I'm so fucking lonely

i have the same face, but
>i just want to be left alone

I'm glad to see other people do this too! I was begining to think I was alone in this! It really helps!

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>tfw had so many "hers" that i dont even feel love anymore
>tfw i have a qt3.14 girlfriend but neglect and abuse her
>tfw she's in love and obsessed with me
>tfw i cheat on her
>tfw ive told her im no good for her, and she deserves better
>tfw she wont leave
>tfw im not even Chadborn
>tfw i know if i really did love her and treat her well she would disapear
Have i made it boys?

No you're just a cunt desu grow up user

You'll get the gf then realize that you miss all that free time you used to have. Girls are fun/ freedom black holes

>tfw a girl likes you

>Go on a couple of dates with a girl and have a great time
>Panic and realise if I gf her then she'll become a time sink and I'll start to resent her

I want the intimacy of a romantic relationship but girls never understand I value my own free time as well.

>tfw lonely because of my own doing

>and you do nothing about it

Every guy has this challenge, the key is to not resist attachment

>the only girl that likes you is Jewish.
>Your parents would kill you if you brought a Jewish girl home.

>fear of fucking up is greater
it's an endless loop

Are you me?

Have a gf who is totally in love with me. Smart and good looking, some mental issues though so not what i wqnt
She is great most of the time but i've never had strong feelings for her, I just kinda got used to her

Tried to dump her once but she totally broke down and begged me not to, so i figured ill just stick with her. Basically im too invested in her allready to just walk away. Im not happy with her but im not unhappy either. Beats being alone i guess.

> You will never grow up with a girl childhood friend.
> You will never hang out every day together and have fun and become close together.
> You will never get to hear from her one day that she will need to move away.
> You will never get to hear from her that she wants to marry you when both of you become older.
> You will never be able to after years passed and you encounter her again that you realized she became much more beautiful.
> You will never get to hear from her that she still remembers that childhood marriage promise.
> You will never get a chance to tell her that you remembered also as cries tears of happiness.
> You will never then both kiss knowing that both of you found true happiness.

You should kill yourself.

Are you 16?

One of the shittier things I've had to learn in my relatively short life is that a girl can say those things to you, and mean it. Like they really believe those words, but then just as easily, they don't. Their feelings proceed their logic, logic is just a tool they use to rationalize their feelings. In men logic proceeds feelings, and thus the oath of an honest man is worth many times more than the promises of a loving woman. He will keep his promise even when he doesn't want to, her promise means nothing when the feelings that proceeded it waver.

>get mired pretty frequently
>women flirt with me often
>too autistic to think of funny things to say
>potential gfs have faded away when they realise i'm horribly boring and one dimension
at least i've got you faggots

r..right?

We're here forever user. So yea, you've got us. This place feels like a fucking support group for disenfranchised young men who seek to improve their place in the world through lifting. Do I come here for the lifting advice or to know that I'm not the only one who is simultaneously lonely and too bitter to enjoy most people? I don't always know. I think a lot of us lift because it's really the only thing about our lives and our place in the world we can completely control.

Switch the genders around then reread
>women in a nutshell

I get lonely sometimes, too. Instead of trying to make friends, I decided to try to learn how to enjoy my own company. I don't know if it's right or wrong, but it's what I'm doing.

this sort of, i have friends but im the only one that can judge my accomplishments

You have us, user.

Same breh.

She said something like this, then she fucked chad.
A week later I started lifting.

Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks.

This desu

This nigthmarish ride never ends

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If they're all hoes and tricks, which I strongly suspect, how are we supposed to ever love one, having found out what they are?

This isn't Veeky Forums related.

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Maybe we're not suppose to.

This is what 90% of Veeky Forums lifts for. Fuck off.

masturbate 6 times and drink 5 cups of coffee and climb a rooftop

solves it for me everytime

and I got put in a psych hospital for being so fucking sad too.

follow my advice faggot.

Surely this isn't news anons

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Then what is the point user? Has society just gotten out of whack such that nobody is incentivized to invest in and commit to productive monogamous relationships? Kind of a rich irony in imagining a whole generation living lonely self serving lives because none of them can connect to each other in an age of casual sex and social media saturation.

Pic related

That fucking pic.

>Then what is the point user?
No clue.

