Effay feels

I finished all my general ed classes and I still have no idea what to major in, I like humanities but I dont want to be poor. Should I just do stem even if it's boring?

I've wanted to kill myself since I was 13

Yes

I understand why a lot of people find stem boring, but how the fuck do people find humanities interesting?

where from

I'm heading towards the same trail. I'm not quite sure what to do, all I know is I'll end up being a failure. I like making things so I chose the architecture route because I was interested in it for so long. But man is that a let down, I LOVE learning about building and parts to the building/art. The prerequisites for it just made me lose even more hope. I want to try a trade but I'm not sure.

I want to do something I love but I also want to be financially stable.

What don't you like about architecture? Seems effay as fuck.

>tfw gyno

How do people discount an entire range of topics within humanities "boring? How do people find anything boring? Literally everything is so interesting once you at least try to understand it.

>bought a new pair of Nike SFB field boots
>super comfortable, lightweight, feels great to wear
>can't use them on my cycle to work because the hard rubber soles have no grip on my pedals
now i have to choose between being Veeky Forums and being Veeky Forums

>skinnyfat with massive thighs

>my feet are halfway between sizes and the shoes I want don't have .5s

I love you man don't let those feels get u down

I dress to cover my flaws, and while it makes me happy. The things I truly like I don't look good in.

>tfw when I work for a kickass airline
>get mad travel and health benefits
>in line for a promotion this month
>have enough cash to buy some effay items every now and then
>feels good treading that fine line between good and great

niga check your wisdom theeth, they are probably push on the rest hence fucking them up. that's what happened to mine.

>Ugly
>Big chin like 2 balls (sometimes i just wish i was 10% more chinlet so i would look normal)
>Huge forehead and curvy
>Shitty curly hair
>those jaw bones near the ear you see in models, mine its like they are going inside my face instead of making like a square handsome face
>not even tall, 1.80cm
>Fat
>Sweating makes my skin turn brown, need to use sprays and special shampoos and shit, so cant exercise or be in the sun, have to only diet to lose weight and look normal
>Shit teeth, dumb and fuck up everything in life and am cringy as fuck
>Aweasome music taste

>Aweasome music taste
I doubt it

Have you considered toe clips?

>thrasher shirts with checkered slip-ons

eww

>You can see in face rate threads that most people aren't necessarily ugly just look very empty and mentally weak.
>mentally weak

>start dressing in a way that boosts my confidence
>people start paying attention
>start losing confidence

Being invisible had its pros.

most people on here don't know the first thing about fashion.
It's a bunch of unfashionable, insecure teenagers talking to other insecure, unfashionable teenagers pretending to have a sense of fashion, self esteem and an age above 17.

Still i have yet to find a place on the internet that is better when it comes to fashion,
Just recently saw a post on r/malefashionadvice telling me stuff from summer 13/14 was the new hot shit in summer 17, even praising Stan Smiths as completely new and hot.

SO IF THERE IS A BETTER PLACE THAN Veeky Forums TELL ME

doubt all you want, not sharing it with a meme social website

why bother answering then?

tfw I'm 6'4, extensively enjoy literature, have extremely good and broad taste in music, dress well, am attractive and work out daily and can't find a girl who isn't a complete thrasher wearing thot.

I'm you but reversed

except unlike you she probably has nothing to offer

>shitty attituded teenager
>decide to get my shit together a few years ago
>go to Veeky Forums, Veeky Forums, and Veeky Forums for rec's
>start getting in shape
>feelsgoodman.jpeg
>start reading proper books
>tfwtosmart.jpeg
>start dressing like an adult
>start socialising again
>constantly mistaken for gay because i take care of myself

>constantly mistaken for gay because i take care of myself

You know that you are wrong, right?

but are you happier?

I have everything going for me (atleast physically) but I'm about to turn 24 and I'm balding severely

I have a solid V hairline. Been on fin for 5 months now so I'm really fucking hoping for a miracle

??

a little

Most of us Veeky Forumsgotts are cynical and bitter, and that makes me very fucking sad.

