed in November but I'm trying. Some days are better than others.
rural area so they can charge an absurd amount
boy do i have news for you......
I’m really proud you were able to show strength in that scenario, truly a rare breed of man. I mean that, good job bro.
So, I need to kknow
The people on Veeky Forums a lot of you are also successful and have some type of career. How do you find purpose other than work?
Life is harder because of the choices I've made but that doesn't mean I can't turn it around
You're already working with a better mindset than most people. Keep at it.
constantly trying to be a better person i guess. I have this ideal in my head of the type of person I would like to be and always work towards that. If I do something that goes against that ideal, i usually feel like absolute shit, so the motivation becomes to not feel like shit.
im not as successful as some on here, but i think im pretty happy.
If you're unsatisfied/unchallenged it doesn't hurt to look at new prospects but it is good to remember that these days "good" companies that treat their employees right and have a good QOL are becoming harder and harder to find.
As long as you're back in the saddle and can self-reflect like you've just done you haven't failed.
I've slowly been getting myself back into it just building some HG and then just using Gundam markers for details, but I'm in the same boat and want to make the jump back into HG and painting again soon.
What are you implying?
that they charge even more in cities. at least for any halfway decent gym
Ah I'm stupid you're implying even in non-rural areas they can dick you. Yeah I get that but when I was living in LA I had a lot of options and didn't have to settle for a $40/month membership or nothing.
Then again I hadn't paid for a gym membership in literal years so maybe I'm just behind the curve and being dumb. I just looked up a cost at 24 Hour and it's the same as the gym here but I don't remember it being that ridiculous when I was a senior in high school. At least 24 Hour was a big space. The gym near me is as big as the convenience store its across from lol.
I'm probably just out of touch, honestly. Regardless I'm a broke bitch who has to make do for now.
The prices are insane here
I have to make myself go to this 15$/month low quality gym with 2 deadlift racks. I have to avoid the evening because the line is too long
At least it is not planet fitness tier gym, though.
how much do they charge?
Fucking goodlife can charge you for like 60$/month, although it is an extreme example.
Just keep working on it, and build some expert class PG gundams, my dude.
My job is great, money is good right now, I've got my own house, and just bought a car nice car. I don't worry about money and I am doing better financially than most, I am probably in a top income bracket for my age (26 years old). But, life fills empty and meaningless because I have zero social life and no friends. I have no female interaction. I'm afraid to go out to clubs or bars to meet girls because I'm balding terribly and am afraid I will simply be rejected.
you always have us user
I dont know what the hell I feel. I am normally a craft beer guy and I have been craving shitty lagers with lime.
Anyway, onto the lady troubles.
Girl A: I get along with her great and I am attracted to her however something doesnt feel right with her. Any time the "kiss the girl" moment comes around I never feel good about doing it.
Girl B: Ive known her for a while now and neither of us have been single at the same time as each other and we have always had awkward sexual tension and chemistry with each other. Over Thanksgiving she invited me out randomly after not talking for a while and she spilled her guts about her previous relationship. We ended up hooking up that night and a couple of times after that. However shes grown distant and I think I know why; Shes scared of me. Because of what I represent, a decent person who wont treat her like shit and someone she can fall in love with.
Girl C: She had a giant crush on me but didnt think too much of it but as I spent more time around her I grew to like her more and more. We bounce off of each other pretty damn well and have similar sensibilities, types of humor and, shes cute. However any time there is any sort of moment where we could have a moment something happens. Its like a romantic comedy or something that never fucking ends with them getting it on.
2018 got me focusing on the positives so here is mine for the week.
I’m in classes on economics of terrorism and environmental economics and I spoke to a professor about starting a class for next year on the economic impact of environmental terrorists and he was fascinated by the idea, really seemed like something where at worst, I’d study it myself and get three course credits for it and at best we would have a classroom of 40 future eco-terrorists. The guy was even appreciative of my book recommendations on the subject. Gonna be a fun year or two. Oh, and I also got a 130 GRE back in the mail on Wednesday so FUCK all y’all, I made it, watch the Fuck out Ivy League.
Anyway I’ll have 12 Long Island iced teas please
Is the internet an escape for gays, faggots and degenerates???
Fuck I'm so lonely.
My less attractive friends get more female attention than me.
I was called "really quiet" today.
I hate my personality.
Work is going great, great with my boss, meeting all deadlines, awesome people
Was chosen by my boss to go to a great work event (8 people per year) only 6 months into the job.
Pays well, able to finally save money
Getting Veeky Forums and dieting better
It's getting better each week. I've had a lot of horrible things happen recently, and a lot still coming, but at least things are progressing nice so once this fog lifts it'll be much brighter.
you're probably gay!
Life would be easier if I was.
Tfw in the past few months I’ve noticed something. me being sleep deprived (3-5 hours per night for weeks at a time) combined with still being on nofap from October 2017 PLUS every day I fuck around and end up taking about 1g of anhydrous caffeine makes me extremely high energy, on edge, focused, and people like me more. This is stupid as fuck but I feel like Sam Hyde levels of “what’s he gonna do now” energy. I go from chilling and listening to nice music and watching Birds one minute to throwing my full 32oz ice tea at a stop sign. I feel so alive though and I truly couldn’t care less about how much of a fag I sound like
user are you me
I feel like shit.
Had a breakup at the middle of 2017 and still haven't had any kind of IRL interaction with any women.
I have friends but they all have long time relationships. Got no one else to share the single life. I don't know how to get out of this loop.
I started getting Veeky Forums since the breakup, thankfully still on it. But I need social gains and I have no idea how.
Got some matches on tinder but... idk, the one girl that I got her number... I ghosted her I don't even know why. I think I'm afraid. It all seems meaningless... Somehow. I'm a dumbass.
Oh well, another friday night alone.
