My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. At the beginning of our relationship, he wanted to have sex 5-7 times a day. I was raw and sore and to be honest, the sex wasn't that good. It was like porn sex. He'd constantly flex in the mirror while we were doing it and yell at the top of his lungs, stuff like that. But I come from a background where women are told to fulfill the needs of her husband and submit and all that christian stuff so I never refused him. I finally had to have a discussion with him about quality over quantity though, and I am happy to say that he fulfills me sexually now.
6 months into our relationship, my boyfriend still has a high sex drive. If we skip a day, he's frantic. If we skip two days, he starts talking in terms of we NEVER and acts like our relationship is over. If he had his way, we would have sex for an hour or more every night, and then have a quickie in the morning before he goes to the gym. If I had my way, we'd have sex once a day to once every other day...and probably never for an hour because about 30 minutes in I just start feeling like a slab of meat.
He's a bodybuilder so I wanted to know if this is normal amoungst athletes or not. I once asked him to stop going to the gym everyday but that almost destroyed our relationship. He is much more fit than I am but a strange thing is that he likes buying me loads of fast food and sweets but eats strictly healthy himself. I love him so much but this is abnormal.
Another issue is that he grabs me and propositions me CONSTANTLY--even during times when we both know that we are not possibly going to have sex. I feel like I am prey sometimes and I have to constantly evade him. He complains that I never pursue him, but I feel like he doesn't give me a chance. If I'm busy with something, he's grabbing me. If we're relaxing on the couch he's fondling me. He even wakes me up in the morning groping me on nights when he knows I've only had a couple hours of sleep! It's getting to the point that I don't enjoy the attention anymore, and just being around him is exhausting.
Levi Peterson
This is why I hate women
Jayden Myers
dont be a cunt
Isaac Cook
Is he on roids? If so, dump him. If not, dump him and stop bitching on a vietnamese animu imageboard
Samuel Myers
You sound like a frumpy bitch.
Parker Rivera
Honestly, find somebody you're more compatible with. Not just for your sake but for his too. I'm sure he'd be more satisfied with a girl who shares his sex drive and need for attention, and you'd be more satisfied with a guy who doesn't have as high a sex drive.
Ryan Turner
He's on steroids, dump him and hope he doesn't beat you
Gabriel Carter
Dump him and give me your boyfriends number. I'll take your problem off your hands for you.
Camden Barnes
seems to me like he's insecure
dump him, he's obsessed and narcisstic
James Mitchell
This. I've left multiple women for not matching my sex drive. It wound up being better for both of us. Contrary to what people want to believe, sex is a huge part in relationships and should be matched by both partners
Christopher Allen
He seems a bit obsessive. No, thats not normal. I'd say dump his horny faggot ass, and the useless christian values.
Michael Fisher
No I don't think he's on steroids but he does go to the gym EVERYDAY.
John Turner
Does he take creatine? If so tell him to stop IMMEDIATELY. you have been warned
Samuel Wilson
He sounds genuinely mentally ill.
Why are you still with him?
Elijah Murphy
>sex is a huge part in relationships
Only if you want it to be. The mental aspect as well, having a girl who can make and take banter would be something to consider too.
Jacob Lee
If he's a serious bodybuilder he's probably juiced. They can make you really horny. The other shit is on him though. Roids won't make a dick if you aren't one already
Tell him all this. If he can't accept it try to find someone new. Easier said than done. Good luck.
Carson Bell
banter? ha, more like bullying!
Levi Miller
And by tell him all this I mean what you said in OP
Nathaniel Fisher
Pls don't bully the gf
Caleb Collins
>tfw my gf is perfect in every sense, but a virgin
Brody Murphy
That sounds like parody of typical Veeky Forumsizen boyfriend. How do you guys fall for this is beyond me. Or it isn't. I know most of you are stupid as fuck.
Cameron Campbell
>he's so cucked that he thinks being virgin is bad What a time to be alive
Now. You're gf actually a massive slut who sucked 105 nigger cock during high school. You happy?
>but a virgin there shouldn't be "but" there. In this day and age I would say you're pretty lucky to have a gf that no one touched before.
Wyatt Allen
She won't even touch my dick lads, how the fuck is this a good thing?
Chase Rogers
It means you're ugly. If she was actually a virgin she'd be itching at the chance to lose her virginity to you.
Tyler Smith
So he's on roids then is what you're saying?
Ask him about it. He will not freak out if he's not on them. It will be a good time to talk to him
Gabriel Carter
lmao no, before her I had sluts literally begging for my cock
Brayden Morris
That's cool and all, but seriously really means that she thinks you're ugly. Girls can have different tastes. And if you also had "sluts literally begging for your cock", she's probably scared of getting an STD from you.
