It is 2017, and I want to not get turned on by femdom, cuckolding, and other submissive thoughts.
I have been lifting for 3 months, SL 5x5. Loving it. But on matter how buff I become, i'm scared I will always have submissive thoughts, and this will directly affect if I get laid or not.
Has anyone here who had submissive desires gotten rid of them Any input is welcome. Please bros, I'm close to losing it.
Just accept you're a faggot already
There's nothing gay about submissiveness. Don't be ignorant.
Tbh there's nothing wrong with having submissive thoughts as long as you keep them sexual and accept that you have them.
>I have been lifting for 3 months
it's still not too late to accept your fate and transition, faggot
What do you mean by this? I know there is nothing morally wrong with it, but i know my life would be better if i didn't have these desires.
What I mean it's just sexual bro :^)
Find a girl willing to indulge them without making you feel emasculated 24/7
I've thought about this, and this is what I concluded:
It's not worth the risk.Lets say i'm hitting it off with a woman, she is obviously into me, then I mention my desires. She has the power to completely destroy my reputation by telling people I know about what i'm into. Then I'm fucked.
I just can't put that much trust into anyone, i've seen many relationships fall apart, and people from both sides start slinging shit like rabid monkeys the second they break up, to save their reputation before theres is ruined by the other.
>dating skanks and whores
>telling them about your deepdark before you're married and trust them
Are you genuinely turned on by that stuff or is it just intrusive thoughts and doubts?
If you didnt want to change yourself id tell you to consider suicide but its good you know its wrong. Stop watching porn m8.
> because marriage lasts forever according to recent stats
>2017
>marriage
>trust
I agree with the other commentator, marraige is a fools game. Literally 0 benefit.
>not knowin that if you fund a qt virgoo who gives a shit about relationships it has a chance at lasting
Anybody have any help for the opposite problem? It's not that I'm just into dominating women. I literally can't get off unless I imagine I am in complete control, like hypnosis or other shit. Never told this to anyone IRL. Just imagine it when I'm fucking and only jerk it to mind control fetish porn.
so narrow your dating pool to women who are guaranteed to be open to it, i.e. fetlife
Is no one going to talk about this dude's squat form? Those knees are about to explode from how far out they are.
>no source
why am i supposed to believe this?
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awesome thanks
Please don't listen to any of the faggot cucks ITT saying that it's okay to have these thoughts. I have no investment in you at all, so know that I say this purely for your best interest. Try NoFap. In the beginning you may get those submissive porn thoughts, and think that NoFap is failing, but that's because your brain is mud right now. By the end of 30 days, you will have the unbelievable urge to fuck girls. Not any faggy anal shit, or femdom, or MMF threesomes with your girlfriend. You'll just want to find a girl to stick your penis in her vagina and have some missionary sex. At this point, fap to YOUR IMAGINATION if you want to. If you EXCLUSIVELY fap to your imagination after this, you will NEVER get any intrusive perverted sexual thoughts again. You'll have the same sexual urges as your ancestors before you.
Also, the first time you jizz after NoFap, your jizz will be yellowish. Don't be alarmed, that's normal for not fapping for a while, since your body was made to release semen often, just NEVER do it to porn.
>if you starve yourself for a week you'll be glad to eat anything.
wew lad
Are you talking from experience? Longest i've gone is 2 weeks, and gave up because i still felt submissive.
kek
Just get pegged!
its smart to worry about this. in the age of social media and shit all it takes is one big fight to spurn her and motivate her to post pics of you wearing sissy faggot clothes and getting fucked in the ass to your facebook, and then you're fucking hooped
When you watch porn you are always in a passive and in your case submissive position. Stop masturbating to porn and start using your imagination in the shower or in your bed. Stand up or dry hump and move your body instead of sitting down. Just don't be the passive observer. By taking the active dominant position (albeit by yourself) the fantasies will change and you become alpha. The old beta fantasies will go away if you are man enough to make them go away. This is what I did.
congratulations you are a man
Quit porn.
hetero Dahmer
Who cares if you like rubber in the ass?
Fucking no one
Just be honest and open and if someone gives you shit, remind them of your chad tier body by curb stomping them
Good luck buddy, we're in this together.
t. fellow submissive thoughts haver
Step one, become switch. Step two realize switch is best and stop being a fucking faggot.