Is it really too late for me to ever not be an autistic loser virgin?

is it really too late for me to ever not be an autistic loser virgin?

i just turned 28 and im a virgin still. the only reason ive ever even kissed a girl is because im somewhat attractive and a girl basically forced herself onto me and stole my first kiss.

im basically a pussy and have never put myself out there and gotten a girlfriend, and now i feel like everyone is judging me for being nogf for almost my entire life.

is it too late for me at 28 years old of never having a girlfriend and never having sex?

honestly just considering traveling to amsterdam and fucking a new prostitute every night for a week to see if that will cure me of beta

Go to belgium & get euthanized instead bruh

Sex wont change you and you'll realize its not important, i lost my virginity at 17 and prior to that i thought shit would be different, its literally exactly the same, the girl i lost it to is a solid 9/10 too lol, nothing changes bro, NOTHING.

I'm a 32yo wizard. Intimacy terrifies me, so I've never pursued losing my virginity.

Www.backpage . com
>adult
>escorts

one thing that does change is that OP won't have this "I cant even lose my virginity Im a fucking loser" attitude, nothing really changes but he'll probably have to realise that himself.

This. How the fuck do you get over that?

My old room mate finally got laid at 29 or 30, then married his second girlfriend about a year after that. Neither of these girls were very smart or attractive, but then again neither was he.

Basically, like water, you must seek your own level user. Or a hooker.

>tfw about to turn into a 25 year old kissless virgin
>ugly as fuck
>haven't had friends since middle school because even though I'm funny, but I'm weird and get annoying after a while
>no friends in high school led to no friends in college led to no friends after college

>basically always been a shut in due to no friends and when i haven't been (at school and work), girls have no interest in me
>at this point too afraid to even try for friends or girls because of how embarrassed I am about having to share my pathetic life with them if they asked me about myself

If a girl told me to come to her house and have sex with her, I would probably pussy out

>is it too late for me at 28 years old of never having a girlfriend and never having sex?
Yes it's too late, 1/3 of your life already passed and you're still a virgin loser

Why the fuck are you on Veeky Forums?

Ah yeah I forgot, this place is full of alpha male studs right?

Desensitization.

Basically increase your exposure to the stimuli slowly but consistently. Consistently being the key word here. I used to go to bars with randoms from work to get over my fear of social situations/environments

It's not hard. I spent ages 11-22 in my room playing games 6-12 hrs a day, little socialization. Just got decently fit and went on tinder, easy as fuck got a smoking 19yo. Guesssss what though? I'm still dead inside, sex without intimacy and meaningful connection feels like nothing.

>easy as fuck got a smoking 19yo.

lel. sure thing

Talking to normies or going to scoial events is easy. Ican do that. I never want to to, and I don,t really enjoy it unless Iforce myself to, but I can do it.

But intimacy? letting someone even remotely close (Let's not even talk about TRUST)? How? HOW?
I can`t even trust myself half the time.

Well then that's a place to start, why don't you trust yourself half the time? What could you work on to get that trust for yourself, and then you can work on trusting others or letting them trust you,

Girls are thirsty af, you just have to make them feel like they aren't and that hooking up is just a casual thing that everyone does.

pretty true desu

also true

get the fuck over yourself. Keep forcing yourself outside your comfort zone incrementally and stop being a faggy cynic and you can still save yourself.

Fuck, this is my life. I'm a 29year old virgin and I can barely talk to people. A third of my life is already done and I can't socialize properly.

I'm . Saying "get out of your comfort zone" to me is like saying "eat less and get some willpower" to a fattie; it's much more easier said than done and you don't even know how to begin.

Honestly I think I'm gay because I'm attracted to the male body much more than to the female body, but I find the idea of getting close and romantic with a guy is ridiculous to me. And trying to come to terms to what I really want frightens me, so I keep putting aside that train of thought and here I am, a 32yo kissless virgin.

It's not even about social anxiety: I don't have a hard time talking to strangers at all, even though I suck at coming up with excuses to talk to them.

Being an expat and having no acquaintances outside of work and the gym doesn't make things easy either.