Thomas Perry
>banter
I've been living in the UK for half a year now, and banter is the most cancerous shit that exists right after female obesity and entitlement complex.
Fuck banter. It's an excuse for failure in a sense of humor.
Justin Wood
>I had sluts literally begging for my cock
Chase Perez
Kek
Gavin Cook
What is banter
Kevin Scott
I feel you OP. Its super annoying when a guy doesn't know how to fuck and refuses to learn. dumped a frw super hot, duper fot guys because they were absolutely trash in bed.
guys, learn to fuck. think of it like a story, with a beginning, middle and an end. your 1RM max is meaningless if you don't know how to use your dick
Ryder Murphy
Allow him to have a mistress. Say you can't handle his high sex drive alone so you need another woman's help. This is the truth.
Grayson Bell
yeah i have no idea why anyone would fall for this
the "he buys me fast food and sweets" thing alludes so obviously to THICKness
Carter Sanchez
Yeah OP sure is a girl, not just some sweaty manchild looking for attention on a boring day
Gabriel Kelly
If those are her values and she holds them, I think it's good. At least if you're serious with this girl. If not, seek someone else, who will give it quicker.
Joseph Green
A shitty excuse aussies and brits have for humor. I think they are trying to mix sarcasm and dry humor, but it just ends up being a mix of insults and preschool dick jokes. Chicks think it makes them seem open, intelligent and humorous.
Nicholas Russell
I don't even post here but this post is obviously a fucking joke.
>high test >flexing in mirror >fattening you up
Subtle, but I see it.
Elijah Harris
I think I'm serious with her, she def is wife material. How to cope, though?
Jayden Long
Does she beat you off? Try to get her to do that or maybe a bj if lucky?
Christian Richardson
this
Hunter Mitchell
Yeah, try other sexual stuff
Brody Moore
Nope, most I've got is her feeling my dick over my briefs after 2 months.
Jordan Robinson
Is your bf's name Patrick?
James Miller
Drop her then numbnuts Snoop taught us bitches aint nothin but hos n tricks.
Samuel Gutierrez
You both sound insecure as fuck
Hunter Jenkins
Quality girls aren't that common. Just beat it yourself if you have to, lol.
Ian Bennett
>flexing in mirror >purposely buying you shitty food >christian values thrown in randomly
bait.
Connor Jenkins
That's the catch man. A virgin ain't been touched, she don't know how touch, and if you touch her the wrong way, she loses touch. A nymph tho, suck a dick clean bro, she considers other holes bro, she gets dressed up to get fucked up and still pass for a lass bro. A nymph you wish was always yours, while a virgin is never always yours. Enigmas
Samuel Cooper
I'd drop her, sounds like a fucking hassle man, but I only date girls who like sex a lot, and the ones who wanted me to hold out turned out to be really grating and insecure. I don't see how a girl not having had a ton of sex in the past or being prude makes her wife material desu - when I don't have to teach a chick the ropes it feels that much more special to me.
Jayden Gomez
get a boring vanilla beta bf then
Leo Gomez
Been with a Jehova witness for 3 years now, and we did not have sex for the first two months. Just wait for her to be ready and jack off. If it is like it was for me, she actually jacks off thinking of you as well, and she will make the step when she knows you're the one she wants to lose her virginity too. tip: cuddle with her in the bed and sleep (not naked) together, things will escalate from here.
Caleb Hill
Did you jehovah in her witness?
Wyatt Wilson
Yes
Thomas Roberts
How was it
John Wood
Are you my gf? Sorry babe Tren does this to me. Also I've done this pose IRL. Feels fucking good man
Luke Morgan
He is obviously a very insecure man, looking for constant validation. He needs some self-esteem.
Zachary Stewart
Hm, my goal when I have sex is to make sure everyone is sore the next day. Is that the wrong way to go about it?
Jason Lewis
...
Thomas King
Try telling him all this crap instead of fucking about on a Tibetan stamp-licking forum
Leo Thompson
I thought we were a yurt building symposium?
Chase Allen
Did you write a thread about this before? I feel like I read a thread before about a guy who had to pretend to be a jehovah's witness to land a date with a girl, fell in love, made her his gf, and then was like "well I guess I got to keep at this for the rest of my life" in order to keep dating her.
Sebastian Jones
good. we both know what the other likes
Austin Watson
Not today motherfucker
Jose Kelly
Non-white Brit here, it's an excuse for them to hide their insecurities by being rude cunts together. It only works if you all join in.
Xavier Baker
It is the first time I post on Veeky Forums. I never converted or lied about it, and luckily everything went well with her family. But I never told my parents and most of our friends don't know about her religion. It's commonly accepted in French Carribeans but in France people often make fun of them and think they are a dangerous sect
Charles Bell
Get a different bf. Possibly a normie (non fitness) Christian bf. Your dude is weird.
