Tfw no gf

R-really?

>year almost over
>still no gf
>for once I actually put myself out there and have become very social and active in growing relationships
>girls stop replying, ignore me, and so on

I'll be talking to a girl nice and all, usually they're the ones who make a first move, and i do the same, and out of nowhere they just stop replying and all that

It's so frustrating bros, i just don't know, and no i'm not a creep or a manlet, i have a good job, uni educated, fit, nice car/place

*sigh*

If all I do is improve myself will she come into my life?

How's the face?

>usually they're the ones who make a first move

First mistake.

Often the stop replying shit is a test of clinginess. You can only really start to get clingy after the relationship has settled for a few years (not all cases).

Yeah man. Make it happen captain.

In all seriousness, that message is as old as time. Most religions' sacred texts are filled with metaphors talking about your thoughts being more powerful than you know in shaping the world around you.

How far do these powers go? Do emotionalizing these thoughts help?

>tfw want nothing to do with women

8/10

I don't necessarily mean they make the first move, it's more like they start the conversation first, and it leads to nothing, and no i'mnot clingy or autistic a friend tells me that maybe the girls feel insecure and assume i'm just a "player" I really don't act or feel that way i told him but he said that's how i get perceived because of my good looks nice place and nice car and all

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Do you smile often? Keep your eyes open and smile often to come off as inviting and warm.

Where do you find these cute girls with seeming insecurity issues? Bar and club bitches are egotistical af.

>DUI in 2016
WORST FUCKING YEAR OF MY LIFE JUST KILL ME

After being satisfied with your journey inward, you must begin your journey outward. Find some way to improve the world, you'll meet plenty of new people along the way.

tfw experience this 10+ times a day

>tfw fapping to porn
>girl reminds me of ex

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lol same here dude. I will literally remember 2016 for the rest of my life as one of the shittiest years ever. But it's only up from here. Remember that.

if dubs I will never have a romantic relationship but everyone else on Veeky Forums will

;_; t-thanks!

> tfw no gf

thanks user

this man is a hero

Thanks pal

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t-thanks

If this post is dubs, this user also gets a gf

>1 off

digits and you get one too

five and user does get a gf

I feel so sorry for that user ;_;

ALRIGHT

DUBS AND user GETS AN ETERNAL REAL LIFE WAIFU

LAST CHANCE

yay

god bless you people

Can I lift the void I feel?

>ETERNAL REAL LIFE WAIFU
jealous.jpg

Sounds like autiso to me desu. Let your mom suck the vaccination out of your arm before it spreads further

>haven't thought about her in months
>have a dream where she merely messages me
>she's been in my head ever since

She was 500% crazy, and a complete and utter cunt, but fuck me, I miss her.

Ty for falling on the sword so other may flourish. You will not be forgotten

>had sex with girl
>almost became gf
>didn't
i just want to die.

>get to know a qt
>ask if she wants to hang out sometimes
>she declines and gives some bullshit excuse about "not ready for that user, but your a great guy"
>decide to move on
>met her last night at a party and we hung out for hours
>we both obviously like each others company but she kept turning down all my advances

>tfw its pretty obvious she doesnt want to be anything more than friends, but I'm not ready to give up

How do you get a gf like Dee?

>always loyal to Conor
>never leaves his side
>always supported him and his career
>made the money while Conor trained for MMA
>attractive

I'll remember you when im cuddling with my future gf

keep pushing until she feels repulsed by the thought of being anywhere near you

>tfw ugly and autistic
>tfw no gf
>have nice bone structure but 120 lbs 6 feet meant I looked anorexic as hell
>0 muscles, spend all day playing videogames
>decide to turn my life around, leave school get a job
>Start buying food start working out start meeting people
>now im qt and autistic
>get attached every time i have sex
>heartbroken because girls only want my body
>tfw still no gf
>lost my interest for going out anymore
>haven't worked out in 2 days
>depression starts setting in again
Is this how I die?

>tfw hitting OHP PR today
Don't be sadcunts m8s.

>decide to turn life around
>leaves school

you're not gonna make it

Bruh
>be me lifting today at the squat rack
>see squat booty qt with her bf
>only squat rack open is next to her take it
> do regular leg day get to deadlift
> at the second rep notice cutie also starts to deadlift
> I go at same tempo as her
>imagine she's my lifting gf workingout with me
>weight gets heavy I usually do 5x5 but already repping for 7 but the feels so good
> want to have tthis feeling a little longer
> got out 2 more reps
>tfw no more mana done with set back to reality back to no gf

Her bf was a beast you gotta just keep lifting desu

He sacrificed a gf for us to make it

tfw u didnt talk to your internet crush today
WHY DOES HE HATE ME

Took one for the fit crew
Thanks dude, btw i heard reading books will keep you entertained

>tfw 26
>qt is flirting with me at work
>find out shes 17

i mean.. its legal here and she does look older. its just a pretty big gap.

should i go for it lads?

