Well Veeky Forums my life fucking sucks. I am 19 years old. On FOUR separate occasions...

Well Veeky Forums my life fucking sucks. I am 19 years old. On FOUR separate occasions, girls have tried to get me in bed with them. I haven't been able to get an erection a single goddamn time. What do?

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Stop thinking so much, by the time I stopped sperging and got a girl in bed I had watched so much porn and was so nervous I couldn't get up. Good thing she let me try a second time

How many of them are you going to need before you go do it with a guy like the faggot you are?

Were you under the influence of any drugs/booze? Are you on any prescriptions?

Buy a cialis of the internet and take half of one before you are about to do it. It's all in your head but for this will get you through the first time, after this you will be fine.

Advice that worked for me: don't think. About anything really just get in the moment and stat foreplay and have some passion. If you think "why cant i get hard!!!" Its gg

How often do you masturbate?

The last time it happened, I hadn't masturbated for four days beforehand. Otherwise, pretty much everyday

>Otherwise, pretty much everyday
4 days isn't much. Is that the longest gap?

yeah since i started at like 14. Fuck i guess i shouldn't masturbate as much

yeah

and, truth be told, you have to be fairly selfish starting off, think of her and the things you want to do to her, not really what she's thinking about you at the moment

that animal switch in your brain that activates sex drive has to stay on

I have a question: am I a virgin, or not a virgin?
Did I have sex?

A few nights ago, I was with my new girlfriend, and we both got naked. We had tons of foreplay and kissing, and she gave me a blowjob, but I was unable to get an erection. When I got a semi, I shoved it into her vagina as best as I could. Then it went completely limp. We tried to pump like we were having sex, but after a half minute of that, she stopped and we both put our clothes back on.

im so sorry

B-but am I not a virgin now? I had sex, officially, right?

go to a doctor.
do cardio.
fix your anxiety.
stop smoking/drinking/drugs.
stop jacking it every day.

u r gay bro lel

well....maybe try having sex with another man. might work out, who knows

I would say you're not a virgin, but you haven't had sex.

No but seriously, all you damn kids going

>"Oh I had oral, anal, armpit, and knee sex, but I never got in the vagina so still a virgin (feels bad/tee hee)"

Motherfucker just getting the oral sex means you aren't still a virgin. Plus you got it fucking in the fucking vagina, what more do you want, a signed certificate? You are not a virgin. You could have performed better, but the stars weren't aligned for it, but it still counts. Anyone you tells you otherwise probably thinks a hymen works like a pringles chip can seal of freshness.

this was meant for

s-sorry, Grandpa

Don't be fucking sorry son, go back out there and keep doing better than you did before until you're satisfied with yourself. Don't let a bad day hold you down. Make your ancestors proud! And get a fucking haircut!

Mixed grip causes imbalances

You're Schrödinger's virgin

stop watching porn

this really motivated me, thanks Mr Ford. You're a cool guy, even though you are a redditor.

Ease your nerves with herbal substances. Focus on the goal. First time is the hardest (lol no pun intended)

OP, you're quite prone to stress in your everyday life, aren't you?

I found after the first time this happens it really gets in your head mentally. I wouldn't be surprised after the first two times you couldn't focus on anything other than if your dick will work or not. Try to relax and know that no matter what it will happen eventually and ALL men will have at least one experience like this somewhere down the line. Lastly and this worked wonders for me space out your fapping and DO KEGELS AND REVERSE KEGELS EVERY DAY WITH ONE REST DAY A WEEK.I believe to much flapping can fatigue the pc muscles and make them tighter or looser and kegels helped me alot.

OP I might know what's wrong. So I need to ask, what kind of porn do you watch? And how old were you when you started?

Did you try putting it in their mouth?

Also 19, split up with my girl to go university.

Had the opportunity to fuck 3 separate times, 0 horniness, completely not interested. I always attracted asain chicks which is disgusting.

I'm on nofap hoping it will cure me and turn me into a primal horny barbarian, but deep down I know all I want is a cute girl to cuddle with :(

>Cardio

>Bananas/almonds/pomegranates

> drink plenty of water

These are just natural remedies. Those bananas do wonders man, trust.

loads of this guy

get zinc, antioxidants, lots of cardio

You propably also have performance anxiety - its normal to not be able to get it up because of stress. Get a partner that you will be comfortable with.

Posh wanks only for OP if he isn't used to rubbers.

Also jacking off 5 times a week is for 12 year olds.

Forgot to add to stretch out to calm yo punkass down, and use a sauna if you have one at your gym promotes blow flow.

I am going to give you the best piece of advice you will ever hear. Eat half a WATERMELON a day. It has an ingredient in it that acts as a natural viagra called citrulline.

Im not fucking with you this legit worked for me and i even did tests (long term gf) works for horniness and getting in the mood to actually getting a hard fat and just wanting to fuck.

Give it a try for a few days before you fuck. Eat a shit tonne of watermelon and you will be amazed.

You are welcome faggets

Quit porn. Wait weeks or even months for it to pay off. Never watch porn again.

There might be two reasons. The first one is anxiety. Are you an anxious person? Did you spend time worrying about how your dick was going to work during sex?
If yes you need to change the way you think about life in general or seek therapy for your anxiety. Life will be much more pleasurable. Erections are maintained by a system in the brain that is opposite to the anxiety circuit. If you worry... no chance about getting an erection. If one circuit is online the other cannot work.

The other option is an imbalance in hormones, nutrients, etc. I doubt it since you can get an erection fapping. O would still recommend eating better. It may tip things in your favour.

