I've been in four relationships in my 25 years and not one of the girls could cook or showed that they could at least boil pasta and cook an egg. Is this archetype gone?
It's no contest by any means, but if you can't even make a dish that isn't riceroni or the like, what are you bringing to the table, remains?
P.S. women shouldn't do all the cooking, but neither should men. Compromise.
Nah, my wife cooks all the time and she's great at it. Lots of women can cook.
>Is this archetype gone?
Gone? No. Archetypes don't die easy. They just fall in and out of popularity. Also, if you want to date women who enjoy cooking, then seek out women who are interested in cooking. They're nowhere near as uncommon as you seem to think they are.
I men it's not like there are cooking clubs, right?
I'd love to find a sweetie that can cook the desserts while I cook some hearty entree, it's just disheartening to only come across closed minded almost-feminists and hick/thots that grew up on easy mac
Theyre uncommon insofar that the fastest way to meet a woman my age is through tinder and the like, which has been shown to be nothing but thots and the occaisional tradthot. However on the flipside, I havnt met many young men who could cook either (in college my pot roast was praised as sex for your mouth, despite just being a chuck in a crockpot with onion soup mix) so it may not just be a womens thing but a millennial or gen z thing. I think what OP needs is a better place to meet women or a dating site that isnt full of lying skanks.
What's the best thing she cooks for you? Let me fantasize a bit, brother
That's what I'm thinking, I just don't want it to be the equivalent of farmersonly.com
Every girl i've been with has known how to cook. But i live in Europe. Maybe that's the difference.
I’m only learning how to cook for my boyfriend and I’ve been successful in pasta and eggs. Beyond that, I’m getting there.
Baking and cooking is my life. I dream of being able to have a qt husbando and kids to cook delicious meals and sweet treats for.
My girlfriend is a radical feminist
Ironically, this means that she dresses very modestly, doesn't want to leave the house because >rapists_everywhere.tiff, and cooks/bakes frequently because >consumerism_is_patriarchy.png
As a result, for my birthday she spent all day making soup stock/soup, cookies, cake, cornbread, and various other things that I got to come home and smell.
The political horseshoe theory is v nice
Cant help you OP, married and she cooks pretty well but its limited to BBQ and redbeans. Try finding a cooking class in your area or cooking related events. Or a farmers market if you can seperate the "im making stuffed spaghetti squash" from the "i need some fall gourds for todays instagram album"
If only Veeky Forums was an appropriate dating site. Best of luck opposite-sex friendo.
Honestly, if you're getting better that's all that matters. Really so long as your effort is there is what's important. And if he appreciates it (whether it's obvious or not) is a pretty big plus. Kudos girlie
I live in southern Louisiana, not many instathots here, that I know of anyway.
My wife is from nawlins , convinced her to come to Upstate NY for me and bring nearly a pallet of blue runner.
Force her to make you bbq shrimp
My wife does amazing things in the kitchen. Not just blowjobs mind you.
I've met plenty of feminist leftist women who can cook very well. They like to cook with other people just like you seem to want. I think your issue is that feminists don't want to cook with an alt-right MGTOW like you.
Same here. Difference is he doesn’t care about food. I can cook all the basic things plus some meals. As a surprise I want to make lasagna for him and some random desert soon
I'll never understand the myth that at some point in time all women were great cooks. It's just flat out stupid. Not even because they're women, but just because there's nothing that everyone from some demographic is good at. Put on your maga hat and go fuck off back to your containment board.
The soy is real
Where in the OP did he make that claim? Your head is so far up your ass all you see is shit, cuck.
Trad girl here. It's actually a bit of a fantasy of mine to be a full time housewife. I cook, clean, do laundry, etc. I love baking especially. My family taught me to cook, so i make a lot of home cooked German food. I try to dress nice for my fiance, or at least put a little effort into my appearance for him when he gets home from work.
I've had radfems try to tell me that I'm not grateful for the privileges that women before me worked so hard to get, but really, isn't feminism about empowering women to live how they want, regardless if what society thinks? My fiance and I are both happy, so screw 'em. :)
We exist, guys. Just a rare breed nowadays, it seems.
>isn't feminism about empowering women to live how they want
RadFems would argue that no, that's not what feminism is about, that's "liberal feminism", and that "true feminism" is about destroying the patriarchy, meaning that many things a woman might choose to do (wear makeup, be a housewife, dress up for their man, etc) are not feminist at all and in-fact might be antifeminist.