Recovering drug addict. Fell off the wagon a few time. Been burned by close friends before. Mother issues as well. Idk, I'm a lost fucking cause, just trying to work on myself and using exercise to channel that and make sobriety bearable but I'm a 23 year old college dropout with no friends, a McJob, whenever dated anyone and the future just looks like I'll be spending the rest of my life flailing not to drown in a cold, empty ocean.

This is too much of a blog post for my tastes, so to keep this Veeky Forums, how the fuck do you people cultivate discipline?
I know inspiration is fickle and useless, but I feel like years of instant gratification and lazing around left my brain not wired for this shit. Been meditating daily and trying to set little goals for myself everyday, and my meager understanding of neuroplasticity makes me hope that with daily repetition, and diligence on always trying again after failing (the real key of success, according to books. Fuck if I know if that's true) my brain should eventually ''wire'' itself to be able to focus longer, and be less scattered and easily distracted. But I feel like I'm paddling against the tide. Are defeatists right? Are some people just biologically wired to fail in life? Have I, regardless of that, shot myself in the foot through 9 years of addiction in my years of neural development, and left myself without that ''it'' factor that lets people persevere? Do some people just not make it?

TL:DR I hate myself and rambled on incoherently. Nothing to see here folks.

You don't have to believe me, but why bother bragging on Veeky Forums?

my gym is on my way home from work so it's pretty easy

if I don't feel like lifting that day I just think of the jews laughing and counting the money of all the normies who pay for a gym membership but never go

I'm a level 5 wizard with a power level of 144.

>17
God give me the strength to make it to normal please

I mean, the difference is that fatties will refuse that it's the correct answer because they've managed to shift the blame elsewhere so they don't have to deal with the reality that they're lazy gluttons.

You seem like you can at least consider legitimate means of self realization. If you're attracted to men then give it a shot. Who cares? It's almost cool to be gay these days.

The more you put yourself out there the easier it becomes. Sure, you open yourself up to rejection, but that gets way easier as well.

Fuck, dude, i was at least curious about my sexuality before. Even blew a guy and it terrified me. I was scared to tell anyone for years even though i realized that faglyfe wasnt for me. Then i just trivialized it in my own mind and started letting folks know for the sole fact that it still made me uncomfortable to admit. Now i dont give a shit because i forced myself past it.

It takes work, user. But as long as you're alive then it isnt too late. Start slow. Hit on a dude. Have a weird uncomfortable sexual encounter. Just force yourself over that hurdle and if you fall get the fuck back up. You have all the time in the world to become the person you could be and youre the only thing holding you back.

Stop making excuses for yourself m8. Just give uninhibited life a shot. Its awesome. You can make it. I believe in you

Thank you for your support, but becoming inhibited is incredibly hard. I've actually thought about going to a (gay) sauna or hiring a (female) escort before but I always chickened out, but now that I'm on another continent without any references, I'm completely turned off by the idea.

+3 Kissless
+7 Virgin
+9 Never Had a girlfriend
+6 Friendless
+6 No friends for 5 years or more
+2 Never been to a party
+8 No Facebook account
+13 Aprrentice wizard bonus
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54. Is there any hope left for me, anons?

>25
There is hope lads

>24 years old
>living at home
>make shit minimum wage
>car I drive is not my own

I don't pursue gf because literally who would want to bone me

exactly my situation except i make more than minimum wage (not much more though, but i do have a good amount of money saved) and i dont even have a license lmfao or have friends

my god i would be terrified talking to a girl on a date and showing how much of a loser i am, let alone getting her to kiss or have sex with me holy shit lel

>57
Teach me your ways sempai. What esoteric lore should I sue my ample time to scrutinize? Teach me theway, guide me on the path of the scholar; the nepenthe of us magi, o wise one!

Are you me?

hey me too.
>no friends
>no facebook
>plays mmorpgs (not really anymore, but I still play rpg's)

buy some mdma from the onions bro and pop one your anxiety just disappears

>20
>There is little hope for you

>is it too late for me at 28 years old of never having a girlfriend and never having sex?
No.
Ex 31yo virgin here.
Was caught in a vicious cycle, mostly of my own making, and finally decided to change it.
Among some other things I changed, I "manned up" and went on tinder. Took me 3 months to get the first date, and another 3 to finally fuck a girl (spoiler: she was a 5/10 at max, and she made the first move), but from there, I moved quickly.
My proudest moment on tinder was fucking some 20yo student and a 43yo teacher in one week…
And now I have a 7-10/10 gf and am really happy!

this is going on the fridge

>still dead inside
Why would u hurt me in this way user. Too close to home man. I kinda wish i stil had a virginity to blame it on.

