Effay feels

>can't turn acquaintances into freinds
>Last year of HS coming up and I missed teenage love
>2.8 GPA and 25 ACT so probably not gonna have a great college experience
>Not a lot of cash so all my fits are from Pascun, Uniqlo,Macy's no designer stuff unless Ralph Lauren and Tommy Hilfiger count

>Used to talk to obnoxious but cute vegan fatherless feminist genderqueer sub girl who went to my university
>She's in love with me, talks to me about having sore thigh muscles from masturbating to the thought of me dominating her
>I'm happy with my gf and don't have feelings for her, tell her and leave it to her if she want's to continue talkting to me regardless
>She wants to, we send each other clothing inspo and WAYWTs about twice a week
>She suddenly starts ghosting me and completely disappears from the internet, claiming she hates me
>Didn't really care at first because I never had any feelings for her
>Notice that I start buying more clothes she liked
>Now I'm starting to miss her and think of her everytime I see a fit I think she'd like

she sounds like the worst man. leave it

How the fuck do you faggots always have girls flocking to you whereas I have to make a goddamn fucking effort

She was probably going to make you a vegan meal with her hair in it or kill you or something

You lucked out t b h

I know. I think it's the ghosting that got me. I have a hard time dealing with people suddenly disappearing from my life.

>obnoxious but cute vegan fatherless feminist genderqueer sub girl

she would be good for a fuck but you dont wanna get involved with that much crazy

good ridance

>fatherless
>feminist
>genderqueer
>literally talks to you about her masturbating
>obnoxious
so many red flags you lucked out

Haha I know all this, which is why - on top of having a great gf - I never bothered. It's only just now that I miss talking to her. Which is why I think her ghosting was on purpose to hurt/annoy me.
Is being a cyberstalker Veeky Forums?

please explain

>half black
>6'3.9
>Thin
>no muscles
>get compliments for my clothes
>quite a funny guy
>talk to girls
>too beta to actually flirt
>don't know how to do it
>give up

maybe you should start inviting people to hang out?

okmalissa

Basically just treat them like your friends which is bants and light teasing and light praise when its required.

You should start thrifting boi. Maybe shop at H&M as well. They have fairly cheap basics and jeans.

t. person in the same boat as you

HAHAHAHAHAHA

I legitimitely think that's my ex. She is like, super mentally ill dude.

MOM'S GONNA FREAK

yea she is prob doing it on purpose or has found someone to replace you with and doesnt need you anymore, girls are like that

point is fuck her and stop thinking about her, youve got a great gf be happy with her

try to slide in the odd compliment, like the way they compliment you on your clothes

also play around and joke with them like you would with your mates

try to initiate contact in a playful manner

post pics

>the blisters on my feet hurt
>forming new blisters on top of old ones
>only a few more weeks and these fly ass sandals will be a perfect fit.
>scabs on my feet are fa though

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i can tell she is a mess just from these pics

but now post puss or tits for bonus points

wtf the fuck she got on her fingernails?

disgusting

her hands look disgusting

>tfw when date lined up for tomorrow and she wants the d
>tfw date lines up for Thursday and she wants the d
>tfw date lines up Friday and she wants the d

I'm gonna do it lads. Three in a row. I'm gonna do it for you.

She'd buy super expensive nail polish and then anxiously pick it off before it dried.
Did I say buy, I meant compulsively stole.

I dont get it mario
espiegati

thank you kind men

salvation is in sight

You're not familiar with the comedic stylings of Leslie Henrietta Nielson? You really should be user.

Yeah dude, and also for some reason girls like it better when you are beside them as opposed to in front of them.

No idea why. Good luck.

I always feel like am imposing myself on other people. I was at a party and these acquaintances gave their numbers and told me we should hangout more, but I still can't bring myself to call anyone.

>most women are one some level, crazy irrational bitches
>most of them are overweight and fall well below my standards
>sex is oppressive for the male, the need to perform causes me anxiety
>to be in a relationship is like walking on eggshells
>so many unspoken rules and etiquette when it comes to picking up girls, how dominant should i be? how assertive? will she respond well to this kind of behavior? how much respect do i need to show? negging? red pill? nice guy?

>look around

>all of my straight male friends, even the very good looking and chad ones are depressed, can't stay in a relationship more than a few months before they're driven crazy
>even the one that actually 'understand' women, really don't, all they've realised is how irrational they are when it comes to the opposite sex and even themselves

>All my gay male friends have great sex lives and/or are in amazing relationships
>the ones in relationships actually communicate with each other, have shared interests/common goals, there's no craziness, little jealousy, they know exactly how to pleasure and respond to each other
>most of the guys in the community seem to be successful, look great, work out, take care of themselves, hardly any are overweight
>my closest, oldest friend is gay, literally a perfect human being, both he and his boyfriend are models and go to great universities

>i'm stuck chasing unrequited love, bad hook ups and am slowly being chipped away at by all these crazy women

Goddamn I wish I were gay. Any straight man in the west who thinks that being hetro is better than homosexual are deluded and clearly don't understand the sexual/romantic dynamics between men and woman and how oppressive they are towards men.

it's obvious enough they're interested

You should impose yourself if they already like you they'll see you as more social and likable

start sucking dick then

Ive tried, i've even tried sex with other guys and it just won't work, i even tried watching gay porn for a few months and it didn't change anything, i'm still stuck being hetro.

