Tfw gf thinks i'm bad at sex

try putting your penis into her vagina.

>ask her what she wants
fucking betas

op, just take what you want like a man

A few tips, women want to be dominated. Dont ask her to switch positions, move her. Pull the covers over you during sex to make it hot and sweaty. Read Models by Mark Manson it will teach you what women find attractive and how to be attractive.

Talk to her

Foreplay like a motherfucker

lol
She doesn't know either, she was a vigin before she met me, she never masturbated and has tried it only twice since she met me and said it didn't feel like anything, I asked if she just fingered herself or massaged her clit too and she didn't even know

Feels bad lads, how do I be better :c

Shes lying

Experiment

Make it an adventure

Both me and my ex had no experience other than masturbation but after experimenting a couple times we found what we like

Eating pussy is for betas pal.

Any foreplay tips?

Also, whats the best way to give oral sex on women? (inb4 betafaggot), whenever I give oral on women, they seem to fall in love with me after.

And last, what are some top foods to eat for rock hard erections before sex? (pic related)

Did you not read

>I recognise that bulge

>eating pussy is for betas

When will this meme finally stop?

Your gf tells you that you are not good at something she has no experience in.
Not to mention that not masturbating or exploring sexuality are a-sexual tendencies, the problem is with her man.

I am a woman.
>sex is getting stale.
>tell husband.
>"so what do you want me to do?"
>"i want you to take me by force and use me like a slave"
>he does.
>have great sex life for 10 year marriage.

Yeah idk about the beta thing, sorry. The guy that asked me what I wanted gets sex and bjs as much as he wants. So beta.

Women want to tell you what they want. We love to tell you what we want. Ask us what we want. Be forceful.

"Stop playing games. Tell me what you want and let me fuck you like that."

She'll like that you care enough to question and will enjoy the added dominance.

.. I gotta ask. New Jersey? I know a girl in this exact situation. But regardless, in that case, just experiment. Play around . See what feels good for her. Have her give you feedback. The only way to truely learn to fuck a woman is through practice cause we're all different when it comes to kinks.

Eating pussy is literally the straightest thing you can do. Take that retarded shit back to high-school.

>get bigger dick
>born more handsome

Women arent directly attracted to either of those

Theres a vid guide of nina hartley showing how to eat pussy, its pretty good.

Dump her. She didn't even try to spare your feelings. There are easier ways to approach the subject and to make u not lose confidence

A mans performance in bed is 95% confidence, if she shatters that she is basically ruining any chance of you improving

is foreplay more important / sexier than the actual sex for women?

Stick your thumb in her but
Smack her ass
Choke her a little
Pull her hair
Restrain her and hatefuck her
Make her choke in your duck
Force her around
>treat her like a fuck object
They love this regardless of what feminist say.

Neither of those make you good at sex.

Being able to communicate>your precious little fee fees

If you can't handle criticism, you're really not mature enough to be in a romantic relationships of any sort.

Its hard to paint all women with the same brush, but I'd at least say it's more important for women than for men, at least in my experience. However that's all anecdotal so I suppose, meaningless.

Wow auto correct really fuck my typing up.
>butt *
>on your dick*

My tips for improving sex:

1. Kegel (pelvic floor excercises)
>learn to kegel 4 types
>1. front which stops you from pissing
>2. back: stops you from shitting
>3. front reverse: feels like your pushing piss out
>4. back reverse: feels like you gunna poop your pants

Doing these excercises will strengthen you pelvic floor, increase blood flow OVER TIME, and give you CONTROL over your erections and when you cum. make a routine of it. google it

2.. Develop Rhythm with a Metronome
>This will sound fucking crazy but it works
>get a metronome / metronome app
>practice moving your hips in 'fucking motion'
>focus on smooth rythmic motion thrusts
>watch the ROM of your hips, lower back
>play with the speed by increasing the beats per minute
>this will develop the motor patterns of humping well
>what feels awkward will be smooth soon
>Hell, you can even hand her the metronome one day and let her play with the speed

>girl was uncomfortable during sex
>probably literally painful for her
>probably took a lot of courage to say something instead of doing what most girls do and not tell them for years, dealing with hating sex and having your bf wonder why you never seem interested, his confidence slowly draining as the bedroom turns dead, because the gf didnt want to say hey maybe lets try harder next time.

