Question for the virgins on Veeky Forums aka /r9k2.0/

You were not a virgin, though.

To virgins that are unable to facilitate sex, the act seems much more elusive and grand, something they have to achieve to be worthwhile. It is this mindset that creates the anxiety and low confidence in some virgins.

A prostitute might by the solution for some, but I don't think it's the best course for most

Maybe they want a real relationship instead of used up roasties.
T. Married fag and took my wife's hymen

Because some fit virgins (unlike r9k virgins) are virgins by choice. Granted they may have started out as your run of the mill loser virgins, but somewhere along the line they hit 10% bf, got abs, got their careers in order, etc., in general made himself attractive to women...

But in their journey to become stronger, they literally had to learn to loathe weakness so they could drive it out from within themselves, and this makes them contemptuous of their impression of the average woman (who they are convinced was getting fat and partying with Chad). So while they'd totally suck off their gym bros, they're uncomfortable with giving into the weaknesses of what they think is in a real woman.

And they don't pump and dump sluts for the same reason they don't binge eat - because it kills gains

because I want to know what it feels to be normal and wanted

For me it isn't really about the sex itself, it's more about the fact that I'm not good enough to get sex through normal means, so hiring a prostitute would sort of be cheating.

b8

it won't fix the problem

it's not about the sex, it's about being an undesirable due to retardation

Not at all. Some people are religious, don't you know ?

Shit, are you a Muslimbro? Whaddup f@m?

I did. Couldn't get hard. Still a virgin. She was pretty cute and I really didn't feel that nervous, but just didn't get hard. My body and mind clearly know that I don't deserve to feel satisfied even for a couple seconds.

Maybe one of these days

This.

It's the feeling of being desirable enough that someone would want to have sex with you.

cosmopolitan.com/entertainment/news/a15557/adriana-lima-virgin/

>that salty writter
Aaaayyyy
Lllllmmmaaaooo

OP should read that and learn that religious people still exist. Even hot people waited until marriage.

yet society looks down upon men who cannot get a girl...
meanwhile hot people who manage to "save themselves until marriage" are applauded...

really makes my neurons tingle

t. fit & 24 & KV

It's easy
Claim you're either
A. A sexual
B. Homosexual
C. Lost your genitalia in a car accident

Who gives a shit about what society thinks.

oh i did and it was simply epic f-am

>knocked on door
>was nervous but she left me in and took me upstairs to a dark room
>i gave her money and sat on the bed
>she then started her magic and started kissing my neck/biting my ear as i laid with my back against the wall on the bed
>was kind of tight but she relaxed me then told me to pull down my boxers
>pulled down my boxers and she started succing my meat
>bruhhhh, first ever blowjob and i was in ectasy..she was sucking like a porno star and it was a dark room so i could pull whatever facial expression i wanted to (was like pic related)
>start putting my head on her head and face fucking her a bit, she didn't mind
>she succs me for a bit. decide its time to try that poonani
>she puts the condom on muh dick. put it in...damnn son its so warm and creamy. feeling that ass from behind and seeing her butthole has my dick hard as diamonds
>fuck her from behind giving her them long deep strokes
>flip her over and grab her legs in the air and fuck her some more, that pussy is getting warmer and warmer
>about to nut but i didn't want it to end yet so i went slower and controlled my nut
>30 minutes is nearly over so i get her to succ me up to finalize the session. i bust a nut in her mouth and get dressed and leave

was really cool man and still gives me boners just thinking about it. plus she was HIGHT TEST thicc but not fat

livin the dream cuh

Anyone thought about buying hoes just so you can show them out on IG and increase your mating value?

The point isnt' the sex itself, but being able to attract a woman

Anyone can pay a whore, but if you manage to fuck a chick it at least shows you are somewhat attractive/desirable as a man, which is what most people who complain about being virgins lack.

Because it's something to be earned, instead of being a lazy faggot. Any fit guy should know the value of working hard and earning something.

Still have my hopes of meeting someone proper. Even autist me had my opportunities, but I didn't take them. And in what way paying is better than jerking off?

I fucked an escort once, when I was 19.

The chick was legit gorgeous, like 9/10 on the hotness scale. Because I was paying I let her ride me and do all the work, condom slipped off during so I got to nut in her but then worried about STDs for a while

Thankfully I didn't get anything, felt awesome but she's probably been fucked to death by her pimp now RIP

Yep feels good man that im not a hyper-senstive typical Veeky Forums faggot that cries about his feels and not having a girlfriend. I'm able to do things and not feel regret afterwards and live in the moment. I'm not a fucking pencil necked over-emotional woman

>To virgins that are unable to facilitate sex, the act seems much more elusive and grand, something they have to achieve to be worthwhile. It is this mindset that creates the anxiety and low confidence in some virgins.

nailed it.

In my mind it only counts if its in loving relationship.

I wouldnt pay or accept sloots.

Im too good for that.

And drive the point of ''not being good enough'' even deeper.

