Femanon here (sry no tits), I'll try to keep this as short as possible.
Basically, my ex boyfriend posted nude pics of me on a revenge porn website after we broke up. I sent him these pics with confidence he would delete them afterward. I know very stupid but I was in love and I trusted him.
When anyone Googles my name, these naked pics are on the first page of my Google results.
I will be graduating college next month with a degree in Accounting, I will have about 3.6 GPA and am graduating from a very reputable state university.
I am scared to death every potential employer I submit my resume to will Google my name and see these nasty results. I'm considering legally changing my name, but I know employers also do background checks which provide all previous legal names.
I guess I'm wondering if anyone can offer any advice on this? Is anyone else in the same boat? I do plan on taking legal action against my ex, but I can't afford an attorney right now, so it will have to wait until I've been working for a few months ... I'm beyond embarrassed and the whole situation has ruined me. I guess I have no where to turn to and I feel very alone :(
Jaxon Flores
looks like being a slut didn't pay off
Cooper Wilson
Assuming this is not a troll. talk to a lawyer. Haven't you seen the movie ''Revenge Porn (2016)"?
You can send the DMCA requests yourself to webmasters, but lawyers generally know what're doing. Plus when a webmaster gets a letter with lawyer letterhead, rather than a personal letter, they take it very seriously.
Michael Gutierrez
I thought Veeky Forums was a more mature board, but I guess I have to add this addendum: If you're going to be a victim blaming asshole and offer no constructive input, please go to /b/.
Jace Peterson
youre the dumbass that sent nudes with your face in it. try thinking next time before you do something dumb
Josiah Miller
I have no money. I need to work for a few months before I can seek legal counsel. I have not seen that movie but I am looking it up now.
Logan Thomas
Could you include your middle name in your CV in the hopes that they'll type that instead, skewing the results in your favour?
Where I live what he did was illegal, though actually enforcing it is its own issue obviously. If you live in Europe, maybe you could use the whole "Right to be forgotten" thing.
Bad day?
Angel Bennett
Obvious bait thread, but only a fucking idiot would send nude pictures of themselves to another person.
Colton Cruz
Stop trying to be a little edgelord... not funny. You just sound like a little prick.
OP, I would say the same as . It shouldn't cost you too much, and even if it does it will be worth it.
Lincoln Sullivan
people do it all the time but most of them aren't dumb to put their face in it
Ryder Roberts
Fair enough. Call me stupid call me a slut call me a dumbass. Whatever.
But this mistake doesn't undermine the aptitude and skills in my field of expertise. Any potential employer who Googles me will get a very false representation of who I am.
David Reed
Google how to send dmca requests. Hosting companies generally don't like this stuff either. Google "how to find out where website is hosted", then go to the hosts website. They all have an abuse page/team. Usually it's on their contact/support page. Open a ticket explaining the situation. They will shut it down. If they're hosted off shore, you're fucked. Google has documentation if you just search "remove page from google".
All of this can be solved if you knew how to use a damn search engine.
Robert Thompson
>If they're hosted off shore, you're fucked.
I'm in the US, I did a whois Lookup, the websites hosting my material are based in Europe.
Juan Jackson
Does role playing as a female on a Tibetan basket weaving trading card forum make you feel alive?
Angel Ortiz
Does anyone here work in HR or do the hiring somewhere, can offer input ?
Carter Parker
Maybe they will look you up, maybe not. I know of a few friends who have nudes on their Tumblr pages or whatever, and nobody saw. Sometimes the employer just doesn't do a Google search. I've searched for applicants, but not everyone does, especially older people in the hiring process. I've actually only worked for one place that googled its emplyed pre-hire. And they usually would just laugh at what they found, not a big deal. If you're hot maybe it will help your chances...
Camden Sanders
Go to the homepage of the hosting company and look for a contact page hunny. Send them an email with what you wrote in your original post :) Since they are not in US they don't have to do shit. But they can still do it if it's an ethical company.
Mason Thompson
>very false representation of who I am
you are a whore, thats not false m8
Xavier Ortiz
Guy who actually gets laid here. So I'm not gonna torch you like the faggots here.
Yeah you got fucked by an asshole and it sucks. One girl I dated filmed me fucking her and showed it to some friends. As a guy I don't really give a fuck. But I can see how it would really fuck you up as a woman.
I would do a few things:
1) Talk to a lawyer about it
2) Contact Revenge Porn and see if they can be bought. Just say "hey can I write you guys a check for $1000 to get rid of these pics?" It's worth it for a grand IMO. I honestly think they will remove the pics for free. I run a blog that is similar to The Chive. I have 1000's of random hot women on my site in their underwear. In 1 year I have had ONE woman contact me and ask to have her picture taken down. I apologized and took it down immediately. I don't want a problem, and I'm guessing the Revenge Porn guys have a similar mindset.