>leaving a girl so dedicated to you guys having great sex for the rest of your happy relationship

Ok.

Yes. As I've heard many women say,

"We're good to go for the first few months of the relationship because of your very presence, but after the honeymoon period is over we need you to remind us of that feeling before we dive in"

Good kissing is the most important thing to a woman, above fingering oral or any other foreplay.

Kissing sets the stage for everything else. Kissing with good technique for a good 15 minutes will usually get a girl so wet she'll want you in her before anything else happens

I've heard kegels are a meme which causes you erection problems. Is that true?

I'll back up the metronome idea

Girls love it when you can keep a beat. And if you can pull off a polyrhythm then you will be seen as a god.

If this is the case, and you're OP why are you making a fucking thread on Veeky Forums?!

Fucking ask your gf how to improve. She knows best. If she doesn't know then you both need to experiment!

Any girl that's had pain wen I fucked them had always been a matter of arousal. If you take a step back and are willing to even lose your boner to get her more in the mood, you will be rewarded with my regular sex and a more confident gf. Learn wat makes her wet, then DO NOT DEVIATE. That foreplay is a secret code. You use that everytime and maybe try to improve on it but you don't change the foundation. Until you figured that out for a girl any sex you have is going to be mediocre compared to what you could have

Tip: thrusting shouldn't be a mechanical "thrusting" motion, think elongated oval; having a bit of lateral movement helps.

I think this was an user was trying to illustrate why the other user's stance was retarded, rather than OP scrambling.

>girl wants a polyrhythm
>just gets two guys to penetrate her at the same time

I don't do the metronome thing, but I can recommend swimming and salsa. Those force keeping time, and salsa timing is te hardest of all music
There's a pretty good program online that lets you track keeping in time if you google it

>choke in your duck

Fuck i choked on my fucking food when i read your list. lmao

See the problem for me with what OP said was that she didnt have any tact.

I was in a similar place once
>had a long list of easy to please gfs who squirted or came so easy it was hardly challenging
>met a girl that never came vaginally
>didn't change what I did for ages with her and she finally told me after 6 months she never came with me outside of wen I fingered her clitorally
As much as this upset me it was my fault that she never came. A man builds up his confidence and becomes secure he is all knowing about sexuality and sometimes that backfires.

More than that I was upset she didn't tell me from the start because I would have tried other things, and once she told me I stepped back and started being more into foreplay and she came soon afterwards.

What OPs gf did that bothers me bearing I interpreted right is told him he's bad at sex but didn't offer any way to work together to improve. She's a risk for cheating, and he's going to be a self fulfilling prophecy of insecurity that will ruin this relatiOnship

Im
This one, not op.

i have seen to many movies in which people have sex
today i saw the entourage movie
at one point ari fucks his wife
he does it in a way that most people in these movies have sex
very slow and just not very intense
that's now how you fuck a woman
you fuck a woman hard and deep
you are not fucking her right unless you are creating a big PLOPPLOPPLOP sound while pounding her
watch amateur interracial porn with disgusting low life white men letting their women get fucked by black men
this is not even a joke
that's how i learned how to fuck
you have to take control
you have to let her really feel you
look at her in the eyes as you are pounding her deeply

fucking own that pussy
gtfo with your slow lovemaking
no one gaf

Give her the ol' natty lickaroo.

That's shitty user.

However, none of that was implied in OP's post, he merely said his gf told him he's bad in bed; it could be early on in the relationship. You also don't know if she didn't offer him suggestions or what have you, although you're right in that he didn't mention it so you could be right. Saying she's a liability to cheat because she critiqued his forme is dangerously bad advice.

t. Terrible lover

There's a time and place for being rough, and a time and place for being sensual

Shes not a risk for cheating. If she was, she wouldnt have said anything and found sex elsewhere instead of with op. And your example proves me right, as far as if she had told you, there would never have been a problem for those 6 months. Some women just cant control their tone or how they say things. It must not have hurt him too bad, regardless tho, if hes willing to improve for her. He stated she never masturbated, and if thats the case she probably really doesnt know what she wants, which is probably why she told him, so they can explore and learn together.

