Is it normal to lose all your friends in your 20's? After college and getting a real career type job...

I still have same friends from 20 years ago, but thats just because Im awesome

People pair off with their partners. They do things with other couples. I always found that to be horrible. Then when you break up all the "friends" you had disappear, even the ones you liked.

Lost all my friends (now 26) around 3 years ago when moving to a new city, not incredibly social and find it hard to make new friends, money is my new friend, or at least its what i keep telling myself.

24yo here, moved cities and lost all my friends

I don't really care about it though. Friends are overrated

true honestly i'm feeling the same way about that last statement

Goys don't need friends. You live to make the banks richer.

Everything except the gf and real career job bit is me.

>nominal wealth = real wealth
Not even the banks are winning.

Im lucky enough to be able to afford hooker
seshes twice a week (ukfag, cheap and almost legal here) so thats that aspect solved but not having a group of m8s to just slang shit to and banter with really does drain you.

This, why should I spend money on gas and shit just to be able to hang out with friends when it's not even fun anymore? This board fulfills the need for a friend way better than actual real life ""friends"".

I faded away from a lot of "friends" because a lot of them were fake and toxic. even more of them were pure drug addicts whom never did anything else.
I've never felt better now in my late 20's, focusing on my career since 24 (late start but it took time to find what I love) and living in a healthy way. the friends I have left are the real, nontoxic ones.

just focus on a successful career doing something you love to do and you'll meet higher quality people like the man you will become if you do.

I unironically value anonymous more than any real person I've ever met IRL

most people in their mid 20s are either childlike immature or wage slave debt husks.

its rare to find anyone in between these states.

i pretend to be immature, most people leave you alone but the reality is wage slaving till this shitcoin gambling pays off.

This. Unironically.

Collegefag here. Ghosted all of my friends last year. Live in a 1/1. Barely socialize. Have no hangout friends. Get my lays off tinder

The law of avg is real. Ditched my trivial highschool friend group so my time could be used as wisely as possible. I just lift learn and trade crypto. Lonely at times, weed helps. Hopefully i retire by 30 so all lf this me time is worth it. Missing out on the typical "college" normie scene

Write down your goals everyday and stick to the plan. Jordanpetersonstyle

Same. Literally no desire to have friends. Sometimes I wish I had gf but then I fap and suddenly I don't care anymore. Only a couple more years until I'm a full-fledged wizard, can't wait.

kek that's literally me except I finished uni already and now just trade crypto for a living.

when did you start and how much did oyu put in initially

>I didn't start to notice this until my girlfriend broke up with me.
sounds like you were pussywhipped and neglected your friends for a wet hole so they gave you the finger

Dont fap. Seriously. Im like 75 days no fap not included ses w women. Changes your life user. Dont be a beta cuck. Be a winner.

>not included ses w women
That's like telling a person with no other source of water to not drink tap. It's good enough, I don't need anything more and I can't afford anything more.

Started in June, overall put around $5000 now have $100k in crypto

well shit what you should do is just find an unfilled house with some people and move in with them, that's what I did in college, otherwise I would have had no friends and killed myself.

Sounds like someone who had a friend ghost they for a girl.

38. One friend where I live. Pretty grim. Sitting in a park alone right now.

>that pic

I mean, I can give you one clue as to why you may have lost your friends.

Not at all I still spent a good amount of time with my friends, but more time on the girlfriend.

how does it change your life exactly

nah not at all, one of my friends admitted to me that his cousins are illegal immigrants and hates trump, we're still good buds though. he's just an alcoholic though.

Actually that sounds pretty comfy. Just buy yourself something hot to drink and listen to some audio book.

I dont like normie scum. I would rather wallow in loneliness trying. To escape the rat race than hang out with blue pillers

Confidence through the roof. Literally no fucks given ever. Porn is a stimulant not natural to us. You are literally making yourself cum to qnother girl getting fucked. Definition of cuckoldry.

Just try it for a week and quit porn forever. Trust me user. Used to fap 3x a day everyday. Changed my life

The friends he lost were useless and you likely are too.

but I;m so horny

so you didnt bust a load in 75 days? do you have a sex life?

