Is being with the girl of your dreams the true definition of making it?

Is being with the girl of your dreams the true definition of making it?

no, it's only one part of it

No matter how perfect in your mind....

..in reality she is just anoher annoying bitch somebody is tired of putting up with

No being able to ohp your gf for 3x10 is making it

fuck no nigger, more important shit in life than finding a girl, that comes later

Who hurt you user?

Nice trips
What if you've been lonely all your life?
Won't finding a gf make your life much better?

4u

In reality, making it means always striving for new goals that you yourself have set.

>tfw fatty through school
>graduate highschool 290 6'4
>find fit and drop 100 pounds in a little under a year while lifting heavy
>get to 190 at 20 years old and bulk up to 250
315 bench for 1
315 squat for 1 (never really focused on squaring like a do now)
500 deadlift for 1
175 Ohp for
>currently down 240 just started my cut this month
>meet qt 5'5 blonde hair blue/green eyed girl probably
>Mfw she has nice perky tits and a nice little ass
>Mfw she works 2 jobs and goes to college
>Mfw the first time we hung out we drank beer played zombies and ordered pizza
>she asked me if I work out then touched my arms and chest
>we cuddled and watched the terminator
>end of the night I hugged her and picked her up
>Mfw she wrapped her legs around me
>currently setting up a dinner sat with her brehs
>Mfw I haven't actually gone on a legit date on forever usually just bang tinder sluts

She is like my perfect girl brehs.. Maybe I'll actually get a qt gf

Not user but I'm pretty sure this is the reality
I've been with a perfect girl before and she was deeply fucked in the head in reality
That's the kind of thing that keep me from dreaming about true love

heh

saved for future use

I don't usually use the word, but that seems like a beta orbiter's definition of "making it".

>tfw you will never double penetrate Riley Reid with your porn bro

Hello my sweet child

All true.

No, being happy is making it. This can be with or without a girlfriend or wife.

What does that even mean unless you respect yourself first. In my opinion - nothing. True definition of making it is to earn your own respect.

Kek, is this a glorious new pasta or are you this new? Either way 10/10 post

nigga, stop copy pasting this shnitz

>Is being with the girl of your dreams the true definition of making it?
No. Not even close.

You have to aesthetic.
You have to be actually healthy on top of that.
You have to be educated.
You have to have a decent career that earns decent money.
You have to have a likeable personality, along with a sense of humor, and be popular.
Then once you have all those things, you have to be in a stable relationship with a decent woman, that leads to marriage and healthy, intelligent offspring, which you both stick around to raise to productive adulthood.
THEN you can claim to have 'made it'. Otherwise you're just some faggot on Veeky Forums fooling around and pretending be relevant.

>I've been with a perfect girl before and she was deeply fucked in the head in reality
Then it wasn't the perfect girl you dumbass.
You only thought she was, but in reality she wasn't.

That's way different than being with an actual "perfect" girl.

Pls

>girl of your dreams
>that smelly zitbag

its the opposite of making it. making it is transcending the need to be with a girl.

I like the way you think

Making it is when you finally get a girl who's better than the one who made you start lifting

Having zits is the least of that bottom of the barrel coal burning cunt

All pornstars are coalburners.
Some just don't do it on camera because it hurts their careers if they do it in the beginning.

Nah mate, I have few pornfus saved up

How do you know someone on such a level of degeneracy doesn't do it in private?

The kind of people who have sex on camera are the opposite of the kind of people who are "redpilled" about blacks.

no but being with your mom is

Who are they?

Too bad she'll find a legit Chad now that you didn't even kiss her.

she was gonna find a chad anyways. girls these days are always going to find a chad. they have tinder, pof, fuckin countless other websites.

even if you're a chad, there's always going to be a better chad. you never win anymore unless you get incredibly lucky. enjoy everyone getting cucked the rest of your life.

A girl will never be madly drawn to you if you don't have a greater purpose and focus to your life. A girl cannot be the focus of your life. If she is, she will leave you.

A woman needs to be attracted to what you stand for (hard work, financial success) not that gay touchy feeling shit.

The girl of your dreams is a porn star. You can literally pay her.

EXCUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUSE ME.

Just because she does porn doesnt NOT mean shes a WHORE.

Reily is such a qt
Such a shame shes fucked niggers

no

making it is being happy with yourself

> wanting to make it
The only reason I keep living is to surpass the goals I set for myself. If I were to make it then that would mean I stopped setting goals for myself. Then I might as well kms. Read the poem, "ulysses" by Alfred Lord Tennyson, it sums up my view nicely. A girl is most definitely not my end game.

Only you can make you happy, if you need a girl te be happy you will end up being disappointed.

True
must to weird to be with a perfect girl tho