Have more sex and gain experience is the only way to improve here desu

Yeah and a virgin who has no idea what she likes and is probably relatively young probably isnt interested in rough. Sensual for newbies, rough when shit gets more exciting in the relationship.

OP, does she touch herself at all durin sex? Most girls can't orgasm from penetration alone, they need clitoral stimulation. I find that if I tell girls it's sexy when they touch themselves or that it turns me on, they relax enough to do it, and they orgasm much more frequently. Mutual masturbation to porn is a kind of low key way to mix it up and get her used to masturbating in front of you. Do it together on a couch, with porn on a full TV, you can finish on her tits and make sure there are a few towels under you two.

6 months in but only recently started getting intimate with one another, she didnt offer alternatives because she doesn't know what she likes either

not rough
i'm not taking about mindlessly fucking her
there needs to be a rhythm
there needs to be a level of consistency
you're not just mindlessly pounding her
but you should definitely pound her
the most amazing orgasms women have had in my experience is when i didn't take it easy
of course there is a time for slow and sensual
i always start out slow
and there are definitely phases where i slow my rhythm down
because variety can be good and because you need some time to recover from fatigue
but make no mistake
you make women squirt from fucking them
you never make women squirt from going slow and gentle

i'm not an expert
i have only had sex with 8 women (10 if you include only blowjobs)
but i have had sex with women ranging from 22 to 45

i am confident that i am correct with my assessment

your first problem was asking your girlfriend for validation. Now she will hold this over your head and control you

Eh I suppose you have a point. As my for my end, she comes a lot now it just was a matter of relaxation. I'm sure that's the case with OP's missus tho desu he should be plowing her and figuring out what makes her Tick instead of shitposting on a Lithuanian poor sexual advice trading forum

>I'm fat and my bf thinks I'm unattractive
>Just find a new bf who has a dad bod
Way to promote complacency user

Squirting is not always great bro.

My number is 57, and I can tell you the term "different strokes for different folks" has to do with your penis

You have to read a situation and the person. If you're always rough women will think ure using them:
>had a girl scream at me for bending her over standing because she felt so objectified

But you're right in the sense that gentle loving sex is often just as ridiculous because it rarely gets the girl off, but it DOES build intimacy. Plus nothing gets them wetter faster than slow plowing

That's about as retarded as saying
>vanilla ice cream is her favourite food
>therefor she only ever wants to eat vanilla ice cream

I misinterpreted your first post then, this isn't terrible advice. Your language made me think you were one of those children who think porn is an accurate representation of good sex; I see now that I was wrong in lumping you in.

This is a really pleasant mature thread for Veeky Forums.

It's safe to say nobody here is Canadian then right? Haha

Didn't even think about it like that, but you're right. You need a bit of everything and things have to get changed up every now and then if you want to keep things interesting.

>but it DOES build intimacy

Yeah, and we love that shit. We love to be loved.

>slow plowing

Fuck, my favorite.

I think everyone in here is old.

>30

Watch lots of porn and take notes. Take all the relatively vanilla shit that looks like fun and do it with her. Don't be afraid. She's already let you or it in her. It can only get better from that point.

That's how I learned. The only time I've ever been bad at sex was the very first time because I was nervous.

After that we fucked for 6 hours straight. You have it in you op.

two primary things

1- however you feel they feel

Relax. complete calm, sex isnt a big deal. be laughing and playful. stop with your ego. shut your eyes off and observe how you feel in the moment. you should be calm relaxed.

you will not make a girl cum if she's not 100% comfortable.

2- hyper-dominance

girls are simple creatures. They are attracted to the alpha.

Girls aren't supposed to consent to sex. Yes, I said it. No, do not rape a girl you spurgelord. But consider it for a moment what it was like before our testosterone became conducive to civilization. You were hopefully with a mate (size/strength) that could protect you from other males.

Thats what they get off on. Dominance. The ultimate proof of biological/genetic strength and thriving in your environment.