I don't feel good about life. I don't feel good about my accomplishments. When I graduated college, I remember entering the final-final exam with certainty that I would pass every class and get the diploma. I immediately found something to be annoyed about. There was no moment of relief after completion. The ceremony was fucking chore too, the robe was choking me the entire time. I found a job in my field. I fucking hate it and hope to retreat to NEETdom once I can muster the passive income.
I've been going to BJJ 4 times a week for 2 years now. It often feels more like a chore than something to be enjoyed. It's like a commitment that I must adhere to, not a treat that I get do. People are congratulating me on my progress and how I'm developing, but all I can think about is hitting that number of 4 times a week.
At what point should I be concerned about my mental well being? I was just thinking today about how little I enjoyed reaching a long term monetary goal. I'm not enjoying the on-paper success that is my life situation. I know some of you have felt like this. What did you do?
Week was good honestly I started nofap and have been feeling good working out every other day just took my gf and her sister out for dinner and drinks was a good time hope you guys keep seeing improvements in your life it's all gradual but we will all make it.
Quit being a retard and learn how to talk to people.
I was the definition of high school shooter but have turned into a "witty, charismatic, handsome motherfucker" not my words but a mire from social gains.
how does one acquire social gains
gym 4-6 pm
then to a party at one friend's apartment
hit myself in the head at full speed there
headaches a couple of days later
go to ER
Confidence curls X AMRAP
Honestly, getting fit and lifting was the first time i ever had self discipline and fortitude like that. It feels good to know ive got that fire if its something i really care about
im eating chicken on a Friday night but i don't mind this new cajun seasoning is the bomb dot com
$40/month but it's literally the size of a convenience store. From pictures they have I see machines but don't know what the rack/bench situation is. It is a plus that it's 24/7 card access and down the road from my house and it may be a necessity in the future when I'm employed but not right now.
Set a new PR for my OHP (115lbs) and I'm pretty stoked, besides that I've got to say for the first time in my life my jimmies got really rustled over politics while listening to the radio. I heard about Trump saying something about countries like Haiti and El Salvador being shitholes and everyone flipping shit over it. Is everyone whose flipping shit just dishonest or castrated? Have they not ever said something like that in their entire lives before? For the first time I actually connected with Trump because he was talking like "one of the guys" and now people are trying to crucify him for it. I just can't help but think "What if that were me?"
Have 2 shots of whiskey brush your teeth like a motherfucker and bam you have the job yourwelcome.
Gym bro has been "sore" for the past few days and I really love alcohol. Need to get back on track.
10 months with Qt3.14 gf tho
Talk to people even if you feel uncomfortable or watch others talk and mimic what they are saying.
However think about what youre saying though, if you would feel comfortable talking about here think twice before saying it. Not everyone has the sensibilities of strangers on a Cambodian Underwater Basket Weaving Forum
I smashed this cute twink I met on grindr 3 times tonight before he left home. But I didn't use a condom and now I'm sorta shook. Also Veeky Forums has ruined me because he had a tiny waist + crazy broad shoulders and I had a few moments where I wanted to tell him to start lifting cause he had the body for it
You don’t capitalize on noob gains. They’re there no matter one. Some people milk them faster than others.
I'm not sure I have a confident bone in my body. I can conversate with no problem, but I guess I just emanate a pathetic vibe.
Just worked like 84-85 hours this week as a pediatric resident. I fucking hate inpatient service. I've only worked out like 5 times in the past month. A couple months ago, I hit 370x5 on squat. Last night, doing some high bar beltless squats for 245x5 was actually difficult. Don't go to med school. Med school and residency is just a fucking gains goblin. And I say that as a PEDS resident. My program works us fairly hard, but pediatrics is usually less demanding than a lot of other specialties. Most surgery residents have this glazed over look, like they used to want to kill themselves but they're too apathetic to even think about it anymore.
But yeah, I used to be strong and happy and now I just want to get high and kill myself. I would quit if I didn't have 180k of debt. I should have done physical therapy or something instead.
Talk to people even if you feel uncomfortable or watch others talk and mimic what they are saying.
My problem is I'm the guy who wants to stand there and just be the observer rather than talking to these people i want to watch their social interactions
You know what taking a break means for a chick right?
I made tinder for the first time today
I got 33 matches (unmatched with 2) and got super like by 1
How normal is this? Am I chad anons? My pics are just 2 face selfies
Im just really fucking horny ever since losing my v card. That’s about it.
Probably the best feeling that its gone bros. I just feel like a fucking animal now.
nice. tell us the story
All I see ahead is doom.
So whats preventing you from talking with someone else? Don't place that person on a pedestal. Everyone is a fucking idiot, there are no perfect people. Disagreeing is ok but don't be a douche about it.
Again, same thing I am going to reiterate. Just throw your shit out there, if no one listened to what you said DO NOT ACKNOWLEDGE IT BUT continue the conversation. You can reference what you have said in the past to make that person feel like an ass for not acknowledging what you said but do not draw attention to it.
Fat girls dont count.
Talking to girl I'm sitting next to this semester
She's very friendly, laughs at my autistic humor, touches my hand, general good vibes
Intended to get her number/make plans for Saturday today
She minimizes her computer window and there's a blown-up picture of some dude kissing her
Getting real sick of this shit. How are you supposed to meet girls who are single and not insane sluts? Literally my only two requirements at this point. EVERY girl I've gotten friendly with will be going along with it, then say "oh, I have a boyfriend!" and act shocked that I'd even ask them if they have plans.
Workout today was shit too, I barely slept and felt like I was going to pass out halfway through.
Not feelin the love today.
What are u studying and how are ur grades? Could be worth dropping out for a wwhile while u sort ur shit out
Just some water tonight.
