Guys.. please fucking help me

guys.. please fucking help me

I'm having trouble getting/keeping my dick hard..

I've hung out with this really hot awesome chick 2 times now (monday and wednesday of this week) and so far my dick has gotten soft the 2 times we've hung out..

I'm 27 and active.. I watch porn and fap pretty often.. but stopped altogether after the first time this happened.

Please fucking help me. I don't want to lose her because I can't get hard cuz I can tell she thinks it's her that's the issue.

Does anyone know any supplements I can take?
Or anything at all that I can do.. this is really getting to me.

PS. this has NEVER happened to me before so i'm getting worried..

kegels and light jelqs have given me rock hard erections everytime i get a boner

Its most likely psychological. You like the girl and are really scared not to meet her standards, especially sexuality-wise. It happened to me too once.


Sorry for the homo post

I mean, what I think is getting me anxious is that we are fucking in my car on a busy highway near the beach, and there are a lot of people that wander around that area..

I get paranoid and am incapable of immersing myself fully into just her.. and it's really, really depressing and frustrating.

I picked her up because of how confident I am and now I'm having trouble being that person when my own COCK won't stay hard. It's a sick joke.

just take a deep breath, and cut out masturbating and looking at porn.

if she's cool then just explain it to her, it'll take the pressure off. Otherwise get some horny goat weed or something. Again just taking something can take the pressure off

>if she's cool then just explain it to her, it'll take the pressure off

I've sorta done that. And ensured her that it wasn't her that was the issue.

But this can't go on forever. I really don't want to lose her and if I lose her because a soft cock then I'm going to seppuku

Black coffee nigga, do you drink it?

OP here.. not I put cream in my coffee..

What are you getting at?

>does any know any supplements I can take?

Yes, cialis. Go see a doctor.

I know most people will tell you "oh it's psychological" or whatever, but in my case, I grew tired of having hot chicks over and not being able to get it up.

I fuck random sloots 2-4 times a month, and each time I pop one.
I basically fuck them like a god since my penis is always rock hard and I'm ready for another within minutes of ejaculating. Litetally changed my life for the better (PS: started taking em at 25 y-o)

Condom?

>Yes, cialis. Go see a doctor.

Thanks for sharing user.

If it happens again tomorrow then I'm going to call my doctor and set up an appointment asap.

This blows so hard because she isn't a random slut but an actual reasonable human being and someone that I share so many worldviews with. It's almost too good to be true and what happens?

My dick won't stay hard. It's as if God wants me to stay dead inside.

She says she was on the pill, but I'm always weary of girls saying that before actually showing me the pill, so I wore a condom.

why don't you just fuck her at home?

Because she lives 50 minutes away from me and taking her back home would mean 4 hours of driving in total and she can only hang out for about 5-6 hours normally.

so fuck her at her pad then

Lives with her mom. Not gonna happen.

Yeah i'd say just make sure you're hydrated, black coffee as suggested might help, go see doc if it perseveres. Nofap and edging in the days before might help but might also make it worse. Have celery and zinc in the days before too. Hope it gets better for you man

get a fucking hotel. cheap cunt

Hey OP. I'm in the same boat as you. Recently been hanging out with this fantastic girl. She's really hot and incredibly sexual - she's incredibly easy to turn on and when she's on IT'S ON.

Sometimes all it takes is some making out to get hard. Other times (most of the time) I don't get hard, and when I don't, it's literally impossible to get hard, no matter what any of us do.

The other day she had me finger her in a movie theater and we had to leave the movie early because she gets LOUD. We drove around to the back of the lot and the fact that we were in my car and what we had just been doing in public had me hard as fuck. We fucked for a while, but then we ran into the other problem I always have. I can't fucking stay hard. Erection goes away after 5 minutes tops. It's fucking infuriating.

I guess I'm just trying to say it happens to a lot of us. Not entirely sure how to deal with it. Honestly might bring it up with my doctor.

>Honestly might bring it up with my doctor.

Hey buddy. OP here thanks for sharing.

Yeah I hear you man. The girl I'm hanging out with is loud as fuck too. It's so crippling to my ego not being able to get hard.

Anyways.. tomorrow I'm going to see her again and it happens again tomorrow I'm going to see my doctor asap.

How long have you been seeing this girl?

And what does she say about it?

The girl I'm seeing seems supportive but I know she wants to fuck me and me being incapable of staying/getting hard is getting to her too

It's been about a month and a half. First 3 times we started looking up she was clearly disappointed but said "it was normal" (took her last boyfriend a while to start getting hard too). She claimed she was ok with it but I knew she wasn't, and that sucked.

Right on man. Hope you figure things out.

I just ordered some test booster supplements so im gonna try one tomorrow. If it doesnt work then doctor

Ugh - same problem here. I used to perform well until we had a bunch of pregnancy scares sp now I thrust carefully, but it's difficult for her to cum.

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t-thanks

IKTFB
Beautiful girl straddling me with her hand in my pants, blue eyes locked on mine with her blonde hair falling on me and... I COULDN'T GET A BONER.

She was about to give me a BJ too until she felt I was flaccid. Feelsbadman

I had this problem a couple times with my gf. What helped tremendously is nofap and kegels

My ex boyfriend also had this erectile dysfunction issue. Except he didn't want to work on it, and broke up with me in embarrassment. Last I heard, he's been with hookers a lot. Why is he able to get hard with literal prostitutes and not me? ;_;

I have a similar problem, but I thought it was inappropriate to post it here. I get hard, but I've yet to actually cum from sexual intercourse, I've had 1 long time gf and few one night stands. Sex is just so underwhelming and unenjoyable to me, so I just fake it, especially if I'm wearing condoms. I tried with hotter chicks, but to no avail. I really don't know how to solve this shit, especially since I can jerk it off in 60 seconds flat, so I know the pipes are working downstairs. I'l probably just get me a bimbo prostitute to fuck my frustraitions out of.

>inb4 being a faggot; I thought about being gay, so I almost tried that shit also, but was to disgusted to go all the way.

You mean you've tried having sex for over a year or two and you've yet to ejaculate once?

because he was more nervous about pleasing you than them