I've been in the situation

Unless you're certain she can keep her fucking mouth shut about it, the work gossip isnt worth it.

My ex was 10 years younger than me, and I wouldn't do it again. She was way too naive, and way too immature. It caused a ton of problems in the relationship, and it was probably the worst one I've had.

yeah the gossip is my biggest fear.

this kinda makes me feel better in a sense that im not the only person crushing on a grill so much younger

bless your kind soul

HERO OF THE IMPERIUM

School was killing me and taking every bit I had of motivation from my life, it isn't for everyone yknow?

first, why the fuck do you care about work gossip

second, in what fucking universe do you think that anyone will give you shit for this? sure, the girl might get slutshamed by her old, overweight coworkers but all you will receive is a high-five from the guys and an angry look from the fatties

He deserves it.

>every girl is already talking to some guy
>tfw have to compete with many men
>tfw ever time I hang out with a girl she has 5 other guys she's talking to
>tfw current girl im talking to gave me her number and went on a date with me
>tfw she keeps posting a guy in her snap story with stuff like the heart emoji and the word "hubby"
>tfw she never turns down my requests to hang and is always free when I ask to hang at a time
>tfw no idea what to think

Is that the only way?

Sounds like she's bored, and just using you to get out, and get free shit. She probably doesn't even consider them dates, unless one of you have explicitly called them such.

I'd say stop talking to her, and see how she reacts, if at all.

idk what universe you're in but a 27 year old banging a 17 year old isnt high five worthy.

I have a cute intern at work who's ten years younger. I've never had a gf so I'm about as romantically experienced as her. She's childish as fuck though. Would it be immoral to pump and dump a 17 year old?

that's all 17 year olds are for dude. especially if you're 5+ years older than them.

you'll think otherwise when you're 27

I stopped talking to her for a week and she started sending me stupid shit on snapchat by including me in her mass messages. When i stop replying to her mass snaps she doesnt send me anything.

P.s. I got her number by asking her friend for it and the girl im talking to was okay with it and said "yeah"

Anyway earlier I asked her to hang tomorrow night and I just saw her post the dude again in her snap story earlier in the day. Should I just ghost?

Also is it beta to just straight up ask for an explanation?

How do I go about it? Just tell her I have candy or something? Because that would probarbly work on her. She's that immature.

no, that's exactly what you should do

what's the worst that can happen? nothing.

The greatest of bros

I mean should I just assume she doesnt have a bf and just make a move? I do find it very strange she'd let her friend give her number then 6 days later shes typing the heart emoji with some other dude

women are weird, it could literally mean anything

and I wouldn't call asking whether she's single or not and who the weird guy in her pictures is as "making a move" just yet

Well, my situation was nowhere near normal, so I'm not exactly the best person to ask for advice here.

I'm a 29 year old neet who just started putting myself through college, where I met her. She was homeschooled by a ridiculously religious family, and was socially awkward as hell, so I figured she be an easy first gf to work some autism out on.

Turns out, that her mother was completely overbearing, and had completely beaten her dad into submission, and because she had no strong male figures in her life, she literally didn't see men as human beings. They were nothing more than sperm banks with wallets attached, that were to be crushed into submission.

This turned into her throwing temper tantrums like a 2 year old over any sign of independence, or thought outside what was covered in the Bible, and she ended up destroying the relationship over completely trivial things that literally wouldn't matter to normal people. She was straight up abusive with her bullshit.

She also never put out, and I'm convinced that she probably never will. She's that much of a prude. And if she ever does, it will be solely for the purpose of procreation.

We dated for the first 6 months of the year, and they were honestly the worst months of my life. At one point, the stress made me lose 30 pounds in 2 months (20 of which were muscle), throwing away a ton of hard work in the gym (used to be a hungry skelly).

She started dating another guy 2 weeks after we broke up, and they went for a couple of months before breaking up. After what I went through with her, I'm convinced she's undatable. Unfortunately, because of how she's raised, she completely believes she's infallible, and can never be wrong (because MUH BIBLE), so I doubt she'll ever realize she's a horrible person and change.

thanks.

