Tell me, Veeky Forums

You should focus on self confidence first. If you want sketchy advice go to the gym and take creatine. Don't neglect your neck. Put minoxidil on your beard area. Take phenibut before dates or whatever, as long as you're not drinking during it.

Meet someone on OKC or Tinder, much less stressful than a real time cold approach. The dating angle is already implied so you don't have to worry about being friendzoned because no one is looking for friends on Tinder and OKC, so she already knows you're interested so you can just go for it.

The other benefit is you can learn a bit about the person before you even talk to them, increasing your chances of not being rejected by finding a profile of someone who seems to share your interests, etc.

>so that girls will be attracted to me?
There are many girls and they all have different preferences.
Some things are universal though like not being a jerk. Not saying you are, but saying that you should not be.

>Is it my hair? My clothes?
At first glance it's obvious it's not your looks, your looks are above average.
And it's also an indicator that you're not good at looking at yourself objectively, at least regarding looks.

>I'm a genuinely kind and caring person, who wants nothing more than to help people
You can't look at your looks objectively, so I not sure I trust you on this.
Many people say this about themselves, but when it comes down to it, it's not always it's true.

Also, think about this statement if you will >I just want someone that I can care for for once in my life
Why do you want this? If you can answer that it might help you.
I'm fine without having someone to care for.

Rather than wanting someone to care for, it might be wanting someone to care for you instead? And not the inverse?

I guarantee it’s your personality and mindset. The first time you got on Veeky Forums is when you doomed yourself

step by step bleaching process pls

Being confident doesn't mean being a meek little autist who forces himself to hit on every available vagina. You have nothing to be confident in. Work on that or die as a pathetic subhuman.

go to a good stylist and let them take care of you
shouldn't be much work because you're already 75% there

Go on NoFap.

Stop being ginger.

Personally I think it may be my only shot at getting a girlfriend. White girls pay me no mind, but I do often see asian/brown girls looking at me when I walk around, perhaps because they like that I am somewhat unique looking. I just don't know how to approach them, or any girl for that matter...

>Sex is irrelevant. I just want someone that I can care for for once in my life.
Get a pet.

ok i'm not exactly the best one to be giving advice as i'm incel BUT

I think you should do something with your hair i.e brush it back and/or part it somewhere

also headphones in public means there is even less chance of a girl trying to talk to you i'd assume

Are you american? Girls here are a little bratty. Just hold out and look for a nice girl, one that you'd be pals with if you didn't wanna bang the shit out of her. You'll get into a relationship you hate eventually. It really is a mindset. I get killed with nerves when I'm around chicks I like, just gotta keep your head up and mosey on down the line. Grab them bootstraps, boy.

I just got a puppy a month ago after my old dog died. It's nice having him around, but I do still feel empty without having a girl to spend time with as well, and it's accentuated even further by the fact that I don't have any close friends.

I'm getting it cut short on the sides and back tomorrow, and will probably start going for a more messy look. I brush my hair while I blow dry it to try and make it straight, but it often ends up making me look like shit and then I have to use a flatiron to fix it.

Yeah, I get what you're saying. I'll try to be patient and keep my eyes open, but as the years go by it does get very depressing being alone all the time and seeing everyone else happy together. I just can't picture myself ever actually getting a girlfriend, it's strange.

When I was in 8th grade I considered joining the clergy cause I didn't think I'd ever kiss a girl. It took til I was a freshman in college to do that. I didn't have a gf/bang til i was 24, and she was the hottest coolest girl from my highschool. And guess what? It ended after she learned how much of a degenerate I was and after a lot of reflection it was very shallow on my end anyway. I still want cute girls, sure, but I want other things too. What do you do for fun? If you aren't applying yourself girls aren't going to find you attractive brah.

youre a ginger. nothing you do will help nibba. just a hard reality. ginger males are nog tier

You're cute, so it's probably a confidence thing.

> Make platonic friendships with girls in real life

Seriously. Get girls in your corner IRL and they can help you out. On top of that it looks good to anyone you plan to date that you can make friendships with girls without trying to fuck them.

Your personality is shit and your social skills suck. You need to forget about the hate you have for women and minorities, stop browsing this site, and interact with the real world.

It's the hair. It's red and also looks weak.