Jesus, not a big mystery why you don't have any interesting friends at least.

I moved away to focus on money. Plenty of time to hangout with friends in the future but I want to not have to worry about money or a job so I can ball out in my 30s.

He isn't a huge faggot like you are?

I tried not fapping and lasted for three days. I get very bad insomnia and gave in because the realization that I would need to go to work with 4 hours of sleep dawned on me, But i'm retrying it out.

sexuality has been weaponize in order to make goyim complacent while their currency devalues and their standard of living inches closer to favela status year by year. To learn more about it look up E micheal jones on yt. scientifically the loss of bodily fluids in particular through sex acts slowly degenerates the body over time. If you would like to have a more detailed explanation buy the book brain gain.

>t. r/The_Donald

Ok, one of your friends is xenophobic. Doesn't mean you're not an asshole

Yes i but a load with girls. I went 45 days at my highest without cumming.

Whenever you feel horny do something productive. You want to jerk it and end up justifying it. Just like that 20 minutes of your day vanished for a cheap nut dude. Youre being conditioned like pavlovs dogs

I actually want to talk to girls now because i dont have an excuse to jack it. Get laid fairly easy with 4-5 girls but not worth the effort sometimes

Latter sentence was intended for

This is the biggest redpill anons

Dont waste your 20s and end up a wagecuck in your 30s. Plan your life

Do you get wet dreams? After I nofap for 2 weeks I end up jizzing my bed in my sleep once a week and It's kind of annoying. I definitely notice an improved mood /decreased autism though.

Meh, just because I think borders should be respected doesn't mean I'm a xenophobe. But it's funny sometimes I forget that not everyone on Veeky Forums is larping as a nazi.

>Is it normal to lose all your friends in your 20's?

Sadly I think so. That happened to me. Although it doesn't help that I'm a neet who has no money to go out and do stuff anyways.

Yep its normal. That is how often you NEED to ejaculate. Whenever you need to fap to 10 pushups and think about how much of a loser you feel like when you cum and there is another dude on the screen

purging cucks isn't a bad thing.

What these anons said x1000. I used to jerk the gerkin twice a day and then one day I just decided to stop. I used to be shut in and depressed often. I talk to girls now and it just comes naturally to me. I started lifting and eating healthier. I probably haven't looked at porn in 50 or so days. Hooked up with 3 girls in that time. One of them was begging me to fuck her but I turned her down. I haven't been depressed since. Free your mind from the Jewish trap. No fap will literally change your life.
>shiadoit.gif

sounds like you have a grudge against white people. you must be that black guy who posts the ugly black girls.

any particular e michael jones videos recomend?

So if I dont love Trump and hate immgirants, I'm a racist?

Wew lad

youtube.com/watch?v=KNWPYQjXSYA

leftists are so dumb they think there is no such thing as legal immigration in America

congrats on supporting the rape of Europe

No, I know there's legal immigration in America. What's your point t b h

We're on the same boat, user fampai. I too realized I had no real friends when my 3 yr long gf and I broke right when we just were "making it", we moved to live together into a comfy apartment but after a month or so, SHTF because of an stupid discussion were she ended yelling me that "bitcoin is a meme" and that she cheated on me several times with one of my best friends, I was about to propose her and give her a $2k ring that I ended up trading for BTC. It also made me realize most of my friends were leeches from my supposed success. The moment you realize you don't need them, is when you start to find out about the meaning of the word 'freedom'. Have faith in God, Crypto and love your parents and family if you happen to have one that doesn't sucks. We're all gonna make it in one way or another.

This. Or I get a fixed sleep-boner

Stop being a beta cuck. Never sell crypto for such frivolties. God isnt real. Believe in yourself user

something tells me she's gonna come running back. humiliate her for it.

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Good job bitching about politics when no one else was even talking about it and the thread was good. Gotta love some good shitposting because your jimmies are rustled. Won't be reading your response, I just noticed while lurking you obviously are flustered over something so simplistic as an image.

