How does one gain self esteem as a female?

How does one gain self esteem as a female?
I'm constantly hit on and told I'm pretty yet when I look in a mirror or attempt selfies I feel repugnant.
Any basic stuff? Skin care, hair color, etc.

confidence comes from within.
you can dress yourself up and spend a bunch of cash on self-care shit but it wont help at all if you don't learn to really love yourself for who you are. spend some time on learning some self love and confidence will follow.
also tits or gtfo.

post fæs

confidence is a you thing. improve yourself until you are proud of yourself. compliments and attention from others will never fix it.

Great advice. It's been a really long journey and no luck trying to boost it so far. Any personal tips or advice?

>I have no selfies
take one and post it, Veeky Forums is a good place to get a fairly unbiased rating of your face (whatever we rate you, it'll definitely still be better than "deformed piece of shit")

be honest with yourself and realize when you're being pessimistic for the sake of being pessimistic. It only hurts yourself and if it doesn't stem from an actual disease (depression, anxiety, etc.) then you always have room and ability to improve.

If you don't put the effort into improving, and effort is all relative to who you are, then you can expect nothing. You might fail often and neglect your mental health if those are your current habits. The effort is working through the old habits and establishing new ones or just acknowledging the old, harmful ones.

You might want to talk to a counselor as a one-off or use a resource through work/school to talk to someone more qualified than an anime imageboard's most self-conscious corner

if you get 'contantly hit on' and attract guys that you also find attractive does it really fucking matter if you're a 5 or an 8

stop being such an attention starved cunt, i know it's hard for a woman but do try

1. NEITHER SEX, NOR GENDER, ARE FACTORS TO SELFESTEEM.

2. PHYSICAL APPEARANCE IS A FACTOR TO SELFESTEEM, BUT IT IS NOT AN ESSENTIAL FACTOR, BUT A SUPERFLUOUS ONE —SELFESTEEM IS NOT CONTINGENT ON PHYSICAL APPEARANCE.

3. SELFESTEEM IS CONTINGENT ON PERSONALITY; IF ONE IS WHOLE AS A PERSON, ONE'S SELFESTEEM WILL BE HIGH AND HEALTHY AS SEQUENCE.

4. ETHICOMORAL INTEGRITY IS THE MAIN FACTOR THAT AFFECTS SELFESTEEM, MAINTAINING IT DESPITE OTHER DETRIMENTAL FACTORS, AND IN CONJUNCTION WITH OTHER BENEFICIAL FACTORS.

5. THE PROBLEM OF SELFESTEEM IS COGNATE WITH THE PROBLEM OF FASHIONSTYLE —BOTH PROBLEMS HAVE THEIR ROOT IN THE PERSON, AND IN PERSONALITY.

...