Been going to this gym for over 2 years now. Noticed this gorgeous girl for about 3 months. Introduce myself, give her some pointers. We talk every time we see each other at the gym, about random shit. Today, she asked me out to lunch. Here's where the fuck up is... I said I couldn't because I had a girlfriend (I don't). She said "sorry to hear that, well have a good workout user!".
The thing is, I don't know why I lied to her. Now I'm kicking myself for saying that stupid shit to her. I think subconsciously I don't want her to find out I'm a NEET who lives with his parents at 24.
Just fuck me up senpai. Oh well, grills who ask out men are sluts, r-right?
'Hey, sorry about turning you down. I just had a bit on my mind and got nervous, but it'd be nice to grab a meal together. How about this [day]?'
how can you autists who cant even into basic interaction get girls and im here dying alone
Cooper Mitchell
Give me her number user ill sort it out for ya
Owen Martinez
No m8. Ask her out and if she mentions you had a gf tell her you broke up. Being nervous is beta.
Christopher Jackson
>girl asks you out today >tell her no >tomorrow, go up to her >hey my gf broke up yesterday, i'll go out with you today
Julian Sanchez
user sounds like you don't love yourself. How can you love someone else if you don't love yourself. Focus on getting where you need to be in life rather than kicking yourself over this girl. Girls come and go.
Christian Green
I mean... there is a reason for that.
What would you do if you said yes? Get nervous at the next stop and fuck up?
How about you fix yourself to a point where you are not nervous about yourself you faggot
Nicholas Powell
Fuck you're right. Excuse my virgin advice
Zachary Sanchez
Bruh. I'm a fucking loser who lives at home at 28 years old. I haven't had a job in 9 years. It took me 8 years to get a 2yr community college degree. I'm disgusting and fat. Go up to that girl and tell the truth you faggot. Tell her you got nervous. Do it for me.
You did the right thing user. What do you think would gave happened when you drop your spaghetti at lunch or she finds out how much of a loser you are?
Believe me you saved yourself a lot of embarrassment.
Brandon Reed
You choose to believe you're a loser. Cmon user, chin up.
Zachary Perry
damn son, pretty harsh. Not all women care about your current status if you're actively trying to do something about it.
Samuel Murphy
Read
Parker Moore
Get a job, move out, and ask her again in a couple months
John Clark
This, or just ask her out later.
Christopher Richardson
>lives with his parents at 24
That's not the problem, fucked a cute girl and she knows about me still living at home. It's only a problem when you make a problem out of it.
David Gonzalez
Jesus Christ m8. I can't imagine being so scared of women I'd turn down something like. She puts it in a plate for you and you fuck it up... You should probably just retire your dick altogether.
Christian Long
Then she thinks she's a rebound and probably runs a mile or doesn't think it'll be anything serious.
Ryan Hill
Just telle her the truth. Saying sorry about everything and freely talking ybout your insecurtites may be beta af, but owing up if you actualy fucked it up beyond a doubt and being honest about it is as Alpha as it gets.
Jackson Bailey
>being this autistic oh boy it gonna be a long ride for OP
Evan Adams
I hate dating and it makes me nervous af. If some guy asks me out, I just get all autistic and walk away. I just have this mentality of Veeky Forums neckbeards that all men are used goods and already damaged by some other bitch anyway and that they'd lose their interests anyway when they got to know me better. So why even try. I just lift and do my thing.
Jason Campbell
You're a chick?
Dylan Gomez
Yeah.
>inb4 London
Leo Jackson
btw im a gurl ;)
Charles Bennett
>say sorry about everything >talk about your insecurities If you want to scare girls away do this. OPerino you need to fix yourself first or accept who your are. Then start dating
Ryan Sullivan
LONDON O N D O N
Dominic Price
>Was your ex hotter than me? >Show me a picture >YOU WERE DATING MY SISTER?
OP just say that you were nervous because you don't get a chance to get a girl like her everyday or some shit like that and don't dig yourself into a hole like this
Mason Roberts
post butt pls
Camden Phillips
Just tell her the truth, you panicked when a pretty girl asked you out. Tell her you don't really have a gf and ask if she's still up for lunch.
Problem solved faggot.
Dominic Williams
That's why I made the distinction between doing the first and owing up to honest mistakes - these are two VERY different things. I wanted to make clear that admitting to a mistake ist NOT like saying sorry everytime.
Kayden Powell
you fucked up really good
like really fucking good
>saying that you broke up with your gf and that you want to get with her
don't do this, you will seem desperate to her and probably will dry her vag hard
At this point the best solution is saying that you weren't sure about going out with someone of your gym because reasons and that's why you lied (like you don't shit where you eat, you can lie saying that you had the same situation at your job if she keeps asking why)
Mason White
Obviously that's why you are here.
Carter Johnson
we all gonna make it brehnitty
Hudson Butler
Based addie
Luis White
Wait a month then mention offhand that things didn't work out. Continue to act normally with grill, and wait another month to ask her out.
Jaxson Bell
> leaving neet life just for a chance at a cup of coffee with a girl FUCKING LOLLLLL!!
