Tfw not Chad

>tfw not Chad

Why does the whole world set you up to believe that you can achieve anything when the opposite is true? Veeky Forums has convinced me that if you don't meet certain requirements (determined by genetics) then the very best you can do is have a woman settle for you or your money.

What a big fucking joke this all turned out to be.

I just wish my parents would've told me "son, you're never gonna get a girlfriend unless you make something out of yourself" or something like that.

Now I'm months away from 20 and no idea what to do besides getting Veeky Forums.

You need to get off Veeky Forums for a while.
A good, big chunk of the posters here are just insecure, so they adopt the middle school bully mentality and go around shitting on everyone and everything.

It's like that lid who would jump on other's sand castles because he couldn't (or never tried) to make one of this own. Or that kid that made fun of anyone trying to learn a skill while himself being a worthless slob.

I see greasy fat fucks with stunning girls sometimes, so obviously you have a chance.

Just get away from here for a few months, it'll do you good.

> Son, you are so handsome you must be beating lasses off of you
> user when are you going to introduce us to your girlfriend
> user, are you gay ? All this lifting and half naked lads, you are still my son, I wouldn't mind
> user you are almost 25 maybe you should try the newspaper section where women are looking for dates
If I'm so handsome, where the fuck are all these women that my entire life I have been told would like me

NOT FIT RELATED NOW FUCK OFF

wtf OP, play in your own fucking league

just because you crave a 10/10 woman doesn't mean you deserve one, they have standards too

so sick of you crying cunts whining about tfwnogf shit complaining about how ugly you are but despite that somehow deserve your very own Taylor Swift despite being a basement dwelling virgin with no ambition, fashion sense, humor, intelligence, basically anything to offer a woman

just fucking kill yourself, or improve yourself

you should consider yourself lucky, men put way more importance in looks than women do, there are still other ways to make it even if you don't have the genetics, you piece of shit.

Same here man. But we are young, giving up at 20 is dumb

>I see greasy fatfucks with stunning girls
Being greasy or even fat has nothing to do with it. Sure not being those things will help you, but it's really all about bone structure.

I go to a huge uni so I see and interact with a decent amount of people; everyone walking with a girl either has a good chin, is tall, etc. usually it's a combination of the two.

>play in your own fucking league
> he fell for the league meme
you American or something ?

Wow who hurt you?

>implying Veeky Forums is one person

>the newspaper section where women are looking for dates
what year is this

Agreed w this.

Op, your post is just straight insecurity.

I'm glad I never come back to this insecure shithole anymore, barely even has anything to do with lifting anymore, literally all about insecurities, figures the second I've come back out of boredom this is the first thing I see, aaaaand I'm out

I've see ugly guys and short guys with hot girls too

It's possible

no one even bothers to ask me this shit cause they know im ugly

Can you post a picture of one of these ugly guys with a gf? I've seriously never encounter something like that before and I've lived in a number of countries as a kid and now go to a big ass uni.

What he sees is a brother and sister walking together and assumes they're dating

>Veeky Forums has convinced me
Listening to Veeky Forums is where you've gone wrong you fucking imbecile.

You have to go out and talk to girls. You have to ask girls out. You have to escalate to sex. Girls don't have to do this because guys will do it for them. As a guy, you absolutely have to do it or you will stay forever alone. It sucks, and you will get rejected more than you like, but those are your choices: put yourself out there or be alone.

M8 it's not like I'm blind lying following Veeky Forums, this is just a reflection of what I see irl.

*blindly

I don't take pictures of strangers.
Either our definitions of hit/ugly are different, or you're lying to yourself.
Take a walk down to the mall and see how many girls are with guys are how many of them are fit, or not, chads, or not, and so on.

Woah I masturbated so much to that girl 15 years ago and I had no idea she was so britishly ugly

That other stuff relies heavily on genetics too.

That said, I agree that many people here have confusingly unrealistic standards.

>our definitions of hit/ugly are different
Yeah that is probably it, I meant something off facebook or w/e

Seconded

>tfw neet that doesnt drink

Do you ever shut up? Wahhh im ugly wahhh it's not fair

This. I always blamed the women for me being a virgin.Pathetic self excuses like
>women dont like nice guys
>how come no girls like me?
Then i realized why would they be attracted to me? Im an out of shape guy who has a face full of acne so i started to get in shape and went on accutane and when i got that figured out i had more confidence and started flirting more and then girls started to become interested in me. One of my female coworkers told me straight up that she didnt find me attractive before because i was a pencil but now i was hot. You cant just sit around and wait for a female because its not gonna happen.

Nigger, you don't know these people. You're just going off what you're seeing. Most of the people I know that have a hot GFs have something about them that stands out. A handful get it through looks, but the majority are average looking with average charisma. They make up for it by doing something attractive to the other sex. One guy knows how to dance, other guy knows how to sing. Hell, one of them is some manlet nerd coder with a horrible pizza face; he landed his qt asian gf by making her by making her some valentines day e-card with a 3-rendered anime version of himself singing her some love song.

