/feels general/

/feels general/
Let's get a Wednesday night feels thread going weathe for good or bad bros

Ill start

>talking to qt girl for 3 months now
>creampie her multiple times
>do really love my dovey shit together when we have sex
>she's told me she really likes me a lot and loves the way I make her feel
>tell her I like we as well and enjoy spending time with her
>despite all off that we are just a FWB type deal cause she has a job interview in a different state and I dont think she wasn't to get to attached incase she gets the job and has to move
>shes currently at the job interview in a different state and if she gets said job she will be moving to that state
>She just texted me saying she got the job and that she'll be moving some time in August
>tfw heart sunk as soon as I read that shit

Should I just cut her out now boys or keep on fucking her till she has to leave?


Good feels
>cut started
>manage to hit 315 on flat bench
>hit 225 for 10 on incline bench
>going to use these feels to fuel my cut Bros

>tfw cut is going well
>tfw go out over the weekend with bros
>tfw drink way to much
>feel shitty in the gym
>please kill me now

>finally became a fraud
>creampied my fat assed high school oneitis
>finally got with my oneitis but it still feels like I never did, like she's just not that same high school girl she used to be

>cut from 115kg
>currently 95 as of this morning
>still fat, but cut is going well
>son born last night
>to a woman who raped me
>love the shit out of him
>weird mixed feels for ex, despite knowing she's a rotten person

Despite all the the shit that went down last night, still managed to stay under my calories.

Just cut her out now. If you keep seeing her it will only make it worse and you might relapse and cry in front of her. Sex is sex you will find another cunt to fuck eventually.

>tfw live with gf
>good relationship
>go to gym together
>there's this qt who is like the qtest qt ever
>does all the lifts I do while gf does cardio
>only gets qter every time I see her
>tfw will never be with her

Thanks breh.. And nah I don't think I'd cry infront of her.. It just sucks tho cause I actually liked her

>tfw will never be with her
Not with that attitude

Gf and I own our house together and I have no reason to leave her other than other pretty girls exist in the world

>buying a house together with a girlfriend

Dude.. what... why?

You're not even engaged? Do you know how risky that is?

>finally learn how to be positive and feel good about myself
>just want to have fun for the first time in my life and enjoy things
>constant anxiety regarding exams looming over my head fucking everything up
>have a super sore throat and it hurts to swallow
>3 exams in a row on friday
>won't even be able to relax after exams, have multiple assignments to do

school really fucks with your mental well being

We're getting engaged this year

>We're getting engaged this year
I thought marriage was the planned part. Isn't engagement supposed to happen and the girl be surprised?

anyone knows what is wrong with his chick?

i met her 1 1/2 week ago and all we do is cuddle.
we kissed 2 or 3 times before but it was short and she pulled away quickly.
i would guess she is inexperienced but actually had a more active sex life than me and even told me she did anal with her ex (she told me that when she was drunk)

actually everytime she is drunk she is clingy and kisses my neck etc but never my mouth, talks about wanting to be my gf etc but as soon as she sobers up she barely touches me

also she asked me if i was a virgin because i didnt try to fuck her yet when in fact
A we never even made out
B we were never alone (always surrounded by friends and if it was just us two then we were outside talking a walk or something )

i really dont know what to do, i have the feeling she is using me for something but i dont know what for.
i think im gonna just flat out ask her why she refuses to kiss me ..

what a fucked up feeling, im an idiot and in love already but am afraid she will leave me soon if i dont make a move...

Trust me dude, our life has had plenty enough surprises that we need something planned and structured for once

Dude, I'm so sorry. Any chance you can get full custody? Did you report the rape at all?

>Trust me dude, our life has had plenty enough surprises that we need something planned and structured for once
Like a kid? You could have just said that up front. I wouldn't have kept asking questions.

Get rid of her birth control. That's how you salvage the relationship.

I will never understand this. Why can't guys be happy with just one girl and instead just feel regret about not being with some other girl they see somewhere else for whatever reason?

I'm not attacking. It's just very confusing, coming from a very monogamous person. Can someone explain this? Are all guys like this, is this just a guy thing?

No like sudden job losses, puppies dying, moving around a bunch, sudden deaths in family, etc. Need to have some stability for once

She's using as a physical tampon or emotional one. Or both. She doesn't want to fuck you, but she wants all the cutesy stuff couples do without actually being with you.

There you go.

