Take too long to cum during sex, penis losing sensitivity

Stop touching your ding dong and rely on your girl to get you off. Whenever I'm seeing someone I have to unlearn how I get off and takes me a week or so but afterwards I'm good to go and don't even need to rely on Porn.

Everyone in the thread has given good tips, but make sure you remember to explore what you're doing with your girl and find what feels best for you. I can't cum at all unless my girlfriend rides me, but it takes minutes when she does. So I do her and then she does me, and everyone wins.

This user knows. Unless I'm in missionary it's not gonna happen.

May be masturbation. Personally I find I have 0 sex drive 1-2 days after I fap, but from the third day on I feel like I have to rape someone to survive

Bump because my dick is also dead unless I dry fap.
I read something about only stimulating the deep nerves or whatever so the surface area of your dick doesn't react anymore, like it should when having real sex.

bump

Had similar issue
Got a new milf gf.
>Can't last more than 5 minutes w.o busting a nut in her pussy.
Went from going like "oh yah, I love fucking for 45 minutes and ravaging pussy". To "wtf is wrong w me, why do I premature????"

>Get a new pussy

Is she loose lmao?

What's your fetish user?

See a doctor.

It's gyno, trust me I put your symptoms into webmd!

My dick goes limp after the minute I put a condom on for some reason, don't know whats wrong with me, the few times I actually lasted more than a min with a condom on I couldn't feel anything at all, felt like I was dry humping a towel or something, tried going raw recently and erections problem dissapeared so its most definitely the condom, any tips for this shit? Wish I could fuck every single girl raw but I actually value my life.

>stick it in
>feels nothing brah
>yank off condom
>Slide it in again
>Omg
>Bliss

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This

Also you should try fucking a dude

As someone who had exact same problem,

It's death grip.

period.

Get a fleshlight, only use that to masturbate. Cum by thrusting into it, handsfree.

I waisted alot of time with nofap.

Get the fleshlight. Only use that to masturbate.

Will fix your problem.

Here's a sex problem for you guys.

Three months ago, I fell for the jelqing meme. Everything was fine for about two weeks when suddenly I woke up and realized I couldn't get hard. Thought to myself, "whatever happens to everybody."

Carried on for five days. The day I went to the doctor, my erection were coming back at an extremely weak level, maybe 30%.

Referred to a urologist when my erections were kinda back to normal. But I was experiencing what jelq people call "hard flaccid." My dick was rubbery and stiff, and it couldn't relax into flaccid state anymore. Spoke to the urologist, said he had no idea, but I should take off six weeks from sex or masturbation.

Six weeks went by, literally no improvement. Went to back to urologist, he said rest some more. I went to a second one for a different opinion. He's never heard of this happening and asked if I'm having problems during sex with it. Dunno, didn't try.

Went home and jacked off. For the first time in my life, I experienced premature ejaculation. I wasn't getting 100% erect and I came in like one minute of masturbating. The weird thing though? I reached climax but I didn't cum until twenty seconds afterwards. It was weird... like I was straining or something. It was a dreadful feeling. I waited a few days and tried again, same thing happened, weird delayed ejaculation but super quick climax.

My erections are fucked up, my ejaculations aren't working like they should, and I'm experiencing dick problems the urologist can't figure out. I'm going back in to see him next week but I don't think they know what to do.

Anyone have any ideas? Before you all call me an idiot, I completely agree. I'm only 19 and we all do stupid shit when we're young.

Sounds like lag get a better connection

kek. well thanks for making me laugh, I guess.

I haven't had sex with a chick in three months dude. I'm dying here.

Very important question. Did you tell your urologist that you tried jelqin? If not, trust me when I say that have seen it all and don't be afraid to tell them about it.

Do you want to have this issue for the rest of your life or do you want to get fixed? Tell them EVERYTHING.

I did. I really, really did. Neither of them heard of it.

I explained the motions too. I'm so regretful for falling for this meme, man.