Because I feel like that's cheating, I'd rather figure out how to get it on my own.

everybody?

deep down, deep inside. Its natural instinct to be part of the pack.

are you me?

LAMO!

- mad virgin

not if you want to lead the pack

For me personally:

I've been out few times, I;ve seduced few girls to the brink of them orgasming on my mere touch.

I have the looks, and on some days I have game.

Point is - its so easy to attract girls and seduce them, they are so easy. I've build them up in my mind Im disappointed at how easy they are.

>tfw first thought when I seduce a girl is - dammit so all others can have her this easily?

Also, I am 26, I dont want to have sex on first date. I want to meet a person before I kiss her / have sex with her. Most people start sexual relationships faster than they make friends - to me, that seems unhealthy and abnormal. In my world normie style of living is abnormal and bad.

I want to meet a girl, get to really know her, THEN I want to kiss her and have sex.

Since I was a kid I lived for my ideals and I have been working on myself forever. I pursue perfection in all forms and normie tier life is below me (fucking random sloots, changing partners like t shirts, and being emotionally superficial being).

My emotions are holy to me and I intend to invest them in a worthy person.

From my experience those women are rare, although they exist. !

There are days when loneliness and lack of intimacy are hard, very hard, and I actually punch a wall dedicated to being punched just on those days.

But alternative seems as equally bad - fucking random club girl and feeling like trash.

I actually had first sexual experience at 12 and half, but I didnt penetrate so... But that taught me that if I dont love a girl, it's worth exactly nothing to fuck her. The act is purely animalistic and serves no higher purpose of unity with one's Ideal.

I might kill myself still, I dont want to but this life is below me. And too much of those who are not good enough from my standpoint, enjoy the life that they shouldnt even be able to dream about.

You will grow out of alpha meme one day.

After the first fuck you may loose that sign on your forehead saying "I'm desperate for pussy, so please avoid me like cancer!". Girls can read that sign, you know ...

>I've been out few times, I;ve seduced few girls to the brink of them orgasming on my mere touch

Holy moly, you exceeded the levels

...

Enjoy your moments lads.

They might be your last.

Please kys
The world will be a better place

This doesn't exist for girls.
Guys will fuck us wether we're desirable or not, because guys will just about fuck anything.
So that feeling of being desirable enough that someone would want to have sex with you is a myth for women. Young women fall for it until they realise it's not hard to get laid, and you're not getting cock because you're the hottest bitch around. Once you realise that men will fuck anything, sex loses that fake ego boost. Sex is so shallow and pointless unless it's with someone you have feels for.

t.owner of a vagina

Quads of truth thick bitches are the future

I might, I doubt it would be much better. Would be one less sad person alive, so at least better in that way.

But Im curious, why do you hate? Can you pinpoint what exactly triggered you?

That might point to why girls look at male virgins like plague. Your brain cannot comprehend someone actually has to work for sex.

Nice b8

No one asked for a female opinion on the topic. We all know how easy it is to be a woman and get laid.

go back to lereddit

>deep down, deep inside. Its natural instinct to be part of the pack.

Do you know what an anti-social personality is like?

Do not make absolute statements on things that are not absolute

What a tired response

so antisocial is coming here to chat with other anti socials?

meme overdrive

I did, was worth it.

You could be right. For women, sex is always there if we want it. It's really hard for me to imagine not ever being able to get sex. I bet when I'm 50 there'll be a granny chaser out there who'd do me.

But also, I personally don't like the idea of a male virgin no matter what he looks like because he's almost guaranteed to disappoint in bed. No experience, nerves, overthinking..so to take a dude's virginity wouldn't be an exercise in pleasure; it'd be like doing a job with no reward.
Most guys are bad at sex. Most women are too afraid to tell them, so the idea of having sex with a guy who has never done it is a complete turn off, because even guys who have done it have a high disappointment rate.
Having said that, it's a totally different situation if you love the guy. If I started dating a dude and got feels, and he turned out to be a virgin, I'd consider it an honour and a privilege to be able to show him what sex was like for the first time.

*tips 'fedora*
*unsheets katana*
*teleports behind you*
*psh, nothing personal kid...*
*slices you in half so fast the eye can't see the katana being used*
* tips fedora again*

m'slooty

Thread just said "virgins", no gender specified or excluded.
No one asked for r9k's opinion on female opinions in a gender non specific thread, dickhead.

This, i dont want to have sex i want someone to tell me that they want to have sex with me. Just once.

Towards the end of your post I went from suicidal to kinda happy. hahaha

I only chase the feels with girls so being beast for ons is not important.

hahahahaha keks are audible.

Paid for sex for my first time. Don't regret doing it I just regret picking out an escort that was shit at sex

>I just regret picking out an escort that was shit at sex

One self confidence pls. I want to be like him. ^

Don't know about that, just wanted you to consider that there are people who do not wish to be part of any "pack"

Might be so, but to yearn a sense of belonging, even in slightest of forms. Its healthy.