I didn't say I'm not happy, and I would never cheat or leave her. It's just that there will always be qts. Can't resist looking at them forever, that's just unhealthy. I don't want to actually pursue them though

Oh okay, the whole "tfw never gonna be with her" threw me off, considering now you've said you don't want to actually pursue them clears that up a whole lot. Thanks.

HOW
DO
I
MAKE
FRIENDS

I CAN'T
GO ON
LIKE THIS FOR MUCH LONGER

I like to think I have at least some integrity. It's weird when everyone on this sub and all my friends seem to only care about valuing someone's life based on how many vaginas they've entered. I feel like that's pathetic, it pretty much means that you give all the power to women and they control your life. Pretty retarded

Social gainz are important user, and maybe the hardest to achieve. As gay as it sounds go on meetup.com or make a post in your local leddit page. Might not be perfect but it's a decent start. You'll have to weed through some autistic weirdos but eventually you'll meet someone cool

I don't know, I'm just femanon that lurks. Considering how many feels thread and guys talking how they wish they had gfs to spend a life with I doubt it's just vaginas they're after.

It's just what throws me off is how they'll still mentally wander and want someone even if they have a good gf or w/e but I guess that's just natural, but as to what you said I agree. Worse when they end up having random kids with em to.

damn i hope you are wrong

I'm op and at first it was just the pussy I wanted but over time talking with the same girl day in and day out you catch feels and want to cuddle and do all that gay shit

martial arts club

But what if I'm the autistic weirdo who spends all day making comments on an Afghanistan yak-herding site?

It's natural to look at someone every once in a while, it would be weird to deny you did. Everyone does it. But you don't go after them if you're committed to someone

Wrong about what? Sorry don't understand what you're talking about.

Quick question, I'm curious. Do you get bored with her often, or kinda just mentally wander to other girls but still relatively happy with gf even after a long time together?

It's just something that scares me a lot when being in a relationship because I'll acknowledge someone is attractive but that's about it. With guys it seems to be a bit different, as in it's more strong the liking or urge of wanting to be with someone else. Sorry if it's all bit garbled, not good at explaining things properly. Sorry.

ay, just keep fuckin' her brah. I know it's gonna hurt inside but you should spend time with the people that you have connections with. Yeah, she is leaving brah, but the time you guys still have together is worth something. Don't throw it away brah, we are all going to make it.

>r/NYCMeetups
>everything is 'Game of Thrones Viewing Party' or 'Wanna grab some beers?'

Fug.
It doesn't help that /soc/ is a complete shithole.

Then find some other autistic yak herders I guess. Like I said male a thread on your local leddit sub and list the shit you like to do

that she is using me as an emotional tampon to get over her breakup, which is quite some time ago.

i cant really think of a different reason for her behavior though.. except if she is just not into making out at all, which im not either

NYC is shit so that example is a bit of an anomaly. But what's wrong with the grabbing a beer post? In my small sub there are always autists posting looking for Dungeons and Dragons meetups like once a fucking week

>gf
>friends
>ex
>sex
FUCKING NORMALFAGS GTFO MY FEELS THREAD GTFO MY Veeky Forums GTFO MY Veeky Forums
REEEEEEEEEEEE

It doesn't have to be over a break up. I've had so many of my friends just slightly lead on guys because they're bored or lonely. Not because they're getting over someone. I would keep my distance, because she seems flimsy. Just saying. One of my best friends used guys as either physical or emotional tampons that now it's not hard to spot it.

My ex gf and I dated for over a year and I never once got bored of her and thought of being with someone else. Sure I had plenty of sexual thoughts about other women during our relationship, but I've had plenty sexual thoughts about women in my life constantly since puberty, gf or no gf. The difference is that I'm was not fantasizing about spending the rest of my life with the fat ass qt I saw at Starbucks, but I was with my ex.

This helps a lot, thanks for explaining it.

Well I mean her and I aren't officially dating we are just FWB but ever since I've started talking to her ive really had no interest in girls cause she filled everything I wanted

Don't be a fucking psychopath user. Just make the most of the time you have left to bang her. If you really care about her stay in touch and find another girl to fuck.