Fuck this nofap bullshit. Don't fap for two-three days and that'll be all you need. It's all I needed. Go for a week if you need to. Don't worry about gently playing around, as long as you're not overstimulating or actually trying to get yourself to cum.

It could (quite likely) be psychological. We're not, despite what feminists and non-feminists alike will try to convince you, machines. We have a need to feel secure with the person we're with. It's a basic biological instinct that you don't want to end up getting stabbed while sleeping next to a crazy that you decided to lay.

On top of this, make sure you're not overtraining, undereating or undersleeping. The last thing in particular is important. Stress is also a major factor that we can't do much about. Make sure you're relaxed around her and you'll be fine. Your body is also designed not to calm down and have sex when there's still a lion stalking nearby.

First of all, calm down. Don't jelq anymore. Your dick is fine. It's not broken. A urologist would have known. And besides, if it were, you wouldn't be getting erections of any kind. You underestimate how much your fear and stress about it subconsciously affects it.

I recognize the effect the mind has on the body. I am definitely going to abstain from jelqing and messing with it for a while.

I can't convince myself this isn't a physical issue though. I've never had issues like this before, and physical stimulation failing to get me an erection past 60% is really disheartening.

venous leakage

You're fucked. I'm so sorry, honestly. It happens to some men, there's even a warning topic at thundersplace (or at least there was). Do not ever jelq again. You probably had a mild case and you wrecked yourself into a harder one with those 2 weeks.

holy fucking shit.

>Do 30 minutes of cardio 3 times a week for strong erections.

Take these supplements daily:

>Zinc
>Vitamin D3
>Maca
>Tongkat Ali
>Fenugreek
>L-Arginine

Get at least 8 hours of sleep a night and be careful to not overtrain. Low-carb and low-fat diets will also cause your libido to crash. Include a good amount of eggs, meat, and olive oil in your diet.

Boom.

It not ur diq it ur mind

...it looks like some guys got better with a month of abstaining. I'll lay off for a bit and tell the urologist about this.

Fuck, I feel like shit. I need to go sit with my roommates.

Nothing you can do about it now, other than stay positive and hope for the best. This interests and scares the living shit out of me, as I was trying jelqin a few times before, but never had the persistence to keep at it for longer than a few weeks (maybe for the best).
If you could keep us updated on how things are working out, that'd be appreciated. Might spread more word about this and spare some poor sucker what you're feeling right now.

What are good strategies for the opposite problems. Not a two pump chump but I've always had trouble lasting very long at all. Sometimes I can go for a bit and others it's all I can do to make it past a few minutes.

You're right. Worst case scenario, I'm impotent. Whatever. If I'm not better by next year, I'll get back into dating and use a strap-on or something.

Thing is, I posted about it on pegym, the site where I first read about a jelqing routine, and they all shut me down when I started saying I had an injury. I took a six weeks' rest and when I said that jelqing was the cause of the problem, a majority would tell me it's because I did something stupid, I'm a head case, etc. etc.

Sucks man. I wish I could save everyone in the world from this shit. Getting horny and not getting a half-chub is so damn sad...

>random boners all the time
>boners just texting the girl I like on the bus and in public
>cum in under minute unless I dont even look at the girl and think of something non-sexual
>literally rapping one of Jay'z verses in numb/encore in my head to keep going last time
Im literally the opposite to you OP and it can suck

I totally know what it's like. But you had a urologist look at it. The only thing you haven't tried is giving it time and not stressing about it.

testosterone or anxiety or excessive fapping
go see doctor.

>premature ejaculation
mostly anxiety related. go see doctor for low dose SSRIs or counselling, they prolong ejaculation. usually that gets you enough confidence that you dont have it anymore and can cum normally, thne you dont need counselling

im not a urologist, but your symptoms sound odd.
sounds almost like a nerve related problem. it could be that jelqing fucked up some nerves involved in getting erections.

peripheral nerves may regenerate, but it could take months to even years. but if the damage is too much it may never recover.

i think you should avoid any further penis trauma, i.e. no more jelqing. and see what happens. hopefully you'll be fine

>Thing is, I posted about it on pegym, the site where I first read about a jelqing routine, and they all shut me down when I started saying I had an injury. I took a six weeks' rest and when I said that jelqing was the cause of the problem, a majority would tell me it's because I did something stupid, I'm a head case, etc. etc.