So try to focus on sensations when you are with a girl (dont even worry abot getting your dick in... thats the first anxious step. Instead enjoy foreplay and get her really wet. If you get hard cool, dont sweat it either way). Go to therapy for your general anxiety and eat better.

Why doesnt anyone just tell him to pop a Viagra?

oh man

i wish i was racist so i could hate black people together with this girl

Oh man in like 5 years you're going to look back on yourself and think you're such a faggot.

oh yeah and also OP eat brazil nuts. Natural viagra (as is anything with high Nitric Oxide, which Brazil Nuts are sopping with, as is Dark Chocolate).

Also supposedly boost testosterone, which will help: jurology.com/article/S0022-5347(08)02701-8/abstract

It took me 5 times user, your penis works fine if you can masturbate so don't worry about it

>probably thinks a hymen works like a pringles chip can seal of freshness
You were surprised when your used-whore gf didn't pop for you? Once she'd had one, she'd had a million: 'Once you pop, the fun don't stop'

This is what I did to achieve an erection the first time and it's worked for everyone I've given advice to since.

Step 1: Begin sex with a little foreplay
Step 2: Disregard lack of erection. If she asks what's wrong, tell her you need to give her oral because that's what you're into.
Step 3: Continue to disregard lack and erection and tack condom out. Continue oral.
Step 4:Apply condom to fingers and lube with bengay. Shove it into her vagoo and leave the premises immediately.
Step 5: Go home and masturbate furiously.
Step 6: Use the memory of Step 4 anytime your having sex with another girl.

Because there's no way it's a physical problem, he's a young man.

No fap is why you lose your sex drive...

OP here I am pretty anxious in life I guess. But I didn't feel that nervous beforehand, especially because I know this girl pretty well.

I am just going to quit masturbating for a couple weeks and see what happens. If it still happens then Ill talk to a doctor or some shit

literally this

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500mg test E weekly
60mg dbol daily
15 minutes of cardio daily

If it's that bad then just go to a doctor and get some dick pills. Viagra or something.

So beta you can't even get it up

my sides lmao

fuck you normalfag

Those are Catholics, not Klansmen.

When this shit happens how do you leave the situation?

"Yeah err...that's never happened before...er we can try again sometime...er...you too"

Happens to a lot of guys now and then I'm sure but it just sounds like death to me.
How do you walk it off?

If it's a one night stand then you're just shit out of luck.

If it's your first time with a girl that you want to be with longer term, it's a toss up. She may be understanding and ask to just try again later, or she may be a bitch about it and ditch you.

If it's a gf or fuck buddy and you've had sex before, it's not a big deal unless they're really horrible people. If it keeps happening then they'll probably want you to seek some help.

As for walking it off, you just be honest: you want to have sex and she's attractive, but your penis isn't cooperating right now. Not much you can explain beyond that, and you've made it clear it's not your choice. How she handles it from there is on her

Stop jerking it twice a day to extremely niche fetishes you've developed. Or just take pills. Whatever.

viagra you retard

No.

No fap helps you quit porn.

Porn itself IS the problem.

The issue with Porn, is that it completely overstimulates your dopamine receptors.

Then your brain shuts them down.

Also, your brain uses the WRONG pathway to arousal, and gets used to requiring porn, and because it desensitizes you, you need increasingly harder porn too.

Remember that age when just seeing a pair of tits would make you rock hard, standing upright and throbbing?

You want to get back to that, right?

Porn NEEDS to be stopped.

Yes, temporarily your sex drive will go down, your brain needs time to reset itself.

This is assuming you have enough testosterone, and are otherwise healthy. - if that's in place, then the number 1 culprit these days is Porn.

Eventually you will be able to masturbate again, but without porn. Own imagination, no visual stimulus.

The problem is that its harder to quit the effects of porn if you still fap with recent memories of porn. It can still override your dopamine receptors, AND it also can increase the chances you go back to porn.

It can take months for the effects of pron to fade. It's well worth it!

mixed grip will churn out a little more power and therefore a little more weight on the bar.
double overhand is better though, less chance of injury.
unless you are competitive, i would go for double o-hand

This but take Cialis. OP you probably have a blood flow problem. Only drink water cut sugary drinls out of your life and eat your greens. If that doesn't work take Cialis. I had ED my first two tries but luckily the girl was a sweetheart and let me try again a third time. Changed my diet stopped jacking it and was good to go. I heard great things about Cialis too.

There's way more citrulline in the rind by the way, it's not the tastiest but not terrible either, so if you want dick gains you should eat it.

Why didn't you get it up? Were you nervous? Not atracted? Drunk? Just don't overthink it really, virgins don't really understand how overrated sex is, kind of like standing in line to ride a really big rollercoaster for the 1st time know what i mean? You get all chicken right before, but after you get it over with you realize it's cool and want more..

You are over thinking which is giving you anxiety based erectional dysfunction.

Protip: Pussy isnt that great and blow jobs, from girls who know howto work that tongue, have always felt better to me.

ok this inspired me. I'm going to stop watching porn, I think I can still fap if I just fantasize about grils that I know like I did when I was 12

You're not Virgin anymore once you both cum my man. Through penetration I mean. I kinda did the same as you because the condom killed my boner. We had a 3days break during which I mastered the masterbation technique with a condom on to get used to it. Then 3 days after when she came back I was able to fuck her and I made her cum, hence the end of my virginity. You have to do the same bruder

u a homo

Ignore the coping losers.

Drugs are always the answer. Just buy viagra. If you can't be low inhibition enough to buy drugs, then you can't be low inhibition enough to slay.