How do I have to dress to lose my virginity?

better clothing doesn't give you sex. Have a look at your friends with good looking girlfriends, do they dress good? Probably not. It's not about your clothing in the first place, it may give you the attention of females, but they won't fuck you, just because you're wearing nice clothes. Don't behave like an autist, be charming and if you get the attention of a female that you like, ask her out on a date. Don't wait too long to ask her out, like maybe in the first couple of days after meeting. Take her to a bar or something like this, alcohol helps to get a conversation going, but don't get shitfaced drunk. Going to the movies or a concert for a first date is a shitty idea, as it's difficult to have a conversation there. If you go to a bar, stick to two or three drinks and don't order neckbeard shit like whiskey. Order beer or whine. Offer to pay hers too, if she wants to pay for herself, that's okay too. If she starts to make body contact while you both are talking, that's a good sign. Stay calm, don't talk about weird shit like this board or drugs, don't brag about expensive clothes or shit like that. If you don't behave like an idiot, she might wants to see you again. Don't take her to the same bar again on the 2nd date, take her to a museum if she's interested in art, get a bottle of whine and some snacks and take her to a park or go to a concert. As an EU based user, we usually take a public transport to go home, so walk her to the station she needs to take. If you feel like it, offer her to walk her to her home, although she'll most likely decline. After two or three dates like that you can invite her to a date at your home, sometimes the girl invites you first too. Get some whine and watch a movie. Dates like the last one usually end with sex.

im sure she´s gonna be real interested in you when you say in the bar that you dont drink whiskey coz its neckbeard shit

god damn you nerds are insecure. long list of bullshit doesnt mean any of you got game

that's pretty solid advice for OP although I personally hate bars because it's always such a shit thing to do just because alcohol is the only thing that makes girls open up a bit more. if you ask them out elsewhere they all gonna be stuck-up cunts and find reasons not to do anything with you. fucking boring.

jia chen

you've got me wrong, he shouldn't tell her that he doesn't drink whiskey, he shouldn't order it. He should stay with normal drinks like beer and wine, so he doesn't look like those Whiskey or Gin "connoisseurs" who try to build a personality upon a drink they like. I thought OP might order something like this to appeal more manly or like a "gentleman", which isn't the best idea. Those are just some basic tipps on how to date a female.

I actually like going to bars, so that ain't a problem for me. And I'm mostly a little bit shy on the first date, so having a beer helps me with that. But you're right, after the first date it's quite annoying that you can't meet up without drinking all the time.

just buy her drinks, talk about what she likes, dance later on and go home together, it doesnt have to be rocket science. It´s totally possible as long as you realize where you are on the 0-10 scale and meet someone who´s on the same level as you or below

how old are you?

That's a tl;dr of my first text, but fuck this scale shit, I'm a 6 maybe, the girls I date are at least an 8. Good looks may be helpful if you approach girls on the street, but being charming and intelligent is better if you actually see her more often or already know her. And keeping to the scale just makes you date girls that are as ugly as I am and I don't want to do that.

I've never been to Canada but the way I understand it is unless you're a hockey player with a mullet you're not getting any.

You could always go the bestiality route, syrup bro

you're doing it wrong, you have to undress, not dress up

Work out, and wear plain but well fitting clothes. White/Black T shirts with jeans or chinos

TRex mode is still better than skinnyfat dyel, just cut properly and add some more arms, chest and shoulders in the future

>im going to guess college considering the demographics of this board

I'd say you've greatly overestimated this board.

go to a party u could literally wear pacsun everything and get laid women are fucking morons

I'm 27 and still a virgin, I feel like I won't lose it any time soon because:

>depression
>anxiety
>actually enjoy being single / alone, don't want to get into a relationship
>backed myself into a corner because I always wanted to only have sex with someone I care for or connect with, but I don't care for anyone or connect with anyone on a major level

What's next. Lifting alone won't cut it. There are countless failure stories.

I only sortof have a mullet and I have a qt gf

he's been tricked into believeing that stuffing his dick in wet meat = happiness

Same feels + situation and I'm 29.

Even worse, I got laid off from my shit job recently. At least I get unemployment and can live a pretty decadent NEET life and still save money since I live at home with mom and dad. All that commuting and drinking to deal with the stress ate up my pay checks.

Dressing well and looking healthy will get you that initial spark that can set things off, but if you're a massive loser or act autistic, you're still fucked.

Noticed women were really checking me out after swimming for a year and getting a pretty nice tan.

Went back to running in the evening for a year and the interest is GONE!

>only want to have sex with someone I care for
>don't care for anyone
Same boat as you, sex being meaningless is actually pretty depressing

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>I always wanted to only have sex with someone I care for or connect with, but I don't care for anyone or connect with anyone on a major level
This. And im only 20 and actually do have a gf of 2 years. I don't think she really understands me or how I feel. I sometimes think she doesn't even know me and only wants to be with me just to have me. And this has just put me off from being and talking with her.

Don't know what to do. I know I'll just get "dude just leave her" but it's more deeper than that. :/

28 here and virgin. I'm not depressed but all women I know are total shit and job market is shit too so I couldn't take them out somewhere either.

I stopped caring and even if I'm poor I at least dodge a lot of bullets that way.

my friend did hard drugs with his gf and they ended up exploring each other when they were high

>I live in Canada
Blue jeans, red flannel shirt, and a Maple Leafs toque (Canadiens in Quebec, or Canucks in BC)
Add Tragically Hip or Rush merchandise to taste. LGBT people are recommended to use Celine Dion or Michael Buble merchandise instead.
Note that it must be a red flannel shirt. Not blue, not green. Not cotton, not polyester.
This method is 100% foolproof and is recommended by the Canadian Board of Sexual Inquiry.

There are enough Canadiens fans here in Ontario too. I worked with two. They're always super passionate about hockey too.

hey man im sorry thats happenin to you. I hope that you can find the stamina to transition into better days. I hope i can too.

thanks user, Godspeed