Steps to Making It/Good Feels

There's a million possible reasons, few of which have anything to do with you.

>you reminded her of that creepy uncle for some random reason
>she had an ex she got back together with
>her cat died

etc.

The one thing that is always a bad idea is freaking out about it and sending 100 texts, etc. Go ask someone else out.

The main thing to remember is you probably don't want to be involved with someone who does shit like that. Maybe she'll get back, and have a valid reason why - but don't chase her, and make it clear that's unacceptable to treat you that way.

Why did God created tall men Veeky Forums?

No I asked her if she would be my gf. Chill out, man

Man, good for you OP. Communication is the key to any relationship - that, and regular exercise. Also Kimchi is the food of the gods.

Get ready for the best wild ride of your life

Bench: lmao1pl8
Squat: 1.5pl8

We're all gonna make it, bro. Just keep trying

I never want to get off this ride. I had kimchi and real ramen noodles with her for lunch today, it was great. I'll keep the communication tip in mind, best of luck to you, user

and you too, luckiest of pepes

You'll find someone, manlet. There's someone for everyone

Hard kek for some reason

i hate this burgeoning Koreaboo that I'm turning into

but fuck, cute Korean girls are the best

That doesn't answer my question

Maybe he made them for the same reason he made heavy weights. As a challenge.

But how old are you? I feel like after spending 22 years alone I just wouldn't be able to handle a relationship no matter how much I would want one. Having to spend so much time around one person just seems hard for me.

I hope she's not your co-worker. If so, I'll pray for you OP

You read Models.

Good job user.

Damn

What's that?

Just don't take relationships so seriously. I've seen so many people get crushed from investing so much time in someone that they forget about themselves.

I always want to tell guys that had you been investing all of that time you put into this other person, into yourself instead, imagine how much further you'd be ahead.

Some people live life from relationship to relationship (basically all girls do this) instead of focusing on the bigger picture.

It's your life and you're the one behind the wheel man, women are free to come along for the ride if they want, but they sure as hell won't be the ones driving.

How old are you chink lover?

I'm close to 23 user, and she's 24. You just gotta keep trying, one day you'll find the right person. The more time you spend with them the easier it gets.

You're gonna make it

lifting heavy things doesn't fix personality issues.
Work on social gains not just weight

She works in the same building, but in a different lab under a different professor. I'll take the prayers though, thanks user

maybe you Bros can help me out
Posted about this before

>met qt blonde girl
>go on a few dates
>she's really into me
>have a date later on this week

Here's the thing
>qt blonde girl has a bestfriend
>bestfriend happens to be a guy
we'll call him fuckboy
>first time I meet fuckboy he tried to squeeze my hand hard so I squeeze his and he pulls away
>go bowling that night with qt and sister and fuckboy
>qt says she needs to talk with me and we walk away
>qt and I kiss
>fuckboy comes around the corner and says ohh I just wanted to see where you went

Another time
>chilling on the couch drinking and watching movie
>put arm around at for cuddles
>fuckboy sees after 5 minutes
>he says let's finish that game we were playing
>qt and I both say no
>he says ohh "I don't feel good I'm going for a walk"
>fast forward to the end of the night
>he's to "drunk" to drive so he crashes over
>she walks me out and we make out for 10 minutes and she apologized for the way he was
>Mfw I could have fucked her that night

So apparently they hang out all the time and shit. And it's obvious he likes her. Now usually I'd bail but she told me he's a virgin plus he's really not that good looking.
>she told him to make a tinder to get laid
>Mfw she said he said ohh I just don't want to fuck a random girl

What should I do about him bros? Like I want to be cool with him but he is really starting to piss me off I feel he's hindering my ability to finally get a qt gf

>lost my virginity like two weeks ago
>came inside wide-hips flat-chest cutie without a condom
>felt life changingly good
>missed out on teen pussy in high school, got Veeky Forums, turns out I didn't miss it permanently
>she wants to meet up again
>might have a gf soon

feels really good overall.