Things are going well. Moving into my new place tomorrow, engineering coop starts Tuesday. Nervous and excited, first real job in my field, excited to not have homework and have a break from uni. Also none of my friends live close so it’ll be a semester of self improvement, focusing on myself and achieving my goals outside of work. Already started reading more, meditating and lifting, lost 35 lbs. I can’t wait to see what I can accomplish in another 6 months. Wish me luck bros.
I was just trying to get the super like in the screenshot, sadly the 2 fatties were next to her. I matched with plenty of cute girls
if you can't handle country music then you can't handle me
be better user
I've been enlisted to become a army officer in Australia. Dislocated my shoulder two days ago and I'll probably get medical discharged.
I'm so fucking pissed that I've ruined this opportunity
it gets easier. stick with it anonbro.
H-How cute was he?
Just realized we are not the gifted and smart ones in society. The normies are right all along
They have earned the right
This is why tinder is an an absolute train wreck for guys. Its a fucking cock slave trade. We're 100% at their mercy on this shit. You ever notice how most girls fill their bio with the same shit (if they even bother writing one in the first place)?
I love food! And animals! And travelling!
God I hate this shit. I hate feeling like I'm the one who is being measured and not the both of us.
fuuck that's shit, I'm halfway through enlisting, and I'm worried that some stupid shit will disqualify me.
Dislocated my shoulder and bruised my knees from a fall at work a couple days ago. Today my dog that I've had since I was 11 couldn't stand up on his own because his arthritis has gotten so bad (he's 14 years old) so I realized that in the next couple of months I'll have to have him put down. A little broken up about that because he's my oldest friend. To make things worse I cant go to the gym and lift away the feels because injuries. At least i get to see my girlfriend tomorrow. Bought her a necklace and i hope she likes it
Teach me your secrets. Are you just like 6'4" and ripped? Or is there more to this?
Dont fall for that shit man, most of the tinder users are non-commital and vapid whores who use it for their own self-confidence. Super Likes are usually an accident anyway, ive super liked people on accident before.
What do you really want to do in life user?
Doesnt matter even if you know 100% she isnt looking for dick, she is. Just cut all contact and find someone new
Those are gigachad stats user
Current complaint is my roommate and longtime best friend has been acting like a bitch since he got a girlfriend. He has her over all the time and makes grotesque PDAs in front of me, and constantly makes uncharacteristic jabs about me being alone. Half-joked once about them making me sick to look at and he got super pissed so I've just been avoiding them as much as possible.
In confirmation that the world is cruel, she literally walked up to him when he was studying in a library and asked if he'd like to see a movie. She's a solid 8 and he's an autistic soy manlet.
Venturing into r9k territory here but I've come to believe they derive pleasure from it. Women by nature are more socially attuned than men, and place more emphasis on acceptance within their social group, which usually means supporting an ego to at least some extent (not saying men don't do this but it's very widespread with women). Pretending to ignore the flirting/signals of a guy equal or lower than her current bf makes her feel desired, the same way most guys get perverse enjoyment out of mogging others. Everyone likes to feel good about themselves and women are much more frequently in a position to derive such validation in manners that hurt men, whether or not they realize it (I like to think most don't but there are some thots with very real superiority complexes). If they exaggeratedly acted skocked or disgusted they probably belong to the second camp: again, women are naturally more socially skilled, and can read your intentions like an open book, no matter how dumb they play.
Props on that progress. Remember this feeling and try to come back to it when you feel discouraged.
All you can do is continue living. A sense of dread is healthy, anyone who's suppressed it is suppressing what makes them human, if you ask me.
Reminder to drink water
start lifting, getting in great shape
get a haircut, shave
take care of skin, brush teeth, change wardrobe
tell myself this the day
be out in school/public/church, see a qt girl
sit next to them or approach
mfw mind goes blank everytime and don't know what to say or do
mfw happens when a girl comes to talk to me as well
Whats wrong with me? Am I autistic?
This is my problem as well.
What the fuck is the first step? "Hey I'm user, nice weather isn't it"? I feel so confident in my abilities until I actually have to interact with girls.
think of the regret you'll have after if you don't talk to her vs how you'll feel if you do
do you work out in the mornings? I find I give less of a fuck if I've already worked out and approaching is much easier
What the fuck is the first step? "Hey I'm user, nice weather isn't it"?
Yeah that's literally it.
Rejection is ok, keep that in mind.
potentially office fwb
How do I stop my addiction to sex? So often has it happened where I'm talking to 5 different women at the same time, all while I'm trying to fit them in my schedule for the week because who the fuck has sex for only 1 hour
Do psychiatrists deal with my shit? I'm worried she might get attracted to me too and I'll end up having 1 more hole to fill.
u know that keeping firewood in your house is dumb, right?
Thats the thing guys, I do say hi and do small talk but eventually I just go blank and don't know what to do next, next thing I know she starts avoiding me or it never goes past acquaintance and I start to feel like I'm trying to force myself into someone elses life
"I'll show you a board"
closeup of you grabbing crotch
I'm realizing more and more that I want to be a social worker.
It's a 30 dollar an hour gig, but you need to be compassionate and understanding. From what I've heard, there really needs to be more men in the field, there's too many women and woman act like nurses and tell people what to do, whereas men just shoot the shit with people and listen to them when they feel like opening up.
It seems to be my calling, and at 25 years old and realizing what I want to do with my life feels really good
looked at back using two mirrors to get a better view
saw for the first time that I have fat pancaking over the sides of my pants a little bit, in addition to the belly that's been getting larger
That's it, I'm done memeing.
