Veeky Forums is there any way to avoid the feeling of disinterest in sex right after sex? Forgive me, it's kind of hard to explain.
>go over girls house
>have sex, blow load
>don't even want to think of sex or even talk to the girl for 15 mins or so
are there any ways around this or is this just a fact of life
>inb4 have sex with your girlfriend
some people have one nighters, y'know
Jesus fucking christ OP, there's more to life than muh dick. Get a hobby or two. Or three.
Obvious answer is obvious: You have no emotional connection to this girl you just fucked, it was a purely physical thing. You may as well have just fapped to internet porn.
You want to not feel that way after sex? Actually get to know someone first, and at least LIKE them, so you have some sort of emotional connection.
If you can't or won't do that then you're better off not having sex with anyone. It'll just sour the entire experience for you (and her) when (and if) you finally get involved with someone you DO have an emotional connection with.
what makes you think I have no hobbies?
projecting much?
Bullshit. I've always had this feeling with literally every girl - girlfriend or not.
>there's more to life than muh dick
OP never claimed that there isn't more. Are you projecting or what?
normal shit bruh
>Bullshit. I've always had this feeling with literally every girl - girlfriend or not.
Then you have some sort of emotional problems that prevent you from forming attachments to people. Go talk to a therapist about it.
>OP gets laid once
>Some people have one nighters, y'know
Obviously it was your first one if you have to ask questions like this. Jesus christ, just don't say anything and if you can get it up again jab it back in fucks sake
literally autism
this. what you're experiencing isn't some weird phenomenon, all dudes are like this (that I know of anyway). really understanding yourself is probably your best bet. once you know what to expect after climax you can better prepare for it. learn to enjoy that awkward in-between time of "wtf am doing naked next to this girl" and find a way to entertain yourself (preferably with her company) until you either reach normality or are horny enough again to fuck her brains out some more.
Its normal. French call it le petit mort. Little death.
The cause of it is an increase in prolactin
To attenuate this increase, take some mucuna pruriens (standardized to 40% levodopa). Dopamine antagonizes prolactin.
Oxytocin also antagonizes prolactin. Look into her eyes when you come, and do lots of touching/cuddling in the moments immediately afterward.
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>anything i disagree with is projecting
Grow up.
This is the most obvious sign of klynfelters. Get yourself checked OP.
I can literally fuck for hours and Im 28
not Veeky Forums related just some dude wanting to post about how he got laid for once in his life
since when did Veeky Forums become so toxic?
Not them but you're literally projecting on your first post retard.
>of disinterest in sex right after sex
It's called a refractory period.
Because you lack basic reading comprehension, here's OP's post
>some people have one nighters, y'know
There it is, so pitifully focused on muh dick that it consumes him. I'm not projecting you fucking dipshit, I'm stating fact.
Fuck off to
so? doesnt mean hes got no hobbies fuckwit.
You're projecting and you're retarded, stay mad
Since Veeky Forums went from trying to legitimately being a bunch of posters trying to accomplish something, to having a bunch of 00's circlejerk over their close to but not quite ottermode bodies or >tfw cutting weight from 280lb to 200! while posting sip threads or whatever.
Even the kryptonite threads are filled with ooey gooey chocolatey filled diabetus in a fucking box and nothing actually kryptonite worthy that's considered edible and somewhat right to post on a Veeky Forumsness forum.
Since you asked
Dubs and everyone on Veeky Forums who doesn't workout 5 times a week loses 10lbs on their bench next session
>a bloo bloo people are having one night stands
>implying someone like that has hobbies
Ok.
redit the post
Literally this breh.
I get this feeling any time I nut with a chick and I can say 100% genuinely that I don't know how to let people get close emotionally. Doesn't matter if it's a one night, a oneitis, a gf.
I guess all you can do is project? lol
Nice argument
not an argument
That would be you friend. But keep getting buttmad.
ahhh the old 'n-no you'. Next time try googling what projecting means first.
Welp I guess I won now. You can have the last reply retard
No. If it's a one nighter, you're probably only interested in the pussy.
Once you get to blow your load, the only reason you're there is gone. That's why you don't want to be there anymore.
It's kind of the reason why ONS are kinda shitty.
IMO the only part that is good about a ONS is that you can do whatever the fuck you want to the girl and you don't have to worry about it damaging your non existent relationship
>this gaslighting attempt
Too good. Have a great night.
Just wanted to pop in and tell you that you appear pathetic
>projecting
this, I used to go eagerly into hookups only thinking about the fucking part but with experience I've started dreading that post-finish period of having to stick around for the night and dragged my feet more often
kenjataimu
Sure thing, Timmy
keks of truth
>lose virginity
>BRO WHY DO I NOT WANT TO HAVE SEX AFTER I HAVE SEX