Sexual Health General

>don't have much money, so I work on myself
>do really well with my life for a month
>save up some money
>blow it all on hookers and cocaine
>back to negative in my bank account
>back to being depressed
>don't have much money, so I work on myself

This has been going on for 3 years now.
Even when I had girlfriends, I manage to fuck things up

>girlfriends, I manage to fuck things up
me too, and this last time i had kids and fucked that up

it's almost certainly anxiety. you'll just have to try more often until you get comfortable. Blowjobs still don't get me off unless i'm controlling the motions of her head/fucking her face though

Performance Anxiety. Couldn't cum the first time I got head or had sex. Third time was better, still took me a long time to cum, but at least now she thinks I just have great endurance.

>nofap for 3 days
>uncontrollable desire to bang black chicks
BREHS. Help.

34 and never had sex. Is it true that lack of sex can drive someone crazy? Not sure if this is something that needs immediate attention.

Guys, when I masturbate (permavirgin here) instead of doing the regular "grab dick with fist and stroke up and down" motion, I instead grab my dick like a claw hand in a U shape (after putting lotion on it) and just rub up and down the top half, basically just focusing on my head. When I try to do the regular jerking motion it takes me a long time and even doesn't work, but the method I use only usually takes like 3-4 minutes until I finish

Is this really weird, or pretty normal?

Just quit porn. One of the worst thing for your brain. Especially with the new popularity of cuckold and BBC/Monster Cock/Blacked, it's degenerated.

Also, quit masturbating. Huge waste of time. Get a gf and make her yours.

Just bleach them brah

Hop on the gear

Porn-masturbation-orgasm lowers your testosterone, lowers your sensitivity to sexual stimuli, and often it even lowers your respect for yourself.

I go on many fasts per year, maybe maxxing out at two weeks. Every time, it's a great feeling then very disappointing when I relapse. Your gf or wife will greatly appreciate your increase in labido and if you don't have an SO, you will find yourself trying harder to get laid.

>Huge waste of time
>Get a gf

You got things backwards, m8

GET A FUCKIN HOOKER DUDE
RIGHT
FUCKING
NOW

No fap isn't for regular dudes that aren't dependent on fapping to keep them from offing themselves. Source did no fap as a regular guy all I got was a lot of wet dreams. No porn on the other hand is better because it doesn't screw you up in terms of sexual stimuli, dopamine and etc. Plus when you do masturbate you'll be into like really into instead of like a voyager. Also no real self shame after a no porn fap.

Stoya and fukit draft are the best fleshlights. They're as good if not better than pussy.

And here I was thinking it was just me. Did I suck at sex? Did all of my partners?
Maybe one, or both. But god damn it's so much more convenient to masturbate

thats disgusting
paying for sex is retarded
go out and get it for free like everyone else

>like everyone else

j-just be like everyone else dude! its easy! Lol! not sure what your problem is!

If I drink one Monster Zero a day will it cause ED?

Just be urself bro :^)

how the fuck would an onahole lead to dick gains?

Okay fine, go be like every miserable faggot that can't get laid so they have to dish out their hard earned cash to put their dick in something.

how would an onahole lead to dick gains

Keep away from xenoestrogens, eat test boosting foods like nuts, avacodos and milk.

Ever since I cut out stuff with soy and bottled water as well as other iffy foods and bumped up my intake of fatty and high cholesterol foods like eggs; my dick gets way harder and I bust bigger nuts than ever before. I have however been wanking more often since I get more frisky more often. I've also got acne like I did back in hs but I dont really mind. My confidence has gone up and I've been meeting women.

Noporn is good for you since it re-sensitizes you to normal sexual behaivor. As for nofap I hardly think it improves you physically, mentally its better not to do it often as it puts you in a lazy state afterwords. Doing it before sleep or something shouldnt be bad though.

>milk

M8 you gotta help me out here.

I just started drinking milk a liter for getting my body accustomed to it for GOMAD, and my dick cannot be contained.