>Has society just gotten out of whack such that nobody is incentivized to invest in and commit to productive monogamous relationships?
I would love a life time monogamous relationship. But I think monogamy is just some of the bullshit that is fed to us as children. I've gone though and have seen to many betrayals to believe that monogamy is real.

>Has society just gotten out of whack such that nobody is incentivized to invest in and commit to productive monogamous relationships?
No. That dream died the moment women were given liberation.
Societal relationships evolved culturally with the purest understanding that men provide, women support. Women were given shelter and protection in return for their subserviance.
Thats ended now. They dont even need us anymore. They can take our hard earned money right away from us just for interacting with them.
There's a reason Cuck is a popular insult these days, because it feeds the problem.
A woman can have a child out of wedlock and still live a comfortable life with plenty of money from both the government and kids father, unless he doesnt even have a job, and she can still marry some beta cuck who will pay for and raise her bastards. Then she can divorce him for fuck all reasons, take half of everytging he has and force him to pay her too.
This is what its come to.
Dont marry.
Dont have kids especially from "liberated" western women.
Dont EVER date let the fuck alone marry a woman with a kid.

This bullshit here is why we have all of our current issues.

>After those years past she's had about 20 dicks, was date-raped once, and had a threesome with two black guys.

Neither is your one rep max

Yeah but I think a lot of people feel that way, wanting a monogamous relationship etc even with all that entails. I don't think it's just bullshit they tell kids either. There are societies past and present that have had a higher rate of successful lifetime pair bonding than our current one.

Part of the issue is current social norms. The behaviors that are considered acceptable do not lend themselves well to monogamy. Dating most girls these days would make you beta I feel like.

Its ok user im here for you

But I'm not a faggot and I'm not a robot. I don't know what to do with these feelings user. They're getting number but I haven't fully given up hope, though the future is looking bleak.

The loneliness goes away once you embrace it. Once you learn that you don't need anyone else, you slowly drift away from the world. Friends, unreliable. Significant others, a hindrance.

And you learn the world gets by without you there. It's quiet alone, but in that silence you will find comfort you never possible.

>that childhood friend I never use to consider as a girl, just a friend
>zoom forward 10 years, I see her a few times a year since our families are friends - she looks amazing
>tfw I know I don't stand a chance
>tfw even if she did become my gf, she would probably cuck me - despite her otherwise great personality, she has probably been around the block
>tfw she use to know me when I was obese, now I'm skinny fat
>tfw I lift to impress her
>tfw I do everything for her
>tfw it will never be

>tfw I can only experience the feels that I want through anime because real life is so cruel.

It's not loneliness per se, I just know it's not supposed to be like this. I can't bring myself to give up though, nor can I compromise my standards and settle for a basic hoe.

Just gonna keep on lifting and improving myself in other aspects I guess.

Good fitness thread, mods.

>gf breaks up with me
>first gf in over 7 months
>we only dated for 3 weeks
>hit like a ton of bricks, said she found a better guy
>last gf said this, last gf was my high school sweetheart
>got drunk on shitty bourbon
>paid some online live cam dominatrix 40 bucks to tell me how pathetic I am, how my gf never loved me adn cheated on me
>starting on my second 5th
>I just want love but i'll never be good enough

>want to break up with gf
>don't love each other
>we've just become tolerant of each others personalities
>barely any physical contact
>fuck barely any conversation
>only reason I haven't cut the rope is because I'm afraid of the loneliness that is bound to happen

I'd also have to find my own place and with that on top of my shitty retail job, skinny fat, no friends and barely getting along with family im certain I'm 1 step from a school shooting.

>lifting to impress her
Wrong. That's the ticket to failure.
Lift to be IMPRESSIVE to her.
Lift to be out of her league.