That's what I plan on doing breh

>catching feels for a cum dumpster aka FWB

why

Idk breh we talked for 3 months day in and day out and hung out multiple times a week. The whole reason we are just FWB is cause she told me about this job and didn't want to get to deep into a relationship

Tell her you love her

Hahaha her and I have already discussed this.. She admitted she has feeling for me and I for her

>at gym tonight around 7:45 pm CST
>mom calls. Informs me grandpa has passed away
>says her and dad and my one older brother are heading to the nursing home shortly and going to meet my aunts and uncles there
>he was 94. Health has been going downhill for a couple of years. Constant issues, could hardly see, hear, eat, move, memory was fading
>he kept saying he was ready to die and wanted to go to the cemetery
>today his health finally took a turn for the worst
>aunts and my dad were by his side throughout the day
>aunt was reading the bible to him when he stopped breathing and he was finally at peace. No more pain or sickness
>after mom called, I solemnly finished my workout, then drove to the nursing home to be with my family

Seeing him at peace was relieving. He lived a full life, and unfortunately had some suffering at the end. But it's all over now.

tell her you REALLY love her

I used to be so monogamous, but something kept me wanting more even though I was with the perfect girl. I hope it doesn't happen to you. I will never be satisfied

>moving states for a job

she isnt very smart

guess what happens when she gets fired

>hey user, I need your help again!

A year is not a long time however

I tried. Female officer basically told me it was "too late to report" because I wasn't even aware she was pregnant until 2-3months in. Thought I just had a wet dream (heavy sleeper, mild narcolepsy).

I'm not sure about custody, gonna look into it. But chances are they'll just give her full custody and I'll be fucked. Hope I can at least visit the cute little guy

I'm assuming you don't regret it?

I hope she dies in some random accident. Sorry though, hope everything goes well for you man.

Maybe I'll even send the heart emoji
I was thinking about that. That shit would suck

Just be careful man. Stay outta debt and all that shit.

Make her a romantic dinner with flowers and shit, and then have the most passionate sex imaginable. Guaranteed to make or make her feel really guilty

Thanks bro. Here's to hoping
>tfw he got my bright blue eyes over his mother's shitty brown
Love you buddy

Im actually getting her from the airport tonight and taking her back to her place.. I think Imma be all passionate and kissy when we have sex and shit.. The last time she has sex she was on top and like out her forehead on mine and looked into my eyes.

I think it's pretty normal to look at other people and maybe sometimes have a fantasy or two, even if you're in a happy, committed relationship. No harm really, and it doesn't mean you don't love whoever you're with. It can't be just a guy thing either.

dude just find a new girl stop fucking with yourself emotionally by being a crutch for this cunt

honestly

she's using you, stop

For my last relationship it was just the way I felt, I couldn't help it. Part of it was resisting falling in love and hating how I was losing control so I key cheating on her and never committed myself fully. Part of it was not liking her as a person but being torn inside cause I loved her.

Haha I'm already talking with a few other chicks right now so I have my back Ups when she leaves

I need new job badly. I work overnights and its killing me. I am exhausted all the time now, but I cant sleep for more than 4 hours at a time, even with melatonin and zma. I cant find anything decent that im qualified for, and im so afraid of being stuck here for another 2 years.

>post ad on CL looking for qt MILF workout partner at local park, say I'm a fit guy and what time I'll be there
>get to park
>a sexy MILF lady is actually there
>go for my run to see if she actually is there for the ad or just there
>finish run
>she's doing yoga poses
>muh dick
>awkwardly say hello and stammer out:
>Y-you doing some poses and stuff?
>she seems really receptive to my conversation
>I go off to diff area to stretch
>she leaves, but kinda gives me "the eyes"
>finish stretching
>go back to car
>she's waiting in her car to wave at me with windows down
>wave
>get in car and drive away
>god I'm a pussy
>go back the next day (today)
>she's there
>giant confidence boost that I'm apparently attractive enough to make up for my autism of
>fuck it, I have to talk to her
>she does more yoga poses while we talk
>turns out she's chill as fuck and is pretty well read
>and also apparently a yoga instructor
>talk about literature, she even spaghettis to me a few times
>we agree to meet up tomorrow for her to teach me some poses to help with my running


I'm pretty sure she wants the D, guys. Good feels are preventing me from sleeping, but I'm sure none of you will believe me. I guess I'll just wait for tomorrow

Been needing one of these.

>tfw my entire family is extremely charismatic, attractive and successful at what they do
>only thing I inherited was a decent face
>they all have great personalities and are beloved by everyone
>tfw I don't have much of a personality, always the most quiet of the family at reunions
>whenever i have a small achievement my sister has something that blows mine out of the water
>have never had a gf, parents and grandparents starting to realize I probably won't get one
>struggling in uni (electrical engineering) meanwhile sister gets straight As and is working on her masters
I love my family and really look up to them, and I'm happy enough, but every time I go home for holidays like yesterday it hits hard.

