is a long process, just like building your body takes years to hit your natty limit.
I'll give you this advice:
Spend time about you, let you become valuable, work on yourself, don't work for girls.
A top male is still a top male.
Most girls are seeking a top male, their biology tells them to seek and reproduce with an alpha superior male.
Luckily for us, women need and seek more than face, height, frame, dick size.
Sure, is better to have them, but is not a deal breaker.
Stop wasting time with childish hobbies, become a man, and start to read books, literature, politics, economy, history, philosophy.
That's the mind part.
Next is the soul, learn to be extroverted, look up how to train your voice and learn to become a public speaker, sales techniques will work fine, building rapport is great, learn how to socialize and make friends, become the soul of the party, make others enjoy being with you.
Next is the body part, but you don't need to huge, remember that otthermode is what women want.
Spend time working on your looks, your clothes, your personal hygiene, your modals, get nice shoes (women love shoes), a nice watch, perfume, all that shit works.
Learn about fashion and dressing well.
It's all about the full package.
yeah, the insecurity will come with inexpierence, doing a lot of pickup, even if it fails build confidence.
yeah, autists don't understand the be confident meme.