Assuming prob is causing my ED, how do you stop? I love the thought of jerking off and cumming. Is it still bad to jerk it to a picture?
Other day when I tried to have sex with a not so attractive girl my dick wasn't working so good. I had to eat her out a bunch and stroke it to get hard but when I put the condom on I went soft. I'm not used to condoms fuck
>not so attractive
That's the problem you dumbfuck. Your dick and your brain text all the time. One can't do something the other doesn't want
My dick is also fairly uncooperative when it comes to unattractive girls. Only way it happens is when I withhold orgasming for a couple days beforehand to get me super sensitive to the point I could fuck my fridge. If you are conscious of yourself not being attracted to her, your dick feels the same way. It also feels shitty at the moment, but it's nothing to worry about. Going soft when you're with an attractive girl is reason to change whatever habits you have, but if that's not the case, there's nothing wrong.
People can fuck fatties easily all the time, how do I do that?
Fap once a week with no porn. You've now been cured, user. Go with peace
By not having standards / being a piece of shit.
Use your imagination. Worked for me.
i imagine yer mum.
Do noporn
Your brain won't want cheap steak when there's filet mignon on the menu, and your boner can't tell the difference between a video and a real person.
what about pictures?
I don't know why this isn't common knowledge nowdays... but its ever increasing that, especially younger males, have ED due to way too much porn + masturbating. Stop wanking it and let you mind reset. Depending how bad things are, it can take weeks to months.
Durr I'm a fucking idiot
T. You
You can try fapping with condoms on.
Or just fap less.
By having hight test
He's right though
OP you have to just go cold turkey for a while. Only for about a week or so but even that can be extremely hard. You just to force yourself through it. If you ruin it, you have to start again. I'd say 10 days straight of noporn AND nofap and you should be cured. I was in pretty much the exact same situation as you so I'm talking from experience. After that you should only fap once every 2 or 3 days at most on average so you don't get into this mess again. You can still use porn but use it more as a sometimes thing if you want to treat yourself, just use pics or short gifs/webms for the most part. I used to be so bad I wouldn't even get morning wood and I could never get even a dick twitch without physically touching my own penis, and if I stopped stroking for even a second it would begin to go soft again. Took me about 6 months of really trying to manage 10 full days because I was addicted and couldn't make, but I'm s happy I did because I feel like a guy who can actuality fuck girls now.
Solid advice man, appreciate it. Alright well I had sex friday and its sunday so thats 2 days, i havent jerked it yet but I severely want to lol. How long would it take to get this bad again btw? Like if I get cured, how much bad behavior before i return?
After banging a prostitute my urge to watch porn went away. I still fapped every day though. Also now the urges to watch porn are back so ima get another hoe. Do you guys wanna help me pick?
yes
Ok here is my first choice so far. I like she is a little thick. But you guys are gonna help me out. Lets narrow down the race
White, latina, black, or asian?
black please, also how do you know these girls are real
I dont know, I only just got better and I don't really want to let myself go back. I did notice when I'd go 3 or 4 days noporn/fap I'd think I was cured already because I'd get a sort of semi morning wood and could get hard easier than I could ever remember, so I'd have a celebratory fap to congratulate myself. Then once I'd done that I was back to square one with a shitty limpdick that wouldn't move. I make sure I don't fap every single day anymore and I try t keep it to 2 or 3 times a week but sometimes I go multiple days in a row and have to rimind myself how much stress I went through to fix myself and just force myself stop.
>not used to condoms
If that's the problem, then try jacking it with a condom
Also make sure you use the right size condom. I had problems my first few times trying, it turns out I'm too big for normal condoms and need magnums.
Most girls have reviews, there is actually a community of losers that review prostitutes
Anyways here is the ebony selection. I'll post some of their profiles
Im definitely not too big so thats not the problem
First we have kandi kream, not bad but I think I can do better
Less bad but still pretty bad
Better just to cut it out for a while
This one isnt that great either, will post more
>references
Dude what
I like this one the most so far
Would you eat this womans ass user?
Most want you to give them contact of other escorts youve seen for a review. This is a pain in the fucking ass if you havent seen any or only a few because some dont bother wasting their time confirming youre not a psycho
>smart and sophisticated women.
I like that they put that kind of shit in their ad text just to stroke their own egos.
I dont think it is about that. It's probably more of a seduction tool.
No
Anyway here is the last one. I like Nicole the most but I need your guys input
Because she is the only one not obese. The one up above was 5'6 180lbs. Thats a grown ass mans weight
Are you even HTAM?
low test detected
>It's probably more of a seduction tool.
Literally what kind of nu male cuck cares about or even desires any of those traits, maybe in a spouse (even then; not really) but in a literal fucking whore? Fucking why.
I really wouldnt be able to tell you
>what kind of nu male cuck cares about or even desires any of those traits
Because a less common job of escorts is to be arm candy at events, so if they promote themselves as "smart and sophisticated," they may be more likely to get called in for an event that may require a bit more presentation
How incredibly sad.
Not that paying for sex isn't incredibly sad and depressing in and of itself.
Carmen has potential but need to see face. But yeah, so far I'd do Nicole as well.
You have standards.
This. Doing it with a realistic fleshlight instead of your hand is actually beneficial as well. Put it in a shoe on the floor or in between your bed mattress and actually fuck it instead of jacking yourself off for bonus points. You can practice using a condom doing this too.
what site is this?
anyway I think Nicole is the best
I had the same issue op. I lost my virginity to a girl that I wasnt attracted to at all. The entire time I was trying to get/stay hard..poor girl was sucking my dick and shit for like 45 minutes. Overall it sucked and I thought that there was something wrong with me.
Next couple of girls that I hooked up with were better looking but still...id never stay hard.
Then I met this one girl who was exactly my type physically speaking. Like not model pretty but I have weird taste..but she was literally my dream girl bodywise, and I thought I really liked her at the time.
Anyway with her it got to the point that we'd be studying next to each other and I'd have my hand on her upper back and id get hard. Or id kiss her..just like a quick kiss..not make out with her or anything...and id stay rock hard for 30 minutes.
The point is you have to find someone that you're actually attracted to.
Weird, how in the old days did romans go and rape any women in sight even if they werent attractive?
In an adrenaline fueled fuck frenzy, you just go for it