You're not a boy doing some shitty missionary, You're a gorilla forcing the submission of a female with each pelvic thrust. Power and dominance. Let her experience yours. That attraction is deeply ingrained into her being. Every girl.

She wants a man, be a stallion.

It's not even fair how attractive you become to her after you embody these and give her good sex. I'm a stallion, I have old girls still hitting me up. "feel free to stop by any time" the day after. Even more disgusting, they look past me if they've been with a more dominant guy.

gf thinks im a sex god, but what she doesn't know is that i was a virgin before her. it's an odd feel 2bh

I'm from Hongcouver lad. This is delightfully civil though I'll agree.

I'm a veritable babby, but I've had lots of experience from being a degenerate slut for 6 odd years (not that I think there's anything wrong with that).

OP, I'd say the best, most straightforward advice people can give you is try your hardest to be confident. I don't mean content, or not-nervous, I mean really confident that you're the best. If you really nail this, the rest should follow a bit more easily.

Okay since you are a woman what should I do next time i'm with her?

im
btw

Are people being redirected here from /adv/?

Don't ask Veeky Forums about sex with girls anyway, the area of expertise here is men.

Where the hell did you read that? I can't imagine how strengthening your pelvic floor would cause ED. Maybe fail to improve it, but certainly not cause it or make it worse.

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I agree that this is the case in most situations, but probably not for this situation. She seems uncomfortable with sex in general since she's so new. (Only touched herself twice?) Taking control like that is really risky, and she could be EXTREMELY turned off by this behavior. I know a shitton of girls, and a few would call rape, even if it was consensual before, just because they didn't like it and another handful would never speak to you again, not to mention the bulk of women probably just generally wanting to end that session. Too risky that early without any knowledge of what she's in to or what he's in to even. They need to take it slow and maybe first teach her to please herself, since if she doesn't know what feels good she won't be able to tell him, and then working up slow. It can just be a 6 hour session, or over weeks. Whatever, just experiment, don't force anything on her because honestly that's disgusting so early in a sexual relationship if you don't know she's in to it.

sex ain't nothin but 50 pumps.

honestly sex is just getting her in the mood. take control, don't ever ask shit "do you want me to eat you out" or some other random shit like that. spend a lot of time kissing/making out/kissing her neck, ears, etc. work your way down SLOWLY. i can't stress the slowly part enough. most guys just start kissing and 30 seconds later they jam their fingers up the girl's cunt. completely wrong.

sex for women is two things. foreplay (most of it) and being able to last more than 5 minutes. any guy who claims he is a 'sex god' is probably full of shit nowadays. the average time for a guy to ejaculate is 5 minutes or less.

step by step guide
>initiate the contact, kissing/making out. take it very slowly at the start.
>start to speed things up a little and wander with your mouth to her ears, neck, collarbone area.
>come back up to her face and start making out with her again all while moving your body to a more controller position (on top of her you dumb phuk)
>work your way down again to her tits/stomach area
>go back up
>work your way down to her cunt but don't just dive in there as soon as you get there. playfully suck/bite on her inner thighs and shit

the rest is how you wanna go. finger her and/or eat her out from here. then proceed to smash.

the biggest point of all this is to TAKE YOUR TIME.

now the sex part just make sure you're using your hips to stimulate her clit. rub against it.

Eat her out. Lick all over, inner thighs, pussy hope, clit. Go down to her asshole too. Girls are shy about getting their booty eaten but once they get it they go crazy.

I've posted a lot on what you should do.

See my posts in the thread here:

but these are quality as well:

part 1, see my comment for part 2

This whole thread is a cringefest for under 25s.

Adding to quality posts.

This is great advice. The kind of woman who gets off on a person other than her boyfriend or husband (especially one very different from him) fucking her like meat while he watches is highly representative of the female population at large. You should take notes.

There's no definitive guide to sex, women like all kinds of different shit, comunicate with her, or start trying different stuff until she gives you a positive response.
In my experience (fucked around 50-60 women) most of them like when you are dominant. She's your girlfriend m8, ask her why the fuck she's saying that; personally I wouldn't bother with a girl like that, sounds kind of bitchy

Sure you're not thinking of jelqing?

