I've always known I'm Bisexual, but knowing doesn't get you anywhere...

I've always known I'm Bisexual, but knowing doesn't get you anywhere. It seems that almost every relationship I've had with another guy, friendship or other, has been plagued with confusing sexual thoughts, and off-putting dedication on my part. I don't know if it will help, but i thought I'd try reading some good fiction about being gay may help me get some perspective.

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"Camaraderie" originally meant the sexual feeling that arose between two otherwise "heterosexual" men during periods of close proximity in the military. Everyone is bisexual. If you consider the thoughts "confusing," chances are you have a heavy preference for women, and are pretty much "straight."

Billy Budd
Our Lady of the Flowers
Naked Lunch ... kind of
anything by Genet
anything by Pasolini
Confessions of a Mask
Death in Venice

Wrong. See here at work the post-Freudian urge to read all intimacy as sexual in nature, however anachronistic. Truly degenerate, truly decadent.

You don’t need a book, m8, you need uglier friends.

That's not a precise explanation but it was such a "problem" to them that they had to enact laws against it

Op here. Nah that's wrong. There certainly is a phenomenon of prison sex, or military "Camaraderie", but that certainly doesn't mean that everyone is bisexual. Human sexuality is obviously pretty complicated so trying to boil it down like this is a futile effort. I jack off to gay porn all the fucking time, my problem isn't that I don't understand my own attraction to men. It's that I don't understand how to effectively have relationships with men, romantic or otherwise.

Why would it be any different than having a relationship with a woman? Or do you not understand "relationships" in general, regardless of the gender or sex of the persons in the relationship?

I really don't know. If I had to say, its because I've spent most of my life with men. I've rarely had any relationships with women.

>muh politically correct victim lifestyle

lmao nice virtue signal, numale

>obvious troll is obvious; or projection for beginners

I think we ought to distill the elements of sexuality, to understand it better.
>desire, urge, need - the drive behind sexual acts
>fetishes - sexual stimuli and enhancers
>gain (children, power, relationship, sleep)
>risk analysis
>quality analysis
>conflict

Giovanni's Room
At Swim Two Boys
A Single Man

how is that 'projection'? are you just spamming reddit buzzwords at me now? I can't think of anything more lame than being gay in the year of our lord 2017. You purple haired queer(tm) genderblobs are our equivalent of 50s suburban white collar workers, churned out as fodder for the victimhood industrial complex by those nice jews in the queer theory department at university. Hey, I'm a white man, a renegade saxon, I am pissed off and I had enough of your shit, so beat it snowflake

well I'm glad at least one person recognizes that homosexuality perturbs same sex friendships

>I've rarely had any relationships with women.
I'd suggest you seek that out first then, OP. Every homosexual I've known who has a modicum of intelligence absolutely hates themselves and fag culture in general. It's really not something to aspire towards.

My suspicion is that the reason there's a dearth of romantic gay literature is that the desire itself is concerned purely with the carnal and shallow.

woah muh gay lifestyle is so edgy, no wonder its being shilled hardcore by Bill Nye and all the lamestream media.

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seriously, how can you live with yourself? don't get me wrong, if this were the 50s (back when gays were actually oppressed instead of
being politically correct sjw oppressors as they are now) I *may* have given the gay lifestyle a go, you know, just to take the piss, Épater la bourgeoisie et. al. But now, being an unapologetic straight white male is where it's at. you plebs just don't get it.

The Counterfeiters by Gide

>Confessions of a Mask
I'm all for queer literature, but that is NOT a guidebook.

As a (fairly happy) bisexual who tends to sleep around, I'd say try the other sex?
Back when I had only even slept with women, I remember feeling this ever present "I'm not really being true to my identity" feeling, because I'd never explored that half of my identity. Not that there aren't bisexuals who have just stuck to one camp and been happy, but if you're interested, obviously there's a desire there.

Also, there's no guidebook on human relationships, the biggest difference I've noticed between dating men and women is how hard is it to put my dick in them, and that's about it, but learning to date is something you have to do on your own.
>I only have an interest in being a member of a culture if its being oppressed
And people call queers snowflakes.

>thought I'd try reading some good fiction about being gay may help me get some perspective.
how about some non-fiction, e,g the bible

>there's a dearth of romantic gay literature

Is there?

>graphic design is my passion
Maybe it is true that all you fashies are failed artists.

A dearth of good ones I should've said

>non-fiction

Healthy relationships don't make for good literature, gay or otherwise. There's no shortage of great homo lit, they're just not happily ever after stories.

Non-fiction but I'd recommend City of Night by John Rechy and Close to the Knives/Memories That Smell Like Gasoline by David Wojpolishname. None of them are too long.

wtf. noo! I feel like clawing my own eyes out. what the fuck is wrong with you fags?

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THIS IS NOT OK

user, read 'Teleny, or the Reverse of the Medal'. By far Oscar Wilde's greatest work. Fuck Dorian Gray and all that pansy-ass shit. That book will teach you how to live the true homo lifestyle.