What a confusing paradox
nigga im 20 i can cook you anything ranging from any type of seafood to some sick signature pancakes to fucking eggs bernaise if you want to
only fucking catch is that i have a dick
(same experience so far)
Post your penis.
RadFems basically worship at the alter of Andrea Dworkin. Some of her quotes:
>Seduction is often difficult to distinguish from rape. In seduction, the rapist often bothers to buy a bottle of wine.
>No woman needs intercourse; few women escape it.
>Only when manhood is dead - and it will perish when ravaged femininity no longer sustains it - only then will we know what it is to be free.
>Childbearing is glorified in part because women die from it.
>The common erotic project of destroying women makes it possible for men to unite into a brotherhood; this project is the only firm and trustworthy groundwork for cooperation among males and all male bonding is based on it.
>Pornography is used in rape - to plan it, to execute it, to choreograph it, to engender the excitement to commit the act
>Romantic love, in pornography as in life, is the mythic celebration of female negation. For a woman, love is defined as her willingness to submit to her own annihilation. The proof of love is that she is willing to be destroyed by the one whom she loves, for his sake. For the woman, love is always self-sacrifice, the sacrifice of identity, will, and bodily integrity, in order to fulfill and redeem the masculinity of her lover.
I used to call myself a feminist. Radfems ruined it. Everyone assumed I was a man hating hag, when in reality, I just think we should have actual equality. Women should have to sign up for the draft. Women should not be favored in custody cases. Men who get raped deserve just as much help and support as women who get raped. It's simple. But that isn't what feminism is any more.
So, now I'm a happy housewife, engaged to a right-wing former MGTOW who found the one woman to not be an insufferable cunt, and who actually has ideals that make sense.
Back to Veeky Forums tho, I might make some sugar cookies tonight. :)
FUCK YOU BIGOT
I think I lost a few hundred brain cells reading that.
Not on a blue board, man.
Good lord I wish I didn't google "her"
Radfems don't include trannies, so, however horrifying, that thing does indeed have a real vagina.
same here.
besides the rape thing there is nothing inherently feminist about anything she does. hope you treat her right, consider yourself lucky.
my girlfriend is a great cook and even better baker. she has worked in both industries from young age though.
I still cook most meals because I'm just better at it. If I couldn't cook for myself I honestly wouldn't want to live.
I bet it smelled like old cheese and sadness
Like a female /r9k/
Yes move to east asia.
Radfems are the worst but most feminists aren't radfems.
She makes the best chicken fried steak and pan gravy. It's so good. She'll usually mash some potatoes and make some bacon great beans to go with it. She'll make me the best buttermilk biscuits when I beg for them or sex her up real good. Also pies, she makes great pies. Her cookies are fuckin horrible tho.
My wife is decent at baking and makes good breakfasts but isn't so good with heartier meals. I prefer to cook dinner anyway because it helps me unwind after work. I actually get annoyed if I get home and she has started cooking dinner without telling me. It activates my autismo since my routine is thrown off and then I don't get to have what I was planning to have for dinner.
Well I don't really want a "feminist" anyway. A strong woman in her place wouldn't be so bad, though.
Men used to build houses and go to work, women used to care for the family from the inside. That's just a fact. Women used to cook, even if they weren't great at it. Nowadays I feel like the only one cooking.
Btw, I really like food, so I'm here to stay, senpai. I won't try to exclude you unless this is the only thing you post about.
My bf is better at cooking than I am, but I'm learning slowly. I'm more interested in baking than cooking. I have some actual buns in the oven right now, even.
My mom and step mom are both really good in the kitchen, and my older sister is passable. My younger sisters are questionable at best, but one of them makes a mean chicken piccata.
You're trying really hard to hide it OP, but you're a teenager at best. I'm gonna guess you just got a job in a restaurant, and don't have a girlfriend. Amirite?
I'm a girl, not sure if I'm a traditionalist but my boyfriend makes decent money as a software developer and staying at home, looking after our kids and /ckooking/ sounds good to me.
To be honest most girls here in the UK would be happy to stay at home until the kids leave home then it would get boring.
>girls on /r9k/
You sound like Harriet Beecher Stowe's Uncle Tom dearheart, and womyn are laughing at you for subordinating yourself to the patriarchy. Go look in a mirror as you apply your chemical paste on your face because Vogue told you that's what you have to do to trap an earning manlyman.
