Turned 18 a week ago. Handholdless virgin

Turned 18 a week ago. Handholdless virgin

To you guys that lost your virginity at 18+, how?

meeting grills using online apps

2 bottles of vodka and a lot of luck,

was a 10/10 tho.

Christ, you're 18. You're a child, barely even legally an adult. You can't drink in tons of places, let alone buy hard liquor.

Calm down, kiddo. I'm only 23. I had sex at the age of 20 with a crazy girl who hurt me. Don't stress it, or you'll end up making the same mistake as me. Honestly, you probably will anyway, and that's fine. Just make absolutely sure to wear a condom, okay?

That said, socialize all you can. Make mistakes. Don't take yourself so seriously. View socializing as lifting, but your gains are in happiness instead. You've got to fail repeteadly until you find something that works. That's the growth mindset.

I love you my dude, don't worry so much about it :)

I still haven't lost it at 26 years old. Lad, get off this site before its too late.

if you really just want to get it over with, download tinder and lower your standards. Not difficult

Fucked a fat chick at 18. After that getting sex with prettier woman was easy.

Just go to a bar. Find a 6/10 and say
>eyy bb want some fuc?

works 100% of time 40% of the time.

Basically this,
except it's a little diffucult if you're an autist but still possible

How is to possible to never have held a girls hand? Fuck when i was in middle school all guys huged the girls all the time, and during school parties they grinded their non existant butts against our non existant penises.

does it actually work? never tried that shit, but oh well, I don't do anything else except for going to uni and gym

FUCK YOU

If ur still in high school theres still hope OP

Being a virgin at 18 is still normie. Just take care of it within the next year or two years maximum.

Don't stress it bro. I lost my virginity at age 15 and had fucked over 30 women by the time I was 19. I know plenty of guys that didn't get any in HS and then straight SLAYED pussy as they matured.

I was a virgin through high school until senior year (18). I stopped smoking weed, got a haircut and just went for the girls i was already friends with. Turned out they wanted me.

I didnt even lift then, i was a 6'0 115lb skelly, just had a good face and personality. I imagine the equivalent of quitting weed for you would be blocking this shithole website from all of your devices.

25 yo virgin here. I just recently started lifting, dancing salsa, rugby and learning a new language, quit weed and began expanding my social circles again as well as finally actively talking to girls
>tfw made new group of friends today
>tfw stumbled into neighbourhood bar full of hot chicks last friday after friends pussied out and went home early - didn't get laid but kept drinking with the staff and owner way past closing and befriended those
>tfw got rejected by 6/10 in my class I've been
chatting up the past weeks
>tfw trying now more than ever, fuck that shit
>tfw don't care about finding a gf at all, I just want to be able to fuck sluts at will until I stumble on a worthy girl who's special to me and vice-versa
>tfw pretty much all non-autistic advice boils down to "keep trying, practice, just ask them, get rejected until you get there"

I'll get there yet. Or maybe not.Who the fuck knows?
But I do know that nobody cares, including me.

What are the good things in Life worth if you don't have to fight to get them?

Incredibly low standards in high school.

I was fat as fuck and hit on all the ugly chicks.

Luckily I got in shape and crawled out of that situation, I don't regret slamming those pigs though.

yea i just got drunk a one gathering and it sort off took from there lol.

At fifteen I'd thought I'd have it down by sixteen.

Now twenty four is pounding on my door.

I lost my virginity at age 25. From /b/ and /soc/ hookup/local meet threads. Also met my gf from one of those threads, almost 6 years together now.

I just turned 18 too, kv

Stop worrying so much about things like virginity

Bars + nightclubs and playing the numbers game. It works

>be 19
>play WoW all day with my friends
>get conscripted
>buy Cataclysm, service is about to start in less than two months
>still have fun but realize the game is getting stale and I need to start living a real life
>quit WoW for good
>start service, buzz my hair and man the fuck up
>perform like shit in the beginning but pick up things really fast, cardiovascular health and strength skyrocket
>get assigned to become an officer
>ask a girl out
>she agrees
>fuck her before I turned 20
>date her for a while
>life starts gradually becoming better and I still haven't reached my full potential

TL;DR: conscription saved my life.

yep birthday wish since i was 14 has been to lose my virginity in the next year, 21 now

Ok so OP. I'm going to tell you what you need to do.

You are lacking in at least one of the 4 following areas:
Face
Height
Body
The way you talk to women and people/ personality

Unfortunately if you are lacking in the first two areas theres not a whole lot you can do to change it. However joggibg and lowering your body fat % will make your face look worlds better.

The easiest thing to change is your body. Work that shit out. As far as the way you talk goes, try to practice being confident. Also try not to be a bum who stays home all day playing with your balls. You need a hobby if you do not already have one.
Even jogging or reading some small shit you can dedicate tine to per week will make a difference in the way in which you speak. Further, do not fap day in and day out- it will kill your ambition to get in shape and get a gf.
I highly suggest noporn if you are ever to acheive your dreams, my friend.
Do these things. Trust me.

I had my first kiss at 20, lost virginity at 21. It just took a long time for things to gradually *click* for me, to realize how be myself but still be charming. Looking back at how I "flirted" in high school and first years of college I cringe nervously laugh, pic related. I wasn't even consistently lifting or anything like that, it was all personality gains.

Relax dude, it'll happen. It won't happen all at once but one day in a couple years you'll be talking to a girl and without realizing it you won't be saying all the stupid autistic shit you try to use right now and she'll be smiling and laughing. You'll make it bro, I believe in you.