Yeah, he's not her friend, he's friendzoned wanna be boyfriend. My best friend is a girl - if either of us is hooking up, the other one lays the groundwork then vanishes. Because we're actually friends.

Best bet is to take both them out with you and your friends. Let your friends rip into him for a while . . . then you tell them to knock it off. You're the good guy, he gets scared off, she's confronted with the fact he's trying to fuck her.

Don't knock her up breh

Let him cuck you

You were boring or your personality is shit or you took her to a boring place. You reminded her of her uncle who molested her.

Yeah that's what I figured.. Like he's always buying her shit. So I know he likes her. I have yet to really ask how she feels about him but from being there a few times I can see that she is just his friend. Like I'm trying to be cool with him but ever since we first met I can tell he doesn't like me cause when I'm around he doesn't get all of her attention.

See

Yeah, it doesn't matter how cool you are to him. He hates you, because he's either too pussy to make or move, or to move on after she shot him down.

I've been that guy (never again, and years ago) - seriously, the friend thing I described drove me away, since it made the situation too plain to ignore. Moved on, got a girlfriend out of spite, and actually grew the fuck up. She's not doing him any favors keeping him on the hook, but young people rarely realize that - I'm assuming you're all under 21?

t. supreme gentleman

Yeah I'm 21 she's 20 and he's 19. Next time her and I hang out I'm going to try to get some more information on him and her. Like I'm going to assume he tried to ask her out and she shot him down and now he's just lingering around.

Apperntly hell text her and if she doesn't respond he'll send a few more than call her. He doesn't seem like he has many friends as well. I don't feel threatened by him it's just he keeps on being a cock block or a little bitch when I try to cuddle her or hug her

THANK YOU SUPREME GENTLEMAN

Other guy gave some great advice. The guy's definitely a friendzoned orbiter who thinks he might have a chance if he hangs around long enough.

I don't get why he has all these opportunities to cockblock you though. Like the first time you see a girl, a group activity isn't a bad idea, but he can't cockblock you if he's not around.

You should definitely bring it up with her. Obviously it's fine that they're 'friends,' but she should be laying some boundaries with him if he's going to be a little bitch like that. Either that or you should tell him off yourself if you don't think it'll alienate the girl.

THANK YOU SUPREME GENTLEMAN

Today was me and gf 6 month anniversary

We watched all the jurassic park movies and napped all day

Say something like "Hey babe, no offense but can we hangout WITHOUT fuckboy for once? He's really cutting into our pussy smashing time."

Well the first time her and I met it was just us. The second time was the bowling incident. The third was a coffee date.. Then the fourth time was bull shit he was supposed to get off work at 12 pm so she asked me if it was okay for him to come over I was like yeah sure whatever I'll have a few hours with her. But for some reason he got off of work early and he came over. I was so pissed and I could tell she was as well. I already told her for the date coming up he's not invited. Hell the last time we hung out I could tell she was regretting it

>after he comes back from his walk
>she says "hey user said he doesn't want you hear and you need to go home"
>I say well I didn't say it butttttttt
>he gets all mad and try's to change the subject

I'm waiting for him to get drunk and mouth off so I can say some shit cause apparently he's a dick when he's drunk

Kek I told her "hey can you tell fuckboy to let me have you for one night all to myself"

Bruh, you dont wanna have a kid now, dont take those stupid risks

Hey hey.. good stuff bro. Hope you both really enjoy your time together.

Don't let this mess up your rhythm too much... You gotta craft that discipline. Her agreeing to be your gf is a byproduct of the the work that you have done for yourself.

You''re on the way

Are you trying..?

If he's a lightweight and you're not, challenge him. Tell him to go shot for shot with you. He will feel like he has to if you do it in front of her. Let him gets sloppy drunk and then ask him why he acts so weird and shit or just wait until he makes an ass of himself and "escort him" out when he loses his shit. Maybe whisper "I'm gonna' fuck her so hard tonight" in his ear and deny it to no end when he cries to her about it.

i'm so glad i'm done high school

This is really stupid advice. If it's not one of the about 10% of girls that like physical violence, it just shows her that you don't have the social skills and are picking on her 'friend'.