Summer normie spotted

>call out socialists on their autism shit
>all these socialists were my gfs friends
>they all delete me on fb and start to spread rumours about me
>gf cant take it and breaks up with me
>now i have no one

fuaaarkkk lads...... lifting doesnt take away the pain

>tfw want someone to cuddle with regularily
>tfw trust issues too bad to get a gf

Anons you seem like good dudes, if not lost and in a little pain. It's time to man the fuck up. No gf for seven months? Big fucking whoop. You don't like your gf but you're scared of being alone? Tough shit. Hit the gym. Take pride in yourself even if nobody else does. Do it for yourself. Don't you fucking dare let these hoes get you down, they aren't worth it and I guarantee you they don't give half as many fucks. I believe in you anons. Wallow in your self pity tonight and wake up tomorrow and do something about it. Being a man often entails struggling alone and unappreciated, accept that. Get it done bros, I believe in you.

i-i'll try, I just want her to look at me with "those" eyes you know

>tfw like sucking dick but not gay enough to love another man

The reason I didn't have a gf for so long is because I went full chad. Before my GF cheated on me with my best friend while I was deployed I fucked one other girl. Now, 7 months later I've fucked 25+ girls, banged strippers, milfs, fat chicks, co-workers, black girls, asians, etc

I thought it would help the apin go away.

also
>tfw looking at my bank and being 40 dollars poorer because of a cam girl

We've all done shit we weren't proud of. Keep your chin up user. I, for example, fucked up my enlistment by getting a DUI the weekend before MEPS. In two hours I have to go to court to find out if I have to spend four days in jail. I didn't sleep all night cuz I'm a little nervous (also took preworkout around midnight after work to workout) so I've spent the last six hours on Veeky Forums, watching tv, with some porn breaks thrown in, wondering when I became such a fucking loser. Don't give up user, we're going to make it.

All these lonely guys on Veeky Forums. With a male/female ratio of 50/50 isnt there a lonely girl for every lonely guy i see in here? So where do these girls post their feels?

We all basically want the same thing, the culture and the sexual marketplace are incentivizing individual behaviors that inhibit us from achieving functioning pair bonding that would see most of these lonely people paired. Look up the 80/20 rule.

Females are the sexual selectors unfortunately.

All they want is fuck CHAD while he eats PIZZA while we jack off to HENTAI.

Cont'd- Society tells girls they're all pretty princesses who deserve, through birth right, only the best. Many spend their youth believing this. As a result many are selfish, entitled, and immature. Boys, in most circles, are taught to suppress their masculine nature, they certainly aren't taught its virtues. This leads to many becoming betas who cannot possibly live up to the girls expectations. Then the tables turn. The girls become less pretty and do not have their pick of men. By now many of these betas that got shit on or ignored have a) learned to cope b) killed themselves and want nothing to do with the women. Thus everybody is miserable. Feminism is cancer on a society.

>JUST GET A GIRLFRIEND
>JUST
>GET
>A
>............
LITERALLY HOW.!???
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEWWEWEE

Dramatically lower your standards.

i know that feel

gf broke up with me a few weeks ago after being together for a loooong time. it just sucks

i still love her and i still think about her everyday but she decided to cut me out of her life. she still says that she loves me and she says that i'm still the person for her and she thinks that i'm her soul mate still but then she also says it can't work and she doesn't want to put energy into making it work

she said she would always be there for me and she said she would always be on my side. she maintains that those things were true and they came from the heart but she just changed. she feels like the relationship is holding her back yet she will still say she cares for me

i don't understand. it sucks. when i lift, it's quite sullen now because this junk fills the void in my mind. i do three 10k runs a week and it takes me just under an hour to run that and all of this stuff just plays in my head on loop. idk what to do with all these feelings but i can't seem to make them go away and it's torture

Strike up a convo with a nice girl, make her laugh some and then ask her out. ez

If that doesn't work try with another girl until one says yes

Time heals all wounds user.

Change is the single constant in the universe, realising this is vital to living a happy life where you are honest with yourself.

Not that guy, but I can't do it. I just can't do it. I cannot lower my standards. I just can't. It's not going to happen.

I want a Veeky Forums GF, simple as that. I can't lower it anymore, I am sorry, it just wont happen.

Just gotta be more patient desu
How old are you?

this is why im here

i don't know if i should kek or cry..
or just cry while masturbating to hentai gf porn

>tfw

>meet friend of friends' gf
>she looks really nice like a poor man's alison brie
>im really stunned by her, she's like my perfect-fu
>friends' gf is trying to hook me up with her
>get hype
>we'd go to a festival in 3 months together
>start working out
>pumping like a mad man
>finally day is there
>she's late
>nervous as fuck
>she shows up
>no make-up, cheap clothes
>notice her crooked teeth, she literally had a small mustache
>feel something shatter inside
>she even clearly wanted me but I can't do it anymore
>during the rest of the event other girls present them but I'm dead inside, betrayed once again
>say goodbye, return home, mindlessly start lifting again

At least I got my gainz

This

>Get with a girl known as a crazy
>Shes not crazy. Shes just broken inside like me
>Best friend. Tell each other shit we've never shared.
>We break up. She won't interact with me now.
>It's been 6 months since we split and I still dream about her.
>I've had the chance to fuck someone else and I didn't because it feels wrong
>Started making out with a girl and it freaked me out so I stopped. It felt wrong.

