Is it better to be honest emotionally and trusting with women or is it better to basically regard them as disposable...

is it better to be honest emotionally and trusting with women or is it better to basically regard them as disposable objects and never let them get close enough to hurt you?

ive been watching alot of romance anime and its all about the purity of love and how in the end true compassion always wins out.

in the real world is this true? or will being so caring and empathetic end up hurting you in the long run? is it better to just be uncaring and detached and to "treat her like shit"? will this make you more attractive to women in the long run?

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Never share emotion. Coming from someone in a 3 year relationship, never do it. They will never love you as wholly as you can love them, no matter what you do. Dip and slip always

Jesus christ you need to go outside. You can be honest and trusting, just don't let them walk all over you, and dump them immediately if they cheat (almost none of them cheat, that is just something /r9k/ tells itself so it can feel like it has a legitimate reason to keep its virginity).

>Anime
>Real life relationships

lol

Love them, but don't get attached when you break up. Hard to explain, but once it'll happen, you'll know what I mean.

Also
>ive been watching alot of romance anime

>"FeeIs" and being a dating faiIure garbage
>Random shit posting
>Non fitness thread

Saged, repoted :)

Don't take romance advice from a cartoon from one of the most beta countries on the planet, user.

> You will never grow up with a girl childhood friend.
> You will never hang out every day together and have fun and become close together.
> You will never get to hear from her one day that she will need to move away.
> You will never get to hear from her that she wants to marry you when both of you become older.
> You will never be able to after years passed and you encounter her again that you realized she became much more beautiful.
> You will never get to hear from her that she still remembers that childhood marriage promise.
> You will never get a chance to tell her that you remembered also as cries tears of happiness.
> You will never then both kiss knowing that both of you found true happiness.

your happiness and well-being should never be dependent on someone else's opinion of you.

tl;dr
you will never be in an anime

be emotionally honest with them 99% of the time. trust them as far as you should.

you would trust your dog to eat some chicken if you left it on the counter, so treat women like that. trust them with things it makes sense to trust them with. Don't trust them to act extremely out of character.

>girl has cheated on her last 18 bfs
>don't trust her not to cheat on you
like this.

This. Good response!

>ive been watching alot of romance anime

>romance anime
>real life romance
>implying the two share anything in common
>implying you're not autistic

you have to balance it.

a woman can't be your entire world.

but if you disregard her and treat her like an object, she'll see through it and it'll create problems.

you have to find a balance, but in my actual experience, it's best to err on the side of objectifying her. that doesn't mean you have to be emotionless.

use your male friends for emotional support... not your girl. they'll support you only as much as it benefits them (which if you do things right, will be quite a bit).

basically relationships are a transaction. if you aren't giving her something, she won't give you anything. i'm broke as fuck and live at home still but have three women obsessed with me, i'm not trying to brag (much), but i give them orgasms and fuck them better than most other dudes, that's enough to keep them coming back.

i don't believe that pure love exists. always keep her at arm's length but do allow yourself to get a little close and do nice shit for her on occasion. if she isn't regularly doing the same for you, dump her.

a lot of women are fucking nuts. you'll encounter all types. some are complete whores, some are down for long term shit, some are too fucking crazy to actually be in relationships even though they want to be... i've dealt with all three of those types at least once.

my advice is to fuck sluts until you find a girl that you can trust then only fuck her.

also in my experience, the most tragic relationships aren't when somone loves the other person more, but rather when the woman just isn't capable of the relationship. my ex has really healthy attitudes towards monogamy and sex, but she loves drama and every week there was some argument about something stupid. it'll turn into emotional abuse. my current girl has almost zero drama, as does the girl i was casually fucking before her.

basically think of women as an accessory to your life. your confidence and attitude isn't a product of the women, but women are a product of said attitude.

i almost had this
she was nice and still is a very nice girl

>almost none of them cheat that is just something /r9k/ tells itself so it can feel like it has a legitimate reason to keep its virginity

agreed.

is my post.

i've fucked so many women with boyfriends that it's disgusting. including in a $2000 temperpedic bed while her long term boyfriend of like 5 years was away on business. then i ate all his food

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It's the second time I see your homo ass. Just go on a fucking pro bodybuilding forum or youtube if you want fitness shit. This board isn't only about fitness, it's about the human interactions and mental health. So fuck off. Faggot.

you will never have a true love who fucked dozens of men before she married you

So I didn't want to make a thread about this but still want some advice. To make a long story short, I've reinvented myself and become successful in the last two years. Recently my high school girlfriend added me on Facebook and I've heard she is down on her luck. Part of me wants to help her get a job but part of me doesn't want to be a pushover loser to this girl who dumped me in college. I had a lot of anger towards her but I'm over that and realize there were lots of things at play. So the question is, do I extend an olive branch and help her or go about my business. The only thing I want out of this is her weed connection, I'm not interested in hooking up again.

depends why you broke up.

also what sort of help you're providing.

