>talking to girl on tinder >she says something about food >tell her I'm on a diet >asks why >tell her I like working out and eating right >makes fun of me for being obsessed with the gym then deletes me
I'm sad and confused why is that so off putting?....I just want to be held bros
She probably got insecure and said something that would make herself feel better
Elijah Lee
i don't know why you would want anything to do with someone who finds it that easy to just make fun of a stranger for such an absurd reason. she's obviously either a shitty person in general, insecure, or both.
so who cares? sounds like you dodged a bullet to me.
Kevin Taylor
lol no
Bringing up all the workout/diet subject with a girl you dont even know is autistic as fuck unless you have some zyzz level gains to back it up
Matthew Jenkins
>Bringing up all the workout/diet subject with a girl you dont even know is autistic as fuck
talking about your hobbies isn't autistic. you're overthinking this. think you mite b the autist mate.
David Watson
Girls aren't used to doing any work, but they do want to have a ripped guy. So you shouldnt ever tell a girl you only eat chicken and broccoli and work out 7 days a week, you should just be ripped in her mind.
Cooper Howard
>projection
Adrian Kelly
>Got dumped last week >Decide to fire up Tinder yesterday >match with 17 year old 8/10 >contemplating whether or not I should
Easton Hill
well I'm not the one fapping myself to sleep m8
This
Joseph Parker
Well, yeah, but fitness is kind of an iffy hobby. Not like rock climbing or being a car enthusiast. Fitness (or lack of it) affects everyone in some kind, so they might be insecure about it and mentioning it might cause someone to feel insecure. And in general, don't initiate fitness talk to normies, it will lead to no good. Speaking from experience.
Elijah Powell
Ahah, loser, stop being so obsessed with the gym
*Hides thread*
Bentley Gomez
if it's legal then crush some puss mang
Christian Gomez
Just find a girl who shares your interest in fitness, it's as simple as that.
Michael Brooks
>tfw was getting more matches being dadbod than i am being lean
Kayden Morales
who cares, any one that brings someone down for trying to improve themselves is a fucking loser anyway
Asher Hill
The problem is you fell to pieces because of what one person thought about you, let alone any person or amount of people, and it was a dumb cunt at that.
Funny thing is I guarantee she did that as a mechanism, because she was intimidated and rejected you first as a way to rationalise that it was not in fact her insecurities about dating a driven and dedicated man. Even if he is one without a spine.
Hudson Foster
*Defense mechanism
Liam Bennett
This. Women love a buff, ripped dude but have zero concept of how much work goes into looking like that since all they have to do to look good is a little cardio and not be fat. Women don't like that it takes a lot of work because it ruins this fantasy they have of you just naturally looking amazing all the time without ever taking away from your time together.
My ex was like this. She liked how juicy I was but hated when I left her for the gym. I even tried to bring her along, but she would never do anything but half an hour of cardio, then come complain that I was still working out when she was done.
Ethan Brown
Girls want you to have an aesthetic body while doing nothing and eating PIZZA, because this indicates that you have superior genetics. When she found out that you have to diet and work hard for it, she realized that you have inferior genetics that you are masking with artificial weights, supplements and an abnormal diet.
Matthew Taylor
You're not on a diet retard. Your eating is a way of life.
Christopher Taylor
She'll likely end up as a ham planet in due time.
Jacob Ramirez
>there are people who actually believe this
Cooper Gutierrez
You probably look like shit so when he told her You need to be on a diet. she noped the fuck out and labeled you as a no fun guy who isn't gonna eat pizza and get drunk with
My ex-gf used to hate it when I ordered the cleanest shit on the menu but whine "user YOU EAT ALL THAT HEALTHY SHIT BUT I SEE NO ABS"
James Fisher
Wow. So deep. So insightful.
Adam Harris
>I'm sad and confused why is that so off putting? Don't worry about it. If I weren't already in an amazing relationship, I'd look for another Veeky Forums guy. You just need to avoid the female embodiment of the sloth and try to find girls that are also into fitness.
Dominic Foster
she probably felt challenged and dismissed. *holds u*
Levi Robinson
Don't worry OP, you dodged a bullet. She was either fat, insecure, or soon to be one of those in a few years. Diets and fitness are something to be proud of not hidden. That being said don't flaunt it either.
Mason Rivera
It's not deep. Diet implies temporary. Eating better and changing eating habits is supposed to be for life, not temporary. You can't just ''diet'' and then stop doing it.
You'll just get fat again.
Bentley Hall
We can fuck 13 year olds here.
Feels good mate :^)
Josiah Bell
>Not just fucking her and deleting her number
riiiiiight
James Butler
BORING
BETA
LOW
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GYMCEL
FAGGOT
K Y S Y S
Owen Reyes
>lifting >a hobby Only if you're into weightlifting, powerlifting or strongman and even then it's iffy
Hunter Foster
Realistically you were probably being a pretentious fag and projecting passive aggression to her about dieting and lifting and shit. She probably wanted to talk and have fun not be lectured a fake biology lesson from some jackass with no kills. Probably get to know a girl first and then tell her what your life is about rather than showing her you're nothing but a gym rat and have no other interesting qualities
Easton Roberts
Who the fuck cares if it is "iffy"? It's a lot more retarded and reeks of insecurity to try to hide the fact that you work out. It's a hobby and i talk about it, never bothered anyone.
Jeremiah White
I agree with some other posters that a lot of girls just want you to be ripped without being involved in any of the effort that goes into it, but this seems much more likely.