I'm shopping tomorrow to get a few things like food that i'll need and my first real workouts in years begin on Sunday.
took leave to go home
girl i met last December wanted to go out
we went out and nothing really happened, got frustrating at first cause nothing happened
i still went out a few more times cause she still threw thirsty hints but nothing happened
leave is about to be over do she gets really sentimental telling me all of this shit that she felt comfortable with me and trusted me
i was being relaxed and laid back idk just being myself honestly
i was pretty upset i didnt score man
ok back to my life
she wont shut up about missing me
her feelings get the best of her and she wants to see me
be last month
week of Christmas
didn’t think she was serious at first
she fucking did it
pick her up
we go out doing couple shit and i show her my favorite spots like Virginia Beach and DC
now we get intimate
i eat her out
it was fucking great
holy shit, the warmth, our heartbeats, the breathing
her legs, her arms wrapping tighter around me
her pussy squeezing my dick with each stroke while im inside her guts
im just melting inside its such a rush
we become official after that
Aww man. After the fact i just feel like a normal person now, it was one of the best feelings ive ever felt. And im just craving more and more.
I didn’t do any of that stupid nofap shit either man. Had a huge deal of rejections beforehand but It was in my court this time and I enjoyed every stroke of it. Im just feeling excited thinking about it.
I feel normal, shit lol
HELP ME OUT BROS
Ask for number or date or some shit. Doesnt matter how smooth you are, some girls just like that they are asked. If they deny you thats their loss, not yours.
and this is why I'll never hire a prostitute just for the sake of losing the v-card
good job bro
Tell her all you eat is chicken breast so you're literally chicken.
brah I'm horrible at doing the texting thing, I've gotten that far before and it usually ends at this point because I cannot get a point across over text and I'm pretty bad at talking over the phone too. Someone suggest to me that I try to meet girls through a group dynamic, I just need to make friends now
She has HIV
the five last lines of the greentext
feels bad man
BEcause I consume considerable amounts of chicken, and would like that you consider consuming chicken with me.
SHould she not respond, hit her wit tha 'pls respond'
I've worked in shitty minimum wage jobs for years and I'm just sick of it. I want to leave but I don't think I can. I've been at my current job for so long that I've gotten to the point where I feel like I'm gonna be stuck working shit jobs forever.
I dropped out of college because I realized that I was wasting my time taking classes and just not knowing what I wanted to major in. Now all I do is just work in a shit job with shitty high school drop outs. I'm always tired and I'm always embarrassed when I see someone I went to high school with come in the place.
I wish I could just figure out what I want to do with my life.
What do you like to do? What are you good at?
Don't be a dickhead like me. Stay away from all contact sports even basketball and you'll be right.
Develop feels for best friend a month ago
Don't know what to do
Eventually have to ask her
Get rejected, can't see us as more than friends
Fucks me up all week
Can't eat, can't sleep
Think I want space, but going a day without talking makes me feel even worse because we've been such close friends for so long
See her other day
Were just going to spend a short time together
Didn't know if I could stay friends after
End up spending almost 5 hours just chatting and walking, she ends up an hour late for another commitment, kept going to leave then keep talking
She'd been going through the exact same shit, couldn't eat or sleep, feeling terrified of meeting that day
Been able to talk things through honestly and totally
Both of us feel a lot better
Think I'll be able to get past this with time
She says her final goodbye
Catching up next week
Gives me a hug
Then she tells me she loves me
And all of a sudden I feel in turmoil again. I don't even know what the fuck. Rejection is one thing, but this is something else.
Thanks. Well i did that too before i got with her, but i just got my dick sucked and I couldn’t get hard for the whore. Wasn’t pleased
@Garbage Can Lid
I don't do much.
I just work a lot.
I have thought about getting a IT cert and going for a help desk job.
Chin up bro
I've got my assessment session in a week or so, so I don't even know if I'll get in far enough to get discharged yet lol
Week has been filled with lower back pain restricting my gym sessions to strictly cardio and assisted lifts/machines.
Dominating the weigh in my friends are holding at the gym tomorrow and hopefully going on a date that night and taking her back home.
My year entirely depends on tomorrow
find out ex-gf who im in weird situation with is on tinder again
her being on tinder goes against literally everything said she to me about why we were breaking up
new girl ghosting me
army has ads and recruitment drives promoting the athletics and sports of the army
aim it at teenagers who play sport
literally know noone who played contact sport in highschool and qualified medically
only cunts i know who got in were sedentary kids who didn't even touch a footy in their life.
to work on ourselves
It's fine man, she needs to experience other cocks.
She'll probably never come back to you, but at least maybe one day you'll find some whore who will take you for the cuck you are.
As you were...
10 days until finals
haven't studied anything
wasted 13 days already watching LOST
Fuck my life...
I left the hospital today. I have thrombosis on my femoral vein. Doctors doesn't know why. I was smoking a lot after losing my job. And I've being 3 months on Isotretinoin, so that could be the cause too. My cat is missing (she has 13ys). And I have 6 months ahead taking expensive as fuck anticoagulants. So life sucks. And everything after hitting 180kg on the squats.
what's tomorrow brah?
Good and bad.
Was able to work all week for ewxtra dough
Nailed my sollicitation yesterday aswell, got the job.
On monday I have to go to class for 2 weeks first thou
If I dont go to this or can't I'll have to wait 2 months to start
Also had stomach pains since wednesday after hitting 100kg for reps PR but not to bad
Go to doc yesterday, she was worried af a'd send me to the ER
Get operated within 3 hours
Severe intestinal hernia and intestines were all scrambled up (I lost 70kg)
Surgeon will see me in a few hours
Hope he says I can go to work on monday but last time I got this I was out for a week.
If I can't go to work I wont have enough money for a downpayment on new appt next month (lease ends)
Already had to cancel waiting side job this weekend
Wont be able to eat solids for a week.
My nurses are qt as fuck thou.
Women after breakups go into whore mode user. She's a thot now.
You don't know any grunts, I bet.
Define "stupid shit". Might be able to put your mind at ease.