Point is, women arent like us, they dont care about looks as much as we do. What they care about is gestures of your interests in them. Something they can brag to their girlfriends about, wether that be with looks or any other skill.

Trainspotting is a pretty good movie.

I like how he did a nice thing at the end and left some money for the only guy in the movie who actually deserved anything.

This i so true im an average looking guy who has pretty cute GF. As long as you're not ugly as sin then you should be able to get a cute GF if your good at being a boyfriend and are not a complete autist.

Have the option for free surgery to attempt to sort my ugly mug out but to embarrassed of coming across as an insecure pathetic faggot to friends and family. which is obviously the truth

You get one life, and you have an option to significantly improve it but you're not because of what a couple of people might think of you?

Come on dude, it's your life fuck what other people might think of you. Looks are extremely important in this world, seriously. Deep down everyone knows it but they don't like to admit it because they want to live in a fairy tale world where your quality of life is solely determined by factors in your control, not admitting that from the moment they are born, attractive people have already won.

Get the surgery dude, you wont regret it.

Whats considerd ugly as sin?

But if I don't have a talent

there's always someone so unattractive they'll be delighted to date you

I want off this ride

why?

if you're not satisfied with your results, why not vary your approach until they get better?

everyone makes progress when they apply themselves consistently, i think the problem is wanting results too fast

Become the man that your dream girl would find attractive

i agree with this but i think it's best to set modest goals and increase the difficulty gradually

My problem is that by time I get my results it'll be too late and it wouldn't even matter all because of my shit genetics

Relax man. Try out different things until you find some sort of passion or the least some sort of ability to cope with whatever you pick. Don't settle mate.

we live in process, dude, not results... shit never ends, but it keeps improving as long as we're working on it

it's important to manage expectations well, because fantasies can make reality intolerable

try setting modest goals and trying to enjoy the process, because that's what most of life is made of

As a handsome guy I am only laugh at this thread

So thread has taught either have god tier gentics or work to become rich and have a loveless relationship with a girl that'll live off of your betabux while taking chad cock

Post face

Get the surgery, user. You'll be happy you did.

Now you see why I'm so depressed and then people like say just relax bro

Why? You don't have a heart? Can't you feel empathy?

I only have empathy for humans, ugly people aren't really people let's be honest

ITT:Lol just be ur self bra xD its that EZ

That wasn't even clever, come on

What does a 5/10 girl look like.
I'm told I'm a 6 or 7.
I just want to know what I'm shooting for.

get out and look around, they'll average 5/10

>Now I'm months away from 20

You're still a kid

Wallahi this is so true. No meme intended I stopped jerking off to porn, and eventually i cba even jerking off without it so I do it once a month or smthing.

I noticed change in how I talk to girls, friends etc. I'm not thinking about my confidence anymore it just feels natural for me.
In my opinion (ofc its different for everyone) but you should try not jerking off for 1 week and see if there is any differnce at all, try one more week if small difference and later I hope u become non-cuck user!

Love u

Searched for average girl and I think this one fits the 5 pretty well

They preach that you can achieve anything as a default. Even though your chadness is determined from birth, they don't exactly know who as a child will become chad. They preach it so that chad won't act beta, because if you were treated poorly as a child but ultimately turned out to have chad genetics, you wouldn't act like a chad.

She's very cute to bh.
I can easily live with this.

Maybe to you but do you know what it's like to be a kissles virgin? I feel subhuman almost every day.

It fuckin sucks bro

Not that guy but I remember some handsome blond guy got friendzoned, the girl later decided to go out with the ugliest guy of the whole school.

Not really, lad. The average depends heavily on your setting.

Heres the thing, I'm 26. I was where you were at and felt the same way. There are tons of regular guys who haven't even had a date until they enter their 20's. Stop putting pressure on yourself and just go out and try to meet girls you get along with and enjoy being around. When you start living honestly while bettering yourself and don't worry about doing things like other people around you stuff will start to fall in to place. Seriously, user. You'll be fine.

>do you know what it's like to be a kissles virgin


No user no one was ever inexperienced except for you

>this is the average girl
Well kill me then I can't even get that

it'll be defined by where you are, just like how attractive you are

it's pointless to dish out scores in abstract, a 5 here can be an 8 elsewhere and so forth

All of it you're saying makes sense but honestly I think more and more people can't be happy living that simply anymore
They want to manufacture and idealized happy good looking life that plays like a movie, they don't want to just wing it
Winging it will make them miserable

not knowing how to manage your expectations will make you miserable.

people should learn that first of all.