I'm trying to move forward in life and not be a self pitying faggot; I want to forget her and I'm trying but things keep reminding me of her and probably once or twice a month I bump into her because we live fairly close. I keep having dreams with her in and it's bugging me out.

>acquire gf

>2 years together

>everything is going great

>one day she just says that she doesn't feel it anymore, doesn't know what she wants because she's too young to be in a long relationship and wants to be alone when she goes to college and ends it right there

>all of the time and money I put into the relationship has been wasted, I tried as hard as I could but it still wasn't good enough

>the only thing I do now is update my snapchat story and she is still always the first to check it, almost instantly

Suicide.jpg

Women are cold.

Apart from your ex gf, she isn't cold because shes got 3 guys keeping her warm.

Just gotta read between the lines.

It's over, she's boning or wants to bone someone else
>she feels like the relationship is holding her back
But she doesn't wants to be a bad person/bitch for breaking up, so she'll say
>she cares for me
>he still says that she loves me and she says that i'm still the person for her and she thinks that i'm her soul mate
but then again
>she doesn't want to put energy into making it work

It's like the most pathetic way to say "I want you out of my life, but to spare your feelings (and thus my own conscience) I'll say it was actually ment to be, but it just can't work out for some reason ok?"

Do yourself a favor, cut all contact. She will string you along endlessly and once you find out she's boning Chad while she had been stringing you along for the last 6 months, you might wanna kys. So cut it out now, don't answer phones etc. Try to think of some reasons why she's not worth it (slob, idiot, not that hot, etc.) and focus on anything else.

In hindsight you'll see clearly, I swear.

Stop dating bitches and start dating real women.

>tfw I'm nearly 24 and I've never heard a girl say 'I love you' to me
>tfw I shy away from commitment because it always seems to happen at a time where I have other priorities

No I don't want to believe that's the reason >:(

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In all seriousness user, I feel you.

We lose the woman we've spent 3 years with and it destroys us, it stays with us and haunts us.

The woman just gets drunk and sluts it up and is in "love" again within a month.

I still have dreams with her in; just when I think I'm forgetting about her I'll have a dream where we're doing something trivial. I just want to forget about her Famalams. I can't be as honest with anyone as I could be with her.

>tfw 23 kissless virgin
should probably just kill myself.

Just stop caring and make an effort to be honest.

I was 22 when I lost my virginity and it was pretty much because i lived in the middle of nowhere. Move somewhere busier and embrace new opportunities.

(You)
I just lift because I like feeling exhausted. But thread-related:
>oneitis acknowledges me again
>it's been about 7 years
>dyel but confident
>Thank you sacred deer

I know the feeling. I am trying to move on but there is always a chance that she doesn't actually want to be with anyone but whatever.

It just makes me very mad when I think about her, couldn't even tell me honestly why she ended it etc.

She actually ended it on my birthday, bought me a lot of stuff too, all things like "best BF" etc. The thing is, I had checked her Twitter (She doesn't know that I know it) and there was posts about her me with hearts and everything so I'm not really sure where it went wrong.

Feels bad man, I know the feeling about being honest. I could talk to her about anything, it's like losing a best friend that you've shared everything with every single day.

"Those eyes" are a look of awe. People are in awe of other people whose efforts shockingly surpass their expectations. They are never in awe of those who work for their approval.

The only time I've ever noticed anything resembling "those eyes" on a girl is when it was a done deal, often when I didnt give a fuck

A big part of it was that i was quite overweight.
Dropped 30kgs now though and reassessing it all.
Quit my job recently also. Things are just a tad shit atm.
I will get there eventually.

I dont like how much i relate to this.

Caught feels for a girl first time since i broke up with my ex, absolutely tearing me to shreds inside, want to be able to shut off but ive only ever been able to do that by going through a heavy opiate+benzo binge and cant do that because gains.

Just fucking end the loneliness brehs.