She still hasn't texted back

>she still hasn't texted back

I'm looking up hookers RIGHT NOW

>Seen, 11.30

kill me lads

I know finding girls is hard and girls do flake like crazy because she most likely has tens of guys also messaging her wanting her attention but come on mates...
Girls do this, they stop responding because their attention span is short and there are alot of guys and girls wying for their precious attention. Dont get hung up on stuff like this or you will really go crazy when bad stuff happens in life

>he has a real girls number

lucky for some

>she hits on you all evening, even grabs your glutes
>she agrees to give you her number
>she textes you back immediatly after you invited her for a drink
>"I'd like to... but I have a bf, does that bother you ?"
>yes
>"aw, I so wish I was single, I'm sorry user"

atleast you're still sorta in touch with each other...

she should leave the bf because she's clearly longing for something he can't give her
fucking slut
i'm mad

Obviously
But I don't know her enough to tell her this and I don't want to get into relationship drama and get my ass kicked by her current bf
So I just stopped talking to her (no way I'm screwing myself in the friendzone/nice guy niche) and we'll see
If she said that, it means she's probably hesitating

I hate when this happens. I mean ok you have a boyfriend it's fine. But don't lead me on.

I had a similar scenario with a "study buddy".

She came over so i could show her some calculus. Ended up making out on the couch after math.
Than she tells me she has a boyfriend.
Feel like an absolute pace of shit.
She's surprised when I don't want to stay in touch.

tell her to get her shit together and that you're not going to start something with a girl in a relationship no matter how good the pussy is bro have some respect if not for her atleast for the guy

>Than she tells me she has a boyfriend.
girls like those like the whole role their playing
making out with some guy feels bad but good at the same time
but WOOPS got a bf so i ain't giving you more tihi
i'm becoming more mad

I know, I don't want to steal her from a guy and I said I won't go for a date with her until she's single
I just cut contact for now, if she's interested, she'll leave her bf, if she's not, she won't contact me again, and it's ok, plenty of other fish in the sea

Lol, I'm in the same situation mate. She snowboards though and was planning to go do that this weekend so I'm hoping she's just away in the mountains and not got a signal or something.

>tfw message seen an hour ago

good m8
also don't wish for her at all
she WILL do the same thing while you're her bf

I mean she was willing to put out. I just kinda lost respect for her after that sentence.

Anything that starts with cheating usually ends with cheating.

>I just kinda lost respect for her after that sentence.
good

>Anything that starts with cheating usually ends with cheating.
exactly

I got a similar story for you

Working with a girl and we were friendly. She then out of nowhere stood in front of me and started grinding her ass on me, flirting only intensified from there.
I tried to get a date out of her so i got her number and tried to set a date but she wouldnt reply and got cold whenever i approached until the flirting resumed

I think "fuck her" and resume my daily life, six months pass and i start dating a new girl. new girl asks me about how serious i am in dating, i say honestly im just having a good time but a gf isnt out of the question
i want to know why she asks, turns out new girl and work girl know eachother and that work girl has been talking shit about me to every other girl she knows and that work girl has had a boyfriend this entire time

I lost new girl because she flaked and i was sitting there thinking back to times when work girl told me she wanted to make a home made porno with me, sleep over and feel me inside of her all while she had a fucking boyfriend
I was pretty mad

If you don't fuck her someone else will.

She isn't straying from her bf just for you, she's straying period.

In your shoes I would fuck her as much as I want. Her boyfriend picked a slut, it's up to him to figure that out and dump her ass.

She's the one cheating, not you.

fuck those type of girls srsly
just gonna cause you problems bro

>She isn't straying from her bf just for you, she's straying period.
Why do they even engage a relationship if all they want is to fuck the next better guy they come across?

I don't care

I'm not so thirsty for pussy that I would do anything to get a piece of the first unstable chick who manifests interest

Yeah i know, i really was interested in both work girl and new girl but work girl fucked me over by talking shit and nothing i can do about that shit

Problem is there are slim pickings in the girls department, even shitty bitch girls like work girl are taken
Im not gonna get hung up on some girl but i would be nice to be able to find a gf someday

It's a shit test.
Just say bring him aswell or tell her to ask him if he would like to join.
Agree and amplify

Same shit happened to me except she broke up with her boyfriend couple of weeks before and we ended up in bed but didn't tell me she was back with her bf after nearly half a year

I have your hooker right here.

Idc ring ring its me again. Don't leave the conversation so closed off. Women love to talk about nothing so either you're gross as fuck or it wasn't worth replying to.

>Im not gonna get hung up on some girl but i would be nice to be able to find a gf someday
feel you bro
just need to wait it out i guess
can't force it

I fuck hookers often senpai.
And I hate it.
It's more like an urge for me. A lust. A need to calm my emotions and keep me sane.

They can't "make love" to you and be affectionate to you the same way a girlfriend can. No kissing, no hugging, she doesn't touch you playfully, she just grabs your dick and yank away like a machine. It's a job for them.

all that money could've spent for supps

Hmm both ways are bad. Still respect that you didn't fuck her. Maybe find out who her bf is and text her your conversation if you hate the bitch

You need to spend more money on better hookers.

