Talking to girls

What do you do to not get nervous talking to girls Veeky Forums?

Adderall helped me with this.

I don't talk to female

Don't give a fuck about them. Treat them as if they were some fat guy.

Remember that no girl is special and I can find the same type the next day, if I want to.
If your mental game is weak, try drinking a beer before. But only one

Comes with experience but the basic mindset is that you're on the same level

Nah the basic mindset is your on the level above

But never the level below

Stop shamming and be your fucking self. If you are nervous, be nervous. Women detect inconsistencies very quick. BE YOURSELF and never play the cool and confident guy, if you really aren't. It works, bitch.

this. There are no ´´one in million´´ girls. Woman´s personalities are 99% identical to each other their only difference is in their looks some are prettier some uglier.Bear that in mind and you wont be nervous at all OP

Works for you, right? Cowboy

This OP. Just be a limp dick boy! Someone will love you for it!

good advice.

bad advice

When you're out and about talk to random people in sets of 3x5 ideally on your rest days.
Progress from dudes and ugly girls to people who you are legitimately attracted to over a period of weeks to months.
Remember to start slow so you avoid showing people who matter how fucking autistic you actually are.
Once you've gotten comfortable with 3x5 conversations with attractive girls add a drop set of 1x3+ flirting, although I would not recommend deloading to men and ugly women for this as it would likely have unfortunate consequences.

take a shower and be yourself

> bad advice
have fun building a relationship built on a lie. that never works. you can change your mindset, but you can't be somebody else. as long as you don't behave like a fucking weirdo and creep when you are nervous, woman appreciate honesty. at least when you are looking for a long term relationship. if you are just looking for a fuck, fuck up your system with roids, which will make you confident by definition.

>Good advice
Lmao Im a virgin but at least I have good grasp on the theory I guess

Wow socialising has turned into some autistic trap to get what you want.

Literal autism

>Women don't have different personalities
t. never had a gf

>still thinking in levels
Sad.

You have to put that she's a girl in the back of your mind and talk to her like she's only a normal acquaintance. Don't try to brag or appear more interesting than you are, and don't behave like a weak, needy faggot with her. Just behave normally and that's all. First, try talking about mundane shit about a common environment or activity you, for example classes you have or that bitchy teacher no one likes. Then move on gradually to more personal tuff like her activites and yours outside of said environment.The most important thing is that it's gotta be natural. Don't move on to quickly.Also, if you're doing some small talk, rebound on what she says. For example, I'm talking to an adorable qt3.14 at my school and it's like:
>"I was cooking x yesterday, it was really nice and healthy !"
>"Oh yeah femanon, looks really delicious. I also tried eating y, reallly makes a difference imho"
>"You're right user, even if it's harder to do ! Do you cook ?"
>"I can survive and do basic stuff but I make killer bolognese pasta !"
>"Really ? blablablabla etc etc"
Sorry, I'm really shit at writing but I hope you see the general idea. The goal is to have a conversation that flows well, with equal speaking time for both (ideally 60% her and 40% you).

No, that dude that said you gave good advice is probably a virgin too.

>just be urself bro
wow Veeky Forums has more chads than I thought

Hey finally someone translated it for me to understand

>that made up conversation
ur gay, senpai.

It's actually good advice in this case.
(don't talk about weird subjects tho)

Everytime you get nervous simply remember the one simple trusth.
ALL women are whores who are programmed by genetics to only care about the most aesthetic cock. Therefore you should treat them as pieces of worthless shallow meat which they are. Do you get nervous when you are talking to dog shit at the bottom of your shoe? Nope.
Same thing applies.

Define weird subjects
Are the tactics and the evolution of the Eastern front a weird subject?

>t never had a girlfriend before

>(don't talk about weird subjects tho)
Formula is (your attractiveness/10)*(normieness of the topic/10) - 75 + (5* her sluttiness/10) = x
If x>= 0 proceed talking about desired topic

Try again.

Actually I really had that conversation with said grill, but as I said I can't write for shit so it sounded way better irl. Also,
>ur gay, sempai
Only 10% homo like every Veeky Forumsizen

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>tfw gay
>tfw can find a partner i actually truly consider my equal
What a fucking feel you guys. You straight guys be jelly.

Yeah, most people don't really give a fuck about that.
Could work if you told it in an interesting way tho.
Once had an hour long conversation about anime with a girl.
She gave me her number, but I forgot to call her and when I saw her at a different party I'd forgotten her name :^)

we're MUCH less likely to die from GRIDS though compadre

Try being kind to yourself and focusing your attention on engaging in the conversation rather than on the billions of assumptions and hypothetical situations that are in your negative ass mind. Consider a speech class if it's really that hard to comfortably talk to anyone and maybe take up mindfulness meditation if you're too anxious all the time.

Watch RDSJulien videos. So much information, how to deal with it.

enjoy that HIV

>actually said in my humble opinion in real life

>he thinks it's "in my humble opinion"

4 units of alcohol and 50mg of MDMA
>RSD

>honest, humble
>tomato, tomawto

Fuck yourself and die

>Fuck yourself and die
HARSH

gay and weak

I talk about racial mysticism and Goethean science all the time, 0 fucks given

Wow, you're so cool and edgy.
Let me tell you a secret though, as soon as you're done talking to someone they will go talk to other people about how they were stuck listening to your bullshit and how annoying you are.
Shits like you only care about yourself.

>I talk about racial mysticism and Goethean science all the time, 0 fucks given

just be confident bro just be yourself

I think about how I'm much bigger and could kill them with my bare hands.

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I think it's funny that you guys think women talk for any other reason besides hearing themselves talk.

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Haha ok bud, I can tell you've never talked to women.

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If a girl likes you they are very fucking interested in what you have to say.
Maybe stop going after clubsluts and find someone with an actual personality.

Tip your fedora a bit harder, fag. Club sluts are premium ass, and it requires no effort. Just get drunk and fuck one. Only neckbeard faggots want a girl with personality.

You're either calling your dad a neckbeard faggot or your mom a club slut.
Grow up.

That's great advice for someone over 35. Fuck some sluts while you're young and find a wife when you're older.

>Shits like you only care about yourself.
True.

It's literally all about FACE, HEIGHT and FRAME though, people will listen to anything and be engaged if you're attractive enough.

Manchild.

M'sir

>people will listen to anything and be engaged if you're attractive enough
Nope, not true.
Which you'd know if you'd ever talked to an attractive girl.