[spoiler]Also, I fuck with techwear hard and it being pretty much a meme now results in me REEEing inside[/spoiler]

trips is always right

I can tell that I had a lot of genetic potential. I'm still halfway cute. BUT I have a recessed jaw and bad teeth that were never fixed so growing up my face has never looked right to me. I feel like I was supposed to have more forwards projection and definition but thanks to bad oral posture as a child I'm kind of flat-faced now. In the mirror in certain lightings I'm really happy but when I go to take a picture I always nearly gag. It's like what I'm seeing is not what I expect to see because something went wrong. I wish I knew for sure whether I could fix it or if I'll somehow make things worse.

Lost both my front teeth when I was 12. I would not have it any other way, being ugly is fucking sick.

>see guides on Veeky Forums
>looks pretty simple to follow basics
>feel confident
>go into store
>nothing fits right
>legs too short, shoulders too narrow, arms too skinny, thighs too big, feet too big
>nothing looks good
>realize i'll just look try hard after years of only wearing tshirts/jeans/sneakers
>realize even if the fit was there, i'm only doing it to impress people, and it would be so transparent that i'd look like a fool
>go home to wardrobe ice had since high school, defeated before I even began

I don't see the point of being fashionable for the sake of it. The only thing that makes sense to me is dressing for utility, so I don't think i'll ever be able to spend money on clothes that aren't going to help me survive.

>come here to talk about clothes and instead I get /r9k/ and /pol/ spillover

i got scoliosis and it pushes my chest forward giving the look of man boobs that i don't have

I fucking hate my appearance apart from my face so much. It's all I think about and it depresses me.

Do you do any physical exercise? I found after just doing daily activity it greatly helped my feelings of self image and worth
Fuck dude that actually blows a lot. Is there any surgery or anything like that you can get?
Sounds like you're getting caught in your head and thinking you're doing this for the wrong reasons user. Sometimes stores have weird sizing, I remember going to a store and it being designed for an Italian build so literally everything didn't fit. You just gotta keep looking! Plus when it comes to dressing well, I like to think of the following
>when I wear clothes I love, I both enjoy the act of putting on and wearing the clothing and I feel more confident in it
It's really quite nice just having a highlight of the day being putting on pants that are comfortable and look great. Plus, every now and then I get a compliment on a piece and that's always good. I remember my first McQueen scarf. The first time wearing it a super cute girl behind the till of the school's Starbucks complimented me on it, saying it was beautiful. Then within an hour while I was studying a guy walked by, stopped, back tracked two steps and asked to see it (I was hanging it on a fixed chair at a table in one of the cafeterias) and said it was a beautiful scarf. Idk, feels good man.
>regardless of how much people say they don't, people judge others hard on how they dress.
Remember that. It helps with interviews, daily interactions, sometimes you'll see a girl eyeing you up. Its nice.
You might think its shallow and vapid to do so to impress but, I mean, everyone is shallow and vapid. Wear clothing that fits and is beautiful and the compliments you get are because it's beautiful, not because you are a walking billboard and they like the brand

5'3, also extensively enjoy literature, broad music taste, dresses nicely, I play tennis and I'm into running, cute. What am I doing wrong? Is it because I'm a womanlet?
California

>people say im attractive
>been told i dress well
>"omg you should model"
>sometimes girls flirt with me
>still single
>self-ostracized by how eccentric/odd i am
i just wanna be a normie and not some adhd fuck

Kek, literal areyoume.jpg. You take meds for your adhd? I'm on vyvanse. Shots really nice actually

Okay let's see.
My back has stretch marks because of my bad posture when sitting.
My smile looks stupid.
I lack the discipline to do any kind of exercise for more than 3 months in a row, so I'll probably get fat in a couple of years, and only fatter from there on, and I'll have a huge disgusting beer belly like my grandpa.
The only facial hair I can grow is a pathetic teen moustache.