That's deplorable. I don't know, do they really make that much money from adds that they don't want/allow for anything potentially negative to be said about PE... I just checked the thundersplace, and the warning topic about venous leakage is still there, stickied at the top of the basics subforum, has been since 2009...

Thanks all for your kind words. I spoke to my best mate about it, he was really empathetic. I'm feeling tons better.

Yeah, I'm just going to hope for the best and lay off for a while. I can't promise to remain completely abstinent. It may seem pathetic, but it seems like 5 weeks without jerking off is my max. I'll probably space it out like that.

Since I'm seeing the uro next week, I'll bring up possible venous leak and reschedule an appointment 5 weeks after that.

Go lay some women for me, dudes. I'll just focus on lifting in the meanwhile.

Five weeks is fucking impressive to be honest. You keep lifting. I'll keep enjoying my nogains, being snowed in and dating questionable women.

fuck brah, i'm 19 aswell.
was putting off seeing this tinderella due to not wanting to spend the petrol getting over to hers, but fuck it i might aswell.

I'm really sorry to hear about your situation.

It depends, I'd go a week or two without fapping. I had a period when I was a teen for a couple months where I completely and totally lost my sex drive. Came back after a few weeks.

Is it possible to lose sensitivity only on the top part of the ding dong? I feel good while I jack off but I can't feel the climax when ejaculating anymore. Someone on the same boat ?

>"Oh no my erections last too long!"
What a terrible prolem you have there you faggot

>reading the sticky
Nobody reads the sticky

how do you teen for just a few months?

Puberty hit me like a fucking brick bro.

a one month brick.. my condolences buddy

>milf

Possable Q&A

Knows wtf she is doing. I've found milfs can get you off quicker because they actually show signs of thirst faster than younger chicks. They will fucking butter you up if they care.

How long you been fucking her? For me new pussy can drain me in under 3 min if just straight fucking. After 2-3 sessions can easily moderate to long as needed.

You prepping her up? She won't give a shit too much about you tapping out early if you're making her cum a few times orally.

OP: Does the chick turn you on? I had similar problems when the woman isn't attractive or I'm not investing my fetishes into her. Had to fix the problem by pretty much being a man and dominating her to wtf I wanted to do.

>Low-carb and low-fat diets will also cause your libido to crash.

So you can't be a sex god and cut at the same time? Damn

>OP: Does the chick turn you on? I had similar problems when the woman isn't attractive or I'm not investing my fetishes into her. Had to fix the problem by pretty much being a man and dominating her to wtf I wanted to do.

Yes-ish. Not super hot but decent enough. I used to get hard easily and almost cum in 5 mins when I first got with her. But now it's taking forever even when I actually want to cum.

Does anyone else have 'vagina problems'?

The girl I'm seeing atm has a slightly loose vag when fucking in frontal positions. But her vag tightens up to the point I can't even get it in when doing doggystyle. What the fuck is going on?

Try relaxing and doing whatever comes natural to you. Focus on what *you* want.

No clue. Vags are weird. Have you tried lifting up her legs while fucking her from the front? That works for me.

Although it is easier to drop fat quickly when doing extreme dieting, crashing libido is a very unwanted side effect. Just stop taking everything to extremes and be aware that you can actually cut and be lean while still having your carbs and fats, mantaining libido.

>what's wrong
You said it yourself, you have low sex drive
Too many people here think they have ED or some dick problems, but in reality their dick works just fine, they just have low libido (which isn't exactly good)

Kek, this is literally me
>fap or have sex
>libido drops to zero
>literally zero, dick won't work if I eventually go to bed with a girl
>2 or 3 days go by
>suddenly, so horny it feels like if I don't have sex I'll die, can't concentrate on anything

How to make this shit stop, or to make the libido more even? I'm 28 years old and still haven't figured it out