OP was probably speaking like a bitter autist and droning on for 20+ lines about nutrition facts, not just off-handedly mentioning fitness like a normal person would.
Grayson Adams
probably this, stupid hoes donĀ“t know how hard it actually is...
Asher Bailey
Most of today's girls just aren't worth it anymore.
Jeremiah Morales
>mention your diet to any normies EVER You fucked up, brah. In their eyes you need to eat a shitton of food and work out only like once a week or twice a month.
Landon Walker
You discuss your diet with Veeky Forums bros, not roasties on Tinder
Jacob Ortiz
Nice trips. Sounds like she is a bitch with no real interests.
Jayden Bell
I don't hide that I work out, I just don't talk about it because I have other things in my life and I consider working out something all responsible adults should do.
Leo Edwards
Did you really want to date someone who would mess with your workout and diet, causing you to lose gains and get fat? She already mistreated you, and wasn't worth it. On the plus side, she thought you were attractive and so will many other women!
Jonathan Williams
do you really feel bad because a judgmental dumb ass bitch got mad over something irrelevant like that? you should fire up some bullets up in the sky pendejo. i am always greatful when retards disqualify themselves before i waste my time.
once a bitch told me she is highly intelligent. she then proceeds to tell me she loves muscular man. not even 10 seconds later she tells me, that she doesnt like men who go to the gym because that is nothing mother nature has intended. her argument was: " you dont see an elephant lifting trees repeatedly". when told that muscles only grow by stimulation, therefore the type of man she loves needs to do things she doesnt understands to be the man she desires. she just said that she has a degree in PR management and is better than me, who has a degree in computer science. yes, women are retarded beings. so quit bitching about unlogic statements of some degenerate and hit the gym.
Joseph Brooks
Guys is this happening? Are we white knighting for a dude? My head is going to explode.
Connor Nguyen
>I'm sad and confused why is that so off putting?....I just want to be held bros Because if a girl ask you to get food you go get food you fucking autist. Next time go out, make a mental note of how much you ate and go run the next day to burn off the calories.
Connor Sullivan
n-no homo
Joseph Brown
No I told him he's a faggot and to kill himself Tbh
Robert Cooper
>Women love a buff, ripped dude but have zero concept of how much work goes into looking like that since all they have to do to look good is a little cardio and not be fat >>she says something about food >>tell her I'm on a diet >>asks why >>tell her I like working out and eating right >>makes fun of me for being obsessed with the gym then deletes me
The only reason I talked about it is she said in her profile she wanted someone who was in good shape. So I THOUGHT I was speaking to that point... And she SEEMED really interested and supportive. But then she went home and edited her profile: "And I don't need to hear every little detail about your fitness and exercise regimen."
It was a real "red pill" moment for me. They only care about the end result, NOT what goes into it.
But I do agree with the other user above: You dodged a bullet here. She's basically saying you're not allowed to talk about your hobbies. This is a HUGE red flag that she is a major self-absorbed cunt. She wants it to be all about her.
David Hughes
>She is a dumb and illogical bitch like every woman. >You are a faggot for letting her worthless opinions affect you.
Owen Wood
Relly makes u tink
Joshua Richardson
BASIC
BITCHES
Chase Parker
I mean, if you're fat enough to have to diet I'd laugh at you too. I'd never date a person who let themselves go and need to diet, I don't like degenerates, once a degenerate, always a degenerate.
Aiden Lee
>literally being dyel as fuck so girls ask you why instead of knowing right away by looking at your pics
Keep lifting twinkboi
Lincoln Wright
What's the youngest you've gone?
Benjamin Stewart
If you're on a """""diet""""" it screams no fun. Can't go on adventures, drink excessively, do coke, or any other seemingly unhealthy (fun) things
Girls just wanna have fun
John Sanders
>not being in sand nigger country
Feels better, m8
Jaxson Myers
lmao its because you came off as a needy attention whore who wants to be praised for as trivial a choice as what you eat...
can't you see why a girl wouldn't be attracted to such a guy?
Adam King
This honestly.
Consider the following: a girl can go outside and have dick literally thrown at her. Why then would she need to go on the internet unless she's a trash person?
Anthony Perry
The whole point of white knighting is desperately telling a chick on the internet what she wants to hear in hopes of getting affection or pussy.
This is just the average hugbox, tho OP was probably just being a pretentious autist so all this "girls can't appreciate muh gym and diet" shit is kinda pointless.
Henry Lee
yea girls hate not being able to do coke in their first date
Jason Sanchez
this whenever i go on tinder im misogynistic as fuck >alright bitch upset at what i said >delete they are nothing more than a hole for my to cum in never once have i met a girl on tinder that was actually worth staying around for
Anthony Murphy
Why the fuck would she waste her time going on a date with a loser who can't even eat pizza?
If he was actually cool, then yeah, she could invite him to a party in the future, which may have blow. It's just an example that OP is a boring loser
Isaac Hernandez
>fitness is a hobby now
truly we have reached the pinnacle of autism
Wyatt Ward
in so far as it is something that takes a considerable time investment / lifestyle adjustments I would call it a hobby.
Not that I'd ever tell a normie I'm into teh lifting.
Never talk about working out or the work you put into getting the body you have (unless you are with close people who care for you). It just makes people insecure because of the "born this way" / "fat is genetics" people
Also normies automatically assume working out == insufferably vain. Which given some of the threads on here isn't that crazy