>girl I like views my message but doesn't reply
>feel like it's falling apart again

How to not feel this feel

I guess I'll give it a shot.

move on

Grow a left testicle, and then a right testical.

i've had enough of this feel

no accounts found
did she delete it? i wouldn't be surprised tbqh

>tfw everyone thinks you are gay but you are not

you sound a lot like a guy i know.
do a lot of straight guys feel this disillusioned about women? why?

That just happens whenever you're in contact with someone a lot, regardless of of how you feel about them.

>tfw so ugly fashion cant save me

>open ebay
>search settings: keyword "xs", auction only
>womens clothing: 20.000 items
>mens clothing: 575 items
i hate my size

Mentally ill exes are the worst.

stop taking to her intill her messages you agian
and if she doesnt then stop texting her

become a trap

stop messaging her retard, she wont miss you till you are gone

move on

>I always feel like am imposing myself on other people.

I get the feeling, but THEY give you their number. It obvious that they WANT you to invite them.

So just fucking do it. If they don't want to, they'll decile.

u can just wear a small in japanese brands yo

I can relate to this feel

instagram.com/okmalissa/

don't see a psychiatrist, man! prescribing meds is all they do. go see a real psychologist.

Take it from a guy who's had this happen recently and on multiple occasions, stop texting her. If nothing after a few days then forget her and move on, she wasn't worth your time anyway. That's what you need to understand the most, people can be shitty just let them wallow in it alone.

I know this feel my frogposting friend

>talks to you about her masturbating

is this rly a red flag? i kno a girl who mentions it kinda off handedly, told me about a vibrator she got etc.

Yes, it's a red flag.

Benzos will fuck your life up m8, I wouldn't recommend people get involved with that unless they have no other choice.

yes, why would you want a woman aroudn you that tells you she sticks stuff up her belly button or whatever girls have down there

Another straight guy here. I don't know about a majority but I do, yes. Also a growing trend among western men.
Women are very picky, while also the rise in extreme 3rd wave feminism makes men feel afraid to be forward, times ten in university settings.
On top of that, like the first user said, there's just so much unspoken shit. Girls tell me all the time how creepy 90% of guys are, and it just scares me that making any move would mark me as one also among all women.
My friend, the most womanizing guy I know gets made fun of for underperforming by mutual friends we have. "Kisses like a third grader" "awkward" "small dick" etc

It's just terrifying to go for women these days.

>fall in love with girl
>move in and all is well
>accidentally stumble upon message about hating being monogamous and in relationship with Me
>break it off for both of our benefits
>just miss her cute face every morning
>me and another mate lose our jobs due to finial problems with cafe

At least I look the cutest/most effay I've ever been

>benzos
>helpful meds

whew

hahaha i wish this wasn't true but it is
fucking hell
not now not at 3am

Seconding this. I went from an alpha Chad in high school to a beta in college entirely cause of how fucked up girls are now a days.

This. I wasn't a Chad but it was easier in HS to get a date than it has been the last three years of college.

>Try to dress nice
>Kinda like a dark prep, moody Uniqlo customer
>Only girls that are into me seem to be emo/alternative girls

sounds like abandonment issues.

congrats on fucking tinder whores, don't catch anything

thats because you dumbasses only hang around and try to fuck staceys

Then the meal wouldn't be vegan

>moody uniqlo customer

thank you for the laugh

Lol I love this feeling of never getting any in secondary school and now on my way to uni I've had the summer of pussy having to be turned down. All I had to do was develop an attitude that didn't give a fuck about people that didn't accept me

You are fucking stupid. I have the same relationship you're describing with your gay friends, with my girlfriend.

You just need to stop deciding that every single girl you lay your eyes on is your 10/10 perfect waifu.

yeah it's the girls fault and totally has nothing to do with you yourself at all.

Fitness can save you.

Honestly, it sounds like all that has more to do with how you perceive women, rather than how women actually behave.

Why do you care so much about the opinions of strangers?

*money

You're in the minority, seriously user.

>walk in hair salon
>hair dresser visibly clicks her tongue in disgust as she looks at me and realizes she has to cut my hair

yep.

>at party
>feel fresh af in muh new knitwear and muh pantalon
>drink muh wine nonchalantly while talking to some peeps about the fucking Eredivisie
>tfw I realize everyone around me is at least 5 years older and already established a great career (lawyers/associates from big firms)
>mfw hot lawyer actually started hitting on me and gave her number before she left

I'm totally ok with this.

haha

got pics ?

dude.
bruh
thats my life senpai

guess how tall pic related is?

>gf of 8 months is getting tiring
>try to avoid seeing her, no desire to have sex with her anymore
>not sure how to end things because she'll probably commit suicide or s/t
>go out every weekend with best friend to try to pick up sluts at the bar
>the thought of having sex with some random 6/10 gets me hard as diamonds, but cant get hard to fuck my 8/10 gf

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