The ultimate Veeky Forums redpill

THIS

>I'm
>I'm
>I'm
>me
>me
>I
youre a self centered man who wants a partner to fill the voids you see in yourself, yet you do nothing to work on. if you can see it so can they.
work on yourself you sackless fucking ranga

You're ginger. The only way is reincarnation.

>Mr. Nice Guy spotted.

You're living the antonym of the extreme called "fucking asshole" and it's shit since regular alphas, assholes and even betas will abuse you and that will hurt in the end. You're self centered and want people's attention and acceptance so much that your charity becomes pure ignorance and selfishness. I'm not telling you to become an asshole. I'm telling you to try to feed your own needs first and not trying to satisfy anyone but you but sometimes try to get the best deal for yourself without damage control on others.

You shouldn't be good because you want others to like you, you should be good because you want to be good. Only those ones are worth loving, not those puppets which will abolish every kind of warmth and love due to insecurities thinking they aren't good enough.

Also 7/10 Ed Sheeran. Style your hair maybe a bit but style the shit inside your body. There are many people looking way worse than you who got friends, family, fun, love, all that shit.

Fuck you! Fuck the Manlets! Fuck the Auschwitzweights! Fuck the Fatties! Fuck Niggers! Fuck Babyfaces! Fuck me wasting half an hour per day to hide my slav ass widow peak untill i look like a beatles knockoff! Fuck all those insecurities and come out of your gay ass shell like you don't own one.

>racing hairline
>ginger
>flat cheekbones
>headphones in public
>'streetwear'
>graphic tee
>butt chin
>life fulfills none of Maslow's hierarchy

You need to get your shit together. People like you who think that the rest of us owe them something because you're 'nice, genuine and caring' are the worst sort of faggots capable of the most ruthless sort of depravity.

You literally cannot even justify your existence at this point in your life. Elliot Rodgers 2.0 ladies and gentlemen.

1. Weak neck -> lift
2. Messy hair -> use a shampoo with good quality (natural oils, minerals, etc.. ) i use shampoo and conditioner for women ( works for me and nobody has to know) , get a decent modern haircut (short sides and styled top)
3. fucking smile and use some lip cream
4. grow a beard and trim properly
5. pretend to be confident -> by pretending you gain coinfidence (weird but worked for me )
6. Overall gain testo by lifting and showering with cold or medium water temperature.

You are average looking. Maybe even 5.5. In 2018, with social media, tinder etc., you need to be atleast a 7/10 to get a gf. Maybe try getting swole? You don't look sexy at all, maybe some muscle mass could help with that.

u look high bro

Ugly ginger cunt

>I'm borderline autistic and can't into small talk or flirting
Here you just gave the answer to your question from the OP.
However, I do believe that you can work on this. I know that "just b more confident" is a very annoying remark but there's more truth to it than you are willing to accept. If you practice at small talk, you undeniably will get better at it over time. This is coming from a guy who has never had a gf either, but who used to be absolutely socially awkward to the point of often getting ridiculed by people. Less than 3 years ago I was still basically like that, but since then I have consistently gotten better at small talk and making friends, and have lost my virginity. I also don't find flirting easy at all but I really think a) confidence and b) not obsessing over it all the time, but also doing some other stuff with your life, are two factors that are hugely important, based on my own experience so far.

This
>Sex is irrelevant. I just want someone that I can care for for once in my life.

Typical beta phrase. You need more confidence, you need to become an alpha practically

ginger gosling/10

>alpha
Proper small souled fuccboi cope here

get some specs (evn if you dont need them) curl your hair,grade two fade undercut and you a hipper lookin ed sheeran...save some pussy for the rest of us ginge.

stop being a soyboy and engage in activities get ripped get cultured talk to girls etc. etc.

hey anons i think this is a fairly relevant topic and people in this thread seem brutally honest

i got rejected by my oneitis and i'd like to think it's because she was way out of my league

but there's also a slim chance that i psyched myself out because of that very same thought, and i'm just a boring guy

so yeah anons, can you tell me if i was trying to punch above my weight class or not?

