How do I make a girl cum?

>answer me

Nah nigga. Saged

It's already been said but the first and easiest step is through playing with her clitoris directl, either hand or tongue.

Giving her an organ from inside Is more difficult. Not sure there is a secret to it other than ducking her in a very controlled, hard, rythmic fashion. She also has to actually be attracted to you emotionally and in a good relaxed and horny mood.

the clit is a meme, bro and you fell for it

there is no female orgasm. go home

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fuck off permavirgin

>there is no female orgasm
FOR YOU
>permavirgins, when will they learn?

95% will agree
5% won't because they need internal stimulation "come here" motion

Can somewhat concur with this
girl before either needed internal stimuli or clit, so either fucking hard or eating out
current one im seeing needs both to be able to cum, feels badman

Foreplay and repetitive motion stimulating the clit
Most women need at least direct clitoral stimulation to get off
The longer you avoid touching the pussy while making out with her the better, let her get warm, don't just charge for the clit like a date rapist

Lick her before you fuck her. When fucking her do missionary but dont just jam it in, fuck her from "above". Thats means your dick has to touch her clit before entering her vagoo, get it? After she came fuck her rough and do what you like.

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Good positions are her on top, her lying flat and hitting it from behind while straddling her, and kind of in missionary with her legs or feet on your shoulders. Anything that gets the right angle to hit her G spot is gonna get her there eventually. As such don't be shy to use pillows to raise her hips to change the angle. In the last two positions I mentioned a pillow or two under her hips or ass will mean your dick hits the front wall of her vag which is where the G spot is and it's not as deep as you think, about an inch or two in.

Other than that there are probably some individual things specific to each girl. Some like hair pulling, some like their ass smacked, some might like to be choked, some might like their asshole played with, some might leave the bed if you try any of that shit. Communicate and ask her straight out what she likes and what's good, although sometimes just grabbing a handful of hair or something is cool, a bit of male dominance goes a long way with most girls. Also, stuff like kissing her neck or things like that might help. Girls have all sorts of hidden little erogenous zones that you usually only find through time and getting to know her. My gf likes to hear me kind of softly low growl in her ear for example, weird as that might sound.

Also, don't feel you need to pound away hard and fast like a jackhammer to get her to cum. My gf prefers slow and steady for a long time to get there. Also, if she doesn't already, encourage her to rub her clit as you fuck her. You can do this for her but it can be awkward to reach, and she can probably get herself off better than you can, just like you can probably jerk yourself better than she can. Just get good at lasting a good amount of time, learn to control your ejaculation so you don't pop too soon and learn to cum when she does. Nothing better than cumming together after a long fuck bro. Very few things put a swagger in your step than giving your girl some good dicking.

hi faggots, girlanon here.

@OP, unless she knows how to come/masturbate herself you probably can't, not even if you look like a Chris Evans/Zyzz combination with a huge dick*.
I know a lot of girls my age (twenty fucking three) who still haven't come / think that masturbating is gross or some bullshit like that. Or they're legit scared, because they saw like one porn and as luck would have have it it was one of those borderline-rape gonzo pieces of shit. ...anyway, just know that right out the gate your chances, through no fault of your own, aren't that good.

That in mind, my advice would be:

-Don't make it about cumming. Sex is about having fun, and (again, as someone with a vagina) it's still A LOT of fun even if you're not having an orgasm. That is, if you're not constantly pressured into cumming (incidentially, constantly being asked if I'm coming yet is quite the turn-off for me. Ironic, really). You and your partner should go into it with a relaxed, "let's just have fun" mindset.

-Do. not. Have. Sex. Like. They. Do. In. Porn. Porn is great. But it's designed to Look good, not feel good. You know like when they do doggystyle and she lifts a leg for no reason? It's so the cam get's a good view; noone during real sex has ever gone "Oooh I know what would make this better, a really awkward balancing act!".