I mean just assume she is single and go in for a kiss, i didnt go for the kiss on the first date cuz I like being a tease and the 2nd date was breakfast. The other two times we hung out were just events we went to together, nothing serious

However tonight is another night function and Im not sure whether to ditch or go for it

i am so ugly compared to my friend
hes a legit 8-9/10 and has attractive women throwing themselves at him
meanwhile im having a hard time trying to match with 5-6/10s on tinder

shits depressing

>tfw gf saw me in a depressive state and broke up with me because she just doesn't understand it

And my fucking gym's got rid of the dip bars. Kill me now.

Shit man, that's rough. That doesn't leave a very good first impression of relationships and women, I'm sure. Have you recovered from all this?

>22 yrs old never had a gf
>started lifting 2 years ago becouse freinds were into it and decided to join in
>start loving working out
>get fairly /fit
>still autistic but less shy
>a couple of weeks ago meet a girl that is into me
>asked her out and went dancing
>my autistic self makes it awkward everytime i want to hug her or hold her
>asked again for movies this weekend
>want to get to kissing phase but as a kv i have no idea how to even approach this
>getting nervous of fucking this up

also she is 3 years younger than me and a real qt

help me brehs, im so late and new to this courtship thing ;_;

Two months in to dating my last girlfriend I had a drunken breakdown (been battling depression on and off for 21 years, this last bout has lasted around 2 years). She was actually really supportive and understanding, and in fact a month later had her own drunken depressive breakdown in front of me.

We meshed really well, but her career took her to another state so we ended things. I hope I find someone soon because I'm tired of thinking about what could've been.

real talk user, shes into you, so dont fucking sweat being autistic.

Relax and be yourself, the less you think about it the better things will go.

If shit hits the fan at least try and laugh it off, shes stuck with you through awkwards dates already, shes not going to freak out.

Well, I'm also this guy
I started making an effort to get out more. Went to meetup.com, and found some local groups. Gained all the weight back as muscle (210 pounds, 11% bf, 6 ft tall). But at the moment, I don't even know if I even want to try again.

Religion has been a small red flag for me my entire life (abuse when I was younger because I was from a non-religious household, and they tried to literally beat Jesus into me), but now, it's almost dealbreaking. The only reason it's ALMOST dealbreaking, is because from what I've seen, non-religious women are such degenerate scumbags, they're still without a doubt worse. Unfortunately, the only women I've met through these meetups have had similar backgrounds (homeschooled by ridiculously religious family), so I've noped the hell away from them, and ghosted them the second I found out.

You need to get over yourself.

Try this: Every single day go up to one girl and try to start a conversation. Say 'how's it going' or 'hello' or 'hey' or whatever. All you have to do is approach one girl every day. It doesn't have to go well, it doesn't have to lead to anything, if you make the effort and approach you've succeeded for that day.

Pretty quickly you'll realise that it really doesn't matter what you do or say; it's not a big deal. You'll realise that interaction with people is actually fun and full of potential and isn't scary or just another opportunity to put your foot in your mouth.

This will carry over to this girl you like and others after her.
It's fucking liberating honestly. It completely changed the way I view social interaction. Now I talk to girls because it's fun. It's even funnier when it goes horribly wrong. You learn to just not give a fuck and only then can you truly get rid of that awkwardness.
Anything you do other than that is just an attempt to mask the symptoms and trust me when I say that girls can see right through that.

>Start fucking oneitis form college mid summer
>She gets distance doesnt want to hangout or do anything
>I'm friends with her brother so, i see her sometimes. It's awkward.
>Meet new girl last month. We fuck she says she wants more/wants to see me again.
>Hangout with the new girl more. Things are going great with her.
>Oneitis contacts me out of the blue. We fucked last weekend.

Feels good and bad.

The new girl definitely wants to date me.
While oneitis bailed on me the first time and I heard from her brother she was fucking some other guy constantly. I assume the other guy didnt have feelings for her. Which makes me the 2nd guy or the backup guy for her idk.

Choices are hard.
And We're all gonna make it.

I feel your pain. I'm a groomsman for one of my best friends weddings later this month. The kicker is that his soon to be wife was the biggest and longest lasting crush I've ever had in my life.

I can honestly say I'm completely over her now, but the realisation that I'm still a single 25 year old kv hurts me on a very daily basis. Meanwhile all of my other friends are moving on with their romantic lives and I'm here posting on a Nepalese calligraphy enthusiast forum at 6am

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I will remember your sacrifice user

>When you let society convince you banging 17yo's is bad

your sacrifice wont be forgotten

never 5get