Why is it when try to engage and hold a conversation with girls they mostly seem uninterested after a certain time...

Why is it when try to engage and hold a conversation with girls they mostly seem uninterested after a certain time? If i don't try enough it makes me seem like i'm uninterested in them but if i try it turns them off because i look like i'm being too clingy. The fuck Veeky Forums

You're boring

How to not be boring?

this

Just give up and focus on other things in life, you'll be much happier for it.

Most girl not worth your time love to talk about themselves. If you want sluts, get them to talk about themselves.

Also here's how the conversation will go once they begin to ramble about themselves:

>hi, femanon
>hi, user
>w-what are your hobbies
>dogs, Netflix, traveling, exploring, food, having fun, friends, adventures, Starbucks, coffee, pumpkin spice lattes

This. I haven't even flirted with a girl in 3 years. Feels kinda miserable in some ways, but i'm resigned to it. I'm only 23, so it's gonna be a long slog, but i'll find something to make me happy.

Because you aren't chad
If you are one, they'll laugh with whatever shit you say and suck your cock even if you're quiet

girls pretend to be interested in talking to a guy when they find him attractive

in other words, they find you ugly

welcome to 2016, everyone fakes interest based on aesthetics

Some advice for all you little homies

A lady knows if she wants to fuck you within 10 seconds of knowing you

If she's already showing disinterest at that point, quit

Maybe you just bore them, you have any hobbies other than liftan?

>Yeah so I took this huge creatine shit
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>and then that fucking manlet, i swear to god he was 5'10.5 at best fucking half roms 3pl8 ant thinks he's hot shit

Also, women are very talkative, just ask them about themselves, let them talk

they're not attracted to you

even quiet chicks will try to keep conversations going if they're into you

99% of girls 18-25have the personality ofa bag of hammers and don't know how to hold a conversation outside of their small circle of friends. On top of that, maybe you're boring.

Be somewhat aloof, condescending, and arrogant

Pretty much a bully without the hostility

You either have it or you don't

So much this

Even shy girls will act like you're the most charming, funny, cool guy around if they like you

Be yourself, when you click with a girl she will understand all of your jokes/references and you will not be considered boring. Dont be someone your not.

that's really really really not true

Ehh I'd post a story about my situation but Ive posted it a couple times already..

I play music, go to concerts, play vidya, interested in history and philosophy.

It's totally probably true, he is probably boring.

yeah .. going to need to know what you look like.

the majority of the shit on Veeky Forums is you need be 10/10 chadmode to get any attention

and you don't, you just needa be attractive and put together.

but whenever i see somebody askin for help talkin to girls I tend to picture a gawky, skinny, barely pubescent, socially retarded teenager.

women aren't going to want to engage with you if that's who you are.

neither do you/i.

do you like engaging randomly with unattractive females? not really?

neither do women unless there is something to gain.

the shy qt's are the best, if you tease them enough they trip over themselves completely powerless against the force of their animal attraction towards you.

there's one I work with that only talks to me prob because I don't talk a lot IRL. I like to flip-flop between cool aloof and charming jerkboy game, enough push to keep her on her toes but enough pull to preserve interest with teasing/touch/smiling. she has a bf of like 6 years, I could cuck the nigga easy but I don't shit where I eat. maybe I'll do it before I eventually quit and work elsewhere.

she talks a mile a minute and my boss has no clue how I get her to open up.. it's the power and magic of game you old fart lmao

>I'm a special snowflake
>I love netflix, having fun, traveling, and hanging out with my friends

So literally just like everyone else? Fuck man, I want to go out and hook up with girls because it's really not that hard, but I just can't bring myself to put up with all the vapidity. Maybe when I get a little more fit I'll be able to push through it, but I've just totally given up for now.

I guess maybe the secret is just meeting more people and walking away whenever someone says pointless bullshit. The easiest discerner in the world if someone is worth your time is their answer to "what is your absolute favorite thing in the world?"

meeting people outside of a job or through friends is hard as shit

what the fuck do people even do solo? not everyone is a kid still in school.

TRP reader spotted

90% of all women + 100% of tinder profiles

"I like traveling, my pet (usually a dog), going out with my friends, and craft beer."

this is my experience
>send me memes
>I just want to meet your dog
>looking for a sugar daddy xD
>instagram account
people really are unoriginal

in saying that I have a third date tonight with a girl of a tinder who's actually alright

Same here

This one never stops with the flirting, invitations to go out drinking and "listening to music" alone, helping me get rid of coworkers I don't like, etc. But she's allegedly "shy". I wasn't even trying to game her.

She's married and had her first kid 3 months ago and I don't wanna go to hell
>>>/reddit/

>tinder

Literally the Hottery.

Tinder girls are absolutely vapid pump and dumps at best.

that's right

ignore the angry neckbeards/virginTOW's and understand why the material works the way it does. especially the evolutionary bio/psych aspects, game becomes second nature. you can observe the social dynamics and even predict them in real time if you really know your shit

of course there's no sense in being something you're not, that's like being one of these faggotty wannabe PUA's. run game that suits your personality. I'm naturally aloof, but I got a friend that naturally runs loud obnoxious asshole game and falls face first into more pussy than the MC from to-love-ru. he shines at parties, I shine at bookstores and quiet places

For Tinder profiles, you're also going to get 90%:
>I work a job that requires either shift work (nursing usually, but some older girls you get waitress or bartender at a bar/club where they're out of the age range to hook up with the guys who go there), working with the elderly, working with children or working with pretty much only other girls

I started lifting after a very BP breakup because of TRP. The truth in it is very evident.

It's okay op it's better than hanging out with a girl multiple times and her
seeming really interested in you and always asking when you two are going to Hang out again, kissing and cuddling then having to deal with her horrible texting habits
>inb4 she's not interested in you

Haha facelet detected

>traveling
>a hobby

NO IT'S FUCKING NOT REEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

Sounds to me like you have your head screwed on apart from the video games. Chicks hate that shit, it's boring to them.

>Get a GSX-R, always walk around in a bike jacket and sunnies and stare down any cunt that gets in your way. If some bitch checks you out, look at her and arrogantly say, "what?"

As douchy as it sounds, it works.

I don't really follow the gaming culture. Just like to play them occasionally

You're too sucked into Veeky Forums culture and literally have to retrain your brain to converse IRL with normalfags

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The ones that tell you they read are the worst.

>oh you read, what types of books?
>lots of action and romance novels
just

>Buying a gsxr
>being this much of a flaming faggot
Pick two, Jorge

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Maybe your monotone and you dont add emotion when you talk about certain things.

Go to Meetups user.
I got teased by the autists here, but people are there for a reason - to socialise and make friends.
Granted the one I went to was full of spergs, but socialising is socialising.

Plus at the end of the day you don't like it, just walk off

None of those are hobbies.

Do what I do. I don't text lol. only text me to come out and hang out. Other than that fuck off. Girls/people got two different personalities on the phone. I don't want that fake shit lets actually do something. Other than that if you're not my mom or dad don't txt me for a convo. Trust me this works way better than spilling your spaghetti over texts.
If you're constantly inviting them to places you seem less boring and more out going. Plus you guys fucking lift lol wtf? get yourself a fit chick go squat make dinner.

ALSO anons stop putting girls on a pedestal above yourself. The second you do that is when it all make sense