How do I tell my gf nicely that she needs to start working out?

>Buy 3 month membership to gym as a gift
>Give her said gift
>She sees it as a gift, and an investment of time being spent with her
>You get actual quality bonding time with gf, and can steer her in the right direction

>Sounds autistic as fuck and really manipulative.
no shit, because it's manipulative and shitty thing to do.

>tfw no crossfit gf

>give her a gift
>she might go a few times
>quits because its not her decision to go working out
>wasted money
Jesus Christ just talk to her first

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This would come after talking to her. Of course OP has to fucking talk to her, that's a given. I'd hope to God if OP actually did care, as he appears to, he has the ability to have a coherent conversation with his S/O.

Just tell her how it is. I told my gf jokingly she was getting to heavy but I also just had a regular talk about how exercise and diet works and why its important for a healthy life and healthy relationship.
She now exercises regularly.

Tell her that lifting makes you feel good about yourself and your life, and that's something you want to share with her. If it's about you, she'll resent it.

OP, you need to be open. It doesn't mean being a dick and saying "lol you're fat," but there are ways to have a conversation without being overtly coercive.

>sex life benefits that are associated with lifting
>quality time spent together on a hobby
>has transition to other hobbies you may have like hiking, water sports, or cycling
>great mental health benefits
>etc.

>water sports

HNGGGG

Someone I know had his girlfriend approach him about joining fitness after she realized how outnof shape she was. If you can get her to do something physically difficult that she would want to do, it'll give her an opportunity to think about pursing fitness to better herself

Be subtle and clear with your reasoning, dont overdo it.
1. Better sex if you can squat
2. Its my hobby and I like sharing my interests
3. Physiology and kinaesthetics are cool subjects
4. Female powerlifters are admirable (Defy stereotypes, dont give a fuck, etc)
5. Lifting is practical for everyone and prevents back problems and joint issues

That's a good angle to hide her super wide gut and shoulders.

If she lives with you then just hand her some preworkout and say it's gym time.
If you live apart then there's no way to make her go/monitor her diet closely enough make a difference, and you should start looking for someone more compatible with your lifestyle.

What are those targets and round things in the back ground for?

I got my wife to start working out (interval training) by lifting 5 days a week and showing results. She noticed my improved body and probably got self conscious and decided she needed to keep up. Never even talked about it until she asked me what I thought would be most effective for her.

Throwing a ball at. Crossfit is retarded.

I got my girl into lifting
It depends on the girl how you approach this
For example my girl has confidence problems and is shy
Play with her weakness BUT NEVER DIRECT ALWAYS SUBTLE
What I did was
>Told her when I hit prs
>Went to the gym
>About shakes and shit
Now after I introduced her to the activity it's time to give her a good reason to go to the gym
What I did was talking about a girlfriend of her who goes to the gym was very good looking and good about her in general
Ofcourse she got pissed and jealous
Now she in vulnerable and bam
You tell her that you would love to share your hobby with her or that it bothers you that you're not doing that together.

So I got my girlfriend in the gym and she's down 10 lbs. On a girl who's only 5'3 that's huge.

She's now in good shape and I'm really happy I got her in there with me . I'm sure she's noticing her extra fat, and when she does acknowledge it and ask her to come to the gym with you.

If you're going on a cut soon, ask her to eat healthy with you.

first you have to tell me how you get a gf

timing is everything, she has to be in a good mood and she needs to think you both came up with the idea together. If in her mind its YOU who wants her to be fit it wont stick. trust me on that

>I want to be with an idiot who would sooner herniate a disc than learn proper form.

Atleast you'll get some exercise from pushing her wheelchair around.

I can tell you what DOESNT work OP. Dont show her pics of fit girls saying ''you know, you could look like that if would worked out with me''

Kek how did it go?

This is how womenn act in relationships

She's not going to commit to a Veeky Forums lifestyle unless she decides it's important. She has to make that decision on her own. You can point her in the right direction, but really you ought to think about the strength of your commitment to her, why you're with her, and at what point you will not be with her.