>picrelated, me

>picrelated, she

Yeah, you seem like a nerd

alright thanks for the closure back to listening to pinkerton then

dye hair blonde

you look fairly similar league to me

1. get some friends
2. go out with friends
3. repeat step 2 until youre no longer a shy virgin and actually talk to a girl
4. repeat step 3 until you find one not actually disgusted with your ugmo face and lack of confidence
5. die alone because youre not gonna do anything but moan on Veeky Forums

Stop dressing like you watch letsplayers for 5 hours a day on your grandmother's iPad for a start. Next, stop caring about what other people think of you, don't be afraid to push boundaries, and find a style that you like. Whether it be sleazecore, terrorwave, autistwave, or whatever fucking else, or something new, just find shit you like and wear that. Girls won't approach you either way, at least not often, so if you want a GF just go up to the next cute girl you find and act normal. Say she looks cute, if she is busy leave her alone or day you have to go real quick but ask her if she has Snapchat or something. Idk, talking to girls is something you just learn by sacking up and doing it.

From what you posted, you lack self-confidence. You look fine, it's the desperation that's off putting.

Pretty much this. Do some product in your hair that would help.

Also if you wear headphones all the time you project that you don't want to talk to anyone and thus do not imply that you are avaliable, you seem uninterested instead.

Get the Ron Weisley look you virgin

>being a white male
>don't get along with girls naturally nowadays

...are you gay or something?

>Veeky Forums is basically my home and I've been here almost every single day for years now
Have you stopped to consider this is the problem

Stop going on Veeky Forums, or the internet. Just make some changes, or just learn to not care. Stop being such a bitch.

Try buying a skateboard and go to the skatepark on weekends, art girls hangout there.

>r
I can imagine a universe where it would have happened. Don't stop reaching, but don't miss an opportunity to enjoy the company of less seemingly immaculate women. you guys woulda likely ended up hating eachother in 3 months anyway. Congrats on trying though, hardest part.

Just got cut fml
How bad are facial scars

they look good

thanks anons

i'm glad we all lift each other up sometimes

some chick with neck tattoos....you'll be alri my guy

First of all stop wearing vests

>advising a guy to go after art hoes

what the fuck is wrong with you? are you trying to turn OP gay?

Hey Veeky Forums this is what my hair looks like everyday when I wake up. It is quite a hassle and hard to style, I usually just throw some water in it and leave it looking messy. I will post a picture of what it looks like when I brush it out.

It is basically a jewfro when I brush it. What should I do? It has been growing for a year now, should I keep letting it grow or should I just get it cut and a new hairstyle?

Hey Omar, when's The Mars Volta coming back?

Use product, keep it curly, go get a haircut

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I dedicate this to you, OP

youtube.com/watch?v=ByC8sRdL-Ro

Smile more you faggot. Express yourself. Say what you really think and don't be afraid. It has n o t h i n g to do with how you look, it's how you act.

I find you very handsome OP and I would definitely be your gf, too bad I live in Europe.
The only advice I can give you is don't care about girls/being a virgin (I don't know if you are)/wanting a gf too much, just focus on yourself, improve your self esteem/personality and life in general, and I'm sure you'll attract at least one girl because I assure you it's not because how you look!

head transplant

>buy bleach
>open it
>drink as much as you can

wow rude

You have the eyes of a very sad man

Try as hard as you will, but your eyes are always gonna be a dealbreaker until you learn to find happiness in yourself.

>Drop some acid and you'll be good

Im going to take that as a compliment.

What product would you recommend? I am clueless when it comes to this stuff.

you look so much like Ash from the Be Right Back episode of Black Mirror...

If ugly negroes can get girls then you can easily get girls. Change your hair-style, workout in the gym, have less sugar in your diet, stop watching porn unless its solo girls/lesbian and stop putting women on a pedestal.

when black mirror was good

this

It's literally your personality. I've seen fatties and uggos alike get girls and it's mostly because they're funny and smart and aren't afraid to show it. Stop whining and don't be afraid to fail. That's part of life.

Show feminine dick.

Your hair seems to be the big thing you could change about yourself, I'd get a more on top haircut with layers so it's wavy. Your hair at the moment looks like a helmet

you look just like me and i have women practically asking me to fuck them all the time. Yeah, listen to the other posters here, just work on confidence. Doesn't mean you have to go full chad-mode. There is such a thing as 'quiet confidence'. Basically, always hold your own, express your opinions without shame, and people will respect you, and if you are lucky, some women will want to fuck you. But you must respect yourself first. You are not bad looking user. Just work on yourself. Best of luck.