Just realized earlier today while lifting though,my grandparents didn't give me a brithday present for the first time in my life. I really don't care about that though, but the meaning behind it. They tend to do stuff like that when they lose respect for someone in the family. Feels real bad.

Dude that's awesome. Congrats breh, you've made it.

>be me
>22 y/o k/h/v
>stay at home with parents
>get invited to do trivia due to autist memory
>grill now wants to go; doesn't want me there
>told trivia is canceled
>see facebook photos
>do shitty calisthenics workout for last hour

Hey dude, as long as you're happy. Don't put so much weight on what other people think, even your family. Especially your family if they're going to shit on you instead of help you out.

Focus on yourself and what you can do to be better. I'll never be as smart or popular or good with chicks as some of my friends are, but that's cool with me. I improve myself with every week and I'm happy with that.

I think it comes from biologically wanting to bone as many chicks as possible because genetics or a case of "the grass is always greener on the other side"

Thanks man. I needed to hear that.

>Have had "anxiety and depression" for the last ten years
>never fit in well with other kids
>never did well in school, studying and keeping a train of thought was hard
>dropped out of college
>always thought I was just a piece of shit
>had no idea why I failed so often
>switch psychiatrists every so often because they can never seem to help
>new guy is really good
>doesn't buy that I am depressed
>after months of working with him he sends me to a specialist
>diagnosed with schizoaffective
>psych thinks there is more to it
>deep regression therapy
>uncover memories of sexual abuse that I had blocked out
>emotions I never knew I had about my childhood
>starting new medication for the SZA, therapy for abuse
>things are starting to look up for the first time


There has been a lot of feels for me lately. Just going to keep squatting and hoping that some day I don't want to kill myself.

She is using you for emotional comfort until she finds a guy she is willing to fuck. She does not respect you as a man and it is too late to rectify that.

She said she did anal with her ex and hasn't given you so much as a hand job, that should be enough to make you resent her, but it's not because you don't respect yourself, so why should she?

Ditch her and cut off all contact. When you do this she will get very upset, and offer you all kinds of sex, don't listen to her, as soon as you turn back sex will be back off the table. She will also probably act really sad and hurt, and also get really angry at you, "you're just like every other asshole!" blah blah blah. Again, ignore her completely.

Other than that, hit on every even slightly fuckable girl you see, even the extremely fuckable ones, say anything and everything to them, experiment, fuck around, just have fun with it. And the next time it starts going somewhere, get to the point, make it clear that you want to fuck, and if they aren't interested then move on immediately, repeat until desired results are achieved.

Don't waste your time getting your heart broken by some slutty cunt that will do anything for other guys and nothing for you. You know for a fact that she's not pregnant and you aren't married to her so for fucks sake appreciate that freedom, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

Trust me bro, there's nothing there for you.

>they do that when they lose respect for someone in the family

Sounds to me like your family has some fucked up dynamics that are the main reason you are a failure, and you don't realise it. Your personality is almost exclusively based on your early developmental experiences, and it doesn't change much unless you take serious action on your own.

You might want to reflect on your life and see if that rings true. I know you can't help but love your family, but it might be best to move away and develop yourself independently.

Post comment, "I can't believe this, all of you can go fuck yourselves", or just tell them in person. They will try to play it down or turn it on you, but you are not the one in the wrong bro.

What kind of sexual abuse?

Why are women so mean?

Men control women with violence, women control men with emotional and psychological manipulation. Obviously that is a generalisation, but I'm sure you see my point. Not all women are cunts, but most them are, just like most men. No sense in being butthurt, just learn, evolve and progress.

Working on this now. Within the last few weeks I mentioned to my psychologist I've long had a suspicion I was molested.

Everything has sort of fallen into place and my behaviour etc makes heaps of sense. Sucks that I lost so many years being depressed/anxious but hopefully things will get better.

>fuck I hope so

>Been with fwb for 2 months
>Text her last friday "want to chill?"
>Get a response today after work "omg so sorry my phone got shut off, how about this friday?"
>Told her i didn't care what she did but then she told me she wants to be exlusive with me 2 weeks ago.

oh well, back to my boring simple life. CANT FUCKING WAIT TILL I GIT 2PL8 BENCH FUCKING SHIT. god damn she was one of those "white girl" black girls too, my first black chick and she didn't just "lay there" like most of the others.

Ah yes. Sad frog friends

Was wondering how anyone here has dealt with or beaten unrequited love.

