ITT: Bad Feelios

>But what if i want that?
Want to be happy or want some girl to choose you?

if you base your life around trying to please others and trying to get a girl to choose you, you will waste your life and most likely fail.
If you do succeed in getting her to choose you a fresh new hell awaits where you will have to work hard to keep her since your entire life is built around her

Focus on yourself mate, trust me. It might seem important to please women but its not. You cant by force influence others to become how you want them to be, it doesnt work that way

basically

>higher rates of stds and hiv
>significantly lower chances of finding someone that wants a monogamous relationship on top of already diminished dating pool
>no kids unless you have tens of thousands of dollars free cash
>will never be taken seriously as a man
>wanted a wife and kids, but am literally incapable of feeling happiness from being in a relationship with a woman

Hits too close to home

6 years ago I lost my oneitis because we had a bad relationship and we were both too young to settle.

Shes just got single and gotten back in touch with me immediately. I'm happy asf.

BUT HOL UP'

I know what you're gonna tell me, but you gotta hear the score. This girl is FILTH. She was my best mate as well as my partner but I know she isn't ready for a relationship because shes too much of a cock hungry slut.

But shes FILTH. Literally filth in bed. We did urine play, watched weird ass porn together, she always swallowed and she'd position herself so we could get her to squirt in her own mouth.

She knew weird fetishes I had that I wouldn't tell anyone, and the same for her. We spoke about it when we hung out 2 nights ago for the first time in years. She wants it and she knows I'm a freak in bed.

This is a good feels guys. We've going out tonight and I'm going to get us talking about our sex and stuff again.

>Have had several relationships with different girls
>Could still not stop thinking about
>her
Wtf are these feels brehs

>already diminished dating pool
While there are fewer gay men than there are women if you weed out the crazy and single mothers you end up with an equal dating pool

Cant remember where i read it but a survey of a dating site showed that the amount of single men without kids to single women without kids were close to 10:1

Fewer options for dating isnt a drawback on being gay alone

>gf ends relationship
>proceeds to tell all and sundry about how much of a dick i am (i was very reasonable i felt) and how i ended it with her

Why do girls do this? Spreading lies is just a piece of shit thing to do. This just confirms I wouldn't want to have continued the relationship.

Because she want people to be on her side. Girls do anything for attention.

The gay lifestyle is an absolute mess of selfishness

That I suspected but its really no one elses business what happened in our relationship. It's also going to make it much harder to bang the girls in our mutual friend group too.

Im not the same guy but heres my takeaway
Its rationalisation, she needs to justify moving on so she uses her friends as echo chambers to perpetuate that she is better than you, deserves better and that you two were simply wrong for eachother

Also, you cant move on so it serves to bash your reputation
She gets over you, you dont get to get over her

Girls dont care about things like that, sorry. She will do anything to make her look like the victim.

I had a girl (light)punch me long time ago. People thought it was funny when she told others..you know the, "getting beat by a girl" But you know what happens if i punched her back.

I quickly and completely got over her, besides this point I have been mulling over the last couple of weeks. This might all be because she's damaged goods.

Oh well, I've got my shit together and she doesn't.

>comparing self to her
>over it

Pick one feelnon

Damn man, see the doctor asap

>tfw when all your oneitises from over the years got fat or objectively uglier morally or physically
>this kills the oneitis

Feels good

>Focus on yourself mate, trust me. It might seem important to please women but its not. You cant by force influence others to become how you want them to be, it doesnt work that way

>Why do girls do this? Spreading lies is just a piece of shit thing to do. This just confirms I wouldn't want to have continued the relationship.
ex did the same thing man, telling everyone how she could endure it with me so long yada yada, just so she doesn't look like the bad one leaving me for her best friend after 2 years with me

my negro