Just want a gf for christmas

trump just won without having ever been a politician in his life which is after we had a mulatto president, so I'm going to say anything is possible, you just have to keep believing

Tinder, plenty of desperate ugly girls.

I dont think thats any kind of true
Ugly girls dont want ugly guys either and usually they dont settle for ugly guys until way later in life

I mean fuck, ive seen girls who are 5-6/10 with 8+/10 guys

Youre right that people should go for "their own" in dating but thats not whats happening right now

Overinflation of girls value and alot of girls dropping out of the dating game to travel abroad, study or focus on career has left the game very skewed so guys are forced to go a few steps below their own league to get girls and thats no guarantee

Getting a gf is not easy at all mate, not even if youre above average looking and have things going for you

There are thousands of qts with hideous manlets and they are not even rich or famous, just be an alpha male.

>I mean fuck, ive seen girls who are 5-6/10 with 8+/10 guys

I've also seen a lot of ugly guys punching way above their weight.

There are plenty of desperate, ugly girls if you are willing to look. More often than not, people are delusional when it comes to their own value.

I wouldn't rate myself above 3/10. Therefore I know I'm never going to get a girlfriend who is even remotely cute. Since I'm not willing to settle, I know I'm going to be alone my entire life.

waifus don't judge, join us.

gfs aren't all that good.

I just wish I could find a gf who had a mans personality and attitude to life.

have you ever tried just not being ugly?

like im ugly myself but i pretend not to be and it kinda works out so just pretend you arent

not confidence, just blind awareness

>>tfw you have a gf but you didn't really want one it just kinda happened and now she's 8 months pregnant

what do bruhs?

This

There are hideous chiks that think the world owes them for having a pussy and there's hotties who are chill af

Judging by the girls that have approached me in the past id rate myself as a 7-9/10 so i shouldnt have a problem in dating then right?
Wrong, alot of girls are preoccupied with their career and studies so they dont want to date and many more are sticking to the bf theyve had for ages and ages

Had a talk with a girl awhile back and i asked her about her life goals and she wants a family with kids, a dog and a husband so we drifted further into the discussion and she said she isnt expecting it to be with the guy she is with since he hates marriage, doesnt want kids and is allergic to dogs
Girls stick to their current bf since "it works, its not good but meh" so it makes your job awhole lot harder since your perfect dreamgirl whom would love you and be a perfect fit wouldnt even consider you since she is taken already

I also can footnote that i dont see the point in getting a girl and making her your gf if youre repulsed by her or just dont find her attractive at all
There is no point in that, if youre ugly and want a gf then strive for one you atleast find attractive and work on yourself first and foremost

Finding a gf isnt easy at all, like i said

you mean unawareness?

>tried just not being ugly
>i pretend not to be
If you can not be ugly then why are you simply pretending to not be ugly instead of actually not being ugly?

As I said before: More often than not, people are delusional when it comes to their own value.

And so are you. I'm not going to believe you are 7-9/10 (9 is model tier) unless you provide evidence.

But I can only speak of my own experience and I see plenty of buttom feeders who are desperate for a girlfriend. The question was whether or not it is easy to find a girlfriend; it is if you are willing to settle and dont delude yourself by your own self-inflated value.

Whether or not you like the girl is a whole new subject. But as you said yourself: many girls "stick to their current bf since "it works, its not good but meh"".

*boyfriend

Not "desperate for a girlfriend".

Getting out is the best thing, be patient at first cuz it will come. Have a little confidence and find a reason to relate to her. Rn its great cuz a lot of girls are upset that hillary lost, good conversation starter. If she doesnt seem interested then move on. And yeah, lower ur standards at first, look for girls who seem kinda shy. And keep things friendly at first, a gf is supposed to be like ur best friend. With that in mind, good luck.

grills like to date up so if you're better than her boyfag then youll get her if u try

>I'm not going to believe you are 7-9/10 (9 is model tier) unless you provide evidence.
I said judging by the girls that have approached me. If they punched in the same league or slightly above it thats where we would end up but thats hardly the point and i was only using it to give a sort of reference point as to where im coming from.