>be me
>be 2.5 years ago
>be senior in High school
>have class i get to go to hospital for on site experience on what I might want to do
>Cute girls in class but one is by far the cutest.
>like 10/10 womanlet
>decide hey this ain't so bad
>still ready to spaghetti at any time
>1 month in after all insurance and legal docs are signed we have a class
>after first week of visitations to one segment of hospital we are supposed to switch
>while I'm looking at schedule she says something to me
>i immediately spaghetti
>full on 5-10 seconds of sperg silence
>finally shake my head and say no
>rest of the year thought about her or what to say
>she and her friends kept trying to talk to me
>figured everyone was just being friendly

Its been years and I've actually seen her at my gym a few months ago. Still sperged out.

I'm so close to being skinny albeit dyel after years of being fat. I've come to the conclusion I'll never see her again since this has happened before.

I've always just wanted to die in war and nothing else. Like my whole life plan was just to ignore everyone, no matter how much they cared, and die. Recruiter said fuck off and now I'm off the deep end reconsidering my life choices going back to when I was 4. I've never been so hurt about being a prick.

So how do i live with not knowing?

I'm a sad cunt with no prospects. I can't help it. Also, self pitying.

Op here

>got her from the airport lastnight
>go back to her place
>talk and Cuddle for a little while watching tv
>we end up having sex multiple times last night
>cuddle after she says she's really sad for leaving and feels guilty
Here's where it gets weird
>her best friend knows about me and everything
>she told her best friend that she Will be moving soon
>her best friend has hit me up on snapchat before
>Mfw wake up and I have a snapchat from her best friend saying we should hang out some time

This surely is a trap right bros??

Her best friend is pretty hot and I want to bang her I'm going to wait tell she goes to the different state then fuck her brains out

Good plan. Incase it is a trap play it safe and don't be too flirty.

wow look at that, a rational person

>cant stop smoking
>affecting my cut
>affecting my mood and my mental health
>lots of infighting with my family right now
>cant get a gf
>that feel
>all of my friends are graduating while Im still 2 years behind because I had to start late
>theyre all leading normal well adjusted lives while i shitpost on a fitness forum and jerk off to /gif/ all day

Most babies are born with blue eyes and don't necessarily keep them. I'm pretty sure it's because their bodies aren't producing a lot of melanin yet but idrk

>be 24
>two years out of college and still haven't landed a career
>have to resort to temp/wagecuck work to keep from being poor
>work late most nights so I don't get great hours of sleep
>can barely make it to the gym anymore since I'm too busy scrounging for pocket money in hotel kitchens and Target

I have literally no idea where to go from here

Maybe try being a server at a nice restaurant. Most of my coworkers were college grads or in college, and a good amount of them found internships or even job opportunities by networking with customers. Money is pretty damn good, too. It was at least $200 for a 6 hour shift where half of it is spent standing around.

She could be using you for emotional support, or she could be fucked up in the head.

There are a lot of girls out there who've programmed themselves to enter that sexual mode only when they're drunk. When sober, they're terrified of intimacy and the thought of their partner leaving them after 'they get what they're after'.

>what a fucked up feeling, im an idiot and in love already but am afraid she will leave me soon if i dont make a move...

Though if you're desperately projecting your love she'll feel that. If she's malicious she's just using you. If she's fucked up like above, she may be scared of fucking it up with you.

Girls are crazy, mang.

The girl is doing you a solid.

When the dick is good but the girl knows she don't (or can't, in your case) own the dick she passes the dick off to one of her good friends.

Fuck off back to /r9k/ incel autist, Veeky Forums is now officially a Chad board

>oneitis in high school got chubby
>really chubby
>dyed her hair silver
>pierced her nose
>basically turned into some weird sjw/dyke/fatty
>meanwhile I got Veeky Forums
>got a few snapchats from her last weekend after 3 years of no contact, don't respond.
>I'm completely unattracted to her now. She was so hot and fun to be around in high school but whoever that girl was, she's dead.

>oh well, back to my boring simple life
If you cant be happy alone, how could you ever be happy with someone

pathetic

> be awkward fat fuck in high school
> have qt 3.14 crush I thought was way out of my league
> fast forward to today
> post some other mods pics on snapchat and ig
> qt likes all of them
> messages me
> after a bit of catching up, we get sexual with each other
> sending very raunchy stuff to each other

This is just the beginning, Veeky Forums

I got a feeling that my gf will cheat on me this weekend. Is it worth it to go out and fuck some slut just to not get solo cucked, just in case?