3) Search the rest of the web for these images. Sorry, but if some user reposted them past Revenge Porn then they are gonna spread over the web like a never ending virus and you'll just keep trying to stamp out cockroaches.
I really am sorry. If it's any consolation, we are entering an era where literally everyone will be nude on the internet. It takes a lot of guts, but some people need to stand up and say "I'm fine with this. That's my naked body, so be it".
Sucks though
Nicholas Jones
This is re-assuring. I'm considering changing my last name though. Would this be a red flag when hiring someone? I know name changes appear in background checks.
This was the FIRST thing I did when I discovered these pictures were online. I received no response and the pictures are still up :(
Jordan Campbell
> I almost never get laid, The Post
Ayden Powell
Dude I've done it with like 10 women. It's pretty fucking fun. When you're chilling at home and a chick sends you a pic of her bent over naked, it's a pretty fun thrill.
But I never included my face in any nudes I sent.
But I liked it when girls where bold enough to send me a fully nude pic.
The tits on pic related where spectacular.
David Nelson
>Whiteknight, never gets laid, the post
Zachary Clark
I literally have a folder on my computer with about a dozen women I have fucked and have nudes of all of them. Go ahead and search for the above photo faggot!
Ethan Gonzalez
who the fuck cares. i was just pointing out how retarded you sounded
Jace Martin
I didn't say they don't do it, and I've had three women send me nudes.
I'm just saying that it's a potential future ass bite to do it, and it's full retard to put your face in it them
Logan Wilson
That sucks. I hope you get it sorted.
You always hear stories of people hurting themselves because of similar situations, I hope it doesn't come to that, because it's not worth it.
Bentley Long
so far this post was the peak of my day.
Christopher Scott
I do agree. Including full face and body is a potential death sentence. And I have never done it.
Joseph Nguyen
>n-no YOU are!
Just leave the thread and move on with your life if you don't want to contribute anything constructive.
Luis Nguyen
>Veeky Forums - Business & Finance
this is the most active thread because you fucking virgins care more about some fantasy hoe than making money
fucking hell
Alexander Evans
What do you mean false representation? It's exactly you in the pics.
Nathan Wright
I think it's more that when guys see a femanon on Veeky Forums they want to guide her actions because it shapes humanity as a whole. Control the pussy, control societal norms and human behavior.
Just a theory.
Joshua Ramirez
BTW can you post your name? I wanna see the pics.
Brandon Roberts
You're right. It's funny this thread shot up to almost 30 replies in 30 minutes. And it has nothing to do with business and finance. Goes to show what people here care about. I'll show myself out.
Jace Wilson
This thread is way too specific for Veeky Forums.
Try /g/ or /adv/ or just remake this thread without mentioning you're a dumb slut so you can get serious, helpful replies.
Christopher Murphy
>Veeky Forums - Business & Finance >degree in Accounting >trying to get a job
idk, you tell me how this thread fits in...
Jaxson Scott
Create a linkedin, a sparse facebook, and google plus profile. Basically create as many generic profiles as you possibly can on major sites. Nobody is going to bother scrolling down.
Also, you frantically googling it and clicking on it is probably putting it at the top
Juan Foster
>This thread has nothing to do with business and finance
Andrew Campbell
How does it?
Mason Anderson
See
Nicholas Scott
so because she has a degree in accounting this becomes a topic for this board and not /r9k/? if only she majors in feminist history we wouldn't have to see this pile of shit manifest on Veeky Forums
Ethan Edwards
>femanon here (sry no tits) >people actually giving tips
Asher Butler
See I would post a funny reaction image but I don't save retarded pictures on my computer. Owning a degree has nothing to do with biz/finance my man.
Levi Cox
You idiots are telling me that questions pertinent to seeking employment don't belong on this board?
Jonathan Garcia
Stop shitting this board up with your stupidity.
Nathan Scott
Roastie rage the thread. You got what you deserved whore.
Nolan Sanchez
does this fucking place look like monster.com to you?
Joshua Hall
Give me your name so I can see if they come up.
Xavier Foster
>don't worry ma'am, I'll save you! what a fucking idiot.
Jordan Peterson
Congratulations you are a fuckwit. I hope you've learned a valuable life lesson about trust. Now for the serious advice.