You can have a serious talk with her, and there's a small chance it will help. But more likely she will freak out and not go to the gym and eat better. I would still recommend you bring it up if it's getting to the point where you're thinking about leaving her. Be nice, curt, and honest. Spare her feelings as much as you can while still communicating your thoughts.

This is some passive-aggressive bitch shit. Don't do this. Be straightforward.

nothing happened really. She just sort of categorized fit girls as being ''them'' like another kind of girl entirely, who obsess about their looks and what they eat. And since she's not like ''them'' that means working out is not for her.

so is the best advice ITT

are you the girl in the pic ? post more looks good

My first girlfriend dumped me because i bough her a wii fit board for her birthday

Be careful OP

My girlfriend broke up with me because I tried to make her start working out by intentionally hitting her in the head with a barbell (not a heavy one) and joking that 'maybe now you won't forget that working out is good hahha'

>tried to make her start working out by intentionally hitting her in the head with a barbell (not a heavy one) and joking that 'maybe now you won't forget that working out is good hahha'
please be real

fucking kek

Dear god I hope this is true.

alpha

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Lived through the hell of having a hot girlfriend become a mammoth because she got comfortable.

HAHAHA poor fagot.

Just tell her, nigga i need a partner FOR life, you know bitch?! muh bonnie for muh clyde, muh Elliot Salem for muh Tyson Rios (you know they were fagits), muh Otacon for muh snake.
Lets take the kids to the park, OH NO YOU CANT, you get tired because getting fat is a slipery slope, 15 lbs a year is nothing right? when the kid finishes highschool your going to be on leg shorter cus the beeeeeeetuuuuuuuusssss.
WTF are you trying to prove here!?
I love you either way but you aint going to last long if you have a fucked up health.
FUCK YOU im living 200 years.

AAAAAAND she lost a forty.

Dont tell her that she needs to workout. Ask her to join you and mask it with something she might want to hear. Like its way for you two to enjoy something together.

okay Taylor the numale

You have to express to her that having a life partner who is active and fit is very important to you. If there's long-term potential with this girl you need to make the conversation about where youre going as a couple. And then you ask her if theres anything she needs out of you as a partner. This way its a collaborative discussion about bringing you closer together and it will make you a stronger couple.

If she cant handle it then shes not mature enough for a grown-up relationship and you need to move on anyway

"Let's work out together"

Oh wow. I hope at least she's not a fatty or heading that direction for ya

nah thats still a woman, id say thats the hetero limit though

Just invite her to come to the gym so you can do some new stuff together, like some sports or something

Or just say you'd like her to be your workout buddy, girls like that kind of crap

>tfw omega isn't enough so you have to restart the abecedary

kinda like getting her into anal, either gently prodding and small baby steps until she is ready or you just tell her to take the dick up her ass.

Or maybe just ask her, hey babe, im going to the gym now, wanna come with me?

if she says no, just keep working out yourself and keep getting more and more shredded then go to the beach everyday during summer and let your landwhale sit in the shade in envy when you are being mired by hotter girls.

If she used to be in shape let her catch you fapping to her old pictures

lmao i like it

you know this sounds cool in theory but the fact of the matter is it is cruel and if you act like this you are destroying any chance of a happy long-term relationship. just talk about it with her instead of doing these fucking mind games.

what if I do this and it's clear she is not mature enough for a grown up relationship? She checks off a lot of boxes for what I'm looking for in a LTR and I'm also afraid of going another 8 years without a relationship

The sad part is she was a gymnast and is legit high test if she just firms up a little

Have you ever had to convince a women to do something she doesn't want to do? It's fucking awful and sucks most of your energy and time.

If there's a short cut in a mind game then why the fuck wouldn't you do that?

I don't get posts like these. Is this a woman? Do they actually post here?

You don't. If she's getting fat now, it'll be 10x worse when you're married.

