Who else here is going to spend the rest of their lives alone?

Do you actually leave the house and do stuff other than lifting?

Please don't let me stop you

well i leave my house to go to work and ride my motorcycle random places

I'm running out of comfy pepes real fast

Because 20% of men get 80% of the pussy

feminists whales etc

I would kill to live in a place like this.

>Just want to keep entirely to myself
>Just want to focus on lifting, work and learning to drive
>tfw its been two years since I spooke to her and I'm still angry and feel like I need to discuss why I said I didn't want to talk to her again fully, despite her knowing the main reasons why...
Well, at least I have lifting to keep me company in a minute, right Veeky Forums?

W-what?
Well yes, but i doubt these make up like half of the female population of any country
maybe im guessing like 5-10% will fall out because of this

Holy fuck that's cozy

By that logic 8-10/10 guys are fucking 2-4/10 girls

Women date above themselves. There should be an equal ratio of men and women, and enough to go around that a man can get a woman that's roughly as attractive as he is, but this is no longer the case due to high standards.

You never online dated in America I see. When you rule out feminist, whales, has bf, over 30 or has kid, there is none left.

I fucking know..

>tfw you will never lift far out in nature in your cozy cabin.

You're doing gods work user

>implying

But wouldnt this fail at some point? sheer numbers should dictate that a few guys would make it with girls in their own class or one step below it
1. Im not american so no, i havent
2. Online dating is a fucking joke man, everyone knows this
Girls who find dates IRL dont need online dating, why bother? where do you think those who only get hit on by guys they dont want go? yep, online

Kind of feels like it.. I burgered every relationship when I was younger(+10 years ago) because i was just too shy. Now I don't even consider dating an option and I put 0 effort in.
Now that I rarely leave my house chances of finding someone are very close to 0.

Thank you
What?

I feel like I have a fair chance of actually finding a gf, despite being a lanket, but I admittedly pussy out all the time. I really have no excuses, I am just a coward.
I had so many opportunities to start conversation in university, but I blew it every time.
I just dont know man, I am not ugly, can hold my own in conversations, have a ton of things I occupy myself with, but something inside of me locks up really hard every time I even think of approaching a girl.
I think it is the commitment which is connected with seeing a girl regularily and actually speaking to her, maybe doing stuff with her. It is something I can not handle over a long time, there are days where random conversation simply kills me. I simply know that I will start avoiding everyone I know after some time, always did.
Am I broken?

For fuck's sake, you're just shy. Stop being so overly dramatic.

The answer is at hand it seems.
Depending on how old you are, start something new. A new job, maybe start at some school.

I heavily doubt that any of you guys here would have trouble finding some girl caused by your looks, or even social competence. I am an engineering student, I have seen couples at my uni which only cause the question of "How did this happen?", so do not roast yourself constantly over how you look or act. It is really more about actively seeking contact, showing other people that you are actually open.
The avoidant nature is where it all begins and despite thinking that nobody notices, everyone, including my autistic self, can smell the insecurity and soical reluctance of other people.

>tfw use lifting as a depression treatment
>tfw it stopped working
>tfw now during my workouts all I think is about killing myself

Why do we have to suffer brehs?

>A new job, maybe start at some school.
How does this help?
Im in college and its the lonliest ive ever been

God, why are all of you so fucking feminine and pathetic? Feeling sad over being a loner? Really now? You are a disgrace to the male gender, mate. You are a weak willed child who probably still lives with their parents. Establish your own business. Make your own money. Use the money to fuck worthless hookers / escorts. There, now you literally have ZERO reason to care about having nobody in your life. You have your own means of income. You have your sexual release. That's all you need. If you feel the need for anything else, such as a girlfriend, you are BETA as FUCK. Feeling the need of others in your life means that you are either a female or a faggot. Are you a female or a faggot? You must be. A real man, such as myself, makes their own money, chooses the pussy of their liking, and does not experience pathetic womanly emotions.