Remember this feeling, rootin for you user
I have orthotic insoles in my shoes because of hereditary bunions, which can cause a bit of pain (it's easily bearable so I've told them that they don't hurt at all), but i know they can be really picky medically.
yeah, it's just weird as fuck. her being on there means she lied about either not ever having sex with a dude she wasn't in a relationship with, or that she wasn't looking for one for a while.
meanwhile she messages me, plays hot and cold rubbish, buys me christmas presents etc. smfh
there are no mental health problems in my immediate family, myself included, but I have an uncle who kms'd himself like 30 years ago, will they think I'm fucked in the head bc of him? or am I just being paranoid?
I know a few people who wear orthotics, but I don't know if they had them when they enlisted or after. So not much help.
Did they bring up your medical history at your YOU session or during the medical when you had your formal interview?
Just got back to my room after driving my drunk friends to a bar
My other friends are constantly shitting on me for being a hermit basically only ever leaving my room for work and the gym
This is mainly because the girl I have been talking to has ruined me with the games she played and how hard she lead me on
Told her to fuck off but now I'm just depressed because I have literally 0 female attention
Friend who is a dyel constantly shits on me with "just be confident bro, get on tinder!"
Got on tinder, have 0 matches still despite being taller than my friend and waaaaay bigger
Must be personality
Nothing I can do about that
nah know a few, and they were all the same. most guys i know who went for it got rejected on weird shit.
I haven't had the formal interview and full medical and psych assessment yet, but the nurse at the YOU session asked, but didn't really make any comment about it. Other than that I am legit medically perfect, only one real injury that was a fracture when i was really little
They'll take it under consideration. Ace your interview and know everything backwards. They want to see you're mentally stable Showing you're well prepared for the interview will demonstrate you're committed to the job and are stable enough of mind to know what you're getting into.
take better pics
tinder is all about photos bruh. make yourself interesting in your photos and you look busy. busy people come across as like they're cool and any time they give you attention it means more because they have less of it.
that's my theory on it anyway
check'd. Does she break up with you? Or was you?
If she did it is 100% sure that she was trying (or doing it) to fuck with some other guy. Most women can't be alone user. And having a vagina makes girl to have a lot of men after her (even 6/10 chicks and grows exponentially with hotter chicks).
Be careful with her man. If you can fuck her do it. But don't get emotionally involved with her again. And DON'T BELIEVE any of the shit she told you AFTER the breakup. ANY.
I've been preparing like crazy because I know ADFA (don't tell the mods) is super competitive. If I don't get that I'll try for general entry.
That's beyond strange. I can't speak for the entire Regiment, but I'd hazard upwards of 95% of the lads I work with have played sports and have been physically active prior to enlistment.
By being too tired after work to think about it
yep she dumped me. the thing is, she was insanely upset when she did it. it wasn't like it was because of another guy. she was hysterically crying and sobbing for like 2+ hours. then it got to a point where i had to just leave, and came back a few days later and got the same hysterical sobbing.
we still hang out sometimes, and she does weird shit. last time we hung out, we were sitting like right next to each other with our legs completely touching with no hesitance, at one point she's sitting facing me on a couch with a dress on and her legs open just enough to see up it. weird shit. then buys me and only me a christmas present. not her best friends, not anyone else.
frankly i reckon she just wants to have her cake and eat it too. i know she finds me very funny and entertaining, and looks to that when she wants it but still reckons some fucking male model will come out and scoop her up. all my m8s say the new girl i'm seeing is at least 3 points better than the ex and if anything becomes official, i would love for her to see it.
Same thing happened to me. Thank you for the advice user. I still text me ex although I want to officially move on. Only thing holding me back is that she’s suicidal and asks me to calm her down at times
Then she tells me she loves me
OH man. She seems like a bipolar bitch. Don't fuck her!!! Stay away from her. And your ex was seing someone else. The crying and all the shit was because of the guilt she felt. I would bet my right ball to that. Probably he left her of something, or most likely he only wants to fuck and dump her and now she wants you to keep you close. Just in case. My ex fiance did the same shit. I still remember her telling me while she was crying and sobbing like a child "I never lied to you. I lied to the other guy". Fucking thot. That shit is craved in my soul. Good luck with your new girl user.
welcome to a harsh reality that confronts most people who are no robots in modern western society. you are alone & life can seem meaningless. Don't let it beat you down. Pursue goals, stay interested & interesting, life has a way of surprising us but you gotta do some hard yards sometimes. You can probably only expect 2-3 real close friends in your life ever & that's just a reality the zeitgeist finds unpopular. Don't be disheartened by a false or unrealistic expectations pushed on you by the machine to make you feel inadequate & make you consume & buy & buy again. There is nothing wrong with you.
Oneitis likes me, alot. I dont know how I didnt fuck this up, but I'm over the moons boys. Feels very good for once. I am so happy tonight!
Seriously man. Why the fuck does she said something like that?
Started my last semester of college, still have yet to break into any field I wanted to - even an internship. I'll have to move if I really want to make something of myself in any industry I wanted to go into.
Senior project is to create game assets that can be ported into Unity/UE4. Massive undertaking, I have so much on my plate. And no one else in the entire design department has a single clue what I'm doing.
I had to fight the head of the department all week before he finally decided it was enough actual work to consider it.
Just make some time for yourself, your family will understand if you just had some time alone
good on you user, hope it goes well for you
My ex was the same way, all sad and weepy and blah blah blah, they're sad because they do have some kind of emotional attachment and it is a break, but they want different attention and dick now because our society has made that an option.
After my ex got dumped by the new guy for not losing weight, she tried to come back to me and get me to go out for drinks for a 'cathartic' conversation she'd been thinking about 'for a long time' (IE since she got dumped the week before, or in the back of her head thinking about if this new thing didn't work out). I'm glad I have good friends who helped me see through her manipulative shit. She wanted to be back in my secure arms or wanted to twist my chain for the emotional thrill/satisfaction and have some disgusting post breakup, parasitic relationship. Told her I didn't need closure that badly and that I knew she got dumped, sealed her and all her friends off from my life. She was totally blind to the fact that after all the vile shit her friends did to me after the break up (spread rumors, tried to file a false police report) she thought I would even think about coming back into that life.