It would be pretty sexy if we were fucking and trying to squish eachother with our thighs

You have to tell her earlier in your relationship WHILE SHE'S STILL NORMAL that if she ever gets fat you're kicking her ass out.
If you tell her when she's fat she's just gonna take your arguments as personal insults. If you insult her future self it's fine, and she will be more responsive to the health angle.

>this whole thread

What the actual fuck Veeky Forums. If your GF is turning into a fat fuck, you need to be talking about changing the diet and incorporating cardio into her life. Be her big strong escort as you jog around the block, fuck this gym nonsense unless you want her bulking up or for some strange reason the treadmill is the only place to run.

>fuck this gym nonsense unless you want her bulking up or for some strange reason
Nothing strange about wanting your woman to do squats

Are you fucking retarded? Woman don't magically bulk up in the gym.

>How about if we do more things together? I was thinking in taking some gym lessons, how about it?

youtube.com/watch?v=VAWWqu3c4FY

pic kinda related

How are you going to quote me and still not read the post correctly.

But guys do? Nice one retard.

How do I get my bf to work out more? We usually go to the gym together but lately he's been skipping because he has to work late. When he does go he doesn't like to lift heavy because he's afraid of injury. It's getting to the point where I can deadlift more than him. He admits he's getting a little chubby and says he "just needs to start running again" but never actually does. I've tried showing him MFP but he didn't think he'd have the time or wherewithal to keep up with it. Please halp.

Maybe you should get yourself a bf that has testicles that work?

there's more women on Veeky Forums than any other board

>find out a girl likes me

uh....

>just talk about it with her

This never works with women. Ever. In fact, they will despise you for it.

On the other hand, they adore mind games since it's like being in high school again.

Literally wrong. Check >>/cgl/

You don't. If she has gained weight, she sure knows about it even without you informing about it. Wanted she work out, she would.

All you can do is ask her to join you to the gym. Or dump her and find a new gf, gf who's more your type.

Considering most girls are self conscious, this will probably make her feel bad and she knows she's fat anyway, most likely.

In case she actually hasn't noticed. Be gentle about it.

>Hey babe, I love you, but I've noticed you've been getting a little bigger. It worries me because obesity is such a big issue and I don't want that to happen to you.
>Let's go swimming alright? Or how about biking? Let's go take long walks at the zoo or w/e and pack a pinic (with low calorie shit)
>Hey hunny, let's start trying out this new form of cooking (at home meals more, less take out etc)
>Why don't we start packing our own lunch? Could be nice, save money that way.

Also, be very encouraging, and supportive. If she drops off one day here or one day just tell her to get back on.

Granted, if she just does the whole "IF YOU CANT LOVE ME LIKE THIS THEN YOU'RE SHALLOW"

Just ditch the cunt if she can't see you're trying to help her.

>.t I was getting overweight and this is how my boyfriend did it.

Take her to the gym when you go. "Oh hey I'm going to the gym you should come its a lot of fun, do fucking yoga and shit. W can get something to eat after."

If you aren't already going (home gym) then start going with her.

From my girlfriend:
"Hey you should try lifting with me sometime. I feel like you'd like it/it'd be good for you."

Straight up tell her she's fat. Use your charm, but say it to her face. Grab her by the love handles. Break the ice.

If she hates you for it, she's childish. She knows she got fat, she knows you know. Why talk around it.

All this crap about getting women to work out without them noticing is literally never working. If they already let themselves go, they're going to fucking notice you talking them into strenuous excercise.

Only eating healthy doesn't work, because then they'll tell themselves that, because they eat healthy all the time, they can snack whatever they want.
And remember, she already didn't watch her diet and gained weight.

Be alpha and say she got fat to her face.

>afraid of injury

Tell him to be less of a sperg

Just tell her you want to bring her to the gym to bond. You go there all the time and would like to spend time with her doing something active as an change from normal everyday sitdown activities as watching television and such. Could add hiking and other stuff as such to seem more genuine and less obvious.

no fucking way that's the same person

>that progress

Has there ever been a single case where a woman who's lost a lot of weight and slimmed down, felt worse off than before?

Do you even get results from using it?