>tfw no gf

>TFW never even held a girls hand
>TFW never even kisses a girl
>fucked 10 hookers at 25 yrs old

You can't make this up.

whats the process to fucking a hooker? do you drive down to the ghetto and approach any chick standing around? or do you call up escorts? do you discuss what you wanna do up front or what?

get a hobby that involves people, aren't there motorcycle people

they are....

I use backpage for hookers. Haven't been arrested or butt raped by pimps yet.
Lately I've had luck fucking girls at asian massage parlors.

Your own fault for lifting for girls, you idiot.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dokkōdō

thank me later lads

Probably. After

>her

I have a hard time even pretending to care about other women.

>i dont know these feels anymore
>probably gonna end up marrying my gf
>i miss being autistic and a virgin
trust me, the chase for pussy is not worth it in the end, its just long sad and full of lies and manipulations

Me. Bf broke up with me Saturday and I can't see myself ever enjoying anyone else the way I did him. I feel so crushed. On the brightside I haven't eaten all week so still losing weight.

Got a date today. Tryna fug her but we both live with our parents. Fucking sucks.

woah bro :)

I miss being shy. At least when I was young and didn't lift I could justify my
>tfw no gf
>"I don't put myself out there so girls don't see how great I am"
Now I've dated a bunch of girls and got numbers and what have you but it ends the same way everytime; unsatisfied, alone and still a virgin.
>girl ghosts me after a handful of dates
>girl tells me she'd rather be friends after a couple of dates
>girl doesn't want to date me

I just lift to have the strength to carry myself through a long and lonely life.

jsut got friendzoned.
guess i'm just gonna keep lifting.

cut is aproaching, propably in two weeks, i'm gonna go from 20% bf to something like 15 or less.

should make a decent change.

i'm lucky i already have large shoulder.

...

also in the >always thinking of suicide club
Got a great job recently though, hopefully I can finally pay off all my debt by mid September and end my miserable existence

You dumb fuck stop being autistic. If a bitch agreed to go on a date with you it's done deal. There is no reason you shouldn't fuck her withing 4 dates. When you're with each other talk, be funny, touch her. Go in for the kiss, she won't. Don't be shy around these hoes you fucking faggot.

Also, if they're cutting you off after a couple of dates it's because you're a boring cunt. Stop being boring. Take risks.

I fucking wish

Everyone close to me is a burden, i would be better off alone

I just never fell for anyone. I haven't had a crush in 10 years. If you wait for some miraculous happening to happen that some random hottie comes to talk to you, it isn't gonna happen.

I'm a borderline fat woman.

That's it. I don't wanna cut cause I'm not dangerously obese (5'7, 154lbs) and honestly, eating is the biggest pleasure I got in my life. I've cut many times but the weight always comes back and is stuck with the current numbers. I've given up and just trying to be happy now.

So just dating weights and my fridge nowadays. Today I actually Googled sperm banks and took a look at the door profiles. I'll have a family on my own one day.

It happens. Female chads are out there. They just leave you worse than when you started.

This is what I'm saying. I fell for one person within three years. And I go out and meet a lot of people. Literally one. It's over now and it's hopeless.

why are you on Veeky Forums then? Seems like the worst place in the world for you to be

>you fat fuck with no willpower

I lift 5 times a week, I've lifted for my entire adult life. I can run 5km in 20 minutes and I live an active lifestyle. I'm not literally fat-fat, meaning that my bf estimate is like 20. I'm starting my first cycle somewhere in the future too.

Why'd he break up with you? Please tell me. My gf broke up with me last week and I want to know someone else is suffering.

I fucking love the single life. Been that way even since I moved out of my parents' home and started living on my own far, far away. No relatives, no siblings, no friends, literally nobody to ever bother me. This is the greatest way to live, just by yourself, and only for yourself. I feel sorry for you anons who crave attention to the point where it impedes your life and makes it worse.