Be present in your daughters lives, don't raise entitled whores
I feel on edge and irrationally angry despite my life bring pretty good at the moment.
i've seen bipolar hysterics and it wasn't that level. it was like if you had to break up with someone for reasons outside of your control like moving away. it was that level. that's what makes me think it was having her cake and eating it too. plus she seems to be someone who collects beta orbiters; even one of her good friends seems to be a total beta orbiter who tried to fight my friend when he spoke to her the night i met her.
You did the right thing man!
Dude ignore those feeling get a job build-up some money and go travel, take new hobbies
Your job won't be your life it's just a means to an end
tfw 24 and only 2nd year of Uni
fuck breh, mine isn't anywhere near that level. i mean i wanted her back but it was always going to be an issue for that reason as yours; i have good friends who see through her shit. they fucking hate her and would probably abuse her to the point of tears if they saw her meanwhile she seems to think that they like her. i told her a couple of them saw her at the store one day and she genuinely asked "why didn't they come and say hi?"...like wtf
Wishing you luck user
The very best of luck
I got a Dear John letter yesterday, I was going to engage when I got back from deployment. I'll take 4 double shots of the cheapest tequila you have.
why didn't they come and say hi?
I swear to God dude, I went from sadness to anger when that happened for me. @King_Martha
All that shit didn't do it, but when my ex thought she could not just be all friendly with my friends, but get them to be the new guys friends to, I lost my shit. So, for the month of school that was left (HAHA she dumped me right before senior project was due and right before the crazy party graduation month HAHAHAHAHAHAHA) my friends let her think, kept me keyed in for that last month, only reason I didn't get fucked by the false report. Good guys, fuckin ripped her apart over the summer when she kept messaging them to hang out with the new guy. Your nignogs are your most important asset.
user, you be dust and ashes someday
Either shave or get hair replacement therapy
Find a activities group nearby and admit to yoself you don't feel confident.
I believe in you. I really do
My week was fucking great
Great feedback from customers at work (B2B tech sales)
Changed from short cut to slow bulk and strength routine to size one (so Upper/lower with short sets to longer sets basically) since I've stalled on 3/4/5,5
Going out to play pool with this cute, smart girl next wed
Slept like a baby, I ordered 2 new pillows that contour around your head and a few sets of rougher sheets for my queen size bed
Just had a pot of coffee, soon to the gym
Then buy some stuff to make pizza, grab a beer or two and play HOMM3 with friends
Winter outside with heavy snow
Life is fugging great
that's mental. she doesn't talk to any of them but seems to think they're all on friendly terms - especially her and my m8s gfs who all thoroughly dislike her for what she did to me.
all in all, i dont think this girl intends to be mean. she's just insanely unaware of everything she does and how it comes across. she probably thinks the break up was easy, pain free and no fuck around at all.
Classes at uni are going pretty good. There's a cute tomboy at the cafeteria Every morning doing work. I see her as I'm getting breakfast before class. I want to talk to her but I don't want to make an sad of myself in a cafeteria of like 100 people. She's always sitting at a table alone.
I'm great at talking to people in classes and stuff
She's always sitting at a table alone.
Fuck user! Go and sit with her! You're not a pussy! I believe in you.
tfw lifting made my gyno worse
I want to die
I can't eat enough food
I can't stick to/afford a week long meal plan
I might have to change my goals
Also the thought of going back to uni makes me want to kill myself
How're we going fellas
I can't speak Kiira Korpi. Can anyone translate that shit?
She's always sitting at a table alone.
Your dubs say eat with her or lose all your gains for the year.
Do it bitch. Weak men create hard times.
What is stopping you from eating chicken and rice 7 days a week?
I found out Im an alcoholic.
I thought I was missing my friends since I havent seen then in a while, but what I miss is just drinking, I just didnt feel happy about seeing them again I just want an excuse to drink.
Im worried about this, I havent drink in months but I think about every weekend and the worst part is that I have money and live alone so I don't even want to get a beer.
She's always doing homework but I'll try
Just do it user. I would love to eat next to a qt tomboy.
Yesterday I hopped on instagram to add a new drawing and saw that I had a like from my ex.
She dumped me four months ago in a disgusting way and the last time I saw her was just before christmas in someone elses arms.
She didn't acknowledge me then and throughout our whole time apart I never received a single bit of contact from her and I would have literally killed for anything from her, even a fart in my direction.
In a single moment all these thoughts rushed into my mind.
Does she miss me?
I have her blocked on facebook, how did she find this account?
Why is she looking at my shit
Is she just being friendly?
And then I blocked her on that too. It's not much, but it's a little victory to myself. After that I broke my PR on deadlifts and organised meeting an old fwb in Greece for a couple of months of olive oil and fugging.
We're all going to make it bros
Tough shit. If you wana make it, that isn't an excuse for using the word "can't." There is an infinite amount of marinades and rubs to use on chicken. There are numerous ways to prepare rice. Your little picky elementary school mindset isn't a "can't" excuse. You CAN shovel the same shit into your mouth every day to make it, you choose not to. Do you think your ancestors said "oh mommy I can't eat this it's BORIIIIIIIIIIIING!" No, they ate it or they died. Sack the fuck up.
I feel like I'm going crazy. She's been with me through so much shit. We know each other so closely. She's the only person I trust absolutely and honestly could tell anything without fear of judgement. And she says that. I can't hate her. I can't stop being friends with her. Even chatting less than usual is painful, and I didn't like going without talking back before the feels either. Every direction in this looks equally as painful as right now.
I've got a date with some girl next week, but even the thought of it actually makes me feel sick. I just want to bury my head in the sand and scream. What am I meant to do?
Lads, I did something embarrassing and kinda awful a year ago that ended up cause my gf of 3 years to break up.