Don't even like Trump - Just don't like bitches such as you.

>4 years ago-best friend from highschool
>same sense of humor, similar temperament, good buds, have been on awesome adventures, etc.
>be 20, young adult existential crisis hits both of us; both searching for what to do in life
>I finish my degree, he moves back in with his estranged jehova witness mom. We start drifting apart.
>Mad some girl he likes liked me; not the first time this has happened. We stop talking

>3 years ago-best friend during college
>friends because we both play guitar, like some of the same music
>completely different in temperament; get on each others nerves sometimes
>ditch him one day at a music festival, gets mad and we stop being friends

>this year. Oldest friend
>he never left for college so we've lived in different places for the past 5 years. drift apart because of this, but we meet up when im in town.
>Hes unhappy with his life, doenst have friends, never goes out, becomes miserable person.
>this has been getting worse over the years, always a pain in the ass to try to hang out with him, and when we do he never wants to do anything.
>constantly tell him, he should go off to school, leave his parents, house, do what makes him happy He always feels like im lecturing him and it annoys him; im probably cunty about it to be honest.
>stops talking to me.

These are 3 people i was genuinely close to; feels kinda bad with all 3 of them the way shit ended. im not including the people from hs i was "friends" with that i dont really talk to.

I think its normal to drift away from old friends but you gotta make sure the reason isnt because you're being a cunt.
You should be making new friends though, that share your same passions, values, and outlook. If you're just completely friendless, then its def a you problem

This, people gives me shit for being a proud Mexican and wanting a wall and Coyotes and Narco to die, but when I say them you can pay $585 shitcoins and easily have a 6 month greengo card to spic around in the fields and that 2 of my sisters migrated legally thanks to their careers, they say things to me like "you lying pinche malinche, btfo". Ironically, most of them have tourist visas and are leeches of the US of A and if they don't have, they still sauce all their shekeloids from US imports. One more reason I gave up on relating with normies outside my family circle.

>You've been awarded 10 user virtue points

I'm sorry bro, well for me, I'm still friends with all these people, but it's definitely gradually becoming a much more shallow friendship over time. But yeah people change, that's life I guess.

Ha to be honest, I care less about deporting everyone as much as I would prefer they do something to prevent future illegal immigration. But yeah if someone were to decide to flat out not be my friend at all just because I voted Trump as a lesser of two evils, then fuck em I never needed their friendship in the first place.

seriously... if some loser in your life has nothing but using their political party to attack people ditch them immediately.

eh, i feel like it has to do more with peoples state of mind. If you're living out your dreams/ambitions and become successful, it becomes hard to be friends with someone who hates their job and their life.

I def dont agree with what a lot people are spouting off on here about being friendless though.

Friendship becomes more "shallow" in the sense that you cant spend all day together doing dumb shit because you're no longer a child. But even though some of my friendships have ended, ive made new ones that i really value.

yeah I don't think anyone here truly wants to be friendless, what's the point in accumulating a lot of money if you don't have other people to enjoy doing things with.

Almost done doing an HVAC program and soon will be moving out of my dad's house once I get a job thru my school. Pretty much been moving on from my old shitty self and just becoming a responsible adult.

Lost pretty much all the friends and acquaintances I ever had. Not missing them much at all honestly other than like 1 of them who I just text every once and a while to check up on him.

Kinda bittersweet but I'm soon gonna be 28. Don't wanna be another 30 year old loser who still lives with his parents and has no real skills or prospects.

I only have one real friend in the world. We're close to the point where I'd put my life on the line to cover his back and I have zero doubt he'd do the same for me. We practically grew up together too, I can barely imagine a time without him. It's already been a decade. It's great to have a long-term friend like that, very hard to come by. It's safe to call him my sworn brother.

Disregarding that, I've had a few good acquaintances here and there but I'm the introvert type who prefers few deep bonds to many shallow ones. Honestly feel like the chans are my extended family too. Definitely fills the void.

Once we get full VR, I'd love to meet you all at a virtual bar or invite you to a big party when we all make it.