And well I'm a shut in and too introverted and I feel LIKE i ONCE WAS FUN TO HANG WITH BUT HIGHSCHOOL ENDED AND NOW I FEEL LIKE IM TOO BORING FOR PEOPLE TO ENJOY BEING WITH ME. oops caps

I'm very happy that I'm improving myself by paying more attention and care to my body, but I hate the thirstiness of some people for romance. My life was so much more relaxed when I only wore sweatpants and sweatjackets with hair that is messy and skin that was dried and shit, but I cant go back because it even pisses me off nowadays when even my socks and shoes don't match. I can't go back now. I will say that if you take good care of yourself and people start finding you attractive, their patience with you is going to go off the moon

if u aint Veeky Forums Veeky Forums & Veeky Forums you aint shit i say

/a/ /tv/ & /v/ babbies will disagree but it is true

pic related, it's me

I'm thinking of starting to go to the gym with my bf, should I?

What do you actually like user?

personally im 6'3 and check off your standards pretty well but I've never dated a girl below 5'7 because it feels disproportionate (like having to crane you neck to make eye contact, having longer and slimmer legs than the gf). Its pretty standard for couples to prefer a 4-7 inch height difference so it's probably for the best to pursue 5'10 guys instead of 6+ (which is still tall relative to you so there shouldnt be a problem)

I once had a similar problem, if your personality is a little bit to much for most people try to quite down a bit and focus more on expressing yourself through your body language and face, you will become known as a good listener/sweet

don't worry about being boring. honestly maybe 1/4 of people are actually interesting/funny in general conversation. If you make an effort to be a genuine and friendly person you will be liked without needing to carry conversations

as cancer as Veeky Forums is browsing /falitfit/ really can make improvements in a person longterm

Most of my self esteem is my hair, and most of the times it is pretty shit

Dude same
I didn't even know much about or care about MPB/receding but now I'm constantly paranoid that it'll happen to me

yes, but not everytime

every guy needs to be able to go to the gym alone/with-only-gymbros sometimes and just unwind without having to worry about other guys mirin the gf doing squats

Is there a good Veeky Forums graph for someone who has really never done anything like this?

i wouldn't necessarily agree that 5'10 should be the ceiling of what she looks for, but guys over 6'1 honestly looks like fathers if their gf is 5'3 or lower

Need years of other classes and one of the most stressful professions. Not to mention you need internships and extra years of work to even apply anywhere. Also a trash Professor, but that's just an outlier thing.

Veeky Forumsfit/fa/ck/ Masterrace reporting.

>thought your canthal tilt was positive
>its fucking negative

if you go bald just shave your head, it's not a big deal. Insecurity looks worse than being bald.

>im ugly
>just graduated high school
>will never see oneitis again
>high school experience was shit, no prom, never went to any games, no yearbook, oneitis that i talked to a bunch and had a bunch of classes with never asked me to sign her yearbook or talked to me at graduation so maybe i never had a chance in the first place
>kind of feel hollow and really bored
>no freinds

I see were you're coming from. But that was all totally your fault. You could've done something about it.

Should've joined band and join in on the weekly bus orgys with the qt flutes. Sucks to suck.

>tfw tall
>tfw ppl tell you you are nice
>tfw people like your smile
>tfw friends tell you they respect you
>tfw your boss says you have potencial
feelsgoodman
however
>tfw acne
>tfw cant grow a beard
>tfw oily skin
>tfw going bald
>tfw insecure
>tfw no self esteem
>tfw in constant fear of turning up to being a failure
>tfw no gf

Well obviously its my fault. I didn't say it wasn't
Im also going to community college even though i got accepted to universities because my parents think im too stupid and dont want to waste money. I doubt the social opportunities there are anything close to what I would get at a normal school and im already late on so much stuff like my first kiss, first party, and a bunch of other stuff. I dont want people to know that i haven't kissed a girl but if i do end up doing it ill be bad at it and she will find out or be creeped out by the awkwardness

>probably have a ton of flaws but too content with myself to notice them

same

northern California or southern I'm 5 11 btw located in northern cal also I run and do read books for some reason.