Also my knees are problematic.

Are you sure that milk does this?
Is there anything that can counter it?

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Listen to some binaural beats.

45.55.18.226/1.Higher.flac

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>Help

whitegenocideproject.com/

dailystormer.com/

Interesting! You got more?

>free

>also considering getting an onahole for dick gains. thoughts?

Onaholes are for masturbation, not dick gains.

If you want dick gains, get a bathmate.

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Where are you finding this stuff?

photoshopped

Porn gave me erectile dysfunction when I went to actually have sex with a real girl.

It took 4-6 months for it to go away.

Now I can jack off to porn and still get it up for her just fine, but I enjoy it a lot more if I don't jack off. I get a better erection and a stronger orgasm.

Porn fucks up your brain in a big way. Use it in moderation if you must use it at all.

actionlove.com

Don't fall for it. Sneaky christians peddling their nonsense as legitimate

onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1464-410X.2008.08030.x/abstract
ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1524775/pdf/1477-7827-4-28.pdf

Is anyone here good at fingering girls?

Can anyone recommend good tutorials for this?

Take your index and your middle, out wm in the puss. With the tips of your fingers, bring them up and towards you as of you were making a "come here" motion. You should be applying pretty hard pr3ssure to the top of her poos.

Have done this before and chicks after 1 min will be like "OH FUCK MUH G SPOT"

>1 finger in til loose
>2 fingers in
>put pressure up towards her stomach
>move in and out at decent pace, paying attention to what seems to work best
pace is probably the hardest part. try licking her clit for bonus points

jesus christ

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Thanks for the advice? Are there any videos demonstrating these techniques? It would help me a lot to be able to see them in action.

Ignore that first question mark.

Don't fucking tell me what to do.

Related.

youtube.com/watch?v=Vgow-ySA2Wk

That's how it starts..

>drinking canned cum

heh

kek, that last one!

>gets gf in first week

Do you live on rez? Fuck, I wish I could accomplish that. I'll probably nail one soon.

cures deathgrip caused by excessive masturbation and trains stamina

HOLY SHIT.

I've been looking for that for nearly a year now. I found it once when lurking /adv/ and then never found it again.

Thanks bro.

It's a matter of getting a little more comfortable familia. I used to have the same thing. Is this your first gf?

Yea, no shit.

from what I know, most girls dont really enjoy fingering that much

I never do it, I go straight for the old lickaroo instead

And boy I work wonders with that tongue

And my sexuology professor states otherwise when it comes to effects of porn on develepment of your sexual tastes.

You dont need science to notice how getting used to fapping changes things. Try fapping with your other hand.

Nobody is going to give better tutorials than the girl herself. Some like focus on the clit while some are all about the g-spot. Have her guide you and just go with it man. And you better train those forearms boii

i'm no fap an no porn now, i'm saving all my sex for a cute little asian guy the next town over.

>make her nut
feminine penis

yeah, this, with my first gf i didn't come for about a month, had no problem staying hard for hours, but never came. it's all down to nerves, and basically getting used to something you never did before, and especially if you're an avid porn consumer.

just try and get comfortable, act out something hot from a porno that would make you cum in seconds, thats what worked for me. i had my gf lay on her belly and spread her ass and pussy while i jerked it, busted a huge nut up her back, then from there it was pretty golden

anyone know any good onaholes/fleshlights that help stamina? also have pretty bad deathgrip over here.

>That's how it starts
the fever
the rage

>google "how to perform cunnilingus"
>no good results
There was a really good picture floating about with a color coded vagina and notes on how to lick properly.
Anyone have it?

>"how to perform cunnilingus"

Look for Nina Hartley's instructionals on this. It's how I learned, and her advice has worked very well for me. She understands.

>And boy I work wonders with that tongue

high five.

I do good work with my tongue too. I'm just looking to expand my skill set.

Definitely. So many guys give horrible mechanical advice like "draw the alphabet with your tongue" or "focus on her clit until she stops you." Nina teaches how to have oral sex WITH a woman.

