Can easily fuck a nice girl tommorow...

Can easily fuck a nice girl tommorow, but the first time i tried to have sex with a girl (last year) my dick didnt fucking work (im 19). How do i make sure that it will this time, im probably going to fuck myself up mentally beforehand causing my dick to not work.
any tips? Havent jerked of since saturday.

remember those dubz thats how

Didnt have sex for almost 2 years, dick still worked just fine
If you have a problem with dick not working when youre with a girl you are probably gay

dirty talk u autist

Were you tired, drunk, or nervous the first time? Dick malfunction can be down to a lot of causes, even performance anxiety that you don't acknowledge consciously, or perhaps you were worried that you might get her pregnant?

thank you

Thats not true.

Ive had an issue with getting stiff a couple of times. Both of those times I was nervous as fuck. The minute my confidence went up I was good.

OP, Id recommend eating pussy and jerking yourself off until you get stiff then go for it. While youre eating you can think of something else in the meantime that you know will break that nervous thing (If thats even your deal).

nervous as fuck, first time for both of us and 0 alcohol in us. But having experienced that i´ll defo be fkn nervous the next time.

I did the pussy/jerk thing, didnt help :(

Fucking hell ive been there before man. Just take things slow and get comfortable with her. You were probably nervous last time? My issue was a combination of beating my dick to death while watching years of porn so the average naked body wasnt enough stimuli anymore and severe performance anxiety. took home an 8 and i was so nervous i was shaking like i went through trauma KEK!

That sounds like me, also this is weird, since she made it clear i could fuck her (as in she literally told me) my libido is down the drain. WTF man

Hows your confidence level in bed user?

I could barely keep a semi the first few times. If the girl asks just blame stress, this has happened to me twice when I first started having sex and both girls were totally cool about it. If a woman is inclined to actually have sex with you, she'll usually be sympathetic/empathic. Your experience is totally normal and nothing to worry about. Wrap it up and have fun bro.

user, if you weren't under the influence of something and are heterosexual, you likely just had performance anxiety.
Don't stress about it, and don't go in stressed, either.
It's that simple, just stop stressing about it and relax, and you'll do just fine user.
Wish you the best of luck.

>Drink sips

Don't fap for at least three days before your date. You will unavoidably get a hardon after all that buildup.

If your dick isnt getting up and shes not helping then kick her to the curb. She has a mouth for a reason.

Don't jerkin the gherkin until after you fugg

fucking 0 since virgin since i couldnt get it up. But everyone says performance anxiety, i´m guessing theyre right. I think maybe being a bit drunk will help, and if it doesnt i can blame the alcohol. Thnx guys

Cut out porn and masturbating that should help alot

I had this problem too, and for some reason still have it sometime after fucking 10 different girls.

1. Stop watching porn so much.
2. Stop thinking so much.

Whenever I can't get it up it's 90% of the time because i'm completely somewhere else with my head or just fapped too porn way too much

well ive watched a ton of porn im stopping today.

Yo, I can probably help.

Had a shitton of girls in my bed, only ever ended up fucking the ones I dated. Every girl I have slept with, first time I couldn't get it up So many times I couldn't get it up and I blamed it on stress or tiredness- in reality it is performance anxiety.

Word of advice, 99% of girls are going to be totally ok with it. Any that give you shit aren't worth your time, and I mean that.

Don't worry either, after you're comfortable with a girl your body will drop any anxiety it has. It just takes time, that's all.

Believe me, when you're fucking a girl on the regular you'll be totally fine and probably wrecking her soaking wet vagoo night and day. I might only have fucked girls I've dated, but those 5 I have made cum almost guaranteed and pound their dirty little cunts for hours on end. It's great, just power through the initial problem and be honest with them. Don't beat yourself up about it, but understand it's a common thing.

Godspeed

This, same issue for me. Usually she helps me with a blowjob to get me hard, always works.

The main problem I think is due to masturbation and porn the dick doesn't respond to visual stimulation anymore and needs direct physical stimulation to react.

It's very hard for me to get hard without touching my dick, be it girls, porn or imagination.

imo, i would dump the seed the day before or something so you'll last longer.

Thanks, actual good advise in this thread, thanks guys.

Proton wait till marriage

I've been having libido and erection issues for a while now and have been experiemneting with my diet to try and get the rock hard ragers I knew and loved. I tried sooo many things and different supplements and finally one day I decided I was going to cut out coffee. Cue rock hard boners multiple times a day. Turns out caffeine consumption was the issue. I believe my cortisol levels were elevated for a long time as well as caffeine preventing the absorption of nutrients.

tl;dr cut out caffeine.

That's interesting, I'm having some issues for quite some time now, I'm usually getting inside a girl with half a boner at best, and only get fully erect while inside, and by chance I also drink coffee like a madman.

How much time did it take to notice the positive effects of cutting caffeine user?

If alcohol was involved the first time then don't do as much.
If no alcohol was involved the first time then do more.
If there's no solution after that then consider killing yourself.

Two days. I woyld drink anywhere from 2 to 4 cups of coffee a day. At my peak I was drinking 1-2 pots a day. I'm 25 by the way. Boners are much better and am now even waking up with throbbing morning wood which I didn't have happen for years it seemed.

Also watch out for overconsumption of zinc. I will say I am taking l-citrulline and gelatonized maca, but I have been taking these for some time and didn't notice a change in libido/erections until I cut coffee.

>Had libido problems aswell a few months ago, literally no sex drive whatsoever.
>Then met my oneitis at a party after not seeing her for more than a year (broke contact because I was to beta in love and even passed out on other girls).
> This time things went good, had been lifting for a year. Got alot more confident/good paying job etc.
>I decided to not fap for a week before she came over, to be sure I'd get hard and could cum.
>This hot piece of ass who I wanted for 4 years was finally infront of me ready to get busy.
>I really should've fapped and not give a fuck about the libido because I had never been so fucking horny. Just her stroking and kissing me almost made me cum
>She got down on her knees, took of my pants and started to blow me
>On the third stroke she deepthroathed and I couldn't hold it in anymore, I was fuming with test and adrenaline. Blew the biggedt load ever right in her throath.
>She started to gag, suffocating on my cum, trying to say what the fuck while looking up to me with a look of absolute disgust.
>I tried to stay cool, handed her a bottle of water. Trying to hide my shame thinking I just fucked it up with the girl of my dreams. Took me less than 3 seconds to cum.
>I just explained her what I did (no fap because I didnt wakna screw things up with her etc)
>She laughed at it and said "next time just pull out or atleast warn me.."
>Went down on her after that and 5 min later I was good to go again

Tl;dr Dont worry so much about it and be honest about it, chances are the girl is 3 times as nervous as you. Also dont go with a loaded gun and yes lifting can help you get the girl of your dreams