Cameron Carter
Oh shit. Just re-read this thread. You a JW? Every person I come in contact with, friends and family, who are/have been JW, experience sexual abuse.
Goddamn. Upgrade to Baptist, at least, when you dump the bf.
They ARE a dangerous sect. Especially around children. You dont want to know the stuff I heard.
Kevin Peterson
I heard some stuff as well, but I mean seeing from their gatherings, they are kinda the same than other christians, with maybe a lot of emphasis on preaching and anti-racism. It's not an excuse for the retarded shit they say (creationism, not eating blood sausage and refusing blood donation), but I haven't seen a guru taking advantage of them or someone ripping them off. I know they are kind of weird, but not straight up brainwashed as well. what did you hear senpai?
Brandon Ramirez
The only difference between a girlfriend and a friendgirl is sex imo
Julian Ortiz
I've been in two similar, 2-5+ Year relationships where I had a higher drive than she did, despite loving her to the ends of the Earth.
He has a high drive. It will never go away. If the quantity decreases, he will be unhappy and start to resent you. If it doesn't, you'll resent him.
This is a deadbedroom waiting to happen.
End it, or accept the mismatch in sex drive and let him start banging other women on the side. Those are the -ONLY- Possible possible outcomes for this relationship.
Hudson Davis
You should talk to them and tell them what you want, you fucking coon
Jack Collins
Fit is dumb enough to believe this is real
Isaac Parker
>Only if you want it to be But in a way that kinda drives home the point. If sex is not that important to you, you'd be better off with somebody who also feels that sex is not that important. If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice, ya dig?
Jack Roberts
Both me and my high test girlfriend fuck eachother like rabbits.
Sometimes upwards to 10 times in a day, if we ain't doing shit.
Weve had public sex a lot because we can't contain our horniness
Mason Williams
I agree with the sentiment.
I see it very often in real life.
Luke Sullivan
>I'm sure he'd be more satisfied with a girl who shares his sex drive and need for attention Good chance that this is not the case. He can just find girls who seem reluctant and/or casual as appealing, since there's a need to dominate in it.
Asher Edwards
Is he an actual body builder or is he just a bit fit?
Flirt part of the time and I guarantee that he won't be as handsy.
Also, you're not going to get him to desire sex less. That's set in stone. Either >Meet his expectations and keep him happy. Be the one to make the first move and smile until it's natural (the flirting) >Stay, don't make any changes, have to fight his advances as you both become less happy >Leave and find someone you match with
Do you like him enough to actually try for him? That's what it comes down to
David Moore
I feel like there are little kids on here with the "what is banter" kids you need to go, I dunno, go watch a minecraft lets play, this is not safe for you.
why are you still here, shoo
Joshua Jenkins
Ask him to stop juicing so that his sex drive comes down to normal. Not like he would listen lol, I think you're kinda fucked.
Dominic Williams
>Christian >premarital sex 0/10 bait
Nicholas Nguyen
kek
Adrian Gutierrez
Same, I was confused by all the serious replies.
Robert Wilson
Fuck off muhammed.
Gabriel Jones
>and then you grew up to be the mother of dragons
Ryan Ross
on another note, maybe give us his email so we can tell him to find a fuckbuddy since you're obviously a narcissistic cunt that has the if i can't have it nobody can even if i don't want it attitude
Kevin Edwards
>is this bait? If not: He's a manchild; he's severely insecure, and has to keep reassuring himself he 'owns' you by constantly having sex with you. I suspect you're young also. You both need to grow up/mature. Wouldn't be surprised if this 'relationship' doesn't last another 6 months.
Ethan James
>touches gf a lot >narcissistic Female post
Robert Powell
B8 RP Pasta Nonsense
Pic not really related
Xavier Clark
Sorry you feel that way, you should find someone else. That's it.
>wish I had your problem
Landon Morris
Lowering yourself to bottom of the barrel used up girls >now has perfect virgin gf You dont deserve her. Shes thinking she likes you but cant bring herself to lower her expectations and lose her virginity to you. Cant see a way out or too scared to break up. Way to go user.
Jeremiah Ramirez
post the johnny sins version
Adrian Perez
I knew a couple that didn't have sex for four years. They finally did it after they got married.
Julian Reed
I used to be like this until I got put on 4am shift at work and sex drive was kill :(
Anthony Williams
She thought your comment would be downboated xxDD
Kill yourself OP
Caleb Flores
>having to give instructions
that's not hot. you should just know.
Liam Hughes
Fucking this...you are lucky he hasn't beat you to death pack your stuff and leave now