I'm over it at this point (we even had a 9 month FWB period where we just fucked basically every week) and I've since hit the gym and looking for a martial art to train.
But, what do I do if someone asks how my ex and I broke up? The truth might make people question my sexuality and all I want is to be a dad (which my ex never wanted to be a part of).
How do I go about with this pain in my chest that I can never tell a soul about? I'm making excellent gains and I'm about to go searching for a new gf, but what do I do lads?
Seriously, the stress of this is causing me to drink heavily and I want it to stop.
Confess anonymously, and accept that people make mistakes.
Things haven't been going to well. Finishing my last semester of school for Theatre Production. It's been three years, and I'm finally on the last stretch, but the program is really starting to get to me. Every semester I'm there for 70 hours a week working on these shows they put on, and doing school work, and it's getting to the point where it's destroying my morale. They keep cucking me with work and it's bullshit. I wanted to be a filmmaker, which is why I went into Theatre, but I think film and theatre are completely degenerate now, and I can't morally support both industries. So for the past 2 years after getting redpilled, it's just killing my soul, and it's been hard balancing gym and school for the past week due to my mood. I did squat 185lbs 3reps this week, so I was pretty hyped about that. I hope to improve on that more.
My girlfriend and I are still going strong, though my mood as affected my interactions with her sometimes. She keeps telling me to talk about my feelings, but I find expressing my feelings to be weak and embarrassing, and I hate having to talk about them. Maybe this will come to pass.
Financially I'm ok, though I will be going to a job fair soon for trades to get something going for the summer. Overall, I just need to find some inner peace to get through these last 3 months.
Did you suck a dick?
I feel like I'm wasting my life away at college and at work. I feel like I could do so much more if I joined the army but then I would never be able to achieve my dreams
Just started lifting again after my last 2 half ass attempts failed because Iacked motivation. Now I'm determined to eat right and not stop. Hit the gym Monday and Wednesday and felt good up until this morning. Intended on going today but felt a stabbing pain in shoulder when I breathed in and tricep is super sore. Think I over exherted myself so I'm taking it easy until next weak. Any advice on preventing injury? (I'm skinny as fuck btw)
what do I do if someone asks how my ex and I broke up?
Fuck user, you sound like some kind of pussy bitch ass nigga. Just tell them "I want to have children and she doesn't". How in the fucking world will that answer make people question your sexuality?.
Stop being a beta faggot, find some girl and impregnate her!
What am I meant to do?
honestly, tell her the truth. If you're that close, she'll understand. Maybe she could use a good push herself, either to fuck off or just quit playing games and date you. Tell her you can't keep doing this because its not good for you, it's fucking you up.
Probably a dozen.
Got a cold, and I'm almost over it. Can't wait to get back to the gym
not posting the truth
I'm in India on business and got both my first loose bowel movement and my first mosquito bite yesterday.
Doing pretty well seeing as i've been here since Weds and have been eating nothing but local food
No. I catfished a dude out of loneliness and seeking validation. I was fat, depressed, and living with my ex's family who were all batshit crazy. I had to bury their dog, who was 4 days dead when I buried her - dad was too much of a violent drunk to finish the job properly. It's eyes were already rotted out of its skull and the smell still haunts me.
I'm living by myself now away from her and I feel the healthiest I've been (lost 65 pounds, consistently hitting PRs, getting mires since I am finally somewhat fit AND I apparently won the face lottery), but the fact that I manipulated some poor asshole online when I was fat, depressed, and with no way of leaving my personal hell is weighing on my conscience.
Wouldn't that be a deadlift?
I REMEMBER YOU!!!!!
You posted that crap. Shit was a long time ago. But I fucking remember you.
Correction: HER dad, not mine
I don't remember ever sharing this ever. lol
Then you're not the first one user. I swear by the mighty Thor that some user did the same shit a looong time ago. Even made the poor bastard bought him shit. He sents him somes panties and pics of some random chick.
Holy shit. I never went that far. That kinda makes me feel better, actually.
Seriously, how should I go about this though? Should I just never tell anyone again? Just say "yeah, my ex didn't want kids"?
Yes man. That answer is manly as fuck and has a lot of truth too. Don't overthink about the other shit tho. Was some autistic shit you did in the past. Maybe in time, you will find some people to share that shit and laugh about it.
Trying my balls off to get into law enforcement. Gym every other day no matter what. Entrance requirments in this state are fucking military level.
Been doing firearm work, target shooting. stress training, wrapping all that in with still working a 60hr a week job and gym every other day for about 2 hours, lifes just busy as fuck. glad I'm single, but pretty lonely at times.
I'm there cardio wise, but the free weight stuff is going to be a night mare. Need to put on 80 lbs on my bench. Guess that's what I get for literally never taking it seriously.
Drinking busch light tho, my daily 2-3
Need to put on 80 lbs on my bench. Guess that's what I get for literally never taking it seriously.
Follow some russian strength training routine (Most are made for squats but change that for bench press).
Any suggestions? been doing starting strength style stuff.
Thanks user. I appreciate it. Really I do. You made me feel a little more whole again. I'll be sure to remember that when I go out again and I'm balls deep in some waifu bait. If only I knew you, I'd get you a beer.
Been going to the gym for a month, feel somewhat better. Sub consciously I still feel like a piece of shit because of how dysfunctional my family is and the stress from school. I've been practicing piano on and off this week and learned a new song.
Girl I like doesn't really say hi to me anymore, I want to talk to her again but she's always sitting with her friends after lunch and I keep pussying out from asking her out or talking to her at the end of class. I don't even know where to go for a first date, movies would suck because you don't talk.
I don't know what to do. People will either tell me to man up or fuck off, and I really want to try but I can't bring myself to. I fucking hate myself.