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Do you want a loving, trusting relationship?
Then be mostly (not entirely) open and honest, you'll drive alot more women away but the ones that do stay will have a higher chance of working out.

If you just want to slay sluts, treat them like a game- find out what makes the average female pussy wet, then find a target, and find out how she's different and similar, and play accordingly.

Fucking this.

Girl I was messing with used to sleep on the couch in the living room, told her bf of 3 years he was snoring too much. Would text me about midnight to come over, she'd sneak out, come suck my dick, fuck her wherever we drove around to, nut in her mouth, then drop her off. Knew the guy too, didn't feel bad about it, he was a loser. Girl dumped him and he found out we were fucking, still didn't do shit when I came into his home and helped move her stuff out.

About 2 months later I get tired of her and dump her, he takes her back and moves her back in right away. Gets dumped again a few months later.

Cucks will be cucks I guess.

Moral of the story OP: don't be a loser, have standards, stick by them, bend them for no one.

And don't be a cuckboi.

yeah man, that's what i'm saying.

girl with the temperpedic would regularly sneak out and fuck me, then go back to bed with her man.

when he confronted me, HE apologized for HER.

fucking a.

also fucked a girl who got off on telling me i was better than her boyfriend and bigger.

it's fucking disgusting. still not totally convinced my ex didn't sleep with this 60 year old cop.

really don't every fully trust a woman. current girl seems ok, i have no reason to distrust her. she's been really honest about her sexual past. she's fucked about 20 dudes but at least she's good in bed. complete fucking nympho so i don't know if i hold it against her. a bit conflicted desu

w-what?

>he doesn't live in a state where weed is legal

Weed is for subhumans

Well, historically speaking it has a reason that women were kept in their place by law.

Women are sluts. They are literally slits. They want as many dick as they can get.

top cuck

read the post I was replying to, kid

i think the answer is obvious
think about all those animutards and their pillowaifus; how do you think its worked out for them

FPBP

reported

i have about 10 reported/hidden thread on fit alone. the janitors think these kind of thread are the culture here. probably because they post feel threads too.

just merge r9k and fit already.

Nah man, no good will come from pulling up the past into current times, especially in relationships that had nothing to do with you. Just keep that note in the back of your mind and don't be blind to signs of infidelity, and don't be wishy washy about handling them cause you like her.

For that matter, Id suggest coming to terms with the idea that if you could never fully trust her, you may wanna try elsewhere, cause the relationship will always be strained by " what ifs" until you snap or reconcile.

Real racism is bad, m'kay.
But those motherfuckers should have stayed in jail

Women love to be abused and only fall in love with the strongest and most socially elite of men (ubermensch)

if you show any weakness or betaness they instantly resent you

you have a LOT to learn op

I reccomend checking out some redpill comics (serious)

pic related is your first lesson for today

/thread
it only took me 2 relationships in high school to figure shit out
you just have to learn to not be attached to people, the only person you'll have until you die is you so you might as well learn to love yourself

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what a crybaby bitch
he deserved it if he actually acted like that lmao

Racism is a jewish buzzword to shut down opposition to the destruction of the white race.

how the fuck do you all get laid so much?
are you all Chads or 8+?
I seriously have no idea how to get a girl to bed if you're not in a relationship let alone cuck a guy

i have no idea why women fuck me desu,

i compete in oly lifting but im poor as shit.

i think it's just how to talk to them. apparently i have cool tattoos but they're really just random shit.

just don't be boring. sometimes when i get bored i'll go through my female contacts and send them random pornographic images.

don't give a fuck and get tinder

alcohol, be tall
But really, don't be afraid of rejection. I'm way better looking and have a better future than almost all the girls I get rejected by. Just stop being a bitch, no offense, but I'm trying really hard to not be the same way

Its insane. I'm down with gym stories and jokes about rich piano, but this thread is literally anime and misogyny

We already have a containment board for this jfc

gay as fuck

I don't get laid alot
I only fucked 5 girls at 22, 2 of them have been gfs
None of them have been strangers, all of them I met either through work or through friends.

You gotta be social. I hate being social, but when I want to find a woman I make an effort.

Also I'm not that good looking, I'm 6'1 but average face and still DYEL

>just don't be boring
how though? Nothing I ever say is clever or that funny, I always filter myself from saying anything because I know it's uninteresting shit. I know it because one time I decided to say the first thing that came to my mind and it was cringeworthy shit. Maybe I have some kind of yet to be discovered autism.
>be tall
well I'm king of manlets 5'11 but where I live most people are around 5'8 so it's not a big deal
and I'm not really afraid of rejection, I don't give a shit honestly if I get rejected by some random chick, I just don't know wtf you even say or do to get a girl to have sex with you, it's like men come hardwired with what to say to get laid, is it something that just happens?

fuck off reddit

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