>mfw i thought i would end up alone
>Find a girl
>Meeting her parents this weekend

There is actually more males in the lower age brackets, see: ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC102777/table/TN0x9872ab8.0x9b1e448/

The ratio is close to 1:1 when you calculate it for the whole population since men tend to die younger.

Got too drunk Friday night. I was bored and it was 8 pm an he had already fallen asleep and I was just sitting around the apartment watching tv. Decided to go have two beers across the street and took the dog because she had surgery and kept following me around the apt and jumping off shit. I didn't want to be cruel and force her to be in the crate so I figured it would be fine if I just took her with me and just held her the whole time. I didn't think I was that drunk but he said I was hammered when I came home. I drank like two gin and tonics before I'd left but I a a only gone for an hour. He thought something bad could have happened with the dog. Which is strange to me because when he was "watching her" she kept jumping off the bed to sleep then he whined to me to take care of her. He is a lazy as shit person desu. He would just get home and play video games all evening and get annoyed that I'd get home late (would go straight to gym after work) and cook dinner kinda late. He could have been nice and cooked for me but no his stupid video games and anime came first. I complain about him a lot but I have strong feelings for him for some reason. Like I said it's rare for me to feel like that about anyone so I'm forever alone.

i'm in the same boat with you guys
had a big crush last year and it would have gone further but i was scared to have sex with her because of my small penis and now i still think about her everyday and live in absolute solitude

>tfw my body will always be inferior no matter how ripped i am because of my small penis

Wait so he broke up with you cause you went across the street with your dog and got drunk without telling him? I'm not sure I follow. In any case, use the pain as a motivator to lift moar. We're all gonna make it breh.

Just control your alimentation and you will make it
You can eat shit food once youre... eh, not fat

I know this feel all too well.

It's his dog. But when you put the story like that yeah that's what happened. I was starting to resent him though. I specifically told him on Friday I was going to the gym right after work (as usual) and he called me at 5 begging me to go home to take care of the dog so he could go out to happy hour with his coworkers. In retrospect I wish I would have just told him no and let's just be separate for awhile. Once I actually got serious and consistent with diet and exercise and started seeing some changes I started feeling resentment towards him for being lazy.

Hey guys this is my first time here and this was the first thread. Idk how you roll over here but a guess a board is a board, a thread is a thread and this is my post. Sorry I'm on my phone.

So I'm 21 and my little sister has a gf and her little sister is 120% my type. Since the first time I saw her I was crushing. But she's only 15!

I have honestly tried getting her out of my head because I'm a moralfag and the situation behind it all is to much for me, it's just the fact that she's the first person to make me spaghetti at first glance and now I have to deal with her in my life without showing my feelings, I've got nothing but age on her. I don't know what to do, came here because I'm close to 6 foot and weigh less than 70kgs. I need to change... Am I just being beta? Is this girl worth the risk? I don't usually care for chasing girls. Either way I will most likely visit here more.

This makes me feel better about being a manlet. You can't hide being a manlet, so if a grill likes you, she likes you despite your manletness. But if you have a small dick, nobody knows so you have to constantly live with that anxiety. You meet a girl, she likes you, but you're gonna be dreading the thought of her seeing your junk. Fuck man, that sucks. At least you can try jelqing. I can't jelq my body.

Protip: don't ever date a man who watches anime and plays a lot of video games. I'm sure you know this by now but they usually lack motivation and you're gonna feel like you're doing all the work in the relationship. Good luck breh, at least your weights will never leave you.

>Atleast i have all the time in the world to get fit since i have no social things affecting me and taking my free time

You might make it someday you know. Never give up, never afraid

Bro don't do it she 15 you're 21. When you're lonely you you're irrational and will catch feels with any female who shows you some attention

Yeah pretty much what I got from this whole thing. I've decided I'm not going to date anyone in the future if they don't take their health seriously and are okay with just sitting around the whole time. Also what I gained from this is gonna cut down my alcohol intake and really push it a lot harder. I wanna take up muay thai as well. Goal is to be happy and satisfied with self.