I guess we disagree on the fundamentals, i would never take up a gf or go on a date with a girl im not attracted to
This has a wide definition though and ive been attracted to girls who werent conventionally beautiful myself and im pretty sure many guys have a wide breadth for whats acceptable when it comes to girls

My main issue in dating is an overall lack of girls as opposed to guys, alot of girls check out of dating and put it off until they are ready which means guy to girl ratio is really fucked up and skewed in favor of girls

I dont share your optimism, ive been single for two years and ive met four single girls during this period despite being socially active so id say chances just arent that good of finding a gf even if you do punch way below your league

will you be my bf
pls be in cali

Would it be weird to have a gf 5 years older than you? Like I'm 23 and she's 27

does she look 27? Then no.
does she act 23? Then yes.

You're not ugly, you just lack game

> i would never take up a gf or go on a date with a girl im not attracted to
Neither would I. That's exactly what I said.

See here: >I wouldn't rate myself above 3/10. Therefore I know I'm never going to get a girlfriend who is even remotely cute. Since I'm not willing to settle, I know I'm going to be alone my entire life.

But the question was whether or not it was easy to FIND a gf.

>I dont share your optimism
My optimism? What optimism?

Which is what?

whats the best thing to do on a date now that its winter

got this one girl and shes hot as fuck, i hope i dont spill my spaghetti on this one

I just want an average looking set of warm wet holes who can cook is WAY into Daddy/daughter play and can handle an abnormally large penis.

I fit the qualifications but i don't have a vagina please be in california

>But the question was whether or not it was easy to FIND a gf.
And i still disagree, like i said based on my experience ive met 4 single girls in the past two years
Lowering the standard doesnt really work either since ive lowered it as far as i can go

For some this might be true because they are a fat fuck who sits at home and plays Overwatch all day and expect a 10/10 victoria secret model mixed with a porn star to come in and become his gf but id never in a million years call getting a gf easy in any shape or form

>My optimism? What optimism?
Youre calling it easy
Im got things going for me but my outlook on the future as far as dating goes is bleak as fuck since i know there are close to zero options and even if i was the best looking motherfucker on the planet more girls wont just appear out of nothing
You seem optimistic, thats all

>I fit the qualifications but i don't have a vagina
>Daddy/daughter
Explain how this works, friend

some girls have penises user

>You seem optimistic, thats all
Thanks I guess... But I got to say, you're the first person I've met who thinks I'm optimistic.

Just to be sure: I don't think it is easy to find a loveable girlfriend. That's near impossible unless you're rich and handsome. Love as we know is basically dead.

I accepted the fact that I'll never find a girlfriend years ago. I've never had one, nor will I ever. The idea seem so distant at this point I rarely even think about it. I've only had sex with a few bar sluts and hookers.

How do you approach a girl that you don't see often? Like you have no classes and see them only in the halls or if you see a girl while she is working which you can't do anything about because its inappropriate/rude
I can't find a good reason that won't make me seem like a weirdo hitting on a random girl. I just don't see it going smoothly no matter what

I dunno how i got so jaded but yes, love is essentially dead
I dont think you should give up on your search, life can find ways to surprise you but keep it reasonable

Expect the best, brace for the worst

youre either a girl or youre not

I agree, and sometimes they have dicks

>I can't find a good reason that won't make me seem like a weirdo hitting on a random girl

How about you don't seem like a weirdo?? Girls love to be hit on.

>Girls love to be hit on.
its a trap!

Better gays then you have tried and failed, gayanon.

>calling women sluts
Boy, I wonder why your count is so low?

Yeah because if I treat them like princesses and put them on a pedestal, I'd fuck all of them, right?

Obviously I don't treat them badly.

And I'm only referring to those sluts as sluts because they literally were - they were random sluts from a club.

You do know this site is anonomous right?
There is no way these girls know he calls chicks sluts unless those fuckers can read minds and they most certainly cant do that

This.

If I can do it, anybody can do it.

JUS BEE YERSELF