>7-10/10
What lol?

???

Its easy, I use amphetamine ^°^

thats crazy you were able to get someone off tinder. i go on the reddit board for tinder, see how easy it is for so many guys there and just get angry

tinder would fucking terrify me man. i mean, not like i would get any matches because i dont have any friends so i cant post social pictures, and i'm ugly as fuck. but i feel like i could be "witty" enough in a conversation with most girls because im kinda funny, weird, quick witted

the problem would be meeting them. since no friends, i don't really do anything, so i would be boring as fuck

What lol?
You don't go on a date with your friends. Just you and her.

lmao

Well, those x/10 rating are kinda bullshit, because everyone has something else they are into, thus I gave a range.
Even if you are not into her type (skinny, fit, but not overly so, small, delicious tits, brown hair…whatever else specifics a guy can like with a girl) and are not totally into some stuff thats deviating too far from the norm (midgets, amputees, BBW,…) you probably would admit that she is at least quite a bit above what else is walking around, hence the 7 at minimum. But if you are into all of her features, which I am, she can easily become a 10, but I am well aware of the fact that other people have other preferences.
Saying
>I'm banging a 10/10 hottie
always sounds so desperate

Because not having friends would mean I wouldn't get the matches off the bat because no social value, and when she talks to me she would see I don't have friends, and I don't have the looks to overcome how bad not having friends is.

I'm 26 and in a 2 year relationship, we both lost our virginities to each other after a year of dating. We were planning on waiting but shit got real.

When I was

Does this apply to women? Can women become wizards?

>see how easy it is for so many guys there and just get angry
dont.
Anger (in this case) wont help anything. Analyse why they have it so easy, and learn from it. I was on .Besides all the loosers and stupid braggers, you can find some good advice.
Essentially, I went at it in a very systematic and autistic way, and put a lot of research in it.
>tinder would fucking terrify me man.
It totally terrified me. When I got my first match, I literally sat there, mesmerized at my phone screen for 10 minutes, unable to do anything.
The 2nd match was not much better, as was the third.
And when I finally got the balls to write something, the first tries went totally wrong, but I learned from my mistakes.
At some point, I finally got a date.
And it went totally wrong.
but I learned, adjusted and tried stuff.
As said: took me half a year to finally get laid. and while it was not that magical epiphany, folks are often making off it, it certainly was worth the work.

>i cant post social pictures, and i'm ugly as fuck. but i feel like i could be "witty" enough in a conversation with most girls because im kinda funny, weird, quick witted
I actually had two profiles, one where I tried to do all the social, active and cool pics, and one with a single, faceless pic and a weird witty about me, and I actually managed to talk my way into dates with girls that never saw my face, before I approached them on main sqare where we set up the meeting.

I lost mine to a hooker in Thailand.

Do you have a good job/disposable income (2000-3000$). Just go to Thailand man, shag a bunch if hookers, even lady boys if that's your thing, ride some elephants, live like a king for two weeks. I gotta say it improved my mood quite a bit, just take a leap of faith, you won't regret it.

>tfw have huge gorgeous dick
>post dick online, gets tons of attention, everyone loves it
>wish i could post a picture of my naked body on tinder and get whores who would just want to fuck so that i could lose my virginity and maybe get some skills in that regard

>30

I have decent body by normie standards, 7 face and regularly go out and socialise nowadays, is there any hope for me?

I've been on 30 power level for 2 years now

My net income is $3.5k monthly ($5k without my living expenses), but besides having the time (which I really don't), if I were to travel, I'd much rather spend it on an adventure trip like going skydiving or heliskiing rather than spending it on hookers.

Oh dude, there's heaps to do, you can bounce around all the other countries. I get 8 weeks paid vacation so I went from India-Nepal-Bhutan-myanmar-thailand-laos and ended in Cambodia all for around 7k, there's so much to see and do, and people are so friendly in these countries.