An escort i player ~600$ was (pretending to be) wife material.

She was stunningly well dressed, and had good manners. We went out for dinner, went dancing, had a romantic walk. And than fucked like the world was ending. Se was discrete, gentle and passionate.
Of course it's and act but what an act it was.

The cheap 50$ can't compete though. They are there to suck a dick and maybe buy a McDonalds when they're done.

>An escort i player ~600$ was (pretending to be) wife material.
600 bucks too much my man

Just get your cock sucked by a gay dude. It's easy, it's free, it feels good and he does it because he likes to please you, you have nothing to lose.

>600 bucks too much my man
I should have left a 20% tip man. I'm not exaggerating how good this was.

...

Is it wrong to want this without having to pay for it?
To want a girl to feel this way...dare i say naturally about you?

I mean nothing wrong with that but I was in France for two weeks and wanted to take full advantage of that legal prostitution system.

Can it be done?
Yes?

Can it be done as a foreigner who speaks 3 words of French total and is stuck in a studio from 9 to 9 within tow weeks.
I don't think so.

Mate, prostitution in France isn't legal. Solliciters of prostitutes can be prosecuted since a penal reform 3 years ago.

That doesn't mean you can't find prostitutes, but it's not a safe regulated activity like in Belgium or Netherlands.

>3 years ago
Exactly.

I...dont understand

The experience you had with a hooker i want with a normal girl, i dont want to pay for something but want someone to actually like my company
Point it i think its wrong that you need to pay for stuff like that, it should come naturally

This happened to me 2 weeks ago. Chilled with her and mates all friday eve, pre drinks n that.

She texts me on saturday sayin she has a bf. I replied 'yea i have a gf too, lets go *local place for drinks*'

Smashed all night instead of going clubbing.

I have a question, is it better if she sees the message and doesn't reply or if she doesnt even open the message despite being online and responding to other stuff.

Equally bad
She doesnt care either way

>got a girlfriend a few weeks ago
>really happy start making plans
>she gets cold feet and backs off
>won't text me backs
>13 day snapchat streak does


JFMSU I felt like a normie now I have to pick up we're I left off from

>meet girl at work
>really flirty
>we start talking on Facebook and go on a date and hold hands and cuddle n shit
>try asking her out
>doesn't answer
It was fun while it lasted.

I miss the cuddles...

>last message Sep 20

>girl I met on Tinder, now in relationship with
>she says that she cant believe I actually exist
>says that I'm the best sex she ever had, that if we dont work out she's going to compare every guy after that to me.
>tells me daily how amazing I am

>still get anxiety when I dont get a text back in ~1 hour

I dont know what's wrong with me.

>can sweet talk a girl and get her number
>don't bother after that cause i still live with parents and spend all my money on brand new car and propane accessories

>now I have to pick up we're I left off from
this is one of the worst feels. you think you've found something and that you're finally getting somewhere, and boom, it's gone and you're back to being all alone.

>tfw get boxed on snap
Whatever, I still win. Some guy gave me 50 dollars to go out with this girl so it was a win win.

then shut the fuck up and stay a virgin fuck face

If she will cheat on her bf for you she will cheat on you for another guy, you done well m8

>Meet Greek THICC Chick off Tinder
>Make out on 1st date
>2nd date blowjob in the park at midnight
>3rd date fuck all night
>she leaves for 2 months to go back home
>"Will call you"
>nothing happens
>After 3 month I ask her what she is up to
>"Really busy at Uni right now"
>Me:"Do you actually want to meet?"
>"Yeah of course, we can meet next week
>this was one month ago

What the fuck. I am 187cm, ripped af and 8/10 face. She always said how I am the best she ever had blablabla. Now. Nothing.

you met a girl off tinder who gobbled on your cock in a park on the 2nd date, and you're surprised that she probably fucking some other guys right now? wtf, man?

Cause I am way out of her fucking league. What the fuck. I don't want her as a gf man. I just want to understand what the fucking fuck

She's a woman. Welcome to the world. Ever seen the ''Woman besides Superman asking herself ''Is he the best i can get'' image? That's like it. For sluts, the grass is always greener on the other side. What did you expect from someone from Tinder?

I had a similar experience with a Summer romance a few months back. Girl was bi and she had a gf in another state. I ended up losing my virginity to her.

Ey fuck you buddy she said she loved him. It's real, he should go for it, she was it, she was his
>her
;_;

I expected nothing. It is just that there was literally no possibility for her to find someone better. It makes no sense. I never showed any neediness whatsoever. I am just genuinely confused.

got the courage to ask her out, literally 10/10 for me

>she literally only replied: "i have a boyfriend"

hold me Veeky Forums

she got you in her grips m8

>still messages her after 3 months
>showed no neediness

>Ugh this shit again?
>What's that?
>This guy keeps bothering me
>What guy
>Some guy I blew once in a park 3 months ago asking when he'll see me again
>Haha you must have sucked him dry
>Wasn't that even into it desu he keep all stiff like he was trying to flex and seem bigger while I did it
>dawwwww he sounds so cute
>I'll just tell him I'll see him soon
>poor guy he must be so lonely

You're literally bothering someone who wanted to be a slut for a day because you can't understand how her one night stand isn't multiple nights stand.