>Depending on your state, there may be revenge porn laws. If so, take it to the police. >Don't bother paying the revenge sites to take down your stuff. Once you pay at a couple, it will pop up on others because they know you'll pay. >DMCA may or may not help you. Many of the revenge sites are operated outside the US in areas that you have no real legal jurisdiction. >Lastly, double check stuff by searching with some anonymized search engines. Try Duck Duck Go. Google, bing, and most other engines try to personalize results to you. It's quite possible that the results are very highly ranked for you, but don't show up for other people.
If you have a public facebook, and a few other social media accounts, maybe with a blog or something, it's possible to bury the results on the second or third page, particularly if your name is relatively common.
Liam Nelson
>Just say "hey can I write you guys a check for $1000 to get rid of these pics?" It's worth it for a grand IMO.
This is terrible advice. Both in terms of practicality, and legally speaking.
Never fold to a blackmail/extortion attempt, and never offer to put yourself in a position to be blackmailed/extorted.
Nathaniel Kelly
>> What race was she?
Kayden Johnson
Top kek
Noah Gray
You might be right. Just throwing out ideas.
My friend got arrested and his picture ended up on one of those sites so you could google him and his arrest and photo would show up. I think he paid them $200 to get removed. Shit is fucked, but he did get off the site.
But I do hate supporting those fucks.
black, not sure why the mod deleted the photo?
Jace Walker
Could you give advice without sounding like such a cuck? Jesus man
Liam Baker
surprise! women who send nudes usually have no ambition and aren't going anywhere in life and so there are no consequences if their poorfag boyfriend posts them online!
Lucas Allen
You can look into SEO and 'reputation management' services, but the gist of it is, just churn out a ton of shit. Start tweeting, posting on Facebook, just spamming the fuck out of any social media with your name on it. The idea here isn't to get rid of the porn so much as drown it, so that the first thing someone sees when they search for you isn't your noods.
Also fuck you captcha, that was a fucking orange and you know it.
Nathaniel Clark
probably not.
Aaron Taylor
You could just link some of your internet social media presence to your employer. The thing is you can't bomb the shit out of this because your employer will get curious about why you posted a million links in your cv. Maybe dye your hair or wear different coloured contact lenses in interview so that there is enough doubt that they can't totally make a connection. I'm pretty sure people really don't remember eye colour that much so it seems easy to get away with.
Angel Perez
Small scale SEO and reputation management isn't worth paying any money at all. You can do it all yourself, and tailor your public persona just fine. As you said, just turn out a bunch of shit on facebook, linkedin, twitter, etc. Maybe make a shitty wordpress blog, and an intagram/flikr. Post pictures of your cats or something.
Cross link all of them to each other, and give it a few weeks for Google to figure it out.
Adrian Ramirez
sounds like male whiteknight,
thread is kill
post time stamp with sharpie in the pooper if you really want help
Chase Peterson
Will sluts ever learn? As an employer I would be happy to see the search results as a way to confirm you're a stupid, gullible bitch.
BAs/BSs in Accounting are a dime a dozen. You're simply doing potential employers a favor by revealing what poor judgement you have.
David Brown
pfhahaha... women. Dont worry about the nudes nobody is going to hire you, because you are too fucking stupid.
Jeremiah Allen
>Wahh I failed at monetizing my sexuality, the thread
Asher Harris
>We are Legion. We do not forgive we do not forget.
You came to the right place for help. If you send us a link, we'll hack the shit out of every single website hosting your pics and demand a ransom in bitcoin. How do you think we got rich?
I promise all of the websites will be shut down by Anonymous but we can't help if you don't tell us where they are.
Ayden Baker
You can always just get an accounting job at pornhub, you & your cunt seem to be fully qualified for the job.
Aiden Cruz
kek when 2 anons are on Veeky Forums with the same wifi
Logan Robinson
>femanon here Stopped reading there
Ryan Baker
google
BBC BARBIE BIMBO MAKER 5 SD EXTENDED HARDCORE TTS
and listen too it over and over and over again until you understand what the fuck you are and what your purpose is
Benjamin Davis
Get over it. You fucked up and now when people search for your name they will see porn. You need to come to terms with that. If you're afraid that an employer will bring up the pictures with you in an interview you shouldn't be. If they bring it up you basically have a free sexual harassment lawsuit victory. It's unlikely that a major company will make this mistake and if it's a small business that does you should just get up and walk out right there.
You can't erase your slut pics just like you can't erase a criminal record. Hopefully you can gracefully live passed it rather than waste your life trying to undo it.
Jacob Ward
Thing is that's very easy for an employer to lie about. It happens every day.