33

I didn't count the height one because its retarded

neither should be on there, but if you put height you should put also things like "acne" and "weight level" and whatnot

regardless those dont have anything to do with being a beta, being dyel doesnt necessarily make you a beta either. Is Tony Hawk a beta? Or since there's a lot of autistic trumptards on Veeky Forums for some reason, is trump a beta cuz he doesn't lift, and hes fat?

That sounds like a sweet trip. One of my dream trips is going to Vietnam, renting/buying a cheap 125cc bike and travel arond the country. Not original at all, but it just seems so cool.

I don't know why you assume girls are more successful than this lol. I know a ton of loser, male and female and let me tell you, no job and no money is not exactly a barrier to getting pussy in modern America. Just think of it this way; no matter how hot she is no (sane) female with no job and no money is going to want to get with someone who is too successful. For the exact same reason you would be suspicious if some 10/10 wanted to shag you.

Play the game at your level and you can win brah. Most of all, stop giving up on yourself. That shit becomes a habit, and you will drown in a sense of your own mediocrity if you continue on that way.

>because of how embarrassed I am about having to share my pathetic life with them if they asked me about myself

alright you can start right here. if you aren't doing anything then find a hobby or pursue and interest it will give you something to talk about so you won't have to worry about not having anything to share.

>53
fug my life im a former landwhale

>0

This isn't accurate, I still hate myself

This is going to sound bad but hear me out, find a hooker. I was making pretty decent money when I was in my early twenties and I was also completely autistic and a virgin who was terrified of women.

I looked through backpage and found a pretty good looking hooker and paid her to lose my virginity, I was super nervous and barely able to get hard because of it. She was a professional cum dumpster so she was pretty unphased by my autism which helped me feel more at ease and not judged. I just straight up told her I have social anxiety and I'm trying to get over it with her and she was cool about it.

I kept going back to her quite frequently for like 6 months and it helped me a lot with getting over the initial fear of intimacy and gain confidence in the bedroom. I went from barely being able to get hard and nutting in 15 seconds to being able to go nonstop for 15-20 minutes with this girl and having us both sweaty as fuck and out of breath when we're done. We were able to joke and talk and obviously the money played a big part but she just straight up raised my confidence a lot in that time period.

That was like 5 years ago and it honestly really helped my confidence, putting myself out there stopped being so overwhelming because now I know that I can actually bring something to the table and I'm not going to just embarrass myself. I'm able to be confident and attract women now and have had a few girlfriends since then, and I really don't think any of who I am now would have been possible if I didn't have that experience.

It's not what most people are going to tell you but honestly if you feel like you're so far in your hole that you can't even approach a regular girl go to a pro. Society looks down on it but fuck society, it really doesn't matter what they think it just matters what you get out of it.

To this day none of my friends or my ex's knows about that prostitute and they don't have to, but she helped me a quite a bit.

do you still keep in touch with the prosty?

Well you gotta start somewhere m8... start talking with random people. Anyone who looks friendly or someone you find yourself comfortable around (could be older people) Make the focus of the conversation on them, get to know them is your goal. With that in mind, figure out what it is you would like to know about them. This is where you do some work and think of things in particular that interests you (ex. maybe you want to know what kind of hobbies they're into) You can start conversations simply by observing them and talking about something you observed. This can be anything, from their hairstyle, clothes, accessories to how they're feelings (if they look nervous, stressed out, having a bad day)

It's not too late, user. Practice makes perfect, the more experience you get, the more confidence you'll have. Up to you to start making that change though.

20 should i just create a facebook account ?

y-you don't really want to be a normie, do ya fampai?

75

JUST

>13
Apprentice wizard bonus fucked me over from being normal.

kek

>Play the game at your level and you can win
How do you identify your level?

>fucking manlets still haven't learnt

0.
The only forgivable ones are 'never had a best friend', some people have multiple 'close friends' and not just one singular 'bestie' who also considers you their best friend, this is normal.

Neet. If you're under 21 and your parents are rich enough that you can afford to fuck around in your only chance in life before retirement, go for it.

Raised by a single mother, some cant help this.

Have a crush on a girl you don't know, for sure this can happen to anyone but it should just be a lustful attraction and not a full on swooning to do anything other than fuck them.