Samefag

Imagine what it looks like for a girl to not consent to sex and be overpowered and submitted by the alpha.

You know how you have your wet dreams of megan fox? That's her fantasy bro. Thats what she's praying for.

Obviously she's imagining the face of Lachowski and a connection with the guy...

But that's what she wants. To be dominated, to be powerless as this alpha male, aggressively submits her and impregnates her with his superior genes. The more powerless and dominated, the stronger the seed. Biological success.

Watch Byron Long girl orgasm compilation.

BBC porn and a 6'1 gf who had a 6'9 bf who broke her hand from rough sex is what made me a stallion.

BBC isn't superior, just the dominance is more innate I find. Their only advantage.

Comfort is the mechanism that enables you to act in a hyper-dominant way, which resides in yourself first then her. Comfort should also be a dominant trait. Not only do you have to be comfortable, but you have to be twice as comfortable in order to seduce them into that state. I'm a virgin's wet dream, little resistance.

Also you play both sides. Dominance and sensuality. Denounce animalistic hyper dominant sex as primitive and give her passionate sensual, denounce pussy shitty sensual and give her hyper-dominant.

as for petty little tips and tricks, you'll figure it out.

If it has a smell ask her to take a shower. It will steel like roses and water and you can eat it like corn on the cob

Great advice.

Interesting theory

Go experience what you're talking about first, then come back with a valid opinion.

read my follow-up post
and go away with your stupid sarcasm

amazing how much difference a different hair style can make

take not ebrehs

What's that thing on his neck? A bruise?

.. Yeah.. Ive been fucking for 10+ years homie. As a woman. I can relate. So you know.... Sorry? But I think you just dont have an actual comeback and you dont know how to be wrong. Thats fine and cool and all, but a lot of women dont like to go from not knowing where her clit is to a guy forcing her in to sex.

Op here thanks for all your replies in the thread femanon I appreciate them :)

No problem. I hope atleast some helped and you guys can plow past this and have some awesome sex. Good luck, op, and remember, lots of practice.

The dominant part so much. You're Bane, she's the guy trying to take over Wayne enterprises and thinks hes in control.

Show you're in control by taking what you want. Squeezing her tits/ass. Dictating the position you're in. Pulling her body to you. etc.

And for the love of god, don't be silent in bed. Tell her she's beautiful, tell her how much you love her ass, etc. Sex is as much a mental thing as it is a physical.

..?

So the theory isn't wrong, but it is because he might employ it wrong.

interesting theory...

something something dont try to ask a fish what bait to use.

I hope you know you're actively fucking guys heads up, not helping.

At what age should you go see a hooker/escort if you're still a virgin?

As soon as it is legal

Whatever you do don't fuck a virgin girl for your first time, shit sucks. You know Veeky Forums users romanticize virginity so much but in real life it's just awkward

Read Sex God Method, OP

GO GO GO GO GO READ IT READ IT READ IT

As SOON AS POSSIBLE

Your first time should NOT BE SPECIAL, JUST GET OVER WITH IT

THEN, you GO OUT AND FUCK AVERAGE LOOKING BITCHES
Fuck LOTS of AVERAGE LOOKING BITCHES

I can't stress this enough, get over your "muh special lover" shit
FUCK MANY WOMEN
DON'T WAIT FOR THE RIGHT ONE

Btw I didn't say to rape a girl retard, or even force her into bed. It's the principal.

Do you seriously think OP is even man enough to coerce/force a girl into bed? In practice he just stops his self-conscious little bitch thrust and learns the joys of laying in hard and deep and him and his girlfriend live happily ever after.

Also I emphasized COMFORT.

Being a female devalidates your opinion, so please, don't spout uncalibrated bullshit and fuck their heads up. They're not at a point where they can differentiate your reservation and fear of doing it wrong from actual good advice.

Thanks guys. Nice tips.

Eat her pussy more often. Get dirty and eat ass.

Do women like that? the latter i mean

Hell yeah they do. I've met a lot of girls who are into it. There are a lot of nerve endings down there.