Porn will fuck you up, there's so much evidence stating that, that it's almost impossible for any sane person to say otherwise.
Secondly constant heavy masturbation in youth leads to severe prostate problems later in life.

The whole masturbate occasionally thing will help your prostate thing is to help counteract the years of abuse that your prostate has endured from constant pornography, sexual stimulation, and over use.

People have even started to replace sexual activity with people with porn shows on the net.

And not only will stopping masturbation boost your standing testosterone levels, it's been scientifically proven that it will make you exponentially more sensitive to your own testosterone. turning on and creating more androgen receptors in the body while making the body more insensitive to estrogen and lowering the effects of estrogen on the body.

Go slow
Tease her
Don't give her more fingers then she can handle
Finagle the lady on the lake with your thumb while slipping your fingers in.
When she's wet give her a few more fingers.
You can make her pop or you can get her on the edge THEN if you're packing huge you can stretch her out and go balls deep.
Okay not balls deep if she's a cuntlet but you can do some damage.

The most important rule of all though is, watch her, learn her tells, listen to not just her words but her body, her smells, the way she feels and moves, and don't just concentrate on fingering her pussy. Tease her nipples, kiss her. and toy with her asshole a bit.
And don't be afraid to push the envelope.

>draw the alphabet with your tongue

Yeah, that one is really dumb. That's terrible technical advice.

>fugged a serious hottie multiple times until 4 am on Monday
>she flew back home tuesday
>we were both super into it
>don't even want to try to holla at tinder girls in our hometown because theyre all trash in comparison

Its a weird spot tbqh. I even had a little trouble getting it up for a bit and she was super patient and understanding and we just kept going at it. Seriously m8s too much porn for too long can fuck your mental boner game up.

>and often it even lowers your respect for yourself

this guy gets it

GTFO ANIMI GAY POSTER

If you feel like you've lost self respect after masturbating, then I'm sorry to say that you've fallen victim of beta male shaming.

Let's face it, the only people who shame masturbation are religious people (brain damaged) and women. Do what the fuck you want and have no regrets.

If you have the desire to masturbate or fuck, then find someone to fuck or just masturbate. It's as simple as that.

Why are you posting here when you could be casting spells?

Shame?
No, many scientists say that masturbation will fuck you up.

Jacking off all of the time will fuck you up
Hell women going to town on themselves with vibrators will over time ruin their sensitivity and eventually lead to frigidity. That's not even talking about the 8x6 dildos and larger that just ruins any and all ability to be pleasured by normal guys.

If you jack off every day a few times, then yeah, that's called an addiction.

Otherwise masturbating is perfectly fine.

>Porn will fuck you up, there's so much evidence stating that, that it's almost impossible for any sane person to say otherwise.
>Secondly constant heavy masturbation in youth leads to severe prostate problems later in life.
Source?

do you bear the mark of the jew?

Your brain on porn and the ted talks about porn and masturbation.

The latter comes from the very study that people use to claim that masturbation will cure/prevent prostate cancer. It outright states it.

NoPorn is harder to do than NoFap, especially when you're browsing on Veeky Forums and the internet in general. Our society is so sexualised due to easier access and different social norms compared to back then when our grandfathers jacked off to magazines and their imaginations.

kek

So....none?

>tfw want to have gf for sex but don't have the emotional energy to maintain a relationship.

I have plenty of sexual energy, how do i get emotional energy Veeky Forums?

The thousands of guys who started watching normal porn and then went to watch more hardcore stuff until they finally look at traps and other stupid shit, but as soon as they cum are deeply ashamed and don't want to even think about it?

How do we feel proud?

There's nothing gay about Sayuki Kanno. ()

You said it was proven that prostate damage could be a result but where did you learn that?

What can I do to get over ED on a pinch lads? Like when I'm about to go to a date or something? Any over the counter stuff I can buy that won't give me a heart attack?