It's better to be the guy that doesn't have to react, because things go his way.

Sup Veeky Forums

>me
>20yo kv no friends no job
>i havent talked to a girl that wasnt school related since 15
>havent been to a party since 17
>friends dropped me cause im a self loathing faggot
>and i pretty much flunked the whole year barely passing or dropping out
>routine is wake up, eat, uni, lift, go home and browse a bhutanese rug making forum

How do I fucking make it bros. I dont want to be a sad cunt anymore

Push it in his face that you and her are going to happen and there's nothing he can do about. Be subtle yet vocally enforce it once you and fuckboy are alone at times. Make sure you continuously put yourself out there as the nice guy so while she's falling for you he'll be in her ear being annoying and jealous as fuck and sooner or later he'll deal with it or drive her to cut him off.

>missed out on teen pussy in high school, got Veeky Forums, turns out I didn't miss it permanently

Why you let me feel that feel?

ayyyy lamo, welcome to the club.

The girl I went out with made out with me for a solid 10 minutes on our first date then proceeded to never talk to me again

Great feels brah, amirite?

Congrats bro, you made it

Lmaoooo he's a pussy
>doesn't drink any sort of beer
>whenever he takes a shot he makes the face girls make
>Mfw he has to drink mixed drinks

Shit bro I hope these stupid ass games will end soon

I used to try to be nice but next time we all hang out again I don't even care I'm going to kiss her infront of him and be all over her. He should fucking know by now that she likes me and that he needs to cut his shit out.. Hell he spends more time with her than I do lol

Just push on bro. I was in a similar spot, and I just pushed through and started making a point to say hi to people. From there I gradually got more social until I became a quasi-normal human being

THANK YOU SUPREME GENTLEMAN

Start working out socialization skills along with muscles.

I'm giving you a routine. For the next 3 weeks, at least once a day you will talk to a complete stranger, male or female, for at least 3 statements on both sides. Can be about anything - the weather, directions to a place you already know how to get, the music playing at the drugstore. But you will do so at least once a day.

>tfw squatted 1pl8 for the first time this week
>actively trying to go to the gym without the help do others
I started going last year, but a knee injury made it too painful to squat or deadlift. Soon after I started going regularly I was in a car accident and didn't have any way to commute. I just stared again two weeks ago. Am I gonna make it?

We're all gonna make it, brah. You got this.

just find a slut man jesus christ

Thanks user. It seems to me I've got two issues to focus on now
>getting out of skinnyfat mode
>raging social autism

Im starting college this fall. I expect to get some attention for my physique now.
In high school i got Veeky Forums around junior year but no one cared since they all knew im autism so i never got a gf or talked to a girl.

> me
> 23yo and wasting time and energy flirting with girls
> got Veeky Forums 4 years ago
> makes no difference to women
> only get a single one night stand in many years
> getting attention from men but always refuse because I'm not a faggot
> guy won't stop asking me out
> fuck it I cave, shit was cash
> I don't even have to try to flirt with men
> feel good
> I think I made myself gay

Why bother with women anymore when it is fucking impossible to get their attention but guys throw themselves at me?

THANK YOU SUPREME GENTLEMEN

What a stupid fucking cuck you are, to give up when the fight requires you to exert minimal effort. I'm glad you found you calling as a subhuman, do proceed and never reproduce.

This man is correct.

KEK

I exert maximal effort, but having Aspergers makes it very hard to navigate social situations.

gay sex is fun and kids are fucking loud and disgusting anyway, I wouldn't even want one if I married a girl

>not wanting kids
finally thank god.

is OP white?
is everybody here white?

>implying anyone on 4 chan isnt pic related

lmao no way.

got into Veeky Forums because of /a/. don't watch much anime anyway nowadays because time.
started gyming before i knew Veeky Forums existed.
pretty normie and still am outwardly.
haven't played video games in a while too.