No prob man! Good luck with everything. And seriously user, you already pay the debt with all the anxiety and the stress you felt until today. It's time to forgive yourself and see the funny side of that shit you made!!
Smolov squat routine is good. Kinda tough but the strength gains are god tier.
Understood. Headed to bed. Tomorrow's leg day. I'm gonna make it, user.
Would it be too much for someone who has been out of the gym for awhile. My bench is no joke, pathetic. it is and has always been my worst lift and desu I wanted to find some rope when I got back in and saw how bad it was this time.
We've been chatting pretty much constantly about it today and we spent hours talking about it yesterday. I think she has a good idea of how I feel. She was pretty clear about her position. She said she couldn't wrap her head around us being such close friends, and that the thought it would lead to sexual intimacy made her confused, and that she didn't want to risk losing me as a friend if it didn't work out after a few months. And then she says she loves me, and I'm trying to convince myself she meant it as a friend but fuck. I'm seeing her next week, likely a day after the date, if I even go through with it. I can't keep doing this, and I feel like I can't live without her. I think I might just have to tell her I love her. I don't even know how to approach that. I've been through dating and brief relationships and that, but I've never felt like this about someone. It's fucking killing me.
I'll have some whiskey with ice thanks
Broke up with gf of 3 years in october. Been fucking random girls and getting wasted every weekend, but I got back into lifting. I feel like I'm getting my life back on track but also miss her since random bitches leave me with nothing after fucking them. Also there's been this girl in my friends group which keeps talking to me, sending me messages and mixed signals. Told her I'm not looking for anything serious since I'm not ready for a relationship yet but she keeps sending me messages and asking me to meet and stuff like that.
Life's ok I guess
Does she likes y? If so give her a try man. Who knows? What if she's a cool girl. It's to move on from your ex user.
I'm already sabotaging every half-relationship I have since I keep thinking about my ex. I feel like if I'm thinking about my ex while out with another girl things wouldn't work out
Still going out with this chick
Last time i was thinking heavily about the ex, made me feel a bit weird
Lifting is good other than that
Why the fuck would any straight nigga do that? What the fuck man??
I know how you feel man. I broke with my ex (8y relationship) in may. I haven't had sex with other chick since then. Some chicks tried to hit on me but I just can't. I feel ugly and worthless as hell. And besides that I don't trust women anymore but I really miss pussies, tiddies and asses.
Sex without feelings sucks bro, don't try to have sex with other chicks if you're still thinking about her. It won't do you any good, or atleast it didn't work for me
almost 2 years since I ruined the best relationship ever of 6 years. Feel exactly the same. When I do end up hooking up and shit, I just can't bring myself to move forward with it. Like I'm waiting for her to come back. But she won't. Fuck this gay earth.
ex was Veeky Forums af
girl now is skinny
i miss those squat quads n ass
and overall her muscular body
I guess everything in my life is going well apart from the fact that I don't have any real friends.
Studies are great, my career is looking promising, lifting is going well, but I'd give so much of that up just to have someone to talk to when I get home instead of just crying alone or aimlessly browsing the web.
I don't think I've ever had anyone really talk to me just for the sake of talking to me. No one's ever asked me to just come over and hang out with them since maybe 4th grade, over a decade ago. I get along with everyone but that's it. 'Get along,' nothing more.
How do I even start making more meaningful friendships? It seems like it should just happen naturally but it just never did for me. I just want someone to talk to and have fun with.
I'm so alone.
A friend of mine told me the same thing. She was my first gf so I don't have too much experience with women besides another chick I had sex like 4 years ago. (jeez those 8ys of the relationship had a lot of on/off times). So all my sexual life was with her being my gf. I don't even know how a one night stand feels about.
Shit man. 2 years? That's a lot of time user. You have sex with other chicks, right?
Knob Creek Smoked Maple last night.
It's my 24th birthday today.
I feel a little empty, as usual. Gonna get some coffee soon and start my saturday with pull + triceps day then go walk around in the woods with an AK for a few hours, maybe.
go walk around in the woods with an AK for a few hours
2yearanon here. Yeah I get stank on my hangdown. Just can't seem to find a replacement for what was such a perfect fit. Like cliche best friend love. All the girls I end up with I just ghost because I dont know how to do this dating shit anymore. Or they already have a bf and I'm not starting a relationship like that.
Flirting, eye contact, confidence all in check. Emotional stability is very questionable.
Happy birthday, dubs. Good choice on knob creek. Fuck some trees up, dog.
utterly miserable, as usual.
i've got eating, weight lifting, watching football and getting drunk as fuck planned for saturday, so that will be the best day of the week, as usual.
tfw i'm fighting to get out of this living hell but it's just so damn trying
i don't WANT to be so completely depressed. i just want out of this fucking misery once and for all.
have plenty of likes on okcupid
starting a conversation online and in person is impossible for me apparently
how do relationships even happen? i dont get it
It's good to crunch some snow, take pot shots at saplings, and clear your head with about 90 rounds of x39. It's therapeutic to be out in nature with a good rifle.
It's therapeutic to be out in nature with a good rifle.
using an item specifically made for war, for stress relief
being so much of a soyboy that you don't enjoy shooting
Is your program entirely composed of Romanian deadlift and time on the eliptical?
Shit man. I want so hard to live in the states. I can imagine myself hunting squirrels with a full auto AR. And then eating their tiny and sweet meat.
I'm a few years ahead of you. The empty feeling has gone away but with that, I'm just okay with it. I don't exactly feel lonely anymore. It's more about adapting to a sort of hermit lifestyle. I'm an angry-looking fucker with poor social skills. I accept that.
That being said, I am saving money to get into weird shit that people tell me will help me be social. Cosplay and shit.
I hope Tom Brady and Gronk double team your ass tomorrow.
I hope the Nashville Cunts get rekt
Got a fwb
Found out she's sleeping with other guys too
I have no right to be mad but still am, feel like a cuck