Stop overcomplicating this shit

>mfw part of the last generation thT had to try to get girls
>mfw it's literally as easy as having the Internet

You can't blame them
It's human nature to want nice things for yourself
Specially when you're surrounded by them and see others with it all the time
Maybe you don't have what it takes to actually deserve it (like being handsome) but you still can't help but want it
And feel like shit for not deserving it

people treat desires like they're immutable. you mature, you learn how live in the present and stop comparing shit all the time, and you find out there's a huge body of literature on how to manage desires, most of which was written before we were born.

materialism wasn't always this strongly encouraged.

Why are you so obsessed with superficial shit?
Being handsome isn't something you have to work for; it isn't something you have any say over, and it certainly doesn't play any part in determining your character.
If you're such an ugly fuck just find some ugly gal with a nice personality and a big ass and do her from behind. There. Done.

So basically stop wanting the things you want because they weren't made for you you pleb

stop living as if you could be all-powerful because that will eternally frustrate you, idiot, no matter how much your conditions improve.

if you have fewer desires, they'll be easier to satisfy and you won't be unhappy all the time. you can always make yourself feel like shit by desiring too much.

>Why are you so obsessed with superficial shit?

Because they matter a lot
It's a superficial world we live in
We are human beings and therefore evolved, sure
But first on foremost we're just stupid mammals and still have to live with out instincts and our instics operate on purely superficial things
Superficial things influence everything else that runs deep
Our instics influence our rational mind

>Why does the whole world set you up to believe that you can achieve anything when the opposite is true?
>the very best you can do is have a woman settle for you or your money.
Why do you put so much credence into women? That advice is mainly aimed about other shit in life like career, hobbies, general goals. If your general goal is to have a gf/wife then you should step your life game up. And the best part about doing that? It'll get women to pay more attention to you.

Focus on your own life shit before inviting someone else's in

>If you're such an ugly fuck just find some ugly gal with a nice personality and a big ass and do her from behind
Already taken by some average dude

Well I want experience because I want a family. I come from a very large one and it brings me a lot of happier as to be around them. But when I see that I'm pretty much a failure in the most basic human interaction yeah it feels pretty shit.

So if I'm average I can be a Chad to ugly dudes?
Perception is reality faggot. You don't come across nearly as bad as you think you do. Go out and talk to people and stop being a little bitch.

You've got a point, when you're as ugly as you are on the inside as you are on the outside you've got no chance brah

Because you should strive to be the best you can be, regardless. No one promised fairness. That's a SJW fairy tale.

No, the playing field is not level, welcome to adult.

You have your health and enough financial security to worry about superficial things and relationships which puts you ahead of many people in the world already but you don't mention that or other advantages you are likely overlooking as well.

Everyone lacks some things and situations they want. It's how you deal with it and persevere that matters.

Daily reminder that this world was made for chads and that non-chads are a glitch in the system

Stop posting Jordan he's so stupid mongoloid brain damaged looking
Go back to Chico posting

I don't think most people see it that way, especially if they've lived in a variety of places. If you live in the rural Deep South where 80% of people are severely overweight, would you really call an obese woman a 5/10? Maybe some people there would, but I suspect that most wouldn't.

it'll be average for the people who live there, tho, and the sexual market will adjust

What if we did an experiment and took 10000 men who are 10/10 chads and put them in a city with 10000 women who are 5/10s. Would the women only go for the top 20% of the men like they do in real life?

if they were used to ugly men, no, they'd fuck all of them

but the most attractive would still be more highly prized

There won't be a most attractive if they're all 10s
They don't need to be clones to still be on the same attractiveness level

Remember when Veeky Forums's motto was ''we're all gonna make it''? Now we have have sad fuck faggots whining pathetically every day that they're genetically doomed to fail because they're not ''Chad''.

What the fuck happened to this place?

microdistinctions would arise and a hierarchy would form, round numbers are just a way of facilitating discussion of this shit

cuck posters invaded, fuck do you think

Microdistictions are the "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" meme. People won't agree on their rankings.

The hierarchy would come through through non-beauty related things, personality and status

people will even if out of fashion

the equality you speak of doesn't exist in any context

What happened is what always happens here, they take a good meme, deconstruct it to shit, then autistically end up actually believing it

I'm not speaking of equality at all
Charisma is no equalizer

We live in an age where genetics dont have to be determining for your fate, seriously

Ugly face? Plastic surgery. Weak chins can be fixed, ugly noses can be fixed. In Korea, plastic surgery is so popular, that its sometimes given to girls for their 18th birthday (seriously look it up). Thats why alot of these asian girls there look like they have perfect faces.

Terrible genetics for making gains aka very low test? Hop on the juice, the side effects from roids arent worse than going through life as a low test cuck

Almost everybody can look pretty

im saying it doesn't exist in beauty either, even if we assumed everything could be equal

You talk as if that shit doesn't cost thousands of moneys
And as if people won't have to waste half a decade to save said moneys