> don't want to hire someone for a non job related issue > so they don't hire them and make up a fake reason
Anthony Price
Serves you right for being a whore with no morals
Bentley Thomas
Not true, you'll most likely get hired as they see how easy you are and figure that they can get their dinks wet too since you lack morals
Alexander Sullivan
So? That's just the price you pay. It's not fair but that's just a part of learning to live with your fuck ups.
Asher Moore
lol business is the more mature board you stupid ass sluut. Hopefully a lesson learned on your side.
Traash gravitates towards the dumpster. Where people like you belong.
Nathan Diaz
CEASE and DESIST you dumb hoe.
Dylan Mitchell
but you are a dumbass, then the employer will know that
Jason Smith
This was in /adv/ already. Are you just going to all the boards posting it?
If so, please stop.
If not, you're going to get the same advice wherever you go. Get a lawyer.
Also >no tits GTFO they're already hanging out somewhere on the net anyway.
Cameron Cox
>sends nudes without making him sign a contract >mad that he shares
Pls roastie
Nolan Gonzalez
The user here mentioned the "Right to be forgotten". I would like to add that Google tends to fulfil these requests even from people outside Europe. At least so I read in some reports. So just look up how to do it and try it.
Kevin White
>Femanon here (sry no tits), >I'll try to keep this as short as possible. you already did. GTFO
Hudson Rogers
Change your name.
Joshua Gray
sue and get lots of money
Dominic Long
Maybe you shouldn't be such a stupid slut.
I wouldn't want to hire you. So why should I help you deceive other potential employers? You made your bed, now lie in it.
Henry Hill
Get off of Veeky Forums you dumb slut.
Cameron Gray
It shows you are an impulsive YOLO idiot who probably also drinks and does drugs. Not the kind of person who should be handling money.
Angel Smith
>femanon >no tits
TRIGGERED.
But, it's a slow day at work and if this is true i maybe can help. Not sure if u can do a personal cease and desist or wtf ever letter. But if u can find a guide online do that. I would google every day and get the link for your pics individually. Find out where they are hosted. And of u can pass say that you were 15-17 when those pictures were taken and the photographer is in jail. Find some random oerderast in jail online and screencap. Send that with the email to make it look believable.
Other than that paying a company or hire a lawyer is your only bet. If yall are in california and a couple other states there are actual revenge porn laws. U can call the cops and use a public lawyer.
Either way im sure you learned your lesson.
Can u not share faceless pics at least?
Samuel Perez
YOU KNOW DAMMED WELL THIS IS A MONGOLIAN YAK HEARDING FORUM FAGGOT!
Adrian Wilson
dont most of those websites have an E Z P Z policy where you can email them and request a takedown
like to make sure they dont get sued all the time
right
Kevin Sanchez
Underated post about yak hearding
Lucas Carter
You already posted this in /adv/
Wtf u doin bby?
Brayden Kelly
>Veeky Forums - Business & Finance
Jayden Turner
DON'T HELP THE ROASTIE
KEEP HER TOASTIE!
Leo Morris
>"I thought Veeky Forums was a more mature board" >sending naked pictures to someone you're regularly having sex with
???
Landon Thomas
WE DON'T HELP ROASTIE POSTIES
Eli Gutierrez
>I thought Veeky Forums was a more mature board
Really? Veeky Forums? Your problem is you "thought".
Maybe if you'd done the same thing when sending nudes, you wouldn't be in the position.
Coupled with that, your fem brain needed approval from your BF for selfish reasons. Instead of thinking what could happen, your own personal emotional stance at the time had taken control.
There is really no excuse for your actions and your ex isn't at fault, you are. Instead of blaming the men for sharing the nudes, you should blame yourself. Has nothing to do with trust and has everything to with protecting your OWN personal self.
Now. Stop with the "end revenge porn" crap. It's your own doing. No women should ever have to send nudes to their BF or S.O. Has nothing to do with the basic functionality of a relationship, but everything to do with your self interests.
Go head over to /b/ to see what guys are doing to their "S.O." for an insight on how SOME men are. I personally never want my S.O. to send me nudes for the fear of me losing my phone or something else, so don't be a selfish emotional cunt and say "ALL MEN ARE THE SAME MUH FEMINISM."
Fuckin women need to learn some self control and take responsibility for their stupid actions. Instead they blame someone else to coup with their stupid decisions in life. Pathetic.
Cameron Taylor
Wow why do you hate women so much? What happened in your life to make you so crazy?
Jackson Campbell
Entitled bitch. Look somewhere else. You obviously won't find help here.
Hudson Gonzalez
I'm a dude... just marveling at the hatred on this thread. Does it make you feel more like a man when you sit at home behind your computer screen and call someone names?