That's what I'm saying my dude. I can cook better than every chick I've courted
Sounds country AF. If she has a little extra on the sides I pray to be in your position some day. I'm sure you're Bella grateful
Think what you want, but what I said in the first post was true. You are right that I'm a kitchen worker, I've been in like 5 or so kitchens
>TFW pretty decent cook, current job consists of doing live cooking demos
I like cooking at work, but I'm not that great of a cook and feel like any respective bf/gf would just nitpick. I don't really cook for myself anyway.
What about the women who had to do field work and animal husbandry? That's a fact too.
>What about the women who had to do field work and animal husbandry? That's a fact too.
Not him but he didn't say women never worked, but the typical household in the 20s-70s was like he described. There are always outliers
If this is your idea of "trad" then yes.
It's not that hard to find a girl, even under 25, who can cook moderately well. Finding one who is willing to cook every day on top of going to school or working full time is a little harder.
>listen to a bunch of old folk music/traditional music
>jerk off to pictures like OP
>wake up and realize it'll never be real
>spend another night trying to work up the courage to pull the trigger
I don't think she cares about what man-hating lesbians think of her, as well she shouldn't
SeeNot putting anyone in a box, but the archetype I'm attracted to seems non-existant.
What about it? Most of those women that did fieldwork and animal husbandry still cooked for their families
I would honestly kill her if I knew I could get away with it. It wouldn't affect my conscience at all and I'd be doing everybody a favor
>even if they weren't great at it
I feel like this is something missing here. Just because the traditional girl did cook, does not mean they were competent at it. I expected the 50s were filled with many a burnt roast and bland casserole, and then again in the 70s when their daughters were taught the family recipes.
>So, now I'm a happy housewife, engaged to a right-wing former MGTOW who found the one woman to not be an insufferable cunt, and who actually has ideals that make sense.
This is either roleplay or incredibly sad. You're not special, you're just kind of a lazy hoe.
I like eating out, it's nice not to have to cook for myself all the time, so I get that. The other thing is I actually like cooking, and every girl has been either indifferent to the antithesis to cooking.
Yeah except she had such a shitty life it kind of explains how she went to hate men.
Congrats for the edge.
lole
>call alt-right hateful
>show that you want to exclude them from anything you're part of
Maybe it's because I'm from France but EVERY womane I really know can cook, whether it's sisters, friends, or girlfriends...
A really significant amount enjoy it and have it as a hobby, and most of my acquaintance are on the liberal / left wing side.
(then most of my male friends can cook too so I guess it's jsut the culture)
user, she died over a decade ago.
Your non-sequitur is both uncalled for and incredibly stupid, and perfectly expectable from a mongrel like you.
France too, and I've seen a huge variety in cooking abilities.
Where?
In my countryside it's common, and most parisian girls seem to like to cook
>Congrats for the edge.
Do you think people that say thy would kill Hitler or others like him if they could have are edgy? She's a bad human being and I would cull her if I could. I'd only consider this for a handful of other people on this earth
;)
Not non-sequiter at all. You just called me a mongrel after you dumped on someone mentioning that they're happily married with a purpose in their own household. I mean I don't know you, but it really seems like you're the pathetic and sad one. You could probably stand to grow up some more, friend.
Paris, Montpellier, Marseille, Grenoble, Lyon, and anything in between. Hanged out with people who made nice dinner with organic ingredients, and girls who lived off candy and fast food. Depends.
Also nice edge you showed us.
They exist but why would they want to be with someone like you? You get to be with those you are worthy of, the leftovers.
Spare me your projection for a bit. The whole
>Well I am a happy housewife to my alt-right ex-MGTOW husband teehee
reeks of cheap bait or roleplay. And the
>found the one woman to not be an insufferable cunt, and who actually has ideals that make sense
Even if a woman who'd spout that kind of garbage existed, she'd still be the worst case of "I'm not like the other girls" ever observed. Acting as if every other woman is an "unsufferable cunt" is already telling, but dunking everyone who doesn't consider housewife their dream as having senseless ideals hits the nail.
Also your "calling alt-right hateful" came from your ass, just like the "you want to exclude them". Fuck off.
>Do you think people that say thy would kill Hitler or others like him if they could have are edgy?
Consider that people who talk about killing Hitler want to do so to avoid the huge number of deaths they consider him to be responsible. Also nice ad hitlerium.
> She's a bad human being and I would cull her if I could. I'd only consider this for a handful of other people on this earth
Only the ones that trigger your fee-fees to this point ? She's a woman who got raped and whored out and went full MGTOW, although she had reasons to hate men, and died after writing some books no one really cares about.