Thank you supreme gentleman

THANK YOU SUPREME GENTLEMAN

Fuck her while he jerks off to you two in the closet. Maintain eye contact and have him clean up when you're done

THANK YOU SUPREME GENTLEMAN

>borderline autist
>hungry skeleton with acne
>creepy guy in the corner

>put on some decent mass
>see a dermatoligist and get rid of acne
>dress better
>behave exactly the same

"He's so mysterious"

now i just need to fix the shitty behavior that's ingrained into me, and i'll be good to go

THANK YOU SUPREME GENTLEMAN

>"he's so mysterious"

fucking normies

>finally fucked qt hightest girl in pool
>tfw made her cum but cant cum myself
>tfw she left me there to shower
>chase her and say we finished you but didnt finish me and hug her from behind
>tfw she smiles pushes me away and continue showering and after that she slept and dont want to sleep beside me
>mfw i am at her house in one of her bedrooms trying to sleep
>tfw i somehow managed to be alone again while not being alone
Dont know if it good feels or just feels brahs

>race mixing
>making it

>>tfw cant cum myself
>>tfw she left me there
>>tfw she pushes me away
>>she dont want to sleep beside me
>>tfw i somehow managed to be alone again while not being alone
>Dont know if it good feels or just feels brahs

you are 10/10 delusional at the moment.
Steal some shit from here house and never go back to that fat cunt.

You in the Tomo threads?

>Made it
>Was fit, lean, happier than ever
>Literally the happiest in my life, shit was going perfect, I was the man I always wished I could be
>Creative mind was exploding with productivity like I was a kid again
>Playing music and drawing better than I had in years
>Memory was crisp, mind was sharp
>Gains, gains everywhere
>No drugs, no alcohol, didn't even want any of it anymore
>No social anxiety, made new friends, had great conversations
>Suddenly nasty snap city, herniated or bulging disc
>Couldn't walk for a few days
>More depressed than ever
>Can't do anything, feel weak
>4 Months later still have weakness and pain, can't trail run, can barely train weights, been drinking booze alot again
>gained 15lbs
>mental stability is back in the shitter
>lost all confidence in training, don't even really care about it anymore, no goals, so discouraged
>but at least my son is happy and healthy
>but at least I'm not fucking that up

Seriously the only good feel I have is that no matter how fucked up my head gets, and how much I fail at my own pursuits, I know that I'm living for my son, and not for myself, and that as long as I am good to him everything will be alright.

THANK YOU SUPREME GENTLEMAN

time lifting?

Deric?

girl 1 "your shirts are getting to tight user"
girl 2 "stop wearing kids clothing"
girl 3 "buy new clothes, you wear the same tight clothing"

Everyone mires my pecs, shoulders, arms. It took 9 months to do 170 3x10. Nobody mires my legs though, squatting 210 3x10 and no one notices how thick my legs are squeezing my jeans, those were actually the first things I replaced before my shirts. I guess I should stop squatting

I was Super-liked on Tinder today, first time ever.

I need your help bros.
>I was hooking up with a thick girl, huge tits decent ass
>Later break it off, because I was getting kinda depressed and shit
>At a party and her friend was there
>5.8 tall, wide hips and thick ass
>We talk and she follows me home, we fuck
>Now everytime she's drunk she's trying to hit me up and crash at my place
>Do I continue plowing that amazonian thick ass, or nah?
Do I have to "respect" that bitch that left me because I was a sad cunt?

No! True power comes from the legs. Normies don't understand. IF you're lifting for other people, you're never going to make it.

You're son wants to see you succeed in life too man trust me. That last bit kind of reminded me of my Dad, he really has not got his shit together and it's hard to watch.
Give that boy a bitchin' roll model.

THANK YOU SUPREME GENTLEMAN

Koreans are top tier sexy but they're all crazy. Either they're actually Korean and have this weird competitive mindset and are never actually happy, or they're American of Korean descent and they've just been spoiled by all the men in their life for being pretty and are kinda bitchy. Get in tight with her mom though and get that mom to make you 짜장면. I love that shit.