-Everybody likes different stuff. Try to, together, figure out what you guys like. Communication really is key - both you and her (or partners in general) should feel like you could talk about anything, that INCLUDES when something doesn't feel good. A friend of mine does this and I honestly try to do this less, but the "pity moaning" seems like the nice thing to do

uhh character limit, sorry I don't really post here usually

>Sex is about having fun
If all vagina users think like this its strange to see how they act when sex is being offered

ugh. Don't listen to this bitch. She can't tell you how to make a girl come. And in fact she didn't. No advice whatsoever. Just a long fucking bloated monologue about how everything you think and want is wrong. What a fucking self righteous cunt.

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anyway, foreplay really is important, without proper lubrication shit just hurts. Again, everybody likes different stuff here, for me it's touching/making out a lot before, and also me fingering my clit. Your efforts are very much appreciated guys but it's this really elusive bundle of nerves (wikipedia where) and, as it happens, my brain just has the best connection to my body. If you do though, please try to make two/three fingers and rub with the pad, not just the tip (also good god watch your fingernails, please).

Clitoral (outside) stimulation will get you about 65% of the way towards orgasm. After then if she's cool with it you can slip it in. Missionary is, for me, easiest to come - I think it's because I'm a lazy piece of shit and I'm used to masturbating while laying on my back? At any rate, def start slow , she'll tell you when to go faster/harder. Also, yeah, being able to go long is SUPER appreciated.

-As for training (REMEMBER HOW THIS IS A Veeky Forums THREAD LMAO) ... being whatever your partner finds attractive certainly helps? I don't want to body-shame anyone but something halfway between a Boybandmember-twink look and the aforementioned Evans/Zyzz(with less roids :c ) is what I think most girls 16-27ish probably find attractive. Also, I'm sorry to say this but hey, it goes both ways - if you have an ugly face you're shit out of luck. At least low bodyfat'll get you killer cheekbones.
Please don't do roids though, everybody can tell and it's a)really, genuinly sad and b)puts you on the 'he'll probably beat me if I spill the coffee' list
*Btw when I say hugecock I mean girth. I really wish this 'length' bullshit would stop - personally I can't feel shit after like 8-10 cm, and dicks longer than 15 cm just, like, poke my organs? It hurts, it a non-fun way. Girth when you're well lubricated feels nice as fuck.

I don't know if any of this was coherent. really should be studying rn. Let me know if anything was too unspecific

It's not actually bad advice though. She wrote it a bit like a twelve year old girl but it basically boils down to

>don't be autistic and keep asking if she's cum yet
>don't copy retarded shit you see in porn that no one does IRL
>find out what she likes and communicate

None of that is incorrect. I know you hate women because they don't want to touch you user but try not to sperg about about it so much online.

lmao you know I came back to Veeky Forums because tumblr got too annoyingly polite and pc for me. Thanks for scratching that particular cancerous itch, buddy.

It did take me long to write though, I'll give you that user. Can I pull the 'english isn't my first language' card pls?

I know it's pretty sad. Significantly smarter people have probably said a lot smarter stuff about that but personally I think it's a combination of a lot of girls honestly not knowing how to enjoy sex & lingering slut-shaming (90% of which is done by other girls)

Yeah barely. Asking a girl how to make her cum is so pathetic. She wants you to be an alpha male and take charge. The man is the FUCKER and the woman is the FUCKEE. It's not that hard to figure out. Women aren't that much different when you really think about it. Other anons have pretty much gave OP all the advice he needs.

No. Your second post was even more abhorrent than the first. But at least you tried.

My writing will get better in time but you'll always be a virgin my friend.

buddy you have been here too long

>90% of which is done by other girls
Yep, i can understand this
girls for some reason are the biggest cock blocks
If its not slut shaming then its staying tight in groups so you cant isolate one and talk to her

kek. I'm not a virgin. Thanks for looking out though.

your english is allright
(post boobs pls)

More foreplay before penetration.
Amount of time and type of foreplay depends on every girl.

Usually, around the neck really preps things up. The clit is also sensitive and very arousing for grills.

thanks man :) not much to look at, but hey, that's why I'm on this board.

Yes! You put it infinetely better than I could have, thank you.

:) safety in numbers I guess. We're cowards, too.

