>tfw too anti social for the gym
>tfw have to buy a home gym soon
Anyone else anti social? I don't want to go touch some sweaty equipment and get judged by a bunch of insecure people with over inflated egos. Anytime I interact with another human a problem arises, so I'd rather be in my own house in my undrrwear listening to my own music.
I'm too aware of my surroundings and terretorial. Has anyone overcome something like this?
Yes, it's called not having an autismo senpai
i had the same problem, so i went at night
I have had a home gym in my garage been building up for about a decade
would probably never consider getting a gym membership: even though Ive been to them before. Notably when I was a student I was given a first year subscription, and used it extensively for the duration.
happier in my own little bubble though
Set in my ways now
sadly it will not fit into my schedule and lifting at night will fck my sleep schedule up
i'm antisocial too but i give zero fucks i just go there and speak to none
the gym is the only time I go out and see people other than random tinder hookups
I need it in my life as much as I need the lifting desu
>and get judged by a bunch of insecure people with over inflated egos
i hope the irony of this isn't lost on you, OP, otherwise there's no saving you.
just stop being so autistic and man the fuck up. How will you ever get over your faggotness if you don't go out and socialise a bit.
>Has anyone overcome something like this?
Lot's of people have. Just talk to a doctor, explain your situation and see if you can get some behaviour therapy.
>it wont fit into my schedule
>at night will fuck up my sleep schedule.
Do you plan on lifting for five minutes at home and calling it a day?
> get judged by a bunch of insecure people with over inflated egos
Wonder why all autists say that. It's just your perception. GYM people are cool.
that doesn't even make sense. he can lift at any time he wants at home, he's not limited to just night lifting.
force yourself and go to that bloody gym, it will help you in masking your autism
>too anti social
>for the gym
that is a good one my friend, i had a good chuckle
If you cant handle going to the gym i dont think youre gonna make it tbqh
Nut the fuck up, OP
I go to the gym at 4am when barely anyone else is there. It is always the same three or four people and even though we don't talk you get comfortable around strangers you see all the time. My biggest problem was having to say hello to the guy at reception because i felt like he was silently judging me but he left last week and i made an effort to to be friendly with the new guy so it won't get weird.
The only insecure person here is you, faggot.
When everyone you know fucks you over for being too nice or giving and steps all over you, you can't help but grow to despise people. Especially when it's people close to you.
I'll use the feels to lift and keep to myself. I'm just real in a world of fake people and I'm fed up and lonely. I guess that's my insecurity? Other people are too shitty for me to be around?
>and get judged by a bunch of insecure people with over inflated egos
nice projecting faggot
you're the only human being in the gym that's so dysfunctional and inherently bad
hopefully you grow out of that shell. otherwise the world will always be small and cramped for you.
people are shitty. that's no excuse to be shitty.
Just fucking go to the gym already, you'll get comfortable after like a week.
Having a victim complex is truly a beta mindset, stop that shit dude.
Im just emulating the jews victim complex which made the untouchable in todays society.
Its a different world boyssss
>Asks people if they've overcome their weaknesses
>Decides not to improve
Did you think this would be your echochamber where everyone would be sad with you? There's nothing romantic about sharing disability or dysfunction. Go back to /r9k/ and stay there if you're not even gonna try.
>not having a 24/7 gym near you which you go to during non-traffic hours
>judged by a bunch of insecure people with over inflated egos.
Doesn't that sound like your self?
>When everyone you know fucks you over for being too nice or giving and steps all over you,
Then you have for whatever reason not developed your ability to say no and set boundaries. Its never anyone else job to guard your boundaries. Ever. That is 100% your job and responsibility. Not even parents, sisters, brothers or best friends will be perfect angels and never violate your boundaries. Neither will they be mind readers that are able to know them.
>you can't help but grow to despise people.
Of course one grows to despise something when all one has with that something is negative experiences. Someone that loses a game all the time will not like that game. That dosn't mean that the game is bad. And maybe if the game was played properly you'd see that.
> I'm just real in a world of fake people
You are just as fake your self.
>I guess that's my insecurity?
Your insecurity is that you CURRENTLY do not know how to assert your self or boundaries and communicate when you feel someone is violating them. That is a personal flaw and your own narcissism is keeping you from acknowledging that so instead of saying "Yeah that is something that i am not very good at maybe i have to acquire those skills" you take the road of pride and arrogance and you blame the whole human race. Let that sink in - instead of admitting a personal flaw that is changeable you judge the whole human race. That is extremely immature and narcissistic.
>Other people are too shitty for me to be around?
See above.
Check your self before your wreck your self
lifiting wont fix your social problems
you gotta lift da comfort zone bruh
>and get judged by a bunch of insecure people with over inflated egos.
You mean, people like yourself?
Nigger you just put your headphones in and work out. No one is looking at you in the gym user. Trust me that 5'8 135lb frame of yours is not drawing ANY attention.
Just stop being a faggot and go lift some heavy ass shit off the floor.
damn son.
This pic has everything
>Great body, confident as fuck
>guys miring as usual
>feminist looking in disgust
great job guys. OP got told. maybe he'll try to make use of what people were trying to tell him and actually improve.
he probably won't though.
Listen to this guy
>behaviour therapy
thats bullshit, benzos work better
>I'm just real in a world of fake people
are you 15 years old
>have time to go to gym in the mornings
>empty, can use whatever I want whenever I want
>don't have to deal with idiots
Now I changed jobs I have to start going after work at 6pm onwards, and I have to fucking wait 30 minutes for equipment and deal with shitheads.
Good luck with your crippling addiction.
So you can predict the future?
What about the time you went to the gym and enjoyed it
None of that shit is going to happen outside of your mind
>antisocial
That doesn't mean what you think it means