Good move. Stick with it. I wasted my 20s and am now just starting to get my shit together at 27. Fighting through a lot of deep regret while I'm sorting my horribly shitty mistakes out.

>But yeah if someone were to decide to flat out not be my friend at all just because I voted Trump as a lesser of two evils
When people do this i literally feel like im taking crazy pills. this is how trump voters should be treating the traitors but we are not.

Yeah but youll be force to find a spring of fresh water

Yes, mid 20s and have no friends. It is starting to become the norm I believe in this modern "Internet" age. Get used to it.

holy fucking shit, are you me?

I'm 27 and live in new york and this is literally my life right now minus the gf breakup thing, but we're so fed up with all the people we knew from before we met each other.

I experienced it after I have a falling out with a friend over a game, Team Fortress 2, can you fucking believe it. Decided not to speak to him for a while and it ended up being a few months already.
I also realised most of my other friends are moving on, and try as much to engage them as possible. I probably have the best paying job among them, and it's hard to talk about jobs or such stuff (like what I bought). Since it's like I am talking down to them. In the end the common ground we can find seem to be gossip (good natured) about other friends.

I never had friends to lose.

interesting, amigo. Thanks

Different timeline (over 40 airline pilot checking in) but same result:

Yes

The friends you make in childhood, you'll never have friends like those again (See the scene in Stand By Me, "I never had friends like I did when I was 12... Jesus does anybody?" The answer is: NO

You'll keep some of them and lose some. You'll lose some to things you never would even imagine when you were kids, i.e. a Presidential election. I had 2 x childhood buddies who cut me off because I was adamant about my support for Trump. I had no problem with their voting for Hillary (or Bernie), but these 2 guys simply could not accept that I voted Trump.

College friends you'll generally keep because at that stage in life, you are instinctively making friends with people similar to you in ways that you didn't pick up on when you were kids. But they still will never be as good of friends as your childhood buddies were.

Post college, the friends you make are generally work friends and only good for a beer or two after work or a weekend BBQ. At this stage in life your family is supposed to be what matters most.

Over and out.

I've been spring cleaning "friends" since school. It's been whittled down to a group of 3 real friends, and one of them is about to go to jail.

I don't have any friends.

hot shit, thx for posting.

most of my friends were assholes who would only invite me out to make fun of me, leaving me out of real parties, never answering my calls on 4th of july, never caling back ect. dealt with thier shit for 10 or more years because i was desperate to get out of the house and had no where else to go. then came the rumors of me wanting a dick up my ass and they spread it around. so everyone in town thinks im gay or bi because im 30 and have never had a girlfriend and was always the odd one out. its ruined my chances of ever finding a date in this small town. i wasted my youth and there was warning flags all over these people since the beginning but i turned the other way in hopes that it would get better. it didnt. i also tried changing my life by moving but the mold caught up to me and fucked my head up and i made mistakes as well as being a chump. so im back at square one living with my parents.

>I was adamant about my support for Trump.
>I had no problem with their voting for Hillary (or Bernie),

did it ever occur to you that they all swing for the same team and its not for you?

there are only two types of people in this first world that we share:
1. people who believe that a 747 jet can bring down structurally sound towers that meant to withstand fires as well as believing the passport of the hijacker was found on a sidewalk

2.people who are skeptical about a 747 bringing down the twin towers with good reason and supporting scientific and testimonial evidence.

you sound alot like person number 1.
youtube.com/watch?v=GYNVNhB-m0o

Just a small resemblance of proof sir

lmao, sorry to hear that bro. Hope you are better now

lol why did you delete that post bro, was a good story

I thought this happened to me, when all my friends moved away to much larger cities for work/school.

Then, one by one, they moved back. Turns out they couldn't find good enough jobs in the big city to sustain the insane, constantly rising housing prices. They were all gentrified out.

Thanks for giving my friends back to me with your dirty tax shelter money, chinks. We've got no future, but at least I won't be lonely anymore.

Ausfag?

Are you me?
I am 23 and since I stopped drinking due to health reasons, I have seen "friends" fade away...