Okay Veeky Forums, which one of you features in any of these videos?

youtube.com/user/WizeMan94/videos

I know one of you here does.

cant force people to like you

but if you like what you see in the mirror, that's all that matters

No no no you misunderstand. But after seeing what I wrote... It's a bit all over the place. Like I said she is my type (a rare type in nz), over the past 3-4 years she is the only person to make my heart skip a beat, I'll have to interact with her like once a week for awhile, I've done everything I can to keep my feelings at bay, and I'm not the type of person to satisfy my urges.

I honestly am trying to get over her and act more like an older brother, she comes from a mildly broken family. It saddens me on what the world is going to do to her...

Stop watching too much porn, you fucking degenerate.

>very inexperienced with females
>notice this girl at my college when we are both walking trough the doors at the same time and she smiles at me, not sure what it meant probably just being freindly
>start to see her around college every now and then and sometimes one of our classes are merged together
>crush hard on her for like 2 months don't talk to her because no opportunities etc..
>find her on IG and look at her posts every now and then
>with some guys I met at college just talking general bants etc..
>said girl comes up in the conversation as she went the same high school as some of the guys
>one of the guys tells us he's freinds with her and I joke "freinds" implying he's trying to get into her pants, he goes silent

I can't explain why but I felt this huge sinking feeling. I built up this girl in my head over many weeks and then reality struck me at that moment.

I'm just being a desperate beta right? How to fix this?

And the rare type I'm talking about is Maori (indigenous people of nz) with blue eyes. It's not uncommon for Maori to have blue/green eyes

Stop letting your dreams be dreams

But how?

>en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dokkōdō
Cool stuff, I agree with most of these except for the ones that imply you shouldn't chase things brought by wealth

I wish I were a girl doing muay thai, you'll be able to do some nice high kicks assuming you have that grill flexibility. I'm stuck working on split flexibility

haha no fucking idea. There's the typical advice of treating social situations like lifting and slowly progress from casual conversations with cute service workers to eventually talking to any woman but let's be real that shits hard

Time to get a granny gf so I can help her with washing herself.

Probably. I'm getting to the age where the depression of feeling like a fuck up for not having wife and kids is soul crushing.

Never even had a gf, should probably kill myself soon.

Open the pic in another tab, didn't feel like doing a legit crop until user finishes the saga so until then we wait.

In /feels/ news, feeling awful today. The first time in a long time really.

I just met a nice girl but I haven't finished my post winter cut fuark. Feels like of beta but I'm nervous to take my shirt off

I find girls lookin at me and smiling. I feel so insecure from before that I don't really even know whether they are laughing at me for being ugly or mirin.
Can't approach them because I'm not sure what it even is
Ffs I've lost without even fighting

I'm pretty good at socialising I have a main group of freinds who I hang with most and I have many other dudes who are casual freinds. I'm not even bad at talking to girls, I hold my spaghetti and can make them laugh. Problem is I have no opportunities to meet females without cold approaching like some creepy PUA autist, which isn't an option because the girl more that likely knows some of my freinds. I'm pretty much just waiting for an opportunity to be introduced via freinds of freinds but it hasn't happened.

Join a club or organization that has a lot of sociable people. It's the best way to meet women outside of dating services.

If you're on your computer or playing video games a lot, put an end to it best you can. Go to an org fair or see if their is an outdoor pursuits center or related clubs at your Uni. There are plenty of people you will click with if you just put yourself out there. You may feel like an outsider at first, but that's a natural consequence of any transition period. Just keep on trying until you fit in.

Paying for sex is fucked up. Having a woman you can love and be yourself around is one of the great joys of life. Don't let your bitterness prevent you from seeking it out.

Back of a car man. Not the ideal situation, but it gets the job done and can be a little thrilling.

its definitely looking that way. during early teens I was not really sociable but still got laid very frequently, after high school I became a recluse and have not touched a girl in 5+ years since. lost contact with all my friends and only live to work out and shitpost now, depressing af