Hahahaha

Loser

if you like humanities then do humanities don't succumb yourself to dumb wageslaving on top of learning shit you hate

if anything you'll find accessible ways to make money out of your job

>>tfw your boss says you have potencial

Northern California also!! Stay hydrated in this heat user

halfway through being 21 and I still have acne.
Spent the last 3 years trying all different antibiotics, changing my facial care routine, improving my physical health and eating better, practising the best hygiene i can without going complete OCD freak and it still persists.
Along with being a bipolar schizophrenic it's drove depressive episodes to affect my hypomania states to the point where i can't even leave my house because the paranioa that people are looking at me and thinking i'm gross is too much for me to take

>got some new clothes recently
>finally satisfied with my look
>friends aren't outgoing so rarely get to use nice fits
>don't really have anything common with my friends and feel like I don't belong in the group
>had a thing with a girl but messed it up because of autism
>tfw no qt gf to do stuff and share interests with
>feel alone most of the time

The Bad
>me last year
>little brother has mental breakdown after breakup and fake LSD fucked his brain
>drop out and do a bit of freelance landscaping so I can make sure he doesn't self harm or kill himself
>parents take him home for summer
>he starts to get better
>start of this year
>starting uni again without him to worry about
>little brother kills himself without warning
>we used to bond over fashion
>going shopping is depressing
>nobody to talk about my fits with
>never get to see another of his fits
>think my girlfriend will make me feel better
>she doesn't
>she tries but it's not what I need
>break it off but feel like shit
>still sleep with her sometimes and she still wants me
>without her nobody I know is interested in fashion
>had a special bond with my brother that I will never get back
>I still enjoy fashion but so much of enjoying it was sharing it with him and even though I still want to do that I know it'll never be the same

the good
>inherited all his clothes
>get incredibly sympathetic treatment from uni which will probably save me from being kicked out
>reconnected with some of my best friends that were kind of drifting away
>realised how many people actually do care about me
>realise life isn't just good or bad, it's full of both
>smoked today with a tinder date who I thought was ghosting me
>smoking again with her tomorrow
>parents taking me and surviving youngest brother to holiday in Niue
>friend has job in tailoring shop and I can get 70% off all my corporate clothing I'll need when I graduate
>spending a year in the US next year
>reliably informed that my accent will be seen as quite exotic

When I first went to uni I was massively insecure about how I looked, but I didn't know anything about fashion and hadn't even bought my own clothes before. Now I have a bedroom full of shit from Primark/H&M, still just as insecure and fully aware I could've bought a decent wardrobe twice over with the amount of cash I've blown on cheap hoodies and t-shirts.

bruh iktf

You sound like an interesting and cool guy. Sorry about your loss man.

My best advice about being boring is that if you just pretend to be interested in people and just compliment them about shit that you think is vaguely positive almost everyone is vain enough to think you're a great person

>poorfag
>order something expensive
>fuck up the sizing
>no return policy

I would not wish this hell upon anyone

Dont go into stem if you hate it. Its gonna crush you.
Just go into business or something. Finance is good too.
I told myself that if I couldn't figure out what i wanted to do after two years of college id just major in finance.
Have a job now and even though the work is pretty boring the hours are good enough that i can do whatever in my free time and not have to worry about money

>ordering something expensive without return policy

>Dont go into stem if you hate it. Its gonna crush you
Fucking this. I study minimum 10 hours a day, including weekends, because I want to do something with my stem degree (and I am competing with people that get over 100% on tests for jobs). If you don't fucking love your studies and see it as a labour of love then they'll just wreck you.

tell me about it.

some shit female dentist who couldn't even speak our native language properly put a fucking dent in one of my teeth. I was just going in for a check-up and nothing more and she was knocking against my teeth like a retard. that was years ago. thankfully the dent is not very visible especially when covered with saliva.

I got slight hairloss in the front too and no fucking money to do anything against that because broke until at least September.

I only have shit clothes because of that too. I want a particular watch and I want a whole new wardrobe. I'd really need it after all these years.

Kek same here m8, the only difference is that i am 5'10-5'11

>"just be yourself bro haha"

I live near the ocean so its not over 80 degrees really but if you live inland I feel you doe

just buzz it dude

my guess is you're both ugly

I can never tell myself I genuinely look good. I hate my body but never have enough willpower to fix it. My hair is shit in my opinion, but don't know what to do with it and I just have too many insecurities to count. If there's too many wrinkles on my clothes, I get too scared to go out or take another hour or two to change out of fear of being made fun of for some reason. I'm just a mess in general.