>virgins think this is how women talk

>tfw want to text her but can't because i told her to get at me
i h8 the whole construct of communication between girls n boys

>Text her 1 time in a period of 4 months
>needy

Go fuck yourself or learn how to read monkey.

So when you get laid you turn 100% into a professional sassy woman? Is that what you're saying?

Still not getting it.

>Somebody doesn't speak to you for four months
>message them asking about hooking up

NIGGA U SO THIRSTY U DON'T SEE HOW NEED U IS

im not that guy but how is asking someone thats single that you hooked up with awhile back if they wanna hook up again needy?

It isn't generally but it is in this specific situation that he pointed out. I'm being a bit dickish but figured there's no easy way to show someone they are being retarded.

It all depends on the girl and relationship itself.
What happened between you two, for how long, how it ended, and how you both felt before and after.

Don't worry about being called Thirsty. If she doesn't respond that's when you need to cut it off. If you continue to pursue her after she ignored you it will only widen the gap. Girls tend to want what they can't have.

How the FUCK do i text her after what i've said to her?

You fuck. She treated me like a King all the fucking time and said she can't wait to meet me again after her vacation. I literally NEVER shoed any signs of being a beta that wants a relationship or anthing comparable. Everything was right.
I just want to understand this shit, and you seriously aren't helping with your stupid ass talk.

You don't mate (assuming you're the guy with the greek girl). Cut your losses find more pussy and get used to this feeling until you get desensitized from it. It's the game you chose to play, don't like it, settle down in a monogamous relationship but those have their shitty emotions too.

open the messaging app in your phone and send her a message

Not the guy with the greek girl.
Not that easy at all m8

I know, that is exactly what I am doing. 1 text was all I did. I am not pursuing her at all. Never did.

what did you say to her?

Yeah my bad mate had a frustrating day.

Might be either that
>You were her vacation fun
or
>Once home she felt she needed to go back to the moral values and requirements imposed to her in her balkanic/meditaranean social environment and thus is not longer thirsty for you
or
>she's too inexperienced to say no to you so she treats you the only way she knows how to treat men, as kings
or
>she's got a really busy social life at uni and can't take the time to talk to you as she sees you solely as a sex god and not a social friend, and thus is mostly ignoring conversations (which have no appeal) while anticipating her return when she can get what she likes about you (your sex appeal)

My bad for being a dick.

>tfw went full beta mode in the last 3 years
>tfw just want to know what she's up to
i can't just text her the same old "what's up" again can i?
fuck

Basically told her to get her shit together and choose between him or me

so what did she choose?

nice trips, man.

>tfw qt just texted me what im doing tonight
3 years ago girls wouldnt look at me
We're all gonna make it

You could say him but the answer is she has no clue and that's why i had to tell her that

sounds like trouble. maybe you should just move on and find someone else.

Thing is, we study in the same city, and she went back home for vacation. Not the other way around.
Also, considering her blowjob skills, she sure as fuck wasn't inexperienced, but I have no problems with sluts.

Your last point might be have some truth to it though.
Thx for your input man, hope your day gets better.

>fuck her when drunk
>she ignores me when sober
>fuck her again when drunk
>she ignores me even harder
I'm not gonna fall for it the third time. But why does she do this to me?

Thanks mane y-you two

I sort of have in the sense that i'm not depending my life on her choice
But nevertheless she is a fine girl and i would feel slightly sad if we had to cut everything just because of the whole situation

>So when you get laid you turn 100% into a professional sassy woman? Is that what you're saying?


I knew you were a virgin. And no; but you do get a sense of what they're actually like, because to get laid you have to understand atleast some parts of them.

You dont know what you're talking about because all you know about women is what you've read about them online by other frustrated virgin boys.

i miss her even though we have only met twice

iktf bruh

feels bad mang

is she actually a fine girl or are you just seeing things through rose-colored glasses?
that's an important question to ask oneself.

Holy shit, she played you like a fucking teenager. Re-read what you wrote imagining this is the story of someone else. What would you say to that guy ?

>She always said how I am the best she ever had blablabla
You're as retarded as .

Girls will always tell you you're the best they've ever had. Why the fuck would she shoot herself in the foot telling you otherwise ?

you told her your conditions: you or him. she's the one who's supposed to make a move now, not you.
why would you want to text her?

Well, you pushed yourself in that corner, mate. You willingly gave up control of the situation. What did you expect ?

she has no clue about what?

>Trying to explain girls logic with actual logic
Is this bait?

It seems obvious.
The only reason she's fucking you is because she's drunk, but she actually doesn't want anything to do with you.
Sometimes, there's not much to interpret, mate, no matter what mental gymnastics you're doing to protect yourself. I'm sorry but this girl has no respect for you and you should move on if you don't want to be hurt.

Yes she is
Because there have been countless opportunities in which I just wanted to share stuff with her
And yes it's her turn to come back at me if she values what we had as much as I do