Spanking

Tell me Veeky Forums what is the pros and cons of spanking your children as punishment?

I'm talking about spanking that does not cross the line of abuse.

Whats the pros and cons of it

And why are we stopping it at this age?

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>I'm talking about spanking that does not cross the line of abuse.
one of the biggest problems with spanking is that the line is very easily and often crossed, it's a slippery slope

too lazy to write about pros and cons but that's the main point i wanted to make

TL;DR Clinical trials seem to suggest that children who get spanked don't turn out any better or worse than children who don't.

If the parents lie about spanking their children, or if they go beyond spanking, then it tends to cause harm to the child.

Spanking kids is literally worse than hitting women. It's abuse.

"SPANKING" IS A FORM OF ABUSE, WHICH CAUSES BOTH, PHYSICAL, AND PSYCHOLOGICAL, TRAUMA.

ABUSE, AND PUNISHMENT IN ANY MANIFESTATION, DO NOT HAVE ANY PROS.

spanking your kid means you failed to reach your goals with non abusive means, it's a failure on your part
and it teaches your children that it's socially acceptable to achieve goals through violence

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I wouldn't spank my child when I get one, but the anti-spanking crusade has gotten to a point where I would be fine doing it.

Idiot.

Should be a last resort type of thing too bee honest.

IF YOU FEEL COMPELLED TO RESORT TO ANY FORM OF VIOLENCE ON YOUR CHILDREN, YOU SHOULD NOT REPRODUCE/SHOULD NOT HAVE REPRODUCED, AND ARE CERTAINLY A TERRIBLE PARENT, AND AN IGNOBLE PERSON.

I don't know if you are a troll or not but I agree with you.

The pro is that little girls develop a spanking fetish.
>hitting women
>bad
white knight cuck, I pity u

you should've been spanked, then you might not have turned into such an obnoxious faggot.

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i wish you were spanked as a kid

I used to get spanked by both my parents fairly regularly and i always found it highly arousing. The feeling of the hard pounding slaps against my buttcheeks combined with the rubbing of my nob against their knees was amazing. I'm gay now.

>children throwing tantrum
>what to do?
>hard mod No Spanking

>one of the biggest problems with spanking is that the line is very easily and often crossed, it's a slippery slope


this, it can turn into pleasure for the mom and the son, which is contrary to the desire of inflecting pain

Spanking is retarded, slapping is not. I've been slapped a few times when I did really stupid shit. Most of the times it wasn't necessary because just the sound of my parents talking angrily through their teeth was enough to put the fear of god in me.

Slap, pure and simple.

You don't slap to inflict pain you saddist, you slap to humiliate. Which is why a good honest punch square in the face won't make me flip out, but slap me and I lose my shit real fast.

One time when I was in daycare I was really naughty and the daycare lady took me out to a back room, locked the door, pulled my pants down and spanked my ass for nearly half-an-hour. I remember crying all the time but I get boners thinking about it now because she never shouted, she just kept spanking me and saying 'now you'll be a good boy, won't you?' every now and then

W-was she hot user?

can't remember, was too young to notice things like that

>tfw was never spanked as a child
fucking sucked, it has been my fetish since as long as i can remember
for half an hour? lucky bastard

it turns them into neurotic fuck ups like you

We're not actually sure. The problem is, research regarding physical discipline of children tends to lump together everything from a clip around the ear to full on beatings. Naturally, they find that the result of this is pretty bad, so the conclusion is drawn that all physical discipline on children is harmful.

The Dunedin Study data seems to suggest otherwise, there was an article a few years ago about it:
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Personally I use physical force as little as necessary. But if my toddler is playing with a power point? A sharp smack on his hand is better than 240 volts one day.

All in all I think that don't need lots more research, just better research. Legislation wise, I guess there's a fine line to tread. You have to consider that with everything there's a legal line, and then there's what the lowest common denominator considers the line. They rarely match, but the second is influenced by the first, that is, if you say none at all then smacking might be all they do, whereas if you say smacking is okay then they might push it to more abusive force.

Tldr it's complicated and there are many factors to consider.

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>I'm talking about spanking that does not cross the line of abuse.
But spanking *is* physical abuse. Try spank a co-worker and try to explain to the police how it isn't physical abuse.

Keep taking away their stuff until they stop throwing a tantrum.
Assuming you don't have shit genes it will work. If you have shit genes then you shouldn't have kids to begin with; if you have to resort to spanking you're using violence to compensate for being an evolutionary failure.

This isn't a good argument. You also can't send your coworkers to bed, or make medical decisions for them.

>Try spank a co-worker
it works in porn so it must work in real life too

Got spanked and hell even whipped when I was a kid for some wrongdoings I couldn't quite remember. I'm not really sure what lasting effects it may have but in my assessment, I was the type who gets scared of committing mistakes which may have probably stemmed from that.

dude, i see no problem in dat, i mean, children might be really spoiled sometimes, and a hit or two won't kill anybody... i myself have been hit by my parents a few times and i'm very normal... fuck this generation

All spanking is objectively abuse. Aggression against children by parents can't be justified in any rational way.

Spanking children really doesn't seem to have much of an effect from the spanking specifically. It's the threat of punishment in the kid's mind that changes the behavior.

For example, I used to get spanked as a kid, but then I realized it basically does nothing as a punishment. You take your licks, and then you immediately go back to whatever it was you were doing. It does pretty much nothing to change behavior unless the child lets it. Other punishments ("Time outs", "groundings", etc.) are more effective at causing change, but still don't stop a determined child from acting out.

Shame works as a better way to punish the child. If you can't employ shame, its because you are a hypocrite or a bad parent.

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