>be me an actual fashion designer >meet bf 5 months ago >start dating a month ago, everything is great >great personality, smart, same interests
except for one thing that kills me on the inside
he can’t dress for shit
he literally wears loafers, loose bootcut jeans, and a trench coat when we go out
some of his stuff is okay, but more so his dressy type clothes when he has to teach a class or something
i want to retool his wardrobe so bad, as i feel like minimalistic basics would work great on him
hell, even a pair of docs or something would be a decent start
i hate the way he dresses, but i don’t want to hurt his feelings. what do i do? should i just buy him clothes/shoes for his birthday/the holiday to disguise it as me trying to revamp his wardrobe?
i don’t want to be an asshole but the way he dresses is a huge turnoff for me
Carter Flores
Full Rick
Joseph Campbell
>he literally wears loafers, loose bootcut jeans, and a trench coat when we go out >i don’t want to hurt his feelings he doesnt care about fashion just buy him whatever he wont care so long as it doesnt reduce his level of comfort
Adrian Bell
Chad's dont care what they wear. His side bitch will replace you soon
Logan Williams
My mans has been the same way. To improve his style I tell him "You look great when you wear x"/"I love when you wear x"- positive reinforcement has worked for me. I also share with him photos and memes with fashionable garments, and suggest "you should get something like x" or "you would look so good in x."
Luis Jackson
he’s a complete beta tho. i’m the first woman to actually come near his dick
Noah King
what sucks is the fact that he thinks he dresses good and likes shopping
Noah Roberts
Sounds like a fag. If you gently bully him you can get him to wear anything.
Liam Watson
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Mason Perez
You ever consider talking to him about it If he wears bootcut jeans, loafers, and trench coats, chances are he wouldn't be offended by just having the conversation, esp if you're a designer
Logan Perez
Is there a core for people who just dress bad? If it's just coherently and predictably bad, does it deserve a core?
Wyatt Richardson
Just get him new jeans, what's wrong with loafers and trenchcoat
Justin Morris
Autismcore
Brayden James
break up with him
Austin Campbell
trench coat is columbinecore and loafers are dadcore
Hunter Price
maybe youre just too basic to get his post-normcore style and hes been following haute couture his entire life and is a fashion elite
Xavier Young
He thinks he dresses well, not good. But just be real with him. He will move past whatever negative emotions he might feel after you bring it up. Buy some clothes and problem solved.
Ethan Miller
lol date me..?
Tyler Cox
Don't do this this is good↑ Just be honest. Just say "I want to pick your outfit today". Use your girl powers and be pushy and cute. But be warned. I used to dress shitty, I had my girl pick out my outfits and then I started getting a lot of attention from other girls.
Henry Cox
Everyone is different obviously even so there’s different archetypes to male personalities. I’m not white and I know nothing of your boyfriend. However, what I personally would think would work is if you simply take him shopping and have him try on simple normie stuff. Then buy him clothes you’d want to see him in. He won’t buy his own clothes and if he does, he’d buy more garbage. If he refuses to wear certain items, negotiate sex with him. Like training a dog, if a dog follows a command, you give it a treat. You get it.
Jaxson Peterson
get a bf who isn't an idiot. seriously, what a tool.
Sebastian Watson
see? tool confirmed.
Benjamin Reed
DICK
Mason Torres
youre gay right? or are you a woman? i cant imagine if hes a straight guy that he will care at all when you change his wardrobe, if hes gay idk if theres a difference, as im not gay
Noah Campbell
Just. Ask.
Nathaniel King
well if we've learnt anything today, you certainly don't have a great personality.
Michael Wilson
If he likes shopping, then offer to take him to the shops or something, silly You can use the fact that you're a designer to have a say in what you pick out for him Just jokingly tell him he needs a makeover and go out
Levi Edwards
The text spacing just gives off newfag and you gave me cancer
Ayden Green
>shitty on penny loafers fight me
Henry Smith
i hope my girlfriend doesnt talk about me this way. That would crush me
Gabriel Lopez
The moment he gives in and let's you restyle him is the moment you lose all attraction to him.
Justin James
Could you be any gayer?
Zachary Murphy
Sounds like what you have is an actual man.
Actual men do not care what the fuck they are wearing. They are not soyboy cuck Veeky Forumsggots like everybody on this board.
Be glad, and judge him by the content of his character, not what you think others think of his dress when you leave the house.