Well OP I do all that shit. And a hell of a lot more.
I'm a recovering sex addict... cheated on previous girlfriends, fucked about 50 women in my 20s, fucked traps, trannies, young as fuck girls, cucked 7 different couples, etc.
All when I was in abusive relationships. Anyway, I've been in therapy for years now. Doing real well. I was a professional MMA fighter and boxer, which I think was a kind of hyper masculinty response to the shame, weakness and vulnerability I felt as a sexual abused child.
Anyway, still recovering, still doing better.
I do take holidays where I let myself off the chain and do what I like... but what I like is more and more becoming chilled out.
I still love really romantic shit, meeting a chick on holidays and just electrifying the whole experience and being seduced by her, but back in my real life I stay single, fuck a chick maybe once a month (by choice, I've friendzoned 5 chicks this year).
It's all just worthless to me now. I saught distraction and value in those actions.
The irony is, my friends who say the same shit as most of the responses in this thread to OP are just as deluded as I was, just as insecure, just as wrong, they just bend to societal pressure. They overcome lonlieness and insecurity by the performance of a relationship... they even get married and have kids without the ability to really connect to anyone (wife or kids) and they act surprised when their relationship fails.
Madness. I'm mad too, but I'm happy and trying to improve myself.