No facebook account. Some people are like this and theres no law saying you need a facebook

>29 KHV
>at work Christmas party recently
>being a mopey sad cunt standing in the corner
>my old supervisor (who I have a terrible crush on) comes up to me and asks me how I am
>barely talk, kind of blow her off
>before she walks away, she gently rubs me on the back for 2 seconds
>it was the most intimate female contact I've ever had

It felt so nice.

level 49 wizard apprentice
kill me

Nigga she probably saw you being mopey and shit and came up to you to try and give you some attention. Should have talked to her, it could have put you in the mood to enjoy the rest of the party.

>girl attacked me because I'm attractive

Breh, lift more, tinder, show off asthetics, get matches, state flat out you just want to hook up, do this till you're successful. Everyone saying that being a virgin is no different than not is a liar.

sounds like you have the beta "expecting" mentality

>0

Don't need to rationalize away things that would give me points either
>
Faggot

I did that aswell

If you´re not completely disfigured and 60 years old you don´t need to pay a hooker to have sex in Thailand as a westerner.

I didn´t have to wait 30 minutes in a dance club there before the first girl literally walked up to me and asked me to spend the night with her within 10 minutes of talking. I´ve had girls giggle excitedly when I walked past them, it was unreal.

It helped that I was a rather slim blonde 22yo and not all that bad looking back then, but I´ve seen tons of complete fedora tier losers walking around with hot chicks there as well.

Same score, same reason.

>4
Love my ma

I'm 18 and still virgin. I've had many chances, but i'm not socially prepared. I even failed getting a hot girlfriend, she was actually attracted to me. Any1 else here that know any tactics to get some social experience? I can't talk fluent with people unless i know them really really good and the worst of all im forced in the army next year.

>0
>2nd Year at Prestigious Uni
>Prestigious degree
>Used to be shredded
>8/10 gf who loves me (3+ yrs)
>Above avg dick length

>craving to watch porn in secret regardless of the sex I just had
>pretend to like people on my course for answers
>people pretend to like me on my course for answers
>I still wake up every day and want to stay in bed
>dick girth questionable
>5'8

If you're here now, on this board reading/posting:

happiness is but a meme

Just dont be like me
34 and on my 3rd wife
Met them all when they were 18.
Now im 34 with a 22 yr old wife. I was 30 when she was 18.
It was very akward.
At my age saying lets go back to my place meant "my place" but at 18 it means "my parents ( because i cant afford life on my own yet)"
Its really hard to make a good first impression like that =/

Anyways i got a THINN hentai loving, vidya game playing girl that people say dont exist but they do.

My wife in pic

I'm jealous

what the fuck? post your face and body

just fuck a whore.

I lost my virginity to a gf when I was 21 years old, and was super stressed to lose my virginity.

In Amsterdam the prostitutes look real hot, a lot of blondes with nerd glasses.

2 of my friends fucked prostitutes on my birthday in Amsterdams red light district.

what do you like?
Videogames? Go to a convention, and you get some friends. Maybe they know some girls.
They are all socially awkward so no problem.

Are you into programming? Maybe hackathons.

There are tons of opportunities.
And girls understand if you are shy.

make a facebook account with your first name and without a pic and just the first three letters of your lastname, so you can add people you meet somewhere.

>7 im just a virgin :(

actually im 10 forgot the bonus, fuark

turning wizard in a few days

i'll race you to wraith

Kek

Ok for what purpose though?

>33
I'm a kissless virgin but I got a handjob once, surely that would decrease my points?

What country you from?

I was 43 and 4 years later I'm 3 for having a crush on a co-worker I don't know. Nearly made it with good job and qt3.14 gf with butt.

How does one acquire normie sensibilities?

For example, my sense of humor does not mesh with normies. They'll laugh at things I think aren't funny at all, and I'll laugh at things they think I shouldn't laugh at. Or in other cases, I'll say things that I think are true (anyone can do X if you actually dedicate time and effort), but then they call me asshole because they can't/refuse to put in the effort.

Do I just throw away all of my existing opinions and principles and adopt normie ones for the sake of social harmony? (I'd feel like a sell out)
Or do I live out my edgy opinions and feel like an honest, but lonely man. (depressing)

Is there a way out?

So true.

This "being virgin is bad" mentality needs to stop, sex and intimacy used to be something important and cherished, mostly being saved for marriage, nowadays girls get ravaged by the time they hit 25 years old and then expect someone to marry them.

Its all gone to hell mates. May God help those youngins.