I'm pretty sure you're trolling, but if not I am genuinly, no bullshit, not trying to make a clever insult here, honestly sad and worried for whoever has had sex with someone with a mindset like yours. Unless you're talking dom/subbing in a BDSM context where consenting adults talked about their limits first.

fuck sorry, I'm fucking retarded

>We're cowards, too.
Well it doesnt make sense
Its not like im gonna kill a girl, i only want to get to know her/fuck her but girls stick together tight to prevent this
Gotta find a way to separate the prey from the herd i guess

No I'm not talking about BDSM or some fetish shit. Sex is not complicated if you pay attention.

> honestly sad and worried for whoever has had sex with someone with a mindset like yours

Like a healthy, testosterone filled man? Every dude wants to fuck like an animal and feel powerful from his sexual prowess. Only numale faggots care about feelings and merging their two spirits with their otherkin soulmates. Sex shouldn't be a consensual checklist that all these feminists want it to be
>may I put my hands on your genitals?
okay
>is it okay if i take of my pants? is that too fast?
uh sure
>my penis is filling up with blood, does that threaten you?
no
>just let me know whenever you would like to engage in sexual intercourse
okay

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srs doe, whats the big fucking deal, she blows you.

>How do I work out these muscles needed to make a girl cum.
THE STATE OF Veeky Forums HOLY SHIT

Looking good.
Keep it up user.

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You deserve a (you) for this post.
I had a girl that was really into hair pulling and choking, i was kinda shocked at first. I was pretty sure it's just a porn thing, that no real girl will ever like it. But when you accidently pull her hair, or jokingly choke her as if you really want to hurt her, and out of nowhere
>she moans
Made me feel real bad for not just asking her what she likes. Took me a long time to get it by mistake, and i'm sure she would have told me.

Tl;dr
Just ask her what she likes. She knows better than any liar on Veeky Forums.

>I know a lot of girls my age (twenty fucking three) who still haven't come / think that masturbating is gross or some bullshit like that

As an user over 30 years and several dozens of female sexual partners, I can attest to this. Most of you have probably had sex (or will have at some point) with a girl who DOES NOT KNOW WHAT AN ORGASM FEELS LIKE, and will fake it for you to feel good about yourself; and most of you are too brainwashed by porn to figure this out, thinking that sucking in air through greeted teeth and shaking violently like an angry muppet and throwing pillows around is clear indication of orgasm. It's not. It's an indication of a girl who does not know what orgasm feels like but wants you to feel good about yourself and to validate her questionable sexual maturity. I've read studies that show that up to 60% of women between the ages of 15 and 50 HAVE NEVER HAD AN ORGASM and/or do not masturbate on any regular basis, sex for them is just kind of "feeling nice and playing along with your partner".

This is stupidly obvious to anyone who can tell the difference between porn and normal human sex. 99% of women can only orgasm from direct clitoral stimulation. If you jam it in and thrust for a few minutes and she's howling like a wounded banshee - she's almost 100% faking it. And frankly, you should probably find another, more open-minded sexual partner.

>Very few things put a swagger in your step than giving your girl some good dicking.
I love you

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25 here. Most of my friends are not sexually repressed and orgasm etc. But i have this one friend (Asian) who I just don't understand at all. She says "user you're the only one I talk about... THIS STUFF with", so I think it's about who you're friends with, I'm sure her circle is a goldmine of repression like her. Never masturbated. Tried to have sex with a guy, it didn't work (0 foreplay and she doesn't even find sex arousing due to repression anyway). Sucks guys off in their cars but won't let them even touch her and doesn't even enjoy it, just thinks it's what she should be doing.
TWENTY FUCKING FIVE.

I think the younger generation of females these days is more sexually open and has been taught more from media etc. about female orgasm so they're more open to expect it; but in a lot of places women are still surprisingly conservative despite being liberal in many other respects, finding masturbation "dirty" or "disgusting" and having this expectation of sex as some sort of mechanical activity meant to bond a couple against the woman's natural desire, because they're just not open to sexual pleasure. As a man this always strikes me as bizarre and incomprehensible - I can understand bad first time experiences etc., but it's not like touching your genitals isn't naturally pleasant, you'd expect these women to accidentally start masturbating int he shower in their teens and finding out about orgasm on their own.

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Let herself press onto you. It's simple. Let her cum then fuck her the way you please.