You're just being an assblasted faggot.
I completely disagree with your thought that those women don't exist, that some women don't enjoy being housewives, and that some women don't roll their eyes every time that see the 3rd wave feminists. Your first green text has the alt-right, former MGTOW in it without being necessary, and after that you were talking down about her as if you wouldn't wish that on anyone. All of this seems hateful to me and it's the same type of things you always directed towards the alt-right.
Again, not non-sequiter. If anything your first post was the uncalled-for non-sequiter, as it had nothing to do with the topic of the thread and was intentionally meant to shit on someone.
>I completely disagree with your thought that those women don't exist,
No woman will speak exactly like a /r9k/ manchild, taking for granted most women are "unsufferable cunts with ideals that make no sense".
> that some women don't enjoy being housewives
Yes, some women don't enjoy being a housewife. They even might be a majority considering the statistics.
> and that some women don't roll their eyes every time that see the 3rd wave feminists.
Yes, some women don't disagree with feminism. >Your first green text has the alt-right, former MGTOW in it without being necessary
You don't see the slight contradiction in being MGTOW alt-righter and suddenly finding his "ohsoperfect" dream housewife ?
>All of this seems hateful to me and it's the same type of things you always directed towards the alt-right.
I'm knocking off low quality bait, although I can imagine it being sad roleplay fantasies. And since that seems to hurt you, yes the whole alt-right is a shitty conglomerate of embarrassing manchildren.
Now you're misinterpreting my post to try to seem less autistic. Say what you want, but you're obviously projecting.
Just admit you took for granted that post was real. It most certainly isn't. On any other board it'd be called out for being shitty bait, yet somehow you got all defensive about it just because of the tired "most Veeky Forums anons are women" meme.
I went to art-school OP, I knew women who were proud they couldn't cook and burned pasta
Some of you might have glossed over this
BURNED
PASTA
How the fuck
If it's bait then you fed into it. I can easily see how it could be fake, but also how it could be real. If it was bait and you knew it then why would you respond to it?
They're out there and you can even teach them if you're a great cook yourself or go take classes? Or watch YouTube? Or just do the opposite if Jack but he seems to be doing a bit better in the kitchen. Lead your women out of the cave, men. They will follow.
t. tradwaifu
Hiding this thread because you’re all a bunch of whiny cuck faggots.
-from a femanon
r9k is flooded with neet women now. I can certainly see some of them being contrarian "I love you khv mgtow user I hate normies too! I'll be your pure waifu because I'm not a slut like stacy!" if they browse there too long. Maybe a discord relationship finally came into fruition.
>>from a femanon
Jealous femanon
Just find a girl(male) to make your wife.
It's a millennial thing.
I'm 28, the only other people I know who can cook are
A) One guy who is an actual cook
and
B) Two guys who were raised by single parents
My wife and I can both cook competently.
I prefer the food I cook, but I think that is primarily because I cook to my tastes and she cooks to hers, moreso than either one of us being objectively better.
Like I said, I like to call out bait.
Those threads are 100% even more pathetic men. They just are so deep in /r9k/ they begin to roleplay their ideal women. Which was the second possibility regarding the post we're talking about.
Okay, that's your opinion
>Okay, that's your opinion
this is the laziest way to avoid admitting being wrong.
That sounds exactly like what an insufferable cunt would say.
I admit I'm lazy right now, and don't feel like arguing over me hypothetically killing a woman who's apparently been dead for ten years. I just don't have the energy.
Feel free to count it as a win, I don't care
>Feel free to count it as a win, I don't care
I like the way you still try to save face after being called out for being an edgy retard, and embarrassing yourself trying to compare an old forgotten hag to literally Hitler.
>le wrong generation
It is cheap roleplay. No actual trad girl would consider marrying a man like that. Trad girls should have strong family values and guys like that don't fit in
I believed it, I mean if there are dudes spouting that kind of stuff, there are women that would follow, even if they're few
>if there are dudes spouting that kind of stuff, there are women that would follow, even if they're few
This is next level retard logic. Those faggots spout this shit specifically because no woman can stand them, not because they had some kind of epiphany.
I can cook but am super obsessive over quality ingrediants and balance so its mentally taxing to cook dinner on a regular basis. If I mess up at all I hate myself and it ruins my night so the stress isn't really worth. I cooking almost nightly for an entire year and it almost killed me, especially when no one consideres the cleaning, prepping, and shopping on top of having the rest of your life. Being a proper cook is a full time job.