My birthday is in a week and I'm at univ but don't know anyone.
Is it okay if I invite people from the gym I normally see to hang out with me at the bar for my 21st? We usually give each other nods and sometimes spot each other but rarely talk and never hang out.
How would Veeky Forums react if I invited you?
Aaron Parker
pls respond
need to know your opinion since i want to ask tomorrow
Charles Brooks
I'd go desu
Tyler Lopez
may as well try, just ask what they're up to and say you were gonna hit some bars up for your birthday
only problem is you'll kinda look like a loser when they realize they're the only people you invited.
Blake Morgan
If you're near DE I'd go. My birthday is tomorrow and I'm probably gonna stay home since my gyms closed. Also happy early birthday user
Grayson Adams
I'd go and leave once you started to show everyone your extensive anime collection
Ayden Perry
Don't fucking invite people you've never hung out with to your birthday. Just don't.
Oliver Mitchell
are you big? if yes, then invite'em. if not, dont, you will look like a looser.
Samuel Anderson
I'd be friendly and say sure. Maybe exchange facebook details or something.
And then when it came to the day I wouldn't go become my social anxiety would convince me that it'd be a total waste of time, and I'd have nothing in common with any of you guys anyway because I'm an autist who browses Veeky Forums.
Robert Nguyen
I wouldn't invite them. I occasionally talk to some people in the gym i make it seem like we are friends but i hate them for taking me away from my workout, i would never hang out with them.
Jackson Taylor
Damn this picture hits me everytime. I'm pretty sure I had a similar shirt, and had hair (almost) as long as that in middle school.
The thing that makes it crazy is that my mom 100% has that same blue baking dish.
I always view this picture as some type of not too far away alternate dimensional possibility of my own existence.
I don't know why I am suggesting this, but just dont tell anyone it's your birthday. If you meet any chicks though you should tell though. Wait until friday or saturday. Grab a few beers. My b-day is in the middle of august, and nobody is ever around so I know the feel, it's not a big deal mang.
Jonathan Hughes
>invite strangers from gym to your 21st >they see you have no friends >they will make fun of you every single time they see you at the gym I don't see any reason why you should not invite them
Jose Smith
jesus christ no
Lucas Torres
Honestly op, you are either autistic or baiting, this question should not be asked
Listem to them
Joseph Fisher
What Uni you go to user? If you're close by fuck it I'll come!
Jacob Moore
lol no Sorry, but first meeting partners are awkward as fuck. Generally rule of thumb is half the room should know each other. The other half can be new people, but a room full of people that don't know each other or have any common interest (that you know of) no way.
You're at Uni, go make some friends, you have to have people in your class?
Ryder Williams
you can't invite people that you've never spoken to before bro, that's weird
Angel Turner
please dont invite people from the gym. spare yourself the humiliation.
if you're in uni go ask some people from your class who you talk to on regular basis? maybe people with whom you've worked on a project.
if there are no people you have talked to and have difficulty talking to people, you can probably ask a study advisor if your campus offers any trainings you could take to improve social skills.
Dominic Stewart
Tfw spent my 20th bday exactly like that pic. The good thing is I also got the number of the qt who is currently my gf that day.
Charles Ortiz
Your cousin doesn't count as your gf, user
Chase Brooks
>The thing that makes it crazy is that my mom 100% has that same blue baking dish. I think everyone has that same dish. I have never bought a baking dish in my life yet i still have that same one in my cupboard somehow.
Anthony Mitchell
I skip classes and don't talk to anyone when I do go
UPenn
Isaac Brooks
I stopped having birthdays parties after i got 12
what the fuck are you? a child? grow the fuck up
lmao my 21st birthday was so normal that i still forget sometimes if i'm 20 or 21
Evan Hill
make an excuse and not go :/ sorry
Daniel Wright
Honestly, a few years ago I'd probably have made up an excuse because I would have felt uncomfortable going and more uncomfortable telling you that I didn't want to go because of potential social awkwardness, but right now I'd say fuck it and go for sure.
Nathan Bailey
I'm sorry OP, I had my 21st a couple weeks ago and didn't have anyone to go out with either. I just bought a 6 pack of Blue Moon and played vidya.
I hope it goes well for you man. Happy early birthday, friend.
Cooper Cruz
Birthday party? Are you fucking 12? Go to a strip club or buy something expensive
Hunter Wood
My mom never